Golnesa "GG" Gharachedaghi

GG wishes Asa would get a real job, Reza would stop picking targets, and Lilly would fess up.

on Feb 17, 20130

WOW!!! Wow is all I have to say about this past season. It was a rough one, right??? Well it was nothing compared to this reunion show! I must say I'm glad that (for once) everyone is not attacking me, but why do these people pick one target and gang up on that person? So now everybody is against my girl MJ. It seems like anytime Reza is mad at someone, the rest just follow him like his little bitches!

I am not here to say if MJ has a problem with alcohol or pills. I am only here to be supportive of her when she needs me. What Lilly said is correct. . .if MJ doesn't admit to having a problem then the problem DOES NOT exist!! So leave MJ alone. If Reza and his sidekicks truly love MJ and believe she has a substance abuse issue, then we should have had a meeting and set up an intervention. But trying to bust someone out on TV is not nice!!! The worst part is that I had to sit through the whole reunion so belive me when I say -- y'all ain't seen nothin' yet! They still have much more to attack MJ with.. sadddddd!

209 comments
housewifefan2012
housewifefan2012

GG I would really like to see what you are going to do with your wig business. I think that would be exciting and since your sister is getting divorced you two could use your time bonding. Don't let these arguments with MJ cloud your goals. Move on and get your business up and running and make more money. You can do this!

 

kimscotchie
kimscotchie

GG I think you are an amazing friend. You remind me of me except I'm much older. I have a vile temper when someone hurts someone I care about. A person can say anything to me or about me and it can't hurt me. But never trash my family or friends. You are loyal GG and that is a rare quality today. Lily has a huge arrogant bug up her ass and Asa wouldn't be there to defend a woman friend if her life depended on it. They are both too self centered. You are real GG. You put yourself right out there for the whole world to see. Such a magnificent sight. What a beautiful young woman you are. You just need to learn to put a lid on that gunpowder temper like I did, although I admit, it can be useful at times. I wish you and MJ the best.

celchoy
celchoy

Reza, Lilly and Asa also need to watch their tempers.  Why is it that only SOME people should get therapy but other people, who are equally if not more abusive (whether it is physically, emotionally or verbally), don't need therapy.  Lilly is fake and that is the ultimate cry for therapy: since when was being FAKE "normal".  We have a DOUBLE STANDARD IN OUR SOCIETY.  People who actually let their tempers flare are considered "insane" and people who are backstabbing, fake and manipulative are "normal".  In reality, you REACT while the manipulative people - considered "normal" by society - don't require therapy.  They are MORE dangerous to society, because they cause GOOD people like you to become BAD.  But society doesn't see it this way.  Asa needs to watch what she says too because she can be insensitive.  You merely respond to the negative energy thrown at you.  It is clear to me, you are a GREAT friend and everyone turned their back on you!

 

Many people (not all) give advice primarily to serve their own egos. It puts them in a one-up position, makes them feel important. It was never about sharing wisdom, because people with wisdom don't need to give advice. People who are actually concerned about living out their advice spend more time making sure they live it than preaching it. This keeps them too busy to meddle in other people's lives and too humble, observing their own shortcomings, to tell others what to do. They only offer direct advice when asked.  So, don't listen to others!  Just practice "fighting back" in a more witty way!

celchoy
celchoy

GG, there is NOTHING wrong with you.  Deep down inside, MOST OF US want to lash out in anger at others that frustrate, hurt and annoy us.  It is SOCIETY'S expectation that we do not lash out but "handle things in an adult way".  I have learned that when you say and do nothing, people continue to bully you.  When you suddenly speak up or take action, people generally back down and although you get respect (albeit through fear), I have seen people quickly respect me.  Yes, walking away from people that annoy us is society's "way" of handling this but people generally won't stop doing whatever it is that annoys you.  I have actually tried ignoring family members and friends when they've said things that hurt me and they actually CONTINUED to harass me.  They don't stop!  You never lied about your father bankrolling you, you never pretended to be something you are not and you admitted to plastic surgery.  It's the fact that you are so humble as to admit these things that I really can't hate you - I love you!  I say keep your temper, just use it for business projects.  Just don't use your past childhood experiences to justify any type of behavior you display.  Although I do know where you are coming from. It sounds to me like you were most likely SEVERELY bullied; more so than most (and I disagree with anyone who says, ALL people were EQUALLY bullied - some people go through life never having been bullied. It's a fallacy that we all suffer equally).  But it seems you were raised in a household that never really gave you the time of day. Make the most of a bad hand of cards to play with and sift out people that ruin your life!  I love you GG and I hope to meet you someday.

