Ashlee White

Ashlee explains why she called Joey "a bad person."

on Jul 17, 20130

Hi everyone! Thanks so much for all of the love you’ve been sending to me on Twitter and Facebook. It really means so much to me. I’m glad you tuned in this week and I love hearing all your thoughts! 

I especially love that you guys are getting to see more of my friendship with Casey. Best friends don’t come around every day, so I feel really lucky to have met her and built such a strong and real friendship so quickly. Chanel gets all of the credit for introducing us. Chanel and I are so similar in the way we value friends and family that I knew right off the bat that Casey and I would bond. Chanel comes from an amazing family and has been such a great friend to me. Surrounding myself with people like Chanel and Casey makes it easier to take other drama in stride. How funny were my parents meeting Casey? Of course they adore Casey and it was such a fun dinner. 

As fun as dinner with my parents and Casey was, my meeting with Joey was pretty much the exact opposite. Joey says in this episode, “I’m someone who likes to take the high road always.” Based on this initial statement you might have been thinking that we would have been able to talk things over. Well then she calls me “funny looking.” Clearly that conversation wasn’t going anywhere. It’s also clear that there’s a lot that’s gone on between us. I didn’t call Joey a bad person out of the blue, and I don’t go around picking on people or making snap judgments. Once again Joey sums up our encounter best: “I guess I’ll just dig my grave deeper and live with it.” She admits to giving me “more ammo.” Hmmm guess the “ammo” she gave me is all a part of her “taking the high road”? This ammo she refers to tells the real story of why I called her a bad person in the first place. 

Can’t wait for Sunday’s episode so you can see where it all goes from here! Keep up with me throughout the week with my latest photos and postings on all of my social media! @ashleewhite23 and on Facebook HERE.

 

84 comments
valisa
valisa

Ashlee is most narcissistic and obnoxious person in this show. I don't understand why she hates Joey? Because she does not come from money or because she is a smart and hard working girl who does not have a rich daddy to pay her shoes.Ashlee is just incompetent to live by herself, she is like people with special needs, mentally retarded. She is pitiful and she is using her strokes to induce a sympathy from her friends and the viewers. I honestly like the show but Ashlee is a horrible person, I feel ashamed just watching her. It's not even a problem how she looks like, it's problem with her personality, she is ignorant and there is no amount money in this world that could buy her class.

JohnKeener
JohnKeener

I'm half Jewish and I'm a humble person. But YOU make me feel ashamed of my Jewish heritage!

JohnKeener
JohnKeener

Bravo will keep you Ashlee, because you are the funny looking, delusional, brat that we all laugh at! How does it feel to be a FUNNY LOOKING JOKE!

JohnKeener
JohnKeener

I just don't understand why you are so DRAMATIC! You PURPOSELY ran off and put yourself in a bad situation. You had a cell phone, you could've called someone. Yet you did this whole drama to make the girls feel bad for you. Give me a break! For someone who had a panic attack, you just had a Benadryl at the hospital? I had panic attacks before and was given a Valium. EVERYONE can see through your lies. Good luck finding a husband, you're not blessed with looks, you're a drama queen and you can't even make bagged broccoli. Do you even know how to turn on the stove?

val214
val214

Lol! Is this show a comedy?

maria.i.colondres
maria.i.colondres

I have to agree with hawiley,I cant stand ashley for a second.I know all the girls are a pretty in pink set but they are ok...Ashley on the other hands is a sore to the eye and ears.She doesnt need to be there

JillTJ2010
JillTJ2010

Ashlee, I really hope you are not taking anyone seriously on here. For whatever reason, I cannot understand why everyone is attacking you so much and why they aren't seeing how truly hillarious and entertaining you are!!! I am absolutely REPULSED!  I think they need to remember how this all started.....with Joey initially making fun of you on the sofa & in the car on the way to the camp by saying you were calling you father so much. Really? That seems to be forgotten.  I also remember her being nasty to you at Amandas party b/c you were trying to clear everyone out so Chanel could calm down ~thats forgotten~ and when she insulted you by saying your funny looking ~forgotten.  SOOO because you finally stand up for yourself and say to her she is a "bad person" i am in shock at all the attacks you are getting! (I am sure some genius will comment on my timeline b/c they have all the time in the world to figure out the exact moments of how it happened in perfect order). Apparently, people are lacking a sense of humor and the fact that they are attacking you like this is insane. 

