Golnesa "GG" Gharachedaghi

GG wishes Mike would have cut her off. Also, some choice words for Asa.

on Dec 21, 20120

First of all, let me apologize to all of you for being MIA. (missing in action) for the first few weeks of blogging. I have had some serious things going on in my personal life and needed to get a grip on things. But I'm ready to dish it out with all of y'all. 

So it's about three days or so after the pool party where I had my fight with The Beast (Asa), so naturally I'm still going through the emotions of the incident. Mike decides to come over so we can talk about it and unfortunately at this point there's alcohol involved... again. Everybody knows that we get forgetful and start saying nonsense when we drink, but I must say that I was truly on another planet. I was talking in circles and nothing made sense. Mike is someone that I've known since I was 13 years old and he claims to truly care about me, but if he cares about me, don't you think he could tell me to stop drinking the wine because I'm not making any sense? A true friend should always be there to look out for you... especially when they see you're drunk, emotional, and unable to stop! Thanks, Mike.

Yes, I think I told 20 different stories about what happened at that pool party, mostly because I drank a bottle of whisky before that fight went down. But, I think the main issue for me was trying to express to Mike that I hated the person I became when I got upset. I hated becoming violent and unable to be controlled. He wasn't listening or caring about the pain I was feeling, so I immediately removed myself and ran to the bathroom. Again, thanks Mike!!!

I have to be honest, the last two episodes all I can think about is my girl MJ and how horribly she's being treated by her bff Reza. I'm not sure why Reza and Lilly decide to talk shit about MJ behind her back. I clearly remember when Lilly told me it wasn't nice that I called The Beast (Asa) a "transvestite" look-a-like. So if it wasn't nice for me to say that, then why are you saying she needs all sorts of help and diet pills? Majority of America suffers from weight issues and suggesting that diet pills will help is not nice.

271 comments
naenae65
naenae65

I love u GG you are raw and uncut, keep keeping it real girl. you are the best on the show....

lizze
lizze

GG  You are the only true person the others are liars phonies and want to bes  YOUR A TRUE FRIEND AND PERSON... YOU GO GIRL

SusieQSoonL2012
SusieQSoonL2012

GG, wondering where you got the skirt you wore to the infamous pool party. You looked good girl, but go easy on the drinking, we all have our vices.. -S

JustMe35
JustMe35

GG I posted this on MJ's page I just wanted to share:

 

Asa is the root of GG's and your friendship with Reza. If Reza just cut communication with Asa for about a month and allow you all to mend your 20 year friendship I am sure it will all work out. Asa is very dominate and controlling and Reza doesn't see her for the wicked and evil person she honestly is.

I admire the love that you continue to show for your true friendship with Mike & Reza. I admire you for sincerely apologizing to Lilly and her accepting your apology.

We all have some issues ...... Asa is rotten and evil to the core!!!!!!  Asa has been jealous of GG's  your relationship with Reza and it is so easy for her to harp on your flaws and pounce, yes I said pounce on the negativity of your problems/past prolems.  I admire you and respect you as a real woman because you acknowledged on national TV your mistakes and announced to the world your mistakes.  I cried with you!!!  While you were apologizing and acknowledging your mistakes, Asa was lurking on the sideline smirking and gloating;  smug or malicious, satisfaction; as the evil person she is.  If Reza and Mike just sit back and watch the tapes/shows without Asa, they will see her for the wicked and evil person she really is.  Continue to be the true friend you are and continue to be 35 or whatever age you want to.  I am 35 and will be 35 until the day I die.

