Well the rollercoaster relationship with Lina continues.....in the meanwhile I'm not going to stop living when she decides to disappear. I do believe she was way out of line.
First of all, everyone is entitled to an opinion, however I live by a rule my Mom always told me, 'If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything.' I certainly don't go around trash talking about anyone else (which Maria's blog also covered last week - I think if you want to take shots at others you better make sure you and your facts are bulletproof').
I really did appreciate Katrina speaking up at the Gansevoort regarding everyone else's concern with Lina and that they should focus on themselves... .However, back to Maria, and her account of finding me half naked in bed with another girl. Apparently Maria was there or came in the second wave of people and decided to voice her version of what she thought was happening. It's not her place or anyone else's regardless how right, wrong or otherwise the scenario may have been to make such comments in a public forum. It really wasn't appreciated. Nor was Michael's statement to Lina, whether it was in jest or not...it was out of place. Regardless, friendships come with disagreements and that's part of the growing experience. Sorah's statement that I can't be alone, in some ways is true and also a bit out of context. I enjoy quiet time and time by myself but I'm also a social person and like to be around my friends. In this case I was dealing with the girl (Lina) whom I care deeply about, but who's wrapped up in work or whatever and constantly disappears or blows off our plans...whether excusable or not, it sucks.
George- The relationship is not a healthy one. I was to in one and it took me 4 years to get out. You are a smart man and i feel you will get out of this relationship. We can only take so much and your time will be soon. Are you sure it is real love or lust? Is it just that you do not want to be alone? Ask yourself those questions. I wish you the best of luck! I just want to say that you are a good looking man and there are women out there that would like to have a man like you. Take Care
DUMP HER ALREADY.....SHE'S ONLY GOING TO BRING YOU DOWN. BUT, IF YOU LIKE THE PUNISHMENT....SET HER STRAIGHT!
George, women who are b*&%$ need men like you. Like they say, there is a person out there for everyone. If you guys enjoy being together, why change it.
Hi George...I'm really worried about you now!!!Lina is pulling out some hard punches. Saying she is pregnant and lieing about having an abortion is pretty sick on her part. I hope that you listen to your friends when they tell you to leave her before she ruins you!! BTW: I believe Sorah is a true friend to you. Having been in a relationship with you, Sorah can be totally honest. When she told you she didn't feel that LIna had EVER been honest with you, BELIEVE IT!!! I can guarantee you she's right.
I have been exactly where you are, unfortunately. I've said the exact same words as you, that it's like a drug. I can tell you from experience that it never gets better. It only gets worse. A toxic relationship can't be fixed, and it's not what love is. I also know that, as much as the people who love you want you to end it, you can't get out of it until you're ready, as long as that takes. It took me four years of drama and wasted time. I really hope it happens for you much more quickly. It's just no way to live.
Hey George, I have made a comment before to you. Knowing that the show was taped a while ago I hope that either Lena has gotten help or you moved on. I never judge and Im sure she has good in her but I hope by watching the show you can see how bad it is between you. The preview of tonight scared me!! You have so much to offer. I wish you luck, its a shame they won't allow you contact any of us I would love to talk as friends. Take care.
Lena #2 is in full swing and she is taking you for a ride. Wise up don't let the girls with foreign accents ruin your sense of judgment. Ok i'm a bit jealous because you are so good looking and not in a SoBe kind of way either, you have character. That nervous eye twitch accompanied by your smile is such a turn on. I wish you the best George.
George,
I just want to give you a hug and tell you it will be okay. It seems you have a fear of being alone and this is a conclusion I have drawn by 3 hours of an edited tv show. If this is the case, I would implore you to think about why. Lina is no good for you. Any relationship that includes you questioning whether the other is loyal, constant fighting, disrespect, destruction of clothing etc. is not healthy. While relationships are work, her behavior should not be part of it. She was claiming to be pregnant, how far after her trip to St. Barts did she realize this? I don't know how things are now between the two of you but I can only hope she is gone. Being alone is not bad. Learn to do that and love yourself, then and only then will you find someone who will truly love and respect you. Now, you are sending out the needy vibe and that is why you are attracting who you are attracting. Sending you hugs, George.
George, imagine for one moment that you could step out of yourself and now you could observe your situation. What advice would you offer to someone whose significant other lies, destroys their personal property, and fights incessantly? I love how Lina used a classic pimp move on you while you two were arguing when she deflected your attention with a quick romp by changing into a sexy outfit and role-playing, but even sadder because you are a player too that you took the bait. I get the sense from you that you probably like her a lot and would prefer if people stayed out of your business. Although, you both need to realize that the love you have for each other is genuine, from the heart, and very unhealthy. You deserve to be loved in a healthy way. Keep your options open and continue to play. Remember that there are two ways to describe your relationship with Lina: TRAGIC and HIDEOUS.