 

You handled the winery fight in such a calm cool manner, you didn't insult Joey (even though once again you were getting insulted during the fight with that whole "don't matter radar") you were well-spoken and I thought it was great! There is no shame in the close relationhsip you have with your parents and if people need to criticize that by coming on here and typing nasty novels to you its sad. AND for all the insults about you being 30 and living at home C'MON!!! Everyone throwing stones at you need to take a good look at themselves........living at home and having a close relationship with parents cannot be the worst! Whatever happened to watching a tv show on a sunday nite and shutting up about it. I can't even believe I'm on here.

 

Cheers to you all! You need a drink to calm down!

sjivey
sjivey

No one is sending you love and support on twitter or FB you are so DELUSIONAL

sheba123
sheba123

Why is everyone so shocked at Ashlee's behaviour?  No one thought it was quite strange she couldn't walk out of the nail salon and had to be carried out to the car and in the meantime Daddy was rolling her around on a chair to the lobby? Ashlee' s REALITY is that the nail salon should supply high heels after a pedicure  or send her a jet to get her home from the vineyard.  I don't know whether to laugh or cry????? OY!

loves2travel
loves2travel

I'm glad to see KNOW ONE on here agree's with you, YOU and YOU alone are the problem.  I'd be so ashamed of my 30 year old daughter acting the way you do ....which is no better then a 2 year old toddler.  Calling Mommy and Daddy every chance you get to always bail you out, please........Daddy call me a JET are you kidding me?  You need to leave the show, move out of your parents house and grown up!

espistar
espistar

You ascribing Joey the label of "bad person" is more reflective of your character then Joey's. All we viewers have seen is you being the "bad" person in your disputes with Joey. It should be clear from the show and the comments on this blog that the person's character you should be most concerned about is your own. Perhaps what Joey meant by "funny looking" was your soul not your outward appearance. I hope that with all of your father's money, you can buy a mirror that allows you to see your reflection to your soul because from what we see it ain't pretty.

hawiley
hawiley

Funny you say you've been getting all this love on facebook and twitter because you sure don't seem to be getting much of it here! 

My advice to you would be to watch yourself a few times. See how pathetic and shallow you really are. Never mind looking for a man, you need a good shrink. Take the advice of the people here. Sorry I cannot say anything positive about you. You're just a mean girl and a snob.

Tjjoanna
Tjjoanna

If there is a second season...PLEASE don't return. I really can't stand you. The way u behave is so embarrassing and uncomfortable to watch. I can't believe that I actually liked u in the beginning.

Kait.Loves.RHW
Kait.Loves.RHW

Too bad you DIDN'T take the high road! Joey is a sweet girl and everything you aren't.  You are constantly putting down poor people and calling your parents to bail you out.  You lie to Casey and Channel about what really happen with Joey and turn them against her.  You are making them look stupid, almost as stupid as your making yourself look. Time to start a business girl because you aren't getting married anytime soon.

Valkyre
Valkyre

Ashlee, even with all the ladders and lifts that your daddy's $$$ could buy you - you still couldn't reach the high road. Grow up, little girl!

Gabby10
Gabby10

Ashlee, I don't even know where to start. I really feel sorry for you. Your parents have raised an over indulged, dependent imp! You have an unhealthy relationship with your parents, especially your dad. It's a parents job to teach thier children to become independent and self reliant. You need to move out of your parents gaudy 80's home and learn to live in the real world. From what I've seen, you don't need a husband, you need a good psychologist!

HudMom
HudMom

Ashlee, the promos state you're in the hospital.  Good for  you, finally getting the psychiatric help you need!

ButtrfliEffectDzines
ButtrfliEffectDzines

OMG, then you run off at 30 going on 2 1/2, forcing Chanel to search for you in a vineyard? Really? Grow up. Is that how you make friends. Damn. Poor Chanel, those girls need to leave you behind, and your parents need to see what you did, right on video, and then make the choice to allow you to grow up. It may take until 65 but girl just do it and quit embarrassing yourself on cable t.v.! And let me guess, you're in the hospital for an anxiety attack! Ha!

ButtrfliEffectDzines
ButtrfliEffectDzines

Joey is the mature one. You are acting like a little girl going through puberty. Your high road is very very low. You are trying to intimidate others into agreeing with you and the fact is, that everyone sees it but you. Grow up girl, quit clinging to your parents and adding drama to everyone's lives. Obviously you're an insecure person if I could call you that. You a t more. Like a monster.

sbarr
sbarr

You're crazy. My mouth drops open every time I hear you say how Joey is persecuting you and then watch as you and Casey are ridiculously mean to her. Regardless of what you thought of her behavior at the speed dating event, to literally turn your back on someone and refuse to even speak to them is the very definition of CLASSLESS. I've never seen anyone outside of high school be so blatantly mean to someone. Women our age just don't act that way. Well, YOU do but the rest of us don't. Grow up.

