Glenn Pakulak

Glenn enjoyed himself at the pool party, even if there wasn't a whole lot of deep conversation.

on Oct 3, 20110

This episode was a little hard for me to watch but very interesting in a sense. My relationship with Rebecca was one that was long distance for its entirety. That being said, we were probably closer than a lot of couples that live with each other are. We would usually go about a month or so without seeing each other, and then either I would go to visit her for in Northern California or she would come visit me wherever I was living at the time. Honestly she came to see me when I lived in Michigan, Nashville, Lubbock (trained there for a couple months), Austin, New Orleans, Amsterdam (we also visited Paris while she was there), Chicago, San Diego, and now most recently Dallas. Some of those places she came to several times. She was a traveling trooper, and I will always love her for that. 

I was bummed out when I had to take her back to the airport in Dallas, but it was nice to know eventually I would have to report back to Oakland and would get to see her and hangout at her great spot in San Francisco. Other times weren't so easy taking her back to the airport or having her drop me off after visiting when we weren't together, because we didn't know if and when another visit would ever come. Like I said though, this time I was bummed, but at least knew I would be in her city soon and hanging out.  

12 comments
Monica mom of 3
Monica mom of 3

Glenn,

Omgoodness, you are a very sexy man, but you don't need me to tell you this. What you do need is someone to tell you that you are gonna miss out and have so many regrets if you don't go get that woman Rebecca. I mean really what else do you want? Yes there are plenty of beautiful women out there, but looks fade. We all get older and time eventually walks across everybody face (even yours)! You have to decide what do you want your life to stand for? Do you want to be known as the guy who was the life of the party and could take home just about any woman he wanted or do you want to be known as something much more? ie; Husband to a beautiful woman that you can love and enjoy your life with, build a home, and family, Daddy to a little child that you and this woman (Rebecca) can raise together, and maybe if you are lucky a papa to a couple of grandchildren. Really this is what life is about. Watching & teaching your babies grow with a person that you love. I promise the feeling of love that a person has for thier child can only be understood by a parent. I know, I have 3 boys! 2yr old twins and a 14yr! They are the best thing I have ever given to this world. Don't blow it! Rebecca won't wait forever. Just do it!

Viewer909
Viewer909

It sounds like she went out of her way for you to show her love and support you as you were pursuing your NFL career. And you also mention she has a great job at home. I don't think guys realize how much time, energy, emotion, and resources women spend trying to make a relationship work. The long distance makes it incredibly difficult but you persevered. Your connection and true friendship keeps you close, because you love her and need her. Everytime you leave, something pulls you back. You are drawn to her. I would be too, she gorgeous, sweet, intelligent, coy, and the hopeless romantic side of her is too precious. You need to get your act together, Glenn, before it's too late.

Viewer Lisa
Viewer Lisa

Great pic! I especially like how you two have the church, streetlights, and sunset in the background! Hmm....maybe the church you two will get married at??! My husband and I love watching you & sweet Becca! We're pulling for you two! God bless!

@ricksgirl
@ricksgirl

So if this is he first episode you've ever seen, how do you know about the charity auction? Don't be rude to Glenn, he rocks!! Do people tell You Rick's the best you'll ever do?

MCraigUT
MCraigUT

Glenn, first of all, you seem like a decent guy considering you are on this silly over-the-top reality show (Which I really find entertaining!) BUT, know you like the life of "single and havin' fun," but what type of people are you surrounding yourself with? if you don't make grown up decisions, you can't ever expect to make grown up success in relationships, career, etc.

Sort of agree with Courtney, maybe timing isn't right between you and Rebecca, but good looking, smart women don't wait around forever... There's just too many opportunities out there to have what we want, and you may end up missing the boat on this...

funD
funD

is it just me or does your ex favor Neil?! Both are cute! Time to settle down and make babies cant play forever - even Warren Beatty did -

Greg'sGirl
Greg'sGirl

Glenn, I think you are in love with Rebecca and you know it!! We saw how much you guys love each other and the bond that you have, now you have to make a committment! You have to realize my friend you're not getting any younger and you're probably not going to find anyone better. She's a gem and you're a nice guy so ....... Best of luck!!!

SJM
SJM

She makes you a better person! Seeing you pick her up at the airport was my favorite, her face lit up when she saw you and so did yours. It was so heart-warming to watch. The two of you remind me of my husband and I.....I'm pulling for you two! None of those girls compare to her and the deep love that you two share.

lorinser
lorinser

Rebecca is the real deal. You messed up, guy.

lorinser
lorinser

Rebecca is the real deal. You messed up, guy.

Ricksgrl
Ricksgrl

First episode i've ever seen. It seems like you are genuinely a nice guy, but you are still in the high school mentality of "hot chicks" and seem to have no depth, and i even saw how Courtney saw that in you, that's why she didn't even want to kiss you on the charity auction date (and she's a desperate for any man that would settle type). You will always think that the grass is greener on the other side, and buddy you're just not that cute. Anyone can put time and effort at the gym and have a six pack, that doesn't mean they are hot. Just stay with Rebecca you won't do any better, i guarantee it. You just can't pull off the Matt thing.