Avoiding situations that bring to the surface that fear will never work. EVER. It always comes full circle back until you deal with it. So I’ve decided to confront this head on. And even though I made a bit of a fool out of myself by complaining to Lewis that I hadn’t heard from him, I’m using this as a lesson learned. “OK,” I’m telling myself, “I have this flaw I need to work on. I made a mistake.” I fully intended to have a great night anyway and enjoy salsa dancing with Lewis despite the blunder I surprisingly made, and you know what? I did. Lewis certainly had some impressive moves on the dance floor, after all! Mistake or not, I’m happy with how the night went and proud of turning around an embarrassing moment into a really enjoyable evening. The kiss wasn’t too shabby either.
Ugh! You are really putting successful women to shame with all of your obnoxious insecurities and disfigured beliefs. You were so rude to Louis and I'm sure you rude to other people you date. Dear lord, you are more insecure than Julia, which is pretty sad. Do your self a favor and change careers and get off this show.
I am really sorry but the way you come across is very snotty and not all that smart. You have been very rude and not well liked at all. I think you should focus on the attitude , feeling like you are an expert, when truely the way it comes across is that you are very negative and not a happy person at all.I hope something changes for you because its very hard to watch your behavior and shake our heads. Please try to stop being so judgemental and enjoy something in your life. You wont have a problem meeting anyone if you change your disposition.
The audience needs to losen up and enjoy the show for what it is. Plus there's some good pointers in there for the hopeful romantics out there. You are a confident and fabulous woman, pay no mind to the negative chatter. You are a joy to watch and it's fun to hear your narratives on dating, both smart and fun. As for you viewers: judging from the nasty comments, some of you negative nellies out there need a man, or ain't gettin enough...capiche?
Please hire a voice coach, and follow your own rules. Edit your thoughts before you voice them. If in doubt, don't. You'll find love.
dear god woman. You confirm the belief that most match-makers are either narcissistic or incredibly insecure. Either way, by being a broker for love, it conveniently keeps you out of the game and away from judgement and rejection. Right - "too busy to date." Everyone says that. It also allows you to judge a lot of other women and tear them apart (see: Patti Stranger).
The truth is: you aren't single for the reasons you think you are. It's not because you aren't pretty enough, or smart enough, or thin enough, or young enough. In fact, your disordered focus on these things is what is making you so unattractive. Instead try to find comfort in yourself. Start by being kind to yourself and others so you can enjoy life instead of endlessly prepping for an act that may never come.
she is fabulous. we are only subject to twenty minutes of air-time and in that small time frame, we are only given certain glimpses of her. We all have our faults when dating, she puts it out there for people to see and isn't afraid to share and grow from it..and that's just fabulous.