How did you decide who would give speeches at the rehearsal dinner?
JEFF: For me I was so nervous dealing with all my mixed emotions from being the center of attention, not having immediately family present, as well as the normal wedding jitters. So I left Blair in control of the speeches.
BLAIR: I was so consumed with socializing and welcoming guests that I wanted to make sure the speeches were done at the right time and that everyone would be able to enjoy them. So in typical Blair fashion, I went ahead and told the people I had in mind that "It's time for y’all to toast us!" Basically the people whom I would have chosen to be bridesmaids for Jeff and I were the people I asked to speak. It was so fun to hear all the funny stories! Sort of like a roast!
Blair Darling, get a grip. Jeff is the adult in this relationship.
He understands that in order to have a wonderful life you need
to be financially stable. Blair has the maturity of a 16 year old.
Frankly, his constant harping about getting his name of the deed
of the house and access to resources Jeff has spent his adult life
accumulating is starting to make him sound like a gold digger. No
different than women that marry the slightly older, financially secure
man and immediately getting pregnant to secure those future child
support and alimony payments.
Jeff is HOT! Still waters run deep and I find him to be a deeply thoughtful
passionate man. In one argument when Blair threw up in Jeff's face that
if not for him (Blair) Jeff could go back to being without family. That family
was what he brought to the table. I actually cried' it was so hurtful.
Jeff be careful. You are a handsome, sexy, caring man and there are
plenty of young, blonde "fun" types with lots of family that would kill
to be with you.
Blair, try intimacy instead of sex' that is what Jeff is craving and why he
gets off three times a day alone. He needs intimacy...big difference than sex.
You two are an inspiration. I know that you will be together forever and it gives me hope that one day I will find my prince. Thank you for reminding me that true love still exists. Marisa F
Blair, you're awesome but you are wasting your time with Jeff. He's jacking off instead of making love to you. Let that be your clue to get out. Run. Run far, run fast.
Are you serious?! You have got to be kidding me. Blair has the mentality of a child. Jeff is a mature adult. At this stage in his life he wants intimacy more than sex. There is a difference. And in order to be in a grown relationship which is marriage, you have to be able to make the distinction and provide both. If there is anyone who needs to get out its Jeff. He needs a partner who is mature and has an adult sense of responsibility.
Blair, you are darling and so full of life and light and happiness. Jeff is gloom and doom and a total buzz kill, and kind of creepy. The way he acts about money and "you pay for this and I'll pay for that" sounds more like a roommate arrangement than a marriage. :/ Get out while you're still young. RUN LIKE THE WIND!
Blair....love, love love you. I feel for you in every episode because you are happy, upbeat, and your heart is so open. Jeff just seems to disrespect you financially and emotionally. Sneaking out to see the lawyer without you shows that he is clearly in this for himself and he is protecting his assets.
I don't see how you can possibly be getting anything out of this marriage. He refuses sex, then tells you he is pleasing himself, he keeps bugging you for $, yet won't let you in on the legal discussions, and he is constantly putting you down. I hope Jeff wakes up before it is too late. Further, I hope that you keep your happy, open and optimistic approach on life!
Blair you are just too wonderful to be saddled down with Jeff and his endless issues and idiosyncrasies. You are full of life and love, and he is just full of himself. He's obsessed with perfection and control, and, also seems to enjoy putting you down. You deserve a guy that knows how great you are, and doesn't need to plan a camping trip to get intimate - yuck. So my advice, run as fast as you can, away from that old, creepy house and that (old acting) creepy guy. A million men would be lucky to have you!
Blair . . . . you need to be sent to the closet for "time out." Unfortunately your behavior is one that gives all of us gay men a bad rap. You are fortunate to have someone like Jeff who tolerates you but I am not sure for how much longer. Grow up! And Jeff stand up for yourself and don't allow Balir to be so disrespectful
Wow on the comments how rude! I think you two are a great couple facing the same old issues of any new married couple. I wish Jeff would realize the marriage isn't going to be 50/50 EVER...it's just not how it works. Jeff needs to accept that. Open one checking account and throw the bill money in there the end.
Found the song and I love it! The best dance song Ive heard in a while I just did a performance dance around my room which was a the first time I'd done that in a good 30 years so thanks Blair, that's what it's all about isn't it! I hope so anyway! Just have fun with life people!
Ok! you people are crazy who are commenting on here, or maybe you just made your comments to early. Let's keep it Real! I do feel sorry for Jeff, but he needs to grow up and get over the fact that his family will not be a part of his life! Blair is the Reason most people even Watch this Show, he is funny, charming, and actually needs his OWN SHOW! Jeff brings a lot of pain and misery, but too bad for his family if they want to miss out on his life with Blair! Life goes on....Blair you keep rocking this Damn Show, I will be writing to Bravo Personally about you having your Own Show rather you remain with Jeff or Not, because you actually Open My Eyes to the Gay Community, and you have to much Energy and Spirit to let being married to an older man bring your Spirits down, after seeing your Family at the Wedding, I realize where you got your kind Heart and Positive influence on Life from....Oh! and Blair just in case you read this I love your dance at the wedding and your singing like Whitney Houston....You Make This Show and I also like the couple that lives in New Jersey that is having the Baby Boy!
