Courtney I think that you are beautiful young lady, but you can be extremely judgmental towards a lot of people. Neill is a single mother and not a nun and you should wait till you have kids and realize that sometimes you have to have me time away from them sometimes before you comment on what she should be doing. It is healthy for you and them. She seems like a nice young lady as well and I think that you have been critical towards her because of your true feelings about Matt and you took that out on her. You don't know her or even took an interest in who she was to know if she was the right person for Matt. Get off the pot and tell Matt how you feel towards him or shut the hell up and leave other folks alone.