God bless my father and may he rest in peace....my father proclaimed to be 16 until the day he passed.  I am my fathers daughter.  Continue To Be You!!!!  I noticed when Reza spoke of his father you sincerely cried, but Asa never teared up.


josette10
josette10

hI...DON'T WORRY,,,we all watch the show and can see all of this....CONGRATS TO YOU on engagement! (he's so nice)....PLEASE ALWAYS KEEP MJ AND SAMMY AS FRIENDS, DON'T WORRY ABOUT YOUR SISTER (I'm sure she wishes you the best but she seems so unhappy herself,,,it's def not you...) AND YOU'LL BE HAPPY....GOOD LUCK! btw: pls do not listen to Mike's ridiculous jugement: he has the worse temper and Asa's ridicuous judgement....You and MJ are the friends we would all want!!!!!!!

nita89
nita89

Everyone is manipulated by ASA you are not the devil. Your friends are just morons who are to blind to see what's really going on. ASA has fought with you, MJ and Obid, they are to dumb to see it. Got your back GG  

Dodo55
Dodo55

GG.. I love you! You say it as it is. I have been so angry at how Reza and Asa have been demanding that other leave you out of everything. I can relate with you GG. I think you are a beautiful woman, smart, ambitious and wonderful!!! I truly hope that things get better for you, and that your "friends", start acting like REAL friends!!!!! 

terry.klemmmatthews
terry.klemmmatthews

Asa snatched you up like a rag doll you better watch yourself your going to get hurt!

FlutterBy
FlutterBy

GG congrats....just goes to show that Assa is a wanna be...she has been struggling with 100's of ventures, or so it seems, none successful...you do one, and I can tell it will be successful...I would buy them...they looked very natural onyou, and I assume you had them on.....the other thing I want to mention is Omid...without a doubt, he is one of the most handsome men I have ever seen....but he needs to have his nose straightened...It has to give him nasal breathing problems....I really thing he needs to go into modeling...most important...he seems geniune...

dpat
dpat

GG you do not need lip implants, it makes you look like a fish mouth, you are beautiful like you are!  Don't mess with you beauty, even though you have had a little work done, you still look like a natural beauty, that's what guy really like!

dpat
dpat

Your event was great, you did a wonderful job!  GG you are a beautiful woman you just need to take better care of yourself emotionally.  Do not let people upset you, when you do that you are giving them control over you.  You are better than that!  Love you on the show, get back with the group and help MJ get rid of that stuffy, thinks she's perfect Lilly!  Geez, what a bore she is, and she is so fake looking she's no natural beauty! 

Pasadena47
Pasadena47

CONGRATULATIONS!  Your event went magnificently and was a big success.  I knew you had it in you, and even your sister had to admit you pulled it off.

 

Now concentrate on the positive growth of your business and earn the respect that you deserve, and stay away from the hooch.  At least if you ever get back in the group, you will have interesting things to share and contribute instead of just being a drinking buddy. 

AngelTrinity
AngelTrinity

GG I like you as it!  Even with the temper. You are a beautiful woman. I agree with DianeLS you don't need lip implants.  You are one one of the hottest women on the show.  All of the women are beautiful but I have totally love for you because you are a lot like me. Congrats on the engagement to Omid.  I see that thang taking off in a good direction.

lala1966
lala1966

Once again GG is all about you,you are gross!!!!

DianeLS
DianeLS

GG, please think long and hard before you have lip implants. Look at the many women in California who've had them and how unnatural they look....

JudiB
JudiB

I hope you are replaced also.  You need help.  You have the self control of a toddler, and the violence boiling inside of you is hideous.

jonesin4rh
jonesin4rh

I hope Bravo replaces you next season for many reasons but especially since you don't bother to blog.   

Kpoly
Kpoly

Don't let yourself get dragged down by the ones that have no concern for you. Cool that temper before it gets you in real trouble. Peace!

lola95404
lola95404

You are smart cookie GG, you saw Asa and Reza for who they really are!

bpster
bpster

Glad to see you growing up. Not happy you think your above writing a blog........won't be buying anything from you. 

Just1Opinion2
Just1Opinion2

GG all you can do is try to do your best moving forward. You're young so you live and you learn, operative word here is Learn. Congrats on a successful marketing party/launch good job. Address your drinking and temperament that is an issue. The others are drinking but are not as aggressive as you become. That could very well be due to some things ( ie.family, sister etc) you're not dealing with. No one walks around that angry inside for no reason, the alcohol just heightens it