Sorah

Don't call Sorah a cougar. Let her explain why.

Jul 27, 20090

I will start this week's blog by answering some of the questions I’ve been getting from my past blogs & episodes.

Yes! I am Brazilian, I moved to the US almost 10 years ago, met George probably within the first 7 months that I was living here and we were together for over 6 years!

After so many years together, having him and most of his friends my only friends for such a long time, it became inevitable, especially in Miami Beach (such a small world) that we bump into each other everywhere. The separation was amicable, for the most part & I care for him as I would care for a young crazy BROTHER! LOL

I walked out on him at dinner firstly because he was making rude comments about Gonzalo; which is an unbelievable person, sweet, understanding to all the unusual friendship thing; and did NOT deserve the mistreatment! Aside from that, I thought he was getting too much on my “business," you know? So I said enough!

21 comments
Mary J. Smith
Mary J. Smith

Hi Sorah, You're one of my favorites on the show. I lived in Miami for many years, so I know the scene well. Just as many believe that George is still in love with you, I believe that you're still in love with him. I don't even think that you really believe this whole "brother" BS. I think that if George was dating a normal, nice, hot girl that he could settle down with, you would freak! You know that he and Lina have no future together and you probably find that comforting. And deep, deep down you're probably enjoying the fact that he's getting a taste of his own medicine with Lina, as he should. But you're going to have to choose or you'll end up with neither guy. It's probably scary to go back to someone who did what George did to you, but he's not going to be single forever. And if you keep the status quo you may end up losing Gonzalo. He's no fool; I'm sure he knows what's going on. You're going to have to choose, and I mean REALLY choose and commit yourself 100% to that person. Good luck!

Jo
Jo

Hi Sorah!!! you and Gonzalo look so cute together...and I can see thru his eyes thta he love u lots...awesome..you look a nice girl and you deserve to be happy...NO DRAMA..lol We are so similar: had a bad relationship before, we are from SouthAmerica, we give 100 % when u are in love....and best of all: i found my Gonzalo LOL!...the greatest guy (sweet, adorable, love me to death, fun, and more )who I married almost 5 years ago (Nov).....u guys made such a great couple....i wish u the best!! (business, health and love) PS: What hotel u guys stayed at in Riviera Maya - Mexico??? it looks great !!!

Jennifer
Jennifer

Sorah, your relationship w/ Gonzalo seems so sweet and perfect. He is hot, sweet and smart to boot. You were absolutely right when you called him hotter than George. LOL.

I hope you are able to excise George from your life, especially financially. You guys divorced for a reason. You deserve to have a chance w/ another man as well as a family. George knows exactly what he is doing in his relationship w/ Lina and it is not your problem if he wants to mess his life up. You are smart and will make the right decision in the end. Best of luck in all you do because you are a genuinely nice person and so intelligent and gorgeous as well.

Viewer
Viewer

I think you are a great woman, and George blew it. You probably still, in the back of your mind think he will change and be the man you married, but he wont! George is right where he wants to be, in the middle of all that Lina drama. George is a drama queen and he is going to learn the hard way, or probably not at all. Don't ruin what you have with Gonzalo! George is toxic for you with all that drama which only dredges up old wounds for you and he is using you in a co-dependent manner. Be careful!

Kizzy
Kizzy

Sorah - - - first of all, love you name!! Next, please stop and let George make his own decisions. Cut him lose girl. He'll sink or swim. He is still holding on to you skirt-tail. God bless Gonzalo for putting up with your "relationship" with George. Heaven knows that there aren't a lot of men who would. Be careful, Gonzalo is a keeper!!!!!

dinah
dinah

Sorah, I've seen the show twice, and to be honest, I absolutely hate it. It seems so pretentious and just over the top. I don't find any of the characters very interesting and if they represent Miami, oh well!! I do like you. I think you're the most real and you give the crap show a little flavor. My friends also hate the show, but like you. I hope bravo comes up with a better show idea. Hope you continue, but on another show. Whoever came up with Miami Social needs to be fired!

robert bornstein
robert bornstein

love the show, the characters are developing nicely...great visuals....

phillygal
phillygal

think you are a wonderful level headed calm amongst the rest of the cast. think you make a beautiful couple with gonzalo, best to you.