George,
What a hunk of a man you are! you just havent meet the right person for you, Sorah has moved on, maybe a nice warm hearted guy would give you the happiness and love you deserve.
hmmm..where to start with you..
okay lets see you are very handsome and I LOVE the smile you give off,yet sensitive (to a point)nothing wrong with that if you know how to control it. The biggest issue with you would be that YOUR FRIENDS; i have no idea how long they have been your friends but what I do know is that they have been there LONGER than that Russian mess your dating and I don't know if you notice but you are slowly pushing the people that have been in your life and straight forward with you away from you...and you are choosing to keep the 1 person in your life that is not allowing you to be HAPPY 100%...this female is taking away the smiles and laughter from your soul and turning them into anger and frustration.
I am not sure if you are reading this or even caring, but sometimes it takes a stranger to open up someone's eyes.
GEORGE.... YOU ARE JUST HOT! HOT! HOT1
George, simply put, Lina is not the girl for you. She's using you man. You are a very successful and smart for her. Take sometime off and dump da .. b. You gotta ask yourself, few weeks or months for now, DO you trust Lina?? You deserve better man. Good luck
Randy
George, you seem like a cool as hell guy. I can almost see how i would greatly miss a good woman like Sorah as well but for the love of God, if you're going to be happy, do not settle for less than what you had and deserve and TRUST ME, as a 41 year old man, Lina is NOT the one for you.
Good times!! Let me know if you want another friend...it keeps life interesting if you let in an outsider every once and a while. What the hell are you thinking George!! Love you all, the show puts some pazzaz in my routine, thanks.
Christine
George,
I think you are better off single, take a break alone and then find yourself a "real" woman that will love you equally. You seemed like a nice guy, you don't deserve to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't even respect you to even tell you the truth. In the long run you will regret it. I wouldn't doubt it that she has cheated on you.
George...
I hope you are reading ALL, and I mean ALLL the comments with regards to Lina. I was where you are and trust me my dear friend you will be where I am today if you do not cut the cord with Lina. Today I am a unhappy and depressed women lock in a lonley world. Trust me your friends will get tired of your drama, and you will be left all alone. I wish you all the best. Your young, good looking, please please...I don't want to see you like me!! alone with no one and stuck with the abuser in your life. As for your ex-wife? Leave her alone...she is a great women, please allow her to have a great life...not clean up after you and your mess, and do not compare the two EVER...good luck my friend
George, you are soooooooo in love with Sorah it's not even funny. The only reason you are holding on to Lina is BECUZ she is toxic and u will never be able to get serious with her, much less settle down or have a family with her.
You seem like a very good man with a good heart, you deserve so much more that a woman who cannot respect or value her man!
George, you've heard it from EVERYONE! I've been in a toxic relationship and thought, I was in such LOVE with this jerk! Little did I realize, it was just my low self-esteem and when I met my soulmate, WOW, its the best! We both treat each other with so much respect because we LOVE each other and thats the way it should be, your soulmate, your best friend! Good luck with everything. I really hope Lina isn't pregnant, even if she is, are you sure its your child??? Lina is a lunatic and you need to get away from her! You're adorable and deserve so much more!
George, I don't know if you know this. But your hot. Dump Lina, and get with someone who's beautiful and sweet also. Lina's not that gorgeous to tell the truth. Don't let the sex control you!
I think you need to get sorah back.. lina is not for you. it seems like you are under a spell.
Love you George, you are my favorite. Remember...violence + drama does not = Love...been there done that. Stay true to yourself my friend!
george your a cutie you dont need that psycho you call a girlfriend the more you feed into it the more she will take even though im a girl, i have to be honest girls just like drama
hi george.. i want to say to you that lina is very beautiful, original and even if she is kind of strange somtime at least she doesnt care what people think of her she just is herself, mabey she lied but we all have secrets and most relationships take some time to really work out not all is heaven, its clear she loves you and mabey her erratic behavior is a cause of her fear of loosing you mostly because your friends dont seem to accept her too well, let me tell you something your friends seem awsome but what happens with close circles like that one that they mostly just want for you what they want. Remember at the end of the day everyone goes their own way. take care and my point of view is only what i see in the program even if i am a psycologist
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be with a "hot" chick but Christmas in June gets old very fast. Make a check list and find "all" the qualities you need or at least come close.
Wow! So many relationship specialist and yet the divorce rate is still 50% amongst those folks that "can" get married.
George, she's a firecracker, no wonder you love her!
Lina, keep his ass in line honey, he wouldn't stick around if he didn't like it!
Good luck to you both...ya' gotta a 50/50 chance! :)
What is it with guys picking girls who aren't the best for them? Sigh. Oh well, wish you the best anyway!
Now that I saw the third episode, the interaction between George and Lina is most fun to watch. Yes, she acts out physically, partly due to her lack of social skills and sophistication, and the language barrier. In addition, she would benefit from a good hair stylist and a make-up lesson. But George is not perfect either. He is a big boy and can make his own decisions.
I really hope you are reading these comments, George. Is any of this making sense?
George, I hope you notice how much sh#t you take from Lina by watching this show, where's your pride? I have too been of victim of a fiery relationship where every moment is exciting even if its bad and it all culminates into great s%#, BUT Ive recently found out the excitement in dating someone sane--its nice to know your clothes will be intact when you come home late, and have someone who trusts you waiting to give you a pleasant suprise!!! There are so many more other intelligible ways to make life exciting--be creative and dump her :)
I love Lina, she`s so pretty and funny! I hope u stay together!
