Cast Blog: #MOSTELIGIBLE

Quite Impressed

You Never Know...

Who Run the World

I Left My Heart in San Francisco

A Beautiful Gas Station Dinner

Achy Breaky Heart

Closer Than Ever

Finally!

The Rules According to Courtney

Ridin' Solo

Surface-Level Fun

A Fairy-Tale Romance

The Hooker Convention

It's All Happening

Timing is Key

Oh, Grace Kelly

A New Outlook

A Vocab Lesson

Not Sorry

Follow Your Heart

Boys Will Be Boys

Lip Lockin' and Talkin'

Accent Pieces

Operation Beaver Snatch

Dating Dilemma

Five Foot Fabulous

Honey, I'm Home!

Passions

Sakes Alive

In Character

For Whom the Belle Tolls

More Than Meets the Eye

Passions

Giving Back

The Pursuit of Happiness

Poolside

Let the Games Begin

Honest and Open

Rolling the Dice

Are You for Real?

Drewcifer

Quite Impressed

Drew shares what it was like watching the first episode and gives his take on the Courtney/Neill drama.

So here we go! First off, I have never been much of blogger. Second I am dyslexic, so I hope you enjoy my wordings. I am the kind of guy who loves to just go ahead address the pink elephant sitting in the corner. Many people have asked me, “Why are you participating in a reality show?” There are a few different answers. My favorite answer has been that I’m turning 30 in September, so why not document the last couple of months of my 20s. My 20s have been very interesting. There have been a lot of defeats and big successes. I’m actually finding it hard to say goodbye to that decade of my life. Still, the fact that I’m on Most Eligible Dallas is shocking to me, because I think of myself as a wallflower and not one the cool kids. I love cars, electronics, travelling, airplanes, and cooking.

So lets talk about the show. I have to say my favorite person to be with is Tara. I love Tara with all my heart. I know she has my back, and I have hers. Tara is a sweet, determined woman. Making Tara laugh is one my favorite things. I love making people laugh. It’s my way of easing the tension, since I don’t drink.

So like many of you, I have just watched the first episode. I was actually quite impressed. My natural mindset is to be prepared for the worst. I have found it interesting watching the show, because I have never had the opportunity to see what really goes on with some on my friends at home. Even though I have never been to Matt’s house, I find the decor to be a hybrid of vampire/jock chic, between those black out curtains and the massive TV set in the bedroom. That TV makes me think he bought it specifically for porn. 

I have to talk about the Neill and Courtney thing towards the end of the episode. I felt that Courtney was completely out of line to attack Neill. Neill is a single mother who is raising a child on her own. Courtney shouldn’t have just attacked her. I have known many single parents in my life, and when my parents got divorced, I was raised by a single parent. I have seen what a struggle it is for a parent to try and fill both roles for their child. I know Neill is a good mom trying her best to do just that for her son, Major. All parents, single or married, need a break from their responsibilities. When Courtney attacked her, I felt a little ashamed to be friends with her. Her attack was very closed-minded. I also feel like when Courtney is confronted, she has this incredible gift to cry on a dime. I think she uses this as a way to deflect attention from her inappropriate actions and make the other person feel guilty.

Well anyway I hope you enjoy the first season of Most Eligible Dallas. Don’t forget to follow me on Twitter @drewginsburg. 

Who Run the World

Neill talks about her band's debut and being a single mother.

Hello there, beautiful people! Lots of love, love, love to you all! Thanks for hanging in with us here through all these episodes… Who'd have known everything would turn out the way it did? The good news is I believe everything happens for a reason. 

As far as this final episode goes, I don't have too much to say. I believe the majority of the episode speaks for itself… it was nice, funny, awkward, charming, and in the end, my band got to play! I was very happy we got some of that on the last episode. I love how they showed us (my band, Kitty LaLa) playing the song "Come Home With Me" as Matt and Courtney had an intimate stare/gaze-into-my-eyes-before-we-kiss moment... Hey, that's what I write for, moments like that!  

Anyway, the show was a success, and to conclude it all, I've got to give you a bit of my "behind the scenes/is it time to pull my hair out/what did I just do" inside scoop!

1. Filming a reality show is the most stressful job I've ever had in my life! 

2. I was writing and putting my band together as the show was being filmed… Talk about stress! Aside from the fact that I'm a new mother, that one really took the cake! Glad you all got to see a glimpse of our Dallas debut. Very proud of myself and the guys… Kitty LaLa killed it!

Thank you everyone for all of your sweet, beautiful, and encouraging words. It means a lot not only as a mother, but as a single mother finding her own path, a singer/songwriter/entrepreneur, and most importantly, a young woman coming into her own. I consider this experience as a true blessing. I see all the beauty that could've come from it along with everything in between… Thank you all for your sweet words and encouraging statements. Everyone on the show has been such a blessing to me and my son. I love all of you! 

I would love to hear from you (seriously!). You can contact me via Twitter @NeillSkylar or Facebook me (if my personal page is overloaded, just hit my fan page and I'll be sure to get back to you even quicker, hehe).

And please be sure to like my band Kitty LaLa or follow us on Twitter (preferably both) @KittyLaLaMusic! Here's our new music video, "Come Home With Me" --http://youtu.be/nYSoigfFnFE

Love you all so much! Please keep in touch! Muah! And for all those single mamas out there, let's stick together. If we can do all that we do, we might as well take over the world! All my love, heart, and soul to you all! God Bless! Once again… XOXO!