Andrea from NOLA
Andrea from NOLA

Sorah I absolutely loveeeeeeeee you! You are a great example to all women out there on how to carry yourself like a lady. Keep it real.

Viewer
Viewer

Hey! i love watching you on the show. you are so caring and i can tell that George is totally still in love with you. you deserve the best. George lost big time.

Viewer
Viewer

Sorah DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD EVER GET BACK WITH GEORGE LOL REALLY THOUGH IN MY OPINION HE IS STILL INLOE WITH YOU

Adriana
Adriana

Hi Sorah, What state in Brasil are you from? I'm from Rio and as soon as I heard you sayng "meu amor" I knew you were brazilian, my advise for you is: don't get in the middle of George and Lina, becuase no matter what your intentions are, you are not his mother or his sister, and it really shows that you are still crazy about him, you will only heart yourself and them, healthy or not, that;s what he chose for himself. beijos, Adriana.

BFF from Ohio
BFF from Ohio

Sorah!!! I love you, you and Maria are my absolute favorites! I know your an amazing person just by the way you care for George and help him fix his problems. For example, when you gave up your evening to go to dinner with him, and when lina ruined your date. I felt so sad when george even related you to lina. You two are nothing alike! Your the best. Hugs and Kisses :)

monica
monica

Sorah~ Let me just say that you are AMAZING :-) hehe You and Gonzalo are just soo adorable... I feeel that you are an inspiration to a lot of woman;

Eliane
Eliane

Oi Sorah,

Being a native Brazilian myself, I connected with you right away. “You are a woman to love” - beautiful, mature, independent, responsible, kind, fun, athletic, sensitive... a woman that knows how handle yourself. The question is… why do you waste your time with George? He is the typical immature / insecure middle age man that enjoys dysfunctional romantic relationships… if he’d only grow up. George is so NOT worth of your time / concern / friendship… hope you can continue focusing your energy on yourself and your great Gonzalo.

Viewer
Viewer

Hi, Sorah! First of all, thank you so much for representing Brazilian women as well as you do. You are beautiful, down to earth, classy, intelligent,sexy loving and transparent. Thank you for that! (I'm tired of getting "sassy" comments about Brazilian women! You're amazing! You make me proud of Brazilian women!)So, don't let George sit you on the shelf. It's obvious that he thinks you are still in love with him. He knows you're his safe resort; and that's nice and all, but If I were Gonzalo, I'd have that little bug in my mind "does she still love him?", even if I didn't admit to it. Besides, George is no longer your problem. Don't give him advise if he doesn't ask for it. (although you haven't asked for mine. haha)

Ivette
Ivette

Hello Sorah,

Let me start by saying that I personally think you're a wonderful person.. you seem to be very caring for others. Even though you where married to George for 6yrs I think the best thing you can do is take him to a Psychology... he defeneltly needs some terapy. I also agree that he was being very desrespecful at dinner and you did the right thing by getting up and leave.

Wish all the luck!!!

Victoria
Victoria

Hello Sorah!

I found George's comments in the middle of dinner to be quite rude especially that intimate comment he made about you with someone else, I don't think discussing it on tv was cool at all. He was your husband but that doesn't mean he needed to go there on tv, it could have been comments talked about privately. I believe that woman teach men how to treat them, and he needs to start respecting you, and you clearly commanded that when you walked out. Enough!! You may need to cut ties to maintain your privacy.

Viewer
Viewer

Hey Sorah,

You seem to be a great person! And so normal and genuine compared to the others... Good luck with your boyfriend, you too are really cute together. Go Brazil! :-) Ciao ciao

Viewer
Viewer

Sorita, you are the best! Love how the show captures the real you and how you don't hold back on your sincere advice to George (cameras or not!) Keep it up! Your old Roomie....

Viewer
Viewer

Hey Sorah you actually helped me find an apartment a few years ago when you were at fortune realty anyway i think your great always thought you were a great person anyway good luck with everything luv