Cast Blog: #MOSTELIGIBLE

The Pursuit of Happiness

You Never Know...

Who Run the World

I Left My Heart in San Francisco

A Beautiful Gas Station Dinner

Achy Breaky Heart

Closer Than Ever

Finally!

The Rules According to Courtney

Ridin' Solo

Surface-Level Fun

A Fairy-Tale Romance

The Hooker Convention

It's All Happening

Timing is Key

Oh, Grace Kelly

A New Outlook

A Vocab Lesson

Not Sorry

Follow Your Heart

Boys Will Be Boys

Lip Lockin' and Talkin'

Accent Pieces

Operation Beaver Snatch

Dating Dilemma

Five Foot Fabulous

Honey, I'm Home!

Passions

Sakes Alive

In Character

For Whom the Belle Tolls

More Than Meets the Eye

Passions

Giving Back

Poolside

Let the Games Begin

Honest and Open

Rolling the Dice

Are You for Real?

Drewcifer

Checking Baggage

The Pursuit of Happiness

Drew explains his relationship with Cody, his family, and Courtney.

First of all, so much happened in Episode 4. It’s going to be hard for me to cover everything. Let me start of by talking about Cody. Cody is my ex boyfriend. In my eyes he is an incredible guy. I love Cody. He is a man who taught me so much and is passionate about everything he does. He is important to me, and he holds special place in my heart.

Let me talk about the brunch scene. Yes, I’m an alcoholic. I have been sober for over six years. For me, not drinking is the foundation of everything I have worked for in life. If I drink, I will lose it all, and more importantly, I don’t know if I will make it back alive.

Family brunch! Yes, I have a big family and I’m the oldest member of my family. I love my family dearly. They stuck by me when I was considered a lost cause. At the brunch you saw my little brothers, Jonathan and William. They are so adorable! Gina is my dad’s wife, but I don’t look at her as my stepmother. This not because I don’t like her, but because in my mind I have one mom, and Gina is only two years older than me. It’s weird for me. Everyone in my family is happy, and that is what matters most.

DIFFA is the Design Industry Foundation Fighting Aids. DIFFA is a big deal in Dallas, and it is a cause that my family has been involved with since I was 16. DIFFA is a big event in the Dallas social scene, but it's way more than a party. DIFFA provides grants to Aids Service Organizations in the Dallas area. They provide money to great charities that do a lot of social good. I was nervous about being honored by the style council, because I have never received such an accolade. Having Cody there was a great relief. While Courtney thought DIFFA was more of a fashion show, I really don’t think she understand the point of the event. I felt like a lot of the things Courtney says are not sincere and are just fluff.

Anyway on that note I need to get going. Follow me on Twitter @drewginsburg.

Who Run the World

Neill talks about her band's debut and being a single mother.

Hello there, beautiful people! Lots of love, love, love to you all! Thanks for hanging in with us here through all these episodes… Who'd have known everything would turn out the way it did? The good news is I believe everything happens for a reason. 

As far as this final episode goes, I don't have too much to say. I believe the majority of the episode speaks for itself… it was nice, funny, awkward, charming, and in the end, my band got to play! I was very happy we got some of that on the last episode. I love how they showed us (my band, Kitty LaLa) playing the song "Come Home With Me" as Matt and Courtney had an intimate stare/gaze-into-my-eyes-before-we-kiss moment... Hey, that's what I write for, moments like that!  

Anyway, the show was a success, and to conclude it all, I've got to give you a bit of my "behind the scenes/is it time to pull my hair out/what did I just do" inside scoop!

1. Filming a reality show is the most stressful job I've ever had in my life! 

2. I was writing and putting my band together as the show was being filmed… Talk about stress! Aside from the fact that I'm a new mother, that one really took the cake! Glad you all got to see a glimpse of our Dallas debut. Very proud of myself and the guys… Kitty LaLa killed it!

Thank you everyone for all of your sweet, beautiful, and encouraging words. It means a lot not only as a mother, but as a single mother finding her own path, a singer/songwriter/entrepreneur, and most importantly, a young woman coming into her own. I consider this experience as a true blessing. I see all the beauty that could've come from it along with everything in between… Thank you all for your sweet words and encouraging statements. Everyone on the show has been such a blessing to me and my son. I love all of you! 

I would love to hear from you (seriously!). You can contact me via Twitter @NeillSkylar or Facebook me (if my personal page is overloaded, just hit my fan page and I'll be sure to get back to you even quicker, hehe).

And please be sure to like my band Kitty LaLa or follow us on Twitter (preferably both) @KittyLaLaMusic! Here's our new music video, "Come Home With Me" --http://youtu.be/nYSoigfFnFE

Love you all so much! Please keep in touch! Muah! And for all those single mamas out there, let's stick together. If we can do all that we do, we might as well take over the world! All my love, heart, and soul to you all! God Bless! Once again… XOXO!