I had a good laugh at myself when I looked at the camera and said, "I like being solo!" I looked at myself in the eyes through TV land and said, "Yo, Neill, if I didn't know you like 99% of viewers don't, I totally would've just shouted, 'That chick just LIED!'" and then my son threw a handful of cheerios at the screen, which instantly reminded me that I'm indeed not solo! Haha, OK, just had to get that off my chest! Moving on to the less important stuff…
Now that Matt and his lovely Court are officially "courting" (only a little pun intended) one another, I no longer have to deal with that dating baggage! Yay! I used to think having a child was a lot to bring to the table (and it is), but Matt's "bestie" took the cake! I mean, Maj was at least super friendly and welcomed Matt with open arms (literally!), while I was greeted with jabs, I-don't-know-you-but-I-hate-you glares, "Where's your baby daddy," and "Why you do you have a baby, don't you know I want one?!" This all around awkwardness is over in that love triangle/square/or duplexathon (that's if you add the "ho train" as Court called it!) Honestly, whatever makes Matt happy makes me happy. I just can't help but laugh at it all just a little bit.
I just think you are the sweetest person and your son is so adorable, and i think that was a great decision you made regarding your relationship with Matt he didn't seem at all interested with your son and he just seems so full of himself so I think he should be with Courtney they can both be full of themselves together, you are better off.
I don't buy it Neill. If Matt wanted a relationship with you I think you would jumpat the chance. You could see that you were disappointed and somewhat hurt by what he said at the gallery.
Honestly, Neill, there are many other reasons to be wary of Matt than Courtney, and I hope watching the show made you realize that you're better off without him. I don't see a Matt and Courtney coupling lasting and I think she'll have one of those "I fought so hard to have THIS?" reactions down the road. She wants to settle down, and he wants to play harem. Neither can admit they're wrong, either.
You dodged a bullet and deserve much better!
honestly I'm on your side..... I think Courtney is judgemental and over the top with her opinions. you seem like the most down to earth person on the show... which is strange because your the most attractive. keep being a good mother and friend! your awesome!
LOL! Good for you for finally sharing your feelings about Courtney. Wish you would have done it while filming. Best of luck!! xoxo
As a 24 year old "single" mother I can see exactly where you come from. Although Courtney personally attacked you (although it was behind your back to the camera's) I felt like she was attacking every single mother out there. I am sure that you were hurt a little by what Matt said because let's be honest know one likes to hear that but at the same time "on to the next" because after going what we go through we deserve the best! You are awesome and your son is adorable! You prove to everyone that even if you have the most fabulous looks you can still be the most real woman out there!
Neill, you are gorgeous, genuine, and above all, a classy lady. Although others' actions (ie. Courtney) would entitle you to trash them and their ridiculous attitude any chance you can, you don't. Same with Matt...what he did was selfish and to continue a friendship with someone like him, after his arrogance on national TV says a lot about you and what a beautiful person you are INSIDE, as well as outside. It's too bad Glenn gave his heart to Rebecca, because you two would be Gold together-- both laid back, gorgeous and down to earth...... I LOVE you on the show, and believe it or not, have learned alot about forgiveness and letting things roll of my back, from you. Keep being positive and amazing.
First of all I think you are a really nice person so let's get that out of the way. Secondly, couldn't you just tell when you first met Courtney how much she was in love with Matt? I think if I saw that with a man who was showing interest in me (hate to say this BUT, especially having a child) I would've ran away! After all the dinner dates he's had with tons of women and how Courtney controls his life, I think you should've known this was doomed from the beginning. Take your time dating Neill, you're young and beautiful and you have Major to worry about first and foremost. Best of luck to you!!!
So glad you ditched him, all he's interested in is HIMSELF and how many women he can hook up with. What a POOR representation he is for Dallas men.
Neill, keep doing you girl!!!!! You seem a little too bitter though for your own good. This might be really weird, but when I start feeling bitter I eat my comfort food, which is pickles. Maybe try eating a food or releasing some stress through your own personal way. They're not worth it!! You're way better than matt :)
You are a sweet young lady with an adorable child. As for Matt, he don't really no what he wants....playing the field as most men do. As for Courtney, she is a mean girl, opinionated, selfish, and judgemental. (Miss Know-It-All) She is stuck on herself, and not cute. When asked out to dinner with the other blond friend, she just want to get her jabs in. She is nasty, and what goes around, comes around. Her and Matt desire each other, but it will not last. However, keep up the good work in raising your child and singing.
Neill, you are so much better off without Matt. You weren't just going out with Matt but Courtney also. Courtney is mean, thinks she knows it all about everything, snobbish and is jealous you have a baby and she doesn't. Her and Matt deserve each other and to be miserable with each other. You just keep going on and you will find the right person for you and the little guy in your life.
Leaving that hot mess of foolishness alone is the best move you could have made. Those two are nuts...and not just about each other. Stay strong my dear!
Women are always willing to take a chance on a "player" because they hope they can be the one to change him into a Husband. I don't think you are any different. I don't believe you were nonchalant about your relationship with Matt. You are too sweet to have not had your heart involved. I do think you thought that Matt would be able to grow up and MAN UP and commit to you once he saw what a wonderful package you are (with Maj). You need to raise the bar girl, you are way to sweet and special to settle for anything less then 100% commitment for you and for Major. If any man offers you less, kick him to the curb! Never make excuses for some man's emotional issues or you will spend a lifetime making excuses for never being loved they way you deserve.
You rock, Neill ! I think it's so hilarious (and more than pathetic) that Courtney hates you simply because you have something that she lacks. And that would include beauty, style, grace, self-confidence and, of course, sweet Major ! Thank goodness that list doesn't include Matt anymore. Now both he and Courtney can tell him how wonderful he is ! I laughed out loud when she was judging you for being out at night without your son. Can't wait til she has two or three squalling kids hanging on her knee ! She will think back to that statement and whimper !
You are my favorite of all of the cast members. You are beautiful and Major is just adorable! So glad you're don't with Matt and his KNOCK-OFF baggage!! She is SO gross. I cannot stand her. I wish you all the best. You and Major are going to find the right man for your family.
I hope this show will help you launch your singing career. You, Drew and Tara were the only ones who were not phony imbeciles.
You are cute. Not sure why you are on this show, except to better your band and your son's life. Kudos. You are probably the only one who had a purpose for this "fame grab."
You are hard to read. But your polite and I felt bad for you with the way that Courtney treated you. And you dont need to put up with Matt's antics. You seem like a really good mom to cute little Maj.
Prettiest one on the show and treated the worst! I found it pretty funny that Matt felt the need to "break up" with you, even though it was understood that you weren't in a committed relationship. I have thought from day one he was a major creep and am so glad he has finally found happiness with Captain Annoying. You and Tara are the only two on the show who seem to have brains and morals. You go girl!