Asa Soltan Rahmati

Asa regrets calling MJ a pill-popper, but she does think she needs to change her ways.

on Jan 9, 20130

One of my favorite things to do in the world is to cruise in my car blasting music. And Reza is the perfect person to do this with. So, jamming to an old Andy song with Reza rolllllin' is the best thing ever!!!

Reza has always been supportive about my work and music and has always given me really good feedback. Reza knows me really well, totally understands my vision, and he has a great business mind -- so I know he's going to get my idea of a Persian Music Festival and my world debut live show.

Here's what I have to say about the "apology" lunch: First off four weeks had already passed with not one text, email, or phone call from Golnesa. Nothing. If she wanted to "apologize," why didn't she reach out to me and said so? (Also very convenient that the "apology" was set up for two days before Cabo).

SO, let me get this straight. . .you raise your hand on a friend, don't call/text/email for four weeks, then you decide to sets up an "apology"
lunch two days before a trip, and now I am forced to show up for that?
No thank you. I have moved on. And like I said in my text to MJ explaining why I didn't show up: In my world, you have to give Love and Respect to get Love and Respect. She has given me neither and I am fed up with her spoiled brat behavior (which she's proud) and her sense of entitlement. And for me, this is not a matter of an apology. I have long forgiven Golnesa. I just simply don't want her energy in my life. We've been here before and talk is cheap.

179 comments
ehomer
ehomer

She's a little harsh but I still like Asa.

mps93
mps93

Wats the name of the song u and reza were dancing to in the car when u picked him up

catperry2011
catperry2011

Asa::   There are alot of things to admire about you, - Love your confidence,  genuineness and openess to other cultures, and pride in your Persian culture  If I was on TV being recorded for the whole word to see, I'm sure all my character flaws would be there for all to see. However, I hope you can see that sometimes -- like most artists, you are somewhat self-absorbed and oblivious to how what you say, hurts other people.  I am sure that some folks around you don't make it easy.  I think I might find it impossible to be around Gigi, but I do think, you were probably such in a defensive mode that you didn't realize that she was trying to tell you that her feelings were hurt right before her violent outburst.  You were so ready for a fight that you didn't realize she was actually trying to approach you at first -- leading with her vulnerability -- and you blew her off.  You could have just said you were sorry you hurt her feelings, insteading of judging her feelings as invalid.   Feelings aren't right or wrong really and not everyone is as confident as you are.  You kind of blew her off, and MJ wouldn't have done that to her.  I understand your need to protect yourself from someone you don't understand, but I do think that you would have done better by saying something like, I'm sorry you feel that way, can we talk about it another time?

kat.bostonsteines
kat.bostonsteines

I think you should go back to that episode because she did NOT deny saying it to you. Just because she didnt acknowledge you for it doesnt mean she lied about it. She admitted to saying it to others just not Lily. You are far from blameless in how others are treating you. You, like GiGi, need to be knocked down a peg. And it is sad that while you pass judgement on the other ladies that you turn a blinds eye to what Reza has done to his best friend of 20+ years. Funny how you punish one bad behavior but condone anothers. Thats ok tho cause Karma will come calling.

happybrenda
happybrenda

OMG you talk out of both sides of your mouth. Lily actually started this fight MJ was trying to explain her feelings and it wasnt about Lily or you so I suppose one of you had to make it about you. You are the one who went there with MJ first and called her a pill popper after laughing at MJ. You also egged GG on and love that Reza and Mike are so dumb they cant see you for the maniupitive bi#%^! you are. I really , really dilike you YOU are so fake and judgemental.

sherryberry10
sherryberry10

wow people are really hating u.....and I agree you are a mean mean girl

alamb1790
alamb1790

You are probably one of the fakest people i have watched on tv. You try and protray yourself as a victim but I think you are just a weak person who cant stand without others carrying you. You showed your true colors. GG and MJ deserve better friends than what they have on this show and I think it would be better without you. You need to realize you arent unique you are just weird.

Patty702
Patty702

Asa I think you are  so mean you think that you can say what ever you want and think its ok

as far as Lily she is so fake

Mj and Gigi love them even thoug Gigi ai a litle crazy

Megn2389
Megn2389

Ahhh Asa I'm so disappointed in you this season. Really beginning not to like you. What you did to MJ was cruel. Can you think for yourself or do you want to be a bully like Lily? I guarentee no one will like her by the end of the season. She seems super fake and cold. Very shallow person. MJ isnt jealous of your relationship with Reza, im embarrassed for you that you even said that. Maybe the cameras are getting to you or something. There is a time and place to appraoch a friend with "concern" what you did was mean spirited. If i was MJ i would have decked you not cursed you out. You definitely owed her an apology but your apology seemed half ass to begin with. your lucky she forgave you. A good friend for years and your willing to throw it away for a girl who was OBVIOUSLY saying you need to get your legs tightened!! come on now. are you blind. get your head checked. GG was definitely wrong for that she did to you. I strongly believe that but what makes you any better than her? you put mjs personl life on blast at dinner...for what? to impress a bobble headed punk?

khymele
khymele

I guess your true colors have come out.  Last season I thought you were full of it and this season you have confirmed it. You definitely need a big piece of humble pie.  Get over yourself and stop being so judgmental.  I think GG is better than you and she's an alcohol loving psycho, so what does that say about you?