lou.isa.77736
lou.isa.77736

GG my girl all they way from Australia we love you!!! Your a sick bitch (that's a good thing lol) we all tune in to watch you and that funny bitch MJ hahaha Who cares if you got an anger problem we all do down under hahaha u just keep it real. As for Lilly OMG she is a pain to watch she thinks she's so beautiful but I don't understand how?? She's far from I mean she ain't ugly she's just not as beautiful as you !!! Don't Change for no one even if it means losing your "friends" all u need is family!!

DL7
DL7

GG~ get your temper under control and hold your toungue!!! Girlfriend, those that aggravate you, walk away from. They are not worth your time or your energy !!! Time to grow up. Love you, your mom & dad however your sister cld take some nice lessons lol. 

LadyK2507
LadyK2507

GG I like you but please continue to work on your attitude and anger issues.  I think once you have gotten them in control you will go a long way in your business.  Put that energy towards being a success and showing yourself and your family that you can pay your own way.  And please don't worry about being friends with Reza, Asa, or Lilly they are toxic people who don't deserve your time and energy.  Continue to work on yourself and your friendship with MJ and Mike.  Stay positive and mentally healthy!

texastea
texastea

Love you GG. You are a good friend. They turned on you then turned on MJ. You need to get that temper under control but so does Reza and Asa. They are verbally abusive.

susan.baenziger
susan.baenziger

All I can say is that you need help.  Your anger is WAY out of control.  You are a beautiful woman and have a lot to offer the world, but your anger stands in the way of your success.  Please GG, please take care of you FIRST.  Life is too short to be so angry.  Let your beauty lead you.

louisethenewmehasbegun
louisethenewmehasbegun

I find it hilarious Asa talks about your hair etc being fake when Lily has the fakest body and face. Asa is nasty rude and full of herself. Yes, to be fair you have anger issues but at least your getting help for it and admitting it. Only u and MJ are real on the show the rest are useless

prophetb
prophetb

GG. You have no room to say anything about anyone. You insult people, then find a way to convince yourself that you were right....Maybe you need to have a big slice of humble pie!!

Lesg9
Lesg9

GG, I am happy that you are working on your issues. Don't let those bullies hurt you, and work on getting better, and becoming a better person.

 

I truly wish you were my friend or relative, you obviously need love and comprehension. You are brave, continue to work on your anger issues, and I wish you nothing but success in your business ventures.

blondie0623
blondie0623

TEAM GG!!

 

GREETINGS FROM NYC:)....IM so sick of everyone bashing GG!!! She is the only one that fuckin keeps it real and says what everyone in america is thinking!!

 

And I also think its HILARIOUS how ppl really have the balls to say that if their dad offered to pay for everything for them they would honestly say no?!!! I WISH MY DAD PAYED FOR ME!!! GG you need to own that bc guess what...anyone that says that they wouldnt let their parents pay for them is full of fuckin shit and just jealous of you!!

Abgb
Abgb

Golnesa...I want to say to anyone that judges you. Unless you've walked a mile don't judge someone. I wanted to say that I completely understand how you feel. I myself have anger issues. It's a battle daily to keep it in check and when you have people around you that can just press those buttons faster than you'd like you end up going to a place that you'd rather not go to....as long as you know you have a problem and are trying to work through it no one can ask anymore from you.

sylvia375
sylvia375

Wow all i can say GG!!  Is your your such an ugly human being,NO CLASS!,NO MORALS,you are are seriously a sick person, saying that you have anger issues because your sister beat you up as a CHILD? ok,and you think that an excuse to your behavior? please girl grow up! other people have been put through so much in life and you dont see them doing stupid things like you.I ve i was persian,i been sad to call you one of my own,your a disgrace! Please dont be on another season,all i do when your on is forward your ass on my TIVO... all because i hate even hearing you speak,your a drunk,ugly,ugly,person under all that makeup, extensions,fake nose,fake boobs,fake all,your nothing but an ugly women and for you to call Asa ugly girl you need to have eye surgery,yes, you do, she is a very natural beauty,with curves,you have nothing,no ass,not  pretty,because your ugly in and out ,and evertyhing on the outside is fake.i feel sorry for your sister,please do all us a favor and dont come back to the show....UGLY SCANLESS BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!