Austin_gal
Austin_gal

High road? You obviously do not use the same compass as everyone else.

Pault
Pault

You are delusional. Your parents have spoiled you and you have a false sense of entitlement. 30 years old, come on, get real. My 17 year old Granddaughter has a better grip on life than you do.Time to grow up. 

andes@_22
andes@_22

Malicious witch bringing up Joey's mom with that evil smirk you truly are demonic Ashlee!!!!!! You think you're entitled to stabbing people in the heart and when people stab you back in self-defense you scream like a coward!

WTW
WTW

OMG!!! Grow up! YOU ARE BEING THE HORRIBLE PERSON....definitely NOT Joey! She has more class in one finger than you have at all. Stop playing the 'poor little victim' and lie in the bed that you made when you started being so manipulative with everyone while trying to turn them against Joey. I guess the jokes on you...grow up, get a life & stop being so needy. Honestly, Joey is everything you are not...Joey is intelligent, beautiful, smart, independent & has already started making her dream come true of starting her own business. All you do is talk about people & spend daddy's money. You are a poor excuse for a friend...stop trying to convince everyone that you are better than them. Anyone watching the show can see you're a mean person.

SheWrites007
SheWrites007

Ashlee, watching your behavior on tonight's episode was equivalent to watching a case study on delusional behavior. My dear, you're a classist snob (redundant, yes, but necessary when it comes to describing you).

 

You're very condescending, and truly believe that you can manipulate the group's feelings about Joey based on your parents' income (which as you can see only works on social climbers like Chanel and Casey). 

 

You're issue with Joey lies in the fact that she's opinionated and has no qualms about expressing an opinion that differs yours, beliefs, and/or values. What you fail to understand is despite Joey's remarks and comments bothering you, when you were personally faced with this you never addressed it with her. Instead, you allowed it to build up, and launched a public campaign to discredit her (by the way, very mature behavior considering your a 30 year old woman).

 

(Sidenote: I nearly threw up during you and Casey's participatory, passive-aggressive behavior of ignoring Joey while she directly spoke to you. Very classy, Mama Dukes.)  

 

Ultimately, you contributed to dividing the group when you inexplicably told Erica and Amanda lies about Joey, but aggressively tried to reprimand Erica because she revealed your action to Joey.

 

Again, you cannot manipulate people with your socioeconomic status in life, and then turn around and constantly exclaim that you're being victimized.  You my dear victimize people whom you perceive aren't fit to befriend you based on shallow qualities like finances (Joey), looks (Casey), ability to brown nose (Chanel), and ability to control (Erica).

 

Honestly, I hope watching your behavior on this show helps you to realize how insufferable you appear. 

Judybrown
Judybrown

Ashley are you for real or are you playing a character for a show,I find it hard to believe that you are as needy and immature as you portray yourself to be. If this is the real you good luck at ever finding a man, I believe it was Joey that said your sugar daddy isn't supposed to be your own Daddy. Tonight's episode left me speechless, you crying and saying help me, you acted as though someone had died, asking your Mom to get you a jet, sickening Ashley, just sickening

Pikeguy
Pikeguy

Ashled..there is an old expression...you are more to be pietyed  then scorned. You are totally delusional. Stop being so mean and needy. So unattractive and classless. Go Joey...you are great

juju5
juju5

Ashlee after watching tonight's episode at the vineyard. I'm laughing at you calling your parents crying for an airplane to take you home!! How old are you again?? You're crying hysterically as if you were physically attacked. Wow, drama queen!  You are a spoiled rotten bad person! 

numee3
numee3

"Mom Help Me" SERIOUSLY!!! Did this 30 yr old call her mom and dad to help her get home! OOMMGG! Just when I didn't think it could get any more embarrassing, Ashlee says, "Can you send a jet or something to come get me? ARE YOU KIDDING ME! Something my 13 yr would have said at 5. This 30 yr old child is unbelievable! And she's territorial with friends like elementary girls. GROW-UP!

liquidwallpaper
liquidwallpaper

Ashlee, you need a reality check. 30 years old and still living with mommy and daddy? You will never grow up and when you meet men do you really think that they are going to take care of you? Men in this generation respect independent woman that have more going for them than a big shoe collection. Use all your free time and go back to college and get a degree and finally make something worthwhile of yourself. You come off as the most pathetic in the show. Sad really. Your parents have done you more harm than good by not making you get out into the real world.

Lubby
Lubby

I think you're hilarious! A little too entitled but hey it's your life........hope you find that man it's tough out there!!

