George

Lina, babies, and scandal. Oh my! George covers it all.

Aug 4, 20090

Communication is key and that I believe that was our biggest short coming, but is something that can be worked on to develop more trust. I'm not trying to go out and convince everyone that Lina is perfect or that I'm perfect (or I'm no Angel, as Mrs. Lankina so eloquently stated in one of her blogs), because honestly I don't care what others think (which is the reason I signed up to do the show and opening up our lives )-it matters only what I feel. But I did feel it necessary to give a little bit of insight on Lina and her 'Story.'

Bottom line is everyone has their drama, some more than others. It has to do with the happiness that your partner brings you and ultimately being happy with yourself....this is a difficult relationship, but nothing good comes easy, and if it did I don't think it would be appreciated as much. This was an emotional time, I realize it may cause some uneasiness amongst people, but was pivotal in the relationship. I hope it made us both more mature and appreciative of each other and the things we have, even though neither of us take anything for granted....

79 comments
Mariet
Mariet

Hi George, I would love to have you in my life. You are kind and caring, nice looking, I am sure we would get along very well. I am a scorpio baby. Like your mom said"you need a girl who can make chicken soup" I am that girl, stay away from that Ukranian slut.

Michelle
Michelle

Hi George! First thing is I would LOVE to have a wonderful man like you in my life. You are the "me" in all my past relationships. I've always attracted troubled men. As of now I've been alone for over a year.....taking time to get myself together with hopes the future will bring better decisions with men. You stated you feel addicted to Lina. Yes, you probably are addicted, but to the chaos and drama. She's a beautiful woman, but it's plain to see she's not right for you. I believe in my heart she did indeed have an abortion. She did it to "pay you back." She wanted to make you hurt because she was hurting from her perceieved lack of attention from you. I speak from experience. Please pay listen to me and believe I know what I'm talking about. It's to your benefit to separate from her and allow yourself time to heal. It would even do you some good to seek out a counselor. Stop laughing! I'm trying to help you!

theresa
theresa

George - better safe than sorry. I've had 3 children, 1 miscarriage, and never acted the way Lina does. She is very controlling and manipulating. I hope you protect yourself against a pregnancy with her. I'm sorry because you do have feelings for her and the baby. Everyone grieves differently and you have a right to grieve for your little one. Take care of yourself. Theresa

Kat
Kat

very well put. Wish you all the luck. No pointing fingers, glass house people, three are always pointing back at you. Be happy, be passionate and don't worry about what anyone else thinks! Wish you both all the luck.

~Kim

Vee
Vee

Wow give him a break. You are a grown man who can make your own decisions. I was in a relationship similar to yours. Everything Lina is experiencing is just symptoms of a bigger issue. Unfortunately it’s directed to you. My partner was patient and showed me unconditional love and with his support and yes counseling, we are now in a healthy, loving and very passionate relationship. Been together almost 5 years and married for two. Good luck!!

ps

We both did some horrible things and even had to patch up a couple of walls too!

Viewer
Viewer

George I don't think you should be in a relationship with anyone at this time. Take a little time for youraelf. God Bless!

Viewer
Viewer

George~ Trust me when I say this. Lina has borderline personality disorder. Please go and google it. I have worked with these types of individuals and unfortunately without mental health services this pervasive personality pattern and emotional "meltdowns" will continue. There is nothing you can do to fix her, she has to want to fix herself. Stop making excuses for her behavior. I am hoping though all of the drama is for "the show" and you're not really going through this.

Viewer
Viewer

George RUN. Run as fast as you can. Perhaps you should re-watch the pregnancy episode with someone who can translate Russian for you. Maria? During Lina's phone conversation, she informs the listener that "taking a pill" will terminate the pregnancy. You are viewed by her comrades as the "dumb American."

In your blog you are explaining, actually hard selling the fact that Lina has been in the States for only seven years. Nowadays, you can't leave the former USSR unless you have money. That girl has opened several businesses by using people like you. GEORGE, WAKE UP!