I love your song @Blair and love you both! Love this show maybe more people will realize what they are getting into before they take the leap to quick. Marriage is what others have said, marriage! I have watched the show and actually not thought alot about the gay part at all just another couple going thru the same as everyone else!
Blair I can't handle the sound of your shrill voice. Pull yourself together and take a deep breath. I actually find myself turning the volume down or clicking the mute button when they show segments of you talking. I would suggest that you be a bit more respectful towards Jeff. When Jeff tries to discuss finances with you...you speak to him as if he is trying to steal your money.
You seem self-absorbed and immature--it is difficult for me to take this union seriously.
Blair I think you need to grow up, I really do like the two of you and hope your marrige works BUT Blair PLEASE bring it down a little......
As a fellow gay man I would like to congratulate you two for find the one true love that you are ready to be with for the rest of your lives. I too hope to one day be so lucky.
However, and with all due respect, after watching last night’s episode I have to wonder if you two did not do more harm than help to the whole gay marriage debate going on throughout the country.
Marriage is a union not to be taken lightly. From the few episodes that have been aired, you two appeared to be more concerned with having your fairy tale wedding in Savannah than really realizing what you were getting yourselves into. Yes, a wedding is a party but a marriage is much more than playing house and being able to put a cute wedding portrait on the mantle.
You two are in a community property state and, after the fact, apparently realized what you have gotten yourselves into. Maybe one less fabulous floral bouquet and an earlier trip to an attorney/accountant/financial planner could have helped you realize this sooner.
I am responding to you with a peace sign.
First, marriage is marriage. It does not matter that you are gay or straight. I am straight and have been married for 22 years. After the first few episodes, I actually have not thought about the them being gay in a marriage. It just has come down to them being married. Maybe it's kind of hard to explain but, the lines have become blurred if you know what I mean. It looks like marriage is marriage whether you are gay or straight. So Jeff and Blair have done the opposite of harming the gay marriage debate. They have shown that it does not matter. Marriage is a partneship and it takes alot of understanding and LOVE.
tul960 One day you will stand in front of God and you will be judged by your gay actions. Remember God does not hate homosexuals he hates the act of the homosexual. God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve but being Gay I am sure you have heard that phrase before, it is sad that gays really think they are going to heaven after sticking his private in another guys Arse. Repent sinner and turn away from your life style before it is to late. You have to be born again and accept that your gay but stop your ungodly acts.
tigers65 tul960 No one asked you to start preaching to us Tigers65, maybe you should go find another network to watch then.
@tigers65 @tul960 Last I checked marriage has nothing to do with god or religion. It is a legally binding document. Everyone has a right to give their life, assets, etc to another. Stop judging and start thinking.
They want to be recognized by the government not the bible. Furthermore every religion has their own version of things and you cannot say that yours is more superior than anothers. Marriage has NOTHING to do with God or Religion. It is the government and if you so highly believe that it is with Religion and not the government then let gay marriage be legalized seeing as, in your owns, it doesn't mean anything.
tul960 excuse me but ALOT of heterosexual couples do the same thing without realizing what it really means financially!
Blair! I have no words...you are too much and not in a good way...Jeff will leave you in less then a year and it is so sad because you are both good people. Tone it down...
kuuipo lol age has little if nothing to do with it. Health can play a role, obvioulsy, but age, if healthy, is only a state of mind. sex can actually continue to get better, believe it or not , as we age.
My husband is healthy and 62. Age does have somthing to do with it. Things happen to your organ that doesn't come in a manual and a Dr doesn't tell you until it happens and you have to ask wth is going on.
Jeff & Blair, you guys are so in love.... Don't forget that. It's hard work, for both. Blair, try to learn from the experience Jeff has. Jeff, I'm sorry but sex is a very big deal to a healthy relationship....more so than gardening. Marriage is your new garden, tend to all aspects (as well as your Hubs tending) and it will bloom into the beauty you feel for each other. Stay strong guys!
you guys make a REALLY beautiful couple. you're both so handsome and so in love with each other. the first year is the hardest i promise! i would say things get better after like the 3rd year lol
I hate to be mean, but I was so sick of Savannah. Also, the "pee pee" comment later sort of crossed the old line for me. My sister and I are sort of hooked on this show, but to be frank, we are not overly optimistic about how long you couples will stick it out.
Star1234 I agree that pee pee in the pooper remark was disgusting and uncalled for. Love Blair's dancing though and he's cute. I foresee lots of trouble ahead for these two though. Welcome to divorce court....