Areyoukiddingme___
Areyoukiddingme___

P.S..........Joey is adorable....you only WISH you could be like her.....WE ALL LOVE HER!!!!!!!

Babynurse98467
Babynurse98467

there's a reason you are still single. Maybe your daddy can buy you expensive shoes but you'll never be able to but the beauty, class and character Joey has. You are mean and selfish and I hope there's something more to you than shown on this show otherwise you are a complete waste of space.

nikkicomley
nikkicomley

Ashlee-Instead of talking negatively about anyone, why don't you try to encourage people and as you get to know them better, then you can help them with their faults since no one is perfect, including yourself. You try so hard to be of high-class echelon but talking crap about any other human being is classless. You also should allow people to draw their own judgements on others instead of trying to put pre-conceived notions in their heads. You have a lot of growing up to do girl!

pcon327
pcon327

All the hate for Ashlee!  I like both you and Joey, hope you can get along someday.  Life is to short for fighting.  I can understand where Ashlee is coming from.  When Ashlee was hitting on the cute guy in the Hampton's Joey was rude.  When the girls went on the speed dating Joey was extremely immature and really made an A$$ of herself regardless of what she tought of the guys.  Was going to applaud you for meeting and talking it out.  I don't think Joey meant to hurt you with the pretty ugly comment.  I think she was fustrasted with you and why you were mad.  You never really explained at the bar why your were hurt.

wife6301
wife6301

anyone who says 'poor people mix their food is less then a bad person they are just stupid. what hole did you crawl out of?

Addicted2BRAVOTV
Addicted2BRAVOTV

 @JillTJ2010 Casey that was nice of you to write this for Ashlee...I guess you are really after all a good friend to her...Just cut and paste this exact comment a couple dozen times and that should put a couple more in the "like" comments...

Thelyn
Thelyn

 @JillTJ2010

 Jill, are you even watching the same show that the rest of us are??

sjivey
sjivey

 @HudMom she did that to make people feel bad for her. Its fake

Gabby10
Gabby10

@WTW I could not of said it better!!

sjivey
sjivey

 @juju5 she was crying for a JET not a plan. poor people take a plane. I bet she is saying OMG Mom & Dad Because of Joey, everyone thinks I'm the mean girl.

sjivey
sjivey

 @numee3 She didn't just ask mommy for help, She wanted mommy to send her a Jet

zaracki
zaracki

 @numee3 I so totally agree with everything you said!! I would be so ashamed to have a 30 year old woman child for a daughter. This girl is seriously so out of touch with reality, it's pathetic. She's shallow and pretentious. She'll end up an old spinster by the age of 35 living in her parents house for the rest of her life. What man in his right mind would want to have something like that waiting for them at home. Maybe if she turned into a sugahmama she'd do well by getting one, but on the other hand her daddy will probably pay some poor schmuck to marry her. 

 

That said, your parents need to quit filling your head with lies. First, NO ONE in their right mind would be jealous of you! Seriously, what do you have that would make anyone jealous? If you think people are envious of you because YOUR parents have money, honey think again. Class, dignity and humility are assets that you and your parents lack.

 

You really need to take a course in life 101. The world does not revolve around you!!

crisskier
crisskier

 @pcon327  You are right about Joey's behavior: she was not refined at the bar in the Hampton's or during speed dating.  But Ashlee and the other childish girl, who is so insignificant it is hard to remember her name, could have talked to her and tell her it was not the appropriate behavior to have. Instead, they stop talking to her, and Ashlee went on an aggressive campaign to have the other girls reject Joey, asking them to chose sides!!!!  It is so immature, you can hardly believe she's 30.  She acts like an overindulgent child. 

SheWrites007
SheWrites007

 @wife6301 Exactly. She spews a string of classist comments throughout the series which shows how vain she truly is. (lLiterally, it's neck-to-neck with her Christianity references which I'm just going to throw it out there: Mama Dukes really despises Christianity. :)) 

sjivey
sjivey

 @zaracki  @numee3 Splendid just Splendid Zaracki,. Truer words have never been spoken

lol i mean its a great post

KT8711
KT8711

 @zaracki  @numee3 "She'll end up an old spinster by the age of 35 living in her parents house for the rest of her life."Ha, she's almost there!

sjivey
sjivey

 @tcm1990  @Areyoukiddingme___  What planet are you from.. We must be watching a different show because Ashlee's only champion says we are all wrong

Dip me in sh-it and roll me in bread crumbs.

numee3
numee3

@tcm1990 @Areyoukiddingme_ Aaww, you must be friends with Ashlee. REALLY!!! What show are you watching?