You're a smart man, feeling the economic wrath... did you and Lina simply sign up to be on camera?!

tahiri
tahiri

hi George

I know that u have feelings for lina , but she does not respect u at all , she had lie to u and disrespect u sow many times. You disserve better , sow dont get stuck with her ,because u think that she's the only thing u can find , there many women out there that can treat u the right way and be there for u .sow go out there and meet new people , u will see what am talking about , take good care and dont stress your self over some one that dosent respect u . papi te mereces lo mejor del mundo .

NIC
NIC

GEORGE, RUN LIKE HELL! THIS GIRL IS A N U T! THIS WAY PAST DISFUNTION. GET SOME HELP AND MOVE ON TOOTS

Kemi
Kemi

Hi George, You deserve love. So, regardless if a woman has certain qualities you're looking for, or if passion exists between the both of you, or if she is a really good person, or regardless if many things fall into place for you and Lina or with any woman; at the end of all of that or at the end of everything altogether, do you feel loved? If it's missing now, it is not there. Yes, we have to put effort into our relationships or even into loving another person, but if you are literally trying to find the love in the mess of things or if you are having to add up a woman's actions or lies just so that you can somehow see or beleive there is love between the lines, it really isnt there. You deserve love right up front. It sounds too ideal but it does exist. If you dont find that woman, I can tell you by experience of having gorgeous good men come my way and also jerks, but the struggle to find love right up front or at least not having to find it between the lines kind of thing, I gave up though. But guess what, I found it from God through Jesus Christ. I am not writing this to preach to you, I wrote this because you are a good person who deserves love desperately. You dont need allot of the other things anymore, I dont think you can handle it anymore too. I dont know if you are a believer in Christ but God gave me love right up front, He gave His one and only Son to die for me so. I'm not sure if the stress is causing the ticks or eye blinking that you are experiencing, or if it has something to do with drugs, love will take care of it, God is love. I want you to end up with love and not losing it all. Love you in Christ, Kemi. Jesus loves you more.

Irene
Irene

I am not a judgemental person, but sweetheart, can you honestly tell me that you see yourself with this person for the next 50 years of your life, putting up with all the drama and disrespect she has for you? I cannot believe how she can talk to you the way she does. Man or woman, we all deserve respect while being in a relationship and this is not something she gives you. I think as much as it may hurt, you need to move on and find someone who will love you as you deserve to be loved.

Kisses baby!

Regina
Regina

I don't really watchthese types of shows but it was on over the weekend I only really watche 2 episodes. Just from what I saw I think Lina is very deceptive. When you came in late that night she was on the phone with her mother talking about some kind of to get rid of the baby and now threr is no baby seems very suspious to me. Also, that going away to a different than where she told you and explanation didn't seem reasonable to me but you just accepted it, I found myself laughing at you because my bf would have never accepted that and he still wouldn't be talking to me. I'd have to do some major graveling. Another thing I found disturbing she kept calling you stupid, could she be telling you something? did you actually see the pregnancy test? Do you actually know if was yours if she was pregnant? She lied about so many thing just in the 2 episodes I saw, I would question everything she say. What happen to Jasmine, anyway?

Jenny
Jenny

George, I don't think that baby was yours. You need to lose Lina. She is not good for you.

Tara
Tara

RESPECT, RESPECT, RESPECT, that is my new motto. Love your self!!!!

Mary
Mary

George, George, You need to get a real life and stop living in this soap opera. Like is as good as you let it be. If you would realize you and Lina are not good for each other. You are wasting your life as well as hers on these ridiculous encounters each and every day. Love is about happiness, truthfulness, caring. Not about sorrow, anger and deception. Lina has very serious issues, you cannot handle. You are not doing her or you any good with this relationship.

I hope you both decide to go your on way and learn life is to short to keep on making each other miserable.

miguel
miguel

ok, I was once in a relationship similar to your... Except mine was gay relationship but the same issues you are having. It was very hard for me to break up with him but after 3 years of lies and so much drama and fights. i pulled the plug...I know in my heart not how much pain he cause me and he is completely out of my life...i feel free. i am currently with my new boyfriend , he is the nicest, caring, loving. He makes me happy and we never fight over stupid reason... you are very good looking im sure you will find somebody that appreciates you and loves you.. be happy

tIff
tIff

i saw miami social today and the episode where you had dinner w lina and she told you she was pregnant did not seem truthful. while she was telling you she was pregnant she was drinking wine and laughing like it was a joke. Then all of the sudden she lost the baby, but rumors were flying that she had an abortion which you wouldnt pay for. it seems like lina's trying to make you look bad cuz she knows she's known as the crazy one in the relationship, so this is her way of making her look less crazy by making you look like a bad guy. Even though this whole scheme just makes her look more crazy. i dont know thats what it looked like to me when i saw the ep.