I had my wedding reception at the same house as your ceremony....beautiful! Congratulations to the two of you
Blair and Jeff, you two are too cute. I just love you two, I just wish we were neighbors. We would have a ball. LOL
NCGIRL222 that's funny as i've thought how much fun having their friendship must be as well. what a lovely , charming couple
Jeff and Blair,
you two togeather give me little butterfiles. you are sooooooo cute. I can see the love you have for each other the minuet you are in the same room.Jeff there is no reason for you to be sad becauseYou have been blessed with more love than one person could ever stand and that is exactly what you deserve. Blair has given you not only his heart but also what you longed for so long a real family. Blair you have definetly found the yin to your yang .I know your marriage will outlast most hetro ones. Good luck in your future amd may god bless you both!!!
I love you both and love to watch you both show how much you love one another. That is what true love is. Everytime I see Jeff get upset about family I just want to come find him and hug him and say you don't need that family anymore because you have me and so many others that will be your family to stand by your side when you need us to. I just want to take Jeff's pain away from him that his family has caused him over the year. Gay or not gay you are still someones child. Family may not always agree with you about things but family is to stick together and help their love ones thru those tough times when you don't know what way the journey will take you next. So Blair your family is amazing and Jeff is so lucky to have your family be supportive of him. Remember to love and respect one another in your marriage. I''m so looking to watching you both on your first year marriage journey.
I'm so happy for you two! Jeff, my heart truly goes out to you and please know that your parents are missing out on your beautiful new life with Blair. You two are each other's opposite and will bring out the best in one another. Remember patience and also during those little disagreements to remember to think about the bigger picture, which is to spend the rest of your lives together. Always come from a place of love with one another.
I LOVE you two! My favorite couple by far! Blair you are so funny and comfortable in your own skin. It is wonderful that you have been blessed with a family that allowed you to unapologetically be you. Jeff, I wish you had the same acceptance. It makes me very sad to see how you are being treated by your own family. Please know that for every one person who has treated you unkindly there are ten of us accepting and appreciating you.
Being a Mother myself, I could for no reason whats so EVER turn my back on my son. Being gay is hard enough on a person...but to not have the love an support from the people who gave you life? I could never understand that !
Blair & Jeff : I am not only happy for you both, I am thrilled that you're both sharing your story. Many parents don't realize the damage this type of behavior can cause. This show gives some insight on both sides of the coin. Jeff...Shame on your parents ! You are an amazing person ..I will never understand how your parents could miss such a milestone in your life. Just know you have SO SO many people supporting both of you along the way...Blair...your Mom is amazing...and exactly what Jeff needs !!! God Bless both of you...
Loved watching Blair work it on the dance floor! Jeff let yourself go! So many people are rooting for your happiness and a lasting love between you and Blair.
Loved all the beautiful scenes of the South..... I love love love Savannah! I'm sorry Jeff for the pain of not having your family with you to celebrate. It's different for everyone, and you are so respectful to understand how your family feels....it may not be right or easy to understand but stay strong and enjoy your life ahead and somehow I will believe with you that your family will come to show you that they truly love you without conditions, just know that they may not ever fully understand or approve of your lifestyle, but they do love you! Congratulations to you and Blair....you have my love!
I love these two! The wedding made me cry. They seem so in love, and I am so happy that Jeff has a new, loving family!
JacInFlag Since the big party I am not seeing them "so in love." i laughed when Jeff called Blair to discuss finances and Blair was like "oh wonderful" like it was anything but. I think Blair was attracted to Jeff more as a Daddy figure, but now that they are grown ups talking about bills and such, tension seems to be developing.
I just love watching how happy these two are and Jeff is so luck to have inherited Blair’s wonderful family. Best wishes to both of you!
I think you two are sweet and Congratulations. I do feel so bad however, for Jeff. How sad is it that a woman carries a child for 9 months, gives birth and raises this child, and on the most important day of his life turns her back on him. If you came out at 35 and are in your middle 40's now, they should have been able to accept this by now , at least show up no matter how they feel inside. You are still their son, their flesh and blood. No one says they have to agree with your lifestyle, but My God, try to accept it...I could never turn my back on my child like that.
I thought the wedding was great, and felt good about those two. Felt bad for Jeff not having his family there. Horrible, and let's hope those people become more humane some day... I can't imagine treating my own flesh and blood in this manner. Blair's Mom was wonderful. He's fortunate.
Regarding Alaska: WTF? He doesn't give his wife the address of where he stays in LA? He marries her, then leaves her alone for extended periods in NYC instead of taking her with him? I don't get it. Is he on the down low? Dude is hiding something. Smells bad.
mhip I agree something isn't right with Alaska. He locks the bathroom door when he showers?? I don't think these two will make it.