steve.snedlecker
steve.snedlecker

i like you and MJ and i also like Lilly so much more then Resa, and mike (who i think is very two faced he is not a man at all he is a child) i can not stand for a second ASA she is a shemale.. i think the reason why her and Resa gang up on you and MJ is because you both are women and you do not have to shove it in anyone faces either. ASA walks around with her African head wraps and that is not iranen at all. its African .. and has to tell people who and what she is.. who does that. really if you are a women then act like one is what i say.. i dont see anyone else doing that.. and ASA is a bully straight up .. and she gets Resa to do her dirty work.. and the two of them are nasty.. you need to learn to like Lilly she is smarter then you think and i bet you can turn her over to your side that is the girl side easily ... i really hope that next season you and Mj and lilly become friends.. and i hope to never see that shemale ever again.. she needs to take her broke boyfriend (who by the ways does not show her off at all but instead hides her ...hope you get my meaning ) and leaves for the gutter that she came from.. wont miss her.. and i really hope Resa changes and becomes a better man then he is today cause he is not.. a good man.. at all. he comes across as a bully and not a good person.. perhaps he might want to  try getting some help for that.. 

bwe51
bwe51

You just dont know how to react to anything negative without anger.    When Asa said that to you I felt so sad for you because I know you dont want to be that person.  No one feels good carrying hate around. My message has changed from bashing you to really wanting to just give you a gentle place.  You need to feel like people will be in your corner when you are open to yourself and the people who love you.  You are fighting a voice in you that feels entitled and justified for the ugliness you think you receive and then therefore throw out to protect yourself.  Get it together. 

rojones73
rojones73

Not that I agree with your behavior at the dinner held at Sammi's home..but I can hands down say the ALL TIME BEST thing you did that night was your gangland "W" hand signs and saying "WHACK! WHACK! WHACK!"...that was so awesome..it gave me goose bumps!!  Pure magic!!

birdsongske
birdsongske

GG, I applaud you for being up front with your personal issues. It takes tremendous strength to go on national TV and admit to anger issues.It is also great that you are seeking help to deal with those issues. You are not only helping yourself but you are helping others by bringing awareness. As far as your comments concerning Asa, I have to say after watching the show she seems to be a trouble maker. She makes ugly comments about others and then refuses to own up to any hurtful words or actions she herself has said or done. It also seems to me that both Reza and Asa feed off of each others negativity. It is borderline evil and scary.

 

Congrats on your hair extension business. For someone who has not held a job until now your doing great!

vetalana
vetalana

My daughter in law is educated and has no issues with temper. she choose not to work and be at-home mom. Not every woman is destined to be self-supporting. But being productive is some way is needed to feel good about your life. Being a wife and a mom is just as challenging as making a buck. Your sister is not a model to follow...you can be your own model. Just work hard to build either a family or a job that pays your bills...or both. Do it for your own life... tHE BEST ANGER-TREATMENT you will find.

vetalana
vetalana

GG...listen...some people puts comments as if you live in a frozen state and has no place to grow. Thye are wrong. You will grow, you will be fine and you do nned the support. Motivations is all that it takes. You will become disconent enough with your life, that it will burtst into growth. Channel you anger toward your own need to succeed to prove everyone to be wrong. Drinking is a problem. It will stop you from being motivated. Dont drink. You loose control if you do and than anger bursts too easily and you get in trouble. You only have one life to live. Use your anger to promote your own need to be self saficient. And you will find a match. Nobody is perfect. You will find a man to blend with and grow together and build a team of complimentign each other lifes

Praz2-VA
Praz2-VA

You are a grown woman, and please act like one. Your actions turn people off on how you behave. Stop bringing up what happen to you as a child of being picked on and called names. They are your excuses everytime something sets you off. People don't want to be around that in public or other wise in the home. You make threats what you are going to do. Plus that was really ugly of you to speak of harming your pregnant sister of cutting her face. Who does that?! I would not want you around my children when you threaten to hurt the mother in that fashion. Your father should have intervene when you spoke of such attack. on your sister. You need to continue YOUR intervention with anger management. Get control of yourself for such a pretty girl (woman) to be so ugly in action and verbally. Do you treat your staff like that? If not, then cool it. You did well at promoting your hair line and act so gracefully......continue to do that (act). Keep control....like Mike stated, "NFL, no friends left." Be cool and stop talking about how others look and name calling....NOT NICE.