Viewer
Viewer

George-

You remind me so much of the guys I dated who leave me for women who are insane... They always said I was too nice and would run to the women who would lie and manipulate... when they got older they would come back to tell me that they should have stayed with me... I think they saw a challenge with these women just like you do with Lina... Hopefully you will see what most people see.

Love should never hurt. It really should come easy. I too learned that the hard way, but I think as we mature we see that just because emotions fly high, doesn't mean it is love.

Viewer
Viewer

George,

I believe that you're a good person and I don't think anyone deserves to be treated like that regardles of lifestyle, stress, work load, etc. A healthy relationship does not entails lack of respect, humilliation, name calling, et. it's hard to imagine anybody thinking that this is normal. You said that you're an analytical human being, so then follow you're guts and look inside of you. You deserve the best life can offer and assure you its not what you think it's right now. It looks like you're punishing yourself, maybe you think that's what you deserve. It's relly sad to see you taking so much crazzyness like such. Wishing you the best.

kim
kim

George,

You seem like a pretty cool person & what you do & feel about another person is your business. Maybe you're the type who likes the drama that Lina brings, who knows? Was just wondering if she was really pregnant or was it just for the show? If she did have an abortion that was her choice...no harm, no foul. Have a good life, love the show.

Viewer
Viewer

George,

You need to leave this woman fast and quick! She is all drama and in need of a therapist for LIFE! We see only what the cams show and you are in over your head with all this BS. I think when you divorced Sorah, you know you made the wrong decision. Also, to compare Sorah to Lina, man that was the most Awful thing to do and say. George are you that BLIND that you can't see her BS. Its right in front of your face. To be little yourself by being treated like garbage. Let Her GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

If you wait to long you will end up hurt and alone!!

LOVE is a two way street both to believe and trust and want each other....

She using the pregnancy is a woman that would do anything to keep you and control you!!!

GETTTTTTTTTTTTTTT !OUT! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW

Shelly
Shelly

George, You are right on, forget what everyone is saying about your relationship and decide for yourself what your heart is telling you. You are a big boy, and you will know whether this will last or not...why not have fun in the process? All relationships have ups and downs and I am experiencing the same type of miscommunication with my man right now. By the way, I live just up the coast from you and my passion is scuba diving. Do you dive? Lets go! ha You are HOT!

Viewer in Seattle
Viewer in Seattle

"However I think most of you can identify with that one guy or girl you dated (and maybe even ended up marrying) who you had more passion than anyone else, which also led to some of the worst arguments. Well welcome to mine"

I MARRIED MINE & everyone, all friends&family alike, thought I was crazy! Three years of wedded bliss & we are beyond happy. True passion is rare ~ comes with intoxicating highs&lows, and most people have no idea how spectacular it can be!

Viewer
Viewer

George, you are a very attractive man and I'm curious why you put up with Lina. She constantly seems unhappy and tries starting arguements. Is she a lot younger than you? She just seems very immature.

Finding another individual that can treat you in a way that you should be treated shouldn't be difficult for you to do. I personally think you need to dump her and look elsewhere for someone worth living for. Because right now you are living for Lina, but she isn't living for you. She could careless about your feelings and the lack of relationship the two of you have. You shouldn't have to work so hard at having a relationship with someone.

You seem to have good friends surrounding you, maybe it wouldn't hurt to take their feelings and concerns into consideration.

Candiee
Candiee

Look it doesn't matter what anyone puts; he has already made up his mind. He will justify her actions and they both will continue to be frustrated. Only you know when you lay your head down at night and look at her, if you really want to spend the rest of your life with her with the way she treats you. The bottom line is if you ever get sick and tired of being sick and tired of your relationship with her or anyone else for that matter...you will do something about it. Just because someone is awsome in the business world doesn't mean they are great in the realtionships.