 

Beckymgrey
Beckymgrey

I don't like what I see of you. I was glad that you apologized to MJ, but the show isn't over yet.

yanique.scott.1
yanique.scott.1

I don't know what has gotten into you why you feel that you have the right to judge everyone.

elicat
elicat

Asa, STOP IT!!! Just please stop! GO TO WORK!! You are making yourself look pathetic. What happened to you? You appear to be waiting for someone to just hand you the money. In some scenes you actually come across as begging for money. And your whole attitude just sucks this season! Wow, what a mean girl you have become. I hope you read these comments and realize you have lost alot of fans due to your disgusting behavior. SMH!!! 

Wyogirl
Wyogirl

Asa

 

As I was trying to read your post, my brain kept saying, "blablabla".. whatever.

 

You suck at being a true friend. I have not seen your "talent" so I'm throwing out a ???. And I am so SICK AND TIRED of hearing you say, " I don't know how I'm going to pay my bills this month".. UGH...

 

HELLO, get a real job!!! That's called being a grown up.. I guess that's knew news for you.

 

Also, watching about your Mom and how much and how hard she works. I'm have to question how much she picks up your tabs?? Shame shame on YOU.  I have not had a good gut feeling since this aired. To me, you seem to be a user and abuser and how you have acted these last three shows, it's proving to be a Fact.

 

You were very Rude at your so called " I got a big job" dinner. Which now we all know was a huge FLOP.. You were rude. If MJ was as ugly as you think,  she would shoved this fact down your throat at last weeks dinner. And the fact, we have not seen ANY job on your end. But, the class act she is, she did not throw this in your face. i would have..

 

And all this pointing fingers at GG and MJ, hello, look in a mirror  first!!

 

Along with teaching you in the real world, we have to WORK, you also missed out on, "if you can't say anything nice, shut up"....

 

 

 

promulgates
promulgates

"Fame" has gone to your head, man. You need to humble yourself because you're becoming quite the unlikeable female right up there with GG the lush.

Purple86
Purple86

Asa for some reason you think you can say anything you want to anyone and they are suppose to accept it and not react to it.  Why would you call MJ a pill popper in such a public way?  If she is your friend, why wouldn't you talk to her off camera or one-on-one about that?

 

As for Lilly, why was she insulted when MJ called her an associate instead of a friend?  From MJ's perspective, she hasn't earned that title yet. 

 

I've been trying to figure out why you and Lilly would be friends because you seem so different on the surface. But I now see you two have common traits - you're both fake and pretentious.  The persian barbie and the persian pop priestess - what a pair?!

michelle.lucas.3150
michelle.lucas.3150

Ok, what happened to last season's Asa, what did you do with her, because this season Asa is acting like a real Asa-Ho--. I was routing for you until you became all high and mighty. Guess that Diamond Water has gone to your head.

Pasadena47
Pasadena47

I guess the episode with the little green pill bottle will be on tonight.  I just want to say, before they hang MJ by her heel's and sentence her in their own personal court of justice, they had all better check themselves on their habits.  This ought to be an interesting show, especially the big "Told you so's" coming out of Asa and Lily's mouths.

RealAndFabinNJ
RealAndFabinNJ

I totally get why you don't want anything to do with GG - she is toxic and immature.  HOWEVER, why are you all about creating division this season?  You can't talk about forgiveness and then create teams.  The way you have treated MJ is disgusting. Your passive aggressiveness is getting old and ugly.  What happened to that refreshing and original person we saw last season?  It's like you're a totally different person and now we're left questioning your character and authenticity.  WHO ARE YOU?!?!? 

Pasadena47
Pasadena47

The fact that you did not show for the meeting between GG and MJ, speaks volumes about who you are.  Selfish and unforgiving comes to mind.

 

Ali-oops
Ali-oops

You certainly are a score keeper Ms. Asa - there is no growth in simply walking away and not dealing at all, for both of you!

Slamum03@yahoo.com
Slamum03@yahoo.com

Just saw show for first time today, was a little taken back that gg was uninvited from trip, she had a problem with Asa everyone else should stay out of it. Everyone should have been invited whoever chose not to go that's is a personal choice. Stop taking sides and let these girls fight their own battles.

Diane69802
Diane69802

Asa, Grow Up!  You are thinking you are all that and ....sorry....not!  You judge, G G, and  M J like you think everyone needs to abide by your sense of behavior.  Not saying they are right but you certainly are not either.  Stop being the "holier than thou" and stop dragging Reza into your battles.....

Metromomma
Metromomma

Not liking you so much this season. You tell the truth, but you have no filter. You are reckless with your comments. You will learn as you mature. I agree with another who said that you cannot be zen and full of light and yet be unwilling to forgive people. That being said, I agree that GG and MJ did bad things to you and are not respectful to you. Your comment about Omids nose was completely rude. I heard your explanation but it was not a compliment at all.