sanjosejazzguy
sanjosejazzguy

I understand that Arabs/Iranians love to fight, but that does not excuse your dark and mean ways....get a job at Taco Bell!

swissalbert
swissalbert

You say you are getting therapy. I don't think so. Because anyone that tells you someting you don't like, you totally flipppppp out. Go someone that really will help you with Psychotic,dangerous behavior.

sakioto
sakioto

GG, you say you are in therapy to better yourself but even on the Reunion show you proved that you are not open to growing as a person and as an adult. I feel bad for you. Clearly you have been so sheltered and doted on your whole life that you have no sense of responsibility or accountability (just like your own sister said). Your attacks on Asa are unwarranted and nonsensical, really. If you had a problem with something she said, you should've talked to her about it rather than create a massive problem that does not actually exist, simply so you can show the world how "tough" you are. Really, I think you're an incredibly sad, insecure person and I hope you will learn this soon enough. No one deserves to be hurt, even you, so let's try to get it together like an adult and treat others as you would like to be treated. Period.

sassol
sassol

GG I am amazed at the progress you have made via therapy.  I'm so happy that you are working on your issues an that your business has taken off so well.  I can see you are a beutifull, loving person.  The conflicts you developed as a result of childhood trauma will subside and I know you are on your way To Entering into your own POWER.  

jdollcuba
jdollcuba

Who cares about blood diamonds.  Any diamonds are morally wrong.  We all know diamonds are held and the value kept high.  You are right. If one is for positive energy, diamonds are not conducive to positive energy.  Obsessing about diamonds reveals an obsession with growing up "poor".

jdollcuba
jdollcuba

Hey lady!  People who judge and make accusations feel that way on the inside about their own self.  It makes people feel better to point out things in others so "they" don't have to face their own demons.  It's actually hilarious.  Just sit back and laugh silently.  Mami!, keep making show interesting,  muah! You being honest about you.    

lizw3boys
lizw3boys

GG, you are fine, Asa is strange and who makes comments, good or bad about peoples noses at dinner.  I agree with you, Asa had no right to do that.  I totally understand what you are trying to say.  Asa, Lilly, and Reza, are all nuts.  They think they are the best and do no wrong.  Stick with MJ.  She tried to stick up for you. 

marlenaed
marlenaed

There is no EDIT button.........Please DO NOT BE HATEFUL........sorry for YELLING! But I had to make sure that was Right.

marlenaed
marlenaed

GG, I am really upset with YOU! You said that ASA had cottage cheese and cellulite  that was very hateful of you, I can't sleep because of this comment. Do you want children? I sure hope so because then you will also have cottage cheese and cellulite. You have a very poor attitude for someone of your status. You have life good. Why are you acting like those girls you hate so much??? You treat people horribly with no reason. God didn't make you QUEEN of anything. You need therapy badly....I'd love to see you apologize to ASA......She didn't deserve your nasty remarks at all. Please do be hateful....

LolaS1
LolaS1

GG, you are now a grown woman, and a business owner-stop acting like the tough roughneck you think you were back in da day. You were so beautiful in Season 1, almost looked like a baby Salma Hayek but this year, you look rough, tired, drained, and angry. Let it go and be the beautiful GG you truly are. BTW I would totally buy your hair pieces-they look so real!!!!

Eminence1
Eminence1

Rez, keep your love close to home! Keep it tight keep it real and small! Eminence Queen!

Eminence1
Eminence1

Eminence says... Yes! Blessed! No Asa!

chewhat
chewhat

I used to like GG and felt sorry for MJ.  Now, I have no patience for GG.  I stopped watching after awhile b/c of her serious anger management issues.  I think GG needs professional help AND medication...or should up the dosage.  As for MJ, I no longer feel sorry for her.  When they were in Mexico, she was an embarrassment.  Now, I think they're both pathetic.  The show could go on without them.

southernspacity
southernspacity

i know i will watch, only to be able to affirm that i have  grown so tired of this show.  i really think you try to be true, but everyone of you seem to have such bad karma.  if andy lets Mj get destroyed i will also stop watch his talk show.  these attacks on one human being is so sicking. right or wrong- Mj deserves respect.