Viewer
Viewer

Good lord George! Do you need to have a brick fall on your head? If Lina lost the baby, why are you hearing about abortions? Why would that term even come up? Lina is a loose cannon! You may be enjoying her hotness at the moment, but do you really want to be tied to her issues for the rest of your life? Do you really want to even trust her with your child or any child? I think not! You can make all the excuses's in the world, but when you come down to it, she is not dependable or honest! Plan on being in a constant state of worry if you stay with this woman! Good luck, I feel terrible for someone in your situation.

Sara
Sara

George, why you feel you have to defend yourself and your relationship to TV viewers and friends is beyond me. You're on a show that many people watch for entertainment or because they themselves have a drama-free life, and all of sudden just because they feel they have some sort of investment in your life they feel they have right to scrutinize or throw advice at you that you've heard countless times before. We see once a week a small portion of your lives, and what sells is what we see. I myself feel very,much like readers of trilogys and series, invested in the characters. You genuinely care about them and their happiness, but you have no control over it. I myself could walk into a club, see you, maybe recognize you and the charming smile you don, but at that moment I would not care for you as I do through the tv because I could not and would not see the pain you feel and have felt through situations in your life. I guess the point is, an honorable man like you, do not need or should want advice so unwarranted as it is, but the fact that you remain open about it is, unique and for lack of better words, attractive. I feel for Lina's loss of a child, having been there myself, but I always feel more for the father because of the excitement and anticipation that comes with fatherhood. I encourage you George, keep the faith and stick to your guts no matter what. Love is simply described in one place (the bible), and even then the complexities never end. Be encouraged while living your life that Faith (in whatever you may believe), Hope, and Love are three great gifts, but Love in every form surpasses all.

Florida Native
Florida Native

I don't know if you feel you need to be punished because of what you did to Sorah and that's why you put up with Lina or if you are in Lust. Whatever it is I suggest you see a therapist. Maybe couples counseling if you want to continue or see if you can continue with Lina. Good luck you seem like a very nice guy.

mel
mel

I feel like you don’t even know what you want, what kind of conversations you have with this person if she doesn’t even speak correctly, how you can build something when you don’t understand what she saying, I think you making excuses for your self constantly to cover your past or what you did in your past.

Marina
Marina

You are so cute!!!!! So good boyfriend, she is luck!!

I love you!!!!

Viewer
Viewer

Hi George, I was wondering if that brunette lady at the W Hotel's pool photos is your sister.

Miami Viewer
Miami Viewer

OMG- she said "Get your ass in the car and come pick me up" and you did. Helloooooo!!! Are you kidding this relationship is so one way. You are trying so hard because you messed up your last realtionship but really it's time to move on.

Viewer
Viewer

i find it interesting that you say it doesnt matter what anyone else says about your relationship because your actions speak louder than your words. the problem is you keep involving everyone in your relationship. thats why they get upset because you only share the drama and the bad.

a former miamian
a former miamian

why are you doing this to yourselves? u both need to grow and maybe come back to the relationship in a year or two ...you said yourself she's like a drug to you...say no to drugs then!

Valerie
Valerie

George,

PLEASE stop trying to justify her bad behavior!!!! She is a crazy woman and Hardy was right you need to get away from her before she ruins you!!! You are a very handsome man and you could do better! Try an American girl! Love, Valerie

Viewer
Viewer

GEORGE SHE CUT UP YOUR CLOTHES!!!! RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK BEFORE SHE STARTS CUTTING YOU UP!

lisa
lisa

George, I think things happen in life for a reason. I'm very sorry you lost your baby but you have to think you and lina are not in a stable relationship. She does not respect you calls you many ugly names. Once a person disrespects and lies there is no relationship. Some people find it hard to move on in life but you have to put your self first. You seem very inhappy and when you get rid of lina you will feel down but also you will have relief. BE STRONG.. And by the way your hot xoxoxoxo

LaineyLainey
LaineyLainey

Wow George, you're blog this week was really sad. I've been judging you a bit... because you chose your partner based on shallow qualities and then you're surprised when she turns out to be really shallow and has very little to offer you besides the sex. But that's why you chose her! So what's the big mystery, you know? Your tone in your blogs is very sad and has a genuine victim tone to it. You are a victim of abuse by this woman and yet, you defend her because she works??? So that makes her abuse ok? Imagine having a partner that works and has a great career and doesn't abuse you. Can you even imagine that? Are you that hypnotized by her sexuality, really? Really???! You obviously feel you're not worthy of having someone in your life that would be nice to you and respect you. But you DO deserve to be respected, George! You really need to get out of this abusive relationship. You can't see or maybe you refuse to see what EVERYBODY else can see so clearly.