Mommyjam
Mommyjam

I know your parents had high government positions when the Shah was still in power.  That is probably what gives you this entitlement attitude.  When you and Reza threatened to boycott Cabo if GG came, it reminded me of the Shah.  Bully like no other.

Zoey_10
Zoey_10

Asa I like you but the accusation you made was bellow the belt, at least you see it for what it was. Hopefully learn from it. It only made you look immature and insecure

kcat
kcat

You ARE a bitch -- I recognize your type.  I know exactly what you are about.  On the other hand, MJ is too slow and apparantly drugged out, Reza too bossy and thinks he's very cool and GG is a stupid little young diva that cant control herself and thinks daddy will protect her.  Blah!  I think you ALL have major problems!!!!

chelita1958
chelita1958

asa i love your music and i love your house cannot wait for your concert i will be there good luck take .

Loangirl
Loangirl

I agree! MJ was speaking from the heart and sharing an emotional moment. You interrupted and LAUGHED at her. I think that is terrible. Between you all laughing at her and the horrible accusations, I feel very badly for MJ. You are all wrong.

sassyrosstx24
sassyrosstx24

You claim to be so Zen but you really have a heart of unforgiveness and judgement? So different from last season when you were coined the "peacemaker"...

FlyAwayFinchy
FlyAwayFinchy

Love you Asa you are da bomb! Love the way you express yourself, conduct yourself and hold yourself. Your a beautiful girl inside and out.

rnkat
rnkat

You are kind of behaving like a self-importan Asa-hole.

Pnapple05
Pnapple05

Watching Shah's this season is my first, and I have to say: I am hooked & love it!

 

That said, I believe MJ is jealous of Asa and Lilly. She is afraid that she will lose Reza's friendship to them. MJ's actions are that of an elementary school kid. MJ should understand that she cannot be petty like that. She is making herself look like a "hater". She is jealous that Reza spends time w/ Asa and Lilly is skinny and pretty.

piperbeau
piperbeau

Do you get that when you accuse someone of being a pill popper, that you could potentially ruin their livelihood?? Your mouth is reckless!! You also would love it if they dropped GG from the show, which potentially could affect her livelihood!! Shame on you!! 

Luv2Laugh
Luv2Laugh

It is really sad how fame has gotten to you. Or did you fool us all. Seems to me that you are no longer a favorite. We liked you when you were humble, but apparently you think you are above it all? Good luck, you will need it.

MoMof2EgyGiRLs
MoMof2EgyGiRLs

Asa, you are my fav. person on Shahs, you and Reza should be my BFF's for real LOL haha. except im broke, and im married with 3 kids LOL... but I totally get your middle eastern life, as im married to an egyptian guy and have been to the middle east a few times :) anyway dont listen to these haters, i think you and rez and mike are the most real out of everyone. i like Lilly too, MJ is just jealous of her hotness LOL stay real. i love your clothes and your aura.. just awesome dont change for ANYONE!

joanna38
joanna38

 @catperry2011I do not think she was too harsh. As she herself says...enough is enough. We have seen GG come off as this sweet, coy person, and the next miute she is a shedevil to the same person, for no reason at all. GG overstepped her boundaries when shhe wanted to fight Asa. Me? I would not forget that. This at someone else,s home? Screaming like a banshee, kicking and cussing?

I wonder if these strangers to our shores realize how common it sounds, without education (regardless of Asa's 2 degrees) when they start with their STFU and FU? That is not how people speak...and if they see and hear that on other Reality shows...well, what can one say? Most of the women on those shows are trash too.

 

kat.bostonsteines
kat.bostonsteines

 @Patty702 Amen to that. She is crazy but she is real! MJ's only fault is she tries to be on everyone's side and be friends to the real people. Even I can see an issue with Lily! If she was such a real person then why all the plastic? Why not be REAL and stay untouched by surgery! At least everything on MJ is real!!

chapis2201
chapis2201

 @FlyAwayFinchy you might delusional just like her !!!!!!!!! I mean any bronze water ????????? get a job

mustbeapillhead
mustbeapillhead

Nope. assa is trying to ingratiate herself with lilly and reza so she kissed lily's freshly lipo'ed ass by laughing at MJ (her long time friend to whom she has no loyalty evidently), so she could get in good with them. MJ and the cast already planned for her to create drama with the new girl, that's an act between them.

promulgates
promulgates

@piperbeau her livelihood? Oh yeah, that's right- GG, the oldest Persian to never hold down a job.

bpster
bpster

 @MoMof2EgyGiRLs I think she needs to listen to her haters.....they are the majority on her blog. Self awareness is a very good trait to have, even better if you can change........

chapis2201
chapis2201

@FlyAwayFinchy I doubt sweetheart because I'm besides I'm very very cool I keep real, real job real lhouse and most important real real water ! Sorry not gonna happen for you this time. But keep trying !

chapis2201
chapis2201

It does honey make you little smarter but just a little Asa's cousin