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Whipped

George discusses his approach to relationships.

Jul 14, 2009

A lot of people including those close to me, family, and at times myself, didn't get the attraction between Lina and myself. I can simply put it as this: That relationship is really unlike any relationship I've been a part of in the past. I have in many ways probably been more tolerable, due to some of my actions in the past, especially as they pertain to my treatment of Sorah....I guess that whole karma thing really is true...or maybe its just bound to happen when you date extremely independent strong minded career woman with whom a relationship seems to be a convenience. In many ways I felt like I was always trying to find the good, which I would never have in the past due partly to guilt from approaching my past relationships as a secondary priority, and part because I've been really attracted to Lina and not just her 'outer' beauty, but her 'inner' beauty as well. Of course there's a much more crass term a lot of my friends have called "p#$%* whipped."

There are a lot of off-camera interactions when her guard is down, and she is the sweetest, most fun, intelligent woman. I do realize cultural differences in her approach to even day to day communication with me, and unfortunately she's usually been stoic and introverted vs. my approach, which is a bit more outwardly vocal....

I tried to get her to open up and be much more honest in her feelings with me - which I also know annoyed the HECK out of her, and usually ended up in an argument. HOWEVER, with that said, I don't believe there would ever be a reason to mislead me in such a manner to say she was going to NYC and ending up on a mega yacht in St. Barths stranded, but for "business." I really have no clue to the actual details, and what was going through Lina's mind eludes me, and no actual sales or results came out this extremely unorthodox "business" trip, to my knowledge... I truly didn't know if I could get past this one or ever trust Lina again.

Till next time.....

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You have a huge fan club of girls across the globe. We love your George. As Hardy says, "Ditch The Bitch."

AHAHA!!! Funny comment from viewer! I conquer!

George, you are HOT! how about you date a girl from Michigan?

dude it's simple.. she's using you and im sure you realize it.. and at the moment your letting her.. but once she lies to you.. can you really believe anything she says??

Well good for you! Finally "ditching" Lina. Its good that your tolerable but tried that with a nice women and by nice a mean not a liar.

PS: stop talking so much with your exwife it is sooooo NOT healthy!

Hello George!

Honestly! Karma is a bitch and its in the form of you know who! Why would you cheat on a woman like Sorah? understand your point about the past, but you reap what you sow. Perhaps whatever transpires with you and your current girlfriend will open your eyes to the fact that maybe Sorah was the one that you will always regret having hurt. I think you know that already, i don't know you at all and my comments come from everything you both have expressed on the show so far. Dude you have potential you just need the right person to come into your life that can enhance it not destroy it with lies and bulls_ _ _ _. Goodluck!!

Georege-I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that show was 80% scripted because every local guy in South Beach knows that Lina was out of town on "business" and not the real estate business......common bro, what are you thinking? Picking her up at the airport was very pathetic!! Again, Im giving you the benefit of the doubt that it's TV but any guy in South Beach worth his salt is never taking her call again and picking a young, hot latina that same night. Wake-up!

I think if she had nothing to hide, she would have at least told you details about the trip (even if it was after the fact) to assure you that even though she lied about where she was going, that there's nothing you should worry about the actual trip.

I think when we really like someone that have done us wrong, we look the other way, so we don't stare the obvious in the face. We don't see what we don't want to see, but we still know it's there.

There's plenty of beautiful girls in SoBe that can ""p#$%* whip" you up the wall and not lie to you.

I agree with Sorah and the previous poster: ditch her. You can do much better than that.

"Love is eternal while it lasts"

If you dont truely see yourself being able to have a stable relationship with her, and your noticing it already, then that should be your first clue.

Act before the situation gets worse. You are incredibly handsome, get your priorities straight, and move on.

George, Great show last night. I was captivated by your Cell Phone. What Brand is it. I have been searching the web all day for the answer. Also Ditch the Bitch!!!

George-for a guy that is suppose to be a "big player" in South Beach you are embarrasing the rest of us local guys. A big player/socialite doesn't call women when they go out of town bro. Especially a girl like Lina-girls like her are what we call "one and done" please bro. A real player would have sized up that situation and been out that night and re-loaded his phone with 5 new numbers. And dude-what's with the cougars?? I don't see any young, hot latinas by your side which is what us men live for down here.....step your game up and show the country what South Beach is really about.

You blew it with a great girl like Sorah and that's disappointing for you but all of us men (and women for that matter) that live here all think we want to settle down at some point but reality is we never will. We all have the same disease so stop pretending like you want to be in a relationship. There is just way too much young, hot, beautiful single women arriving in South Beach everyday. South Beach is like an adult camp for men-every year the kids change but the counselors stay the same.....

Hey George, Why doesn’t BRAVO show your girlfriend’s “inner” and “outer “ beauty? All I can see is her shouting profanities.

George,

I think you are way to smart to fall for this crap. Listen you need to let go. You are way to cute to be wasting your time with someone like Lina.. HELLO WAKE UP - SNAP OUT OF I!!!! she does not have any respect for you, the relationship even her.. SHE IS USING YOU!!!

Why do you feel you need to be abused like this? What is your real sense of self? Excitement can be having a conversation...cooking with someone who can give back. That's a biggy..a center of mutuality. What does Lina bring to the table? Great cook? Understanding? Realiability? Goals---that are beyond herself?

George, Clearly, I don't know all of your past, but it seems you are determined to do penance for past mistakes, whether or not you made those mistakes with Lina, or Sorah, or someone else entirely. You are smart enough to know, this is not possible, to change what has happened. Stop punishing yourself. This is not a good relationship, for either of you. This does not mean you are a failure, or she is evil; none of us knows what is really going on in someone else's relationship. But you both seem unhappy and incapable of giving one another what you want and/or need. Let go, move on, and good luck.

George, perhaps you feel you should be treated badly by Lina, because of the way you treated Sorah when you were married. But that healing needs to take place between you and Sorah. stop being a "PUNK" and MAN-UP.

George guilt is our worse enemy. The past is the past. Do you really feel that because you F****** up before you are not worthy of a good loving healthy relationship.

It seems that you & Lina have issues to iron out. I do feel that it is unfair that people are calling her names.Let us not forget that Lina is a human being with feelings just like everyone else. Not everyone knows how to express their anger in a "civilized manner". It can be a mirror reflection of our upbrining,our past struggles or maybe suppressed anger due to an unplesant memory.

It is never too late to a become a better person tomorrow than you were today.

If u love Lina work at it, seek couples counseling. I did and not only did it help me to be a better person in my relationship(s),it gave me a new insight on myself as a person,recognition of behavioral patterns. I highly recommend one I went to it's called "PAIRS" look it up on line they have workshops all over the world or any one that is to your liking. Good Luck George...Love the show