Matt
Matt

Dude you are living in some fantasy world.. every one of your friends say the same exact thing about Lina.. I think you just enjoy Lina's drama and crazyness.. I would be interested to see how you would handle a more stable relationship.. could you?

Krestik
Krestik

George... eventhough you may think that you and Lina can work things out you can't... As a Russian woman... I saw the episode where she was talking on the phone with her mom when you walked in and the way she talked about you to her mom was not like that of someone in a loving and committed relationship... Ultimately it is your decision and your friends can't help you make... they don't like with you and don't see every aspect of the relationship... You didn't dodge a bullet with the baby... I know how you feel.. I lost my first baby with my husband... it was difficult for us both... You have to believe that what happened was ment to be for a reason... Everything happens for a reason... Be in a relationship where the woman that you love ... portrays that to her family especially her mother... I know I'm Russian and what my mom thinks is very important to me... That's our culture... Don't lose focus of your goals... And move on from Sorah... It's ok get over it... Thats life...

Sally
Sally

George,

I agree with you when you said we have all been in a relationship that is driven mostly by passion. But the problem is I think I was in my early 20's. You have to grow up and think for the future and long term. I am sorry you lost the baby but I have to agree with Hardy you doged a bullet. You can not have a solid family if the main emotion that drives your relationship is passion. By the way, usually when you get the feeling that someone is lying to you they usually are. There has to be alot more than working and passion. I hope one day you find someone who could really make you happy, because you don't look very happy most of the time.

Viewe
Viewe

george your a really sexy guy you deserve someone better who will apreciate you. Lina is not the one for you every time you have a problem with her you run to sorah. When you do that all your telling sorah "is im glad i left him alone".Even though i dont know you i wish the best for you and if not anything for you to be happy on tv you look like you dont wana be atyour own house find true love please

Viewer
Viewer

Oh George, how you defend your relationship with Lina in every blog... But every time the camera shows your face, you look tense, distracted, preoccupied, and not happy. A big contrast to the relationship between Sorah and Gonzalo. These two look happy and treat each other with respect. Also, why does Lina never come with you when you meet with your friends at the hotel?

Viewer
Viewer

I think that Lina is a poor imitation of one of Checkhov's heroines. But to each his own. . .

I'm sorry that you lost the baby. I've been there and I do understand just how horrible it feels.

Heather
Heather

George

Hello there! Love watching the show and I'm going to throw my two cents in to the "LINA" situation or should I say relationship. As crazy as it sounds I like like you or what I see anyways. But Lina needs some professional help with her anger issues and emotional out bursts. With that being said you aslo need to deal with unresolved issues and feelings about your past. Talking about Sorah by the way. I think you and Lina care about eachother with a "passion" but that doesn't mean that you belong together. If all else fails just sleep with one eye open just to be safe! lol

Heather

meliy5844
meliy5844

i understand u. i think u need to know something what u do in life u pay it back down here. i know ur in love lina but she is need help and u do too . it not heathly what u guys do that . if u guys every one to have kids u can't act like this maybe that why god send u guys a sign with what happien with baby it sad but u guys need to get stuff together frist and see if u guys are still going to be together or break up for good.

Viewer
Viewer

Thank you for your input on your relationship, and you are so right that it only matters how you feel about yourself~ A suggestion ,,,you may want to pick up a book or two on co-dependency. Havin a blast watching all of you down there in "HOT" Miami, keep up the good work~

NT
NT

You can make up all the excuses for her, but the fact is she's using you. And if you dig deeper into her past you'll see that she has used other men to get to the so called "success". That's the Russian way.

Cali Viewer
Cali Viewer

George, I think you should get out of the danger zone. Imagine if you did have a child with her, and the baby was exposed to all that drama and fighting, how do you think that would effect your child ?