MizzouTraveler
MizzouTraveler

 @Abgb hmmm......I wonder how her children will weather her anger issues.  Will they inherit them or have to survive them.  Just saying....

Heatherbell
Heatherbell

 @sylvia375 Wow! You sound like a HORRIBLE  mean spirited human being....How does one cast such hate for anyone...We all should pray for you!! 

Heatherbell
Heatherbell

 @sylvia375 Wow is right, you sylvia375 are a hater...........Your message is completely useless because it's all about hate. You need anger managment sylvia, take a look in the mirror, do you like what you see? Are you proud of what you just posted? If you answer yes, get help. 

Ilovebravo72
Ilovebravo72

 @sylvia375  Hate much?  Take a deep breath!  Geez!  Yes, GG has some issues, which she acknowledges and is trying to work on them.  GG, I completely agree with your post.  I am glad you are standing up for MJ and I wish you both all the best.

moroccanbabe35
moroccanbabe35

 @steve.snedlecker

How does Jermaine Jackson Jr. "hide" Asa?  I do notice that whenever Asa has a HUGE event, he never shows up!  How strange.  For a boyfriend, shouldn't he be more supportive?  I remember when I performed my first real live show, in front of a huge crowd, my boyfriend at the time, was soooooooooooooo pissed I never told him about it and I did REALLY well.  He was mortified in fact - so where's Asa's boyfriend - is he ashamed of her?  Or is it the other way around? 

Praz2-VA
Praz2-VA

@sakioto Totally agree. Keep the therapy if she is continuing to do so. However, the reunion showed how disrespectful it got with the yelling and name calling about someones physical look. It was unwarranted and senseless to attack Asa like that. GG is not as tough as she portrays to be....she hasn't met her match yet in the world. Everyone hurts when not treated right.

MizzouTraveler
MizzouTraveler

 @sakioto The reason why your suggestions to GG will never materialize is because her delusions of grandeur and childish tantrums are clearly overlooked her father and by financing her lifestyle, he simply encourages such  behavior.  And from the looks of it, this has been going on since the beginning of her existence.  Period.  I no longer think she is psychotic but think she is just a poorly reared child that never matured into a productive member of society because all of her tantrums were given into and catered to by her father.  Regardless of how she was raised, she needs to take responsibility for her behavior.  Her family might not turn their backs on her but I guarantee you, the rest of the world will eventually.  NO  future family 'in-laws"  would accept her as their son's new wife with behavior like that and no one in their right mind would do business with such a lazy and to say the least, loose cannon.  She gives Persian Americans a disgustingly false image.  

The psychiatrist that met her for dinner was so justified in FLEEING the dinner date as soon as it was over.lol

j.p.94801116
j.p.94801116

It was a response to Asa saying that GG was jealous of her....Don't take it personally GG only said to Asa b/c Asa is always saying negative thing about her

Heatherbell
Heatherbell

 @MizzouTraveler  @Abgb  That was a pretty low blow!! I have a feeling that GG was treated very poorly by her sister and or other family members..She talked about it and how she was picked on because she had a large nose etc..I personally think that GG is going to be a better person then any of them particularly after she completes her therapy.  At lease GG has it in her to try to be a better person, she is learning how to deal with situations...And you are right Abgb, who cares if her parents support her? I would love it if my folks could.  GG is going to be ok! I like GG and MJ..........

moonwolf23
moonwolf23

 @MizzouTraveler  @Abgb That's pretty fucking low thing to say.  Has MJ weathered the anger issues?  How about any of her other long term friends? 

 

Clearly she's working on them and being very out there about it. 

MizzouTraveler
MizzouTraveler

 @Heatherbell  @MizzouTraveler  @Abgb It's a fair question / observation.  She's 30 years old.  The blame game is old, debilitating and boring.  It's not a low blow to ask how her future children would weather her anger issues.  Or how they might inherit the most insane rage fueled ways to handle every day issues as GG is clearly not able to.  Would you let her care for your child if you had one or let her teach them the healthy way to handle issues.  Yes, she alleges she's working on her little issues etc.  Until then, she's simply not fit to preach to others or rear children. Or perhaps you'd like to help her along the way and put your innocent children in her hands.