G!
UR THE MAN!!.....luv the show as I've been a So Fla resident for 27 years and used to kick it up like you do back in the day before I got married...I was offered part ownership of Sushi Samba Dromo by Matty when he was looking for investors, but didn't have the funding to buy in back in 01....While Lina may be olympic under the sheets dude, you gotta move on and dump the psycho...there's sooooo much more on the SOBE today man...jump back into the buffet and see what pops up!
George,
I LOVE Lina, she is sexy and fiery, and you will NEVER be bored.................... My husband can testify to that........when you were saying oh there's a break in the conversation oh "Ja-- a-- My husband was like oh my gosh that is so you................but he tells me he wishes he had duck tape for my mouth............ but we have been through it all and he loves loves me and he is never bored ever................keep Lina
You are to funny,get your own show! I wish the cast was more like you, the only reason why I watch. Bill Gates is not the Macintosh guy BTW. HAHAHA rock on!! nice desk. Watchin ya next week...
George you are a wonderful man with much to offer. Look ahead without limitations. Sometimes just because we feel we love them does not mean they are good for us. You deserve much better than someone that treats you as insignificant except when she want you to be there for her. A good relationship is one where you both walk together...not for the other.
You are a warm and wonderful Man...stop for a sec and let life give you what you deserve...someone that is the same to you...warm and wonderful and appreciative of who you are.
I know I'm in the minority, but I think you and Lina are PERFECT for each other. Not everybody can have a perfect, loving relationship w/ their gf/bf so why should people expect you to?
Hey George,
I defenelty agree with the other viewers, you guys need serious counseling and now a baby on the way... I just wish you the best of luck!!!
Ivette
I don't know why I'm so fascinated by this show, but I am! (I quickly got hooked...maybe because it's far more realistic than the housewives' shows (which I also like, BTW) and mirrors some real experiences I've had with similar friends and social situations. Anyhow,
George - you are someone who obviously has a lot to offer in a relationship, is human and makes mistakes (don't we all), is "together" on some things in his life (congratulations!) and has other things happening that are a disaster in the making. Give yourself a break - forgive yourself for your mistakes in the past and put them behind you by not repeating them.
Lina does not respect you, it's obvious in most of her interactions with you. She has proven herself to be an unreliable friend, incapable of empathy, devious, selfish, childish and careless with your trust, not to mention your belongings! She needs to control and humiliate you. When one person in a relationship does not respect the other it cannot work. You need to ask yourself, why do you feel you don't deserve respect? Once you figure that out - and after you forgive yourself for your failings in the past - you'll be equipped to walk away from a bad relationship and focus on finding and enjoying a good one. It's as though you need to have someone extreme punish you because you don't feel you've punished yourself enough for past mistakes.
Dear George, "more quality time with less distractions" with Lina impossible !!! You have to spilt!!! Good luck!
George,
You're basing this relationship on "I was expecting a kick in the nuts, but all I got was a slap in the face" that's no way to live... I hope you know what you're doing and I wish you the best!
~Karin
Hi George!!! Wake up!!! Please!!! Your relationship with Lina is not working. She is relly sick and needs help soon!!! If you love her look for help. Both need help.
Best to you!!!
George,
You deserve so much more...I hope that you realize that soon. Unfortunately, life lessons that push us where we need to be are sometimes tumultuous and painful..I hope you hit your wall soon and see what an amazing person you are and find someone who will be a true partner in life and love. Hang in there...
George!
Why are you trying to do all the right things with the wrong person?, clearly you had the right person and did all the wrong things? Taking into account that no one really knows what kind of relationship you had with Sorah, but her demeanor doesn't show that she is crazy the way you compare her to lina.
Beautifual and successful...why do you put up with rubbish like Lina?? Crazy, and you seem better than that. And definitely better educated.
George,
I've seen you week after week and I feel for you. I know that you want to work things out with Lina, but she is not the person you are destined to be with. If you both are going to have a child together, I pray that you get custody because she is not a stable person. I don't know what to believe, but I hope that this child is the focus of both of you. Leave all the other "stuff" out of it.
Micheal, I think UR a very nice person, but PLEASE U really need to take an internal look @ yourself to figure out what U really want. It might be easy for me to say this but I don't think this relationship is healthy for both of U. May be U both need to take some time away from each other, as hard as it might be. U might be in love with Lina but sometimes love alone is not enough. Life is too short to be walking on eggshells around someone & not know one minute to the next when she's gonna go off on U. I don't think anyone wants that & I don't think U want that either. Good luck with whatever decision U make
I m so sorry for you
you will be no happy ever ever never
George, George..You have so much going for you. You have wonderful supportive friends and a great career. Value yourself more and move away from toxic people. Nothing good comes of it.
When you are older I hope you will be at a "happy place" and chuckle at the craziness you are involved in now.
All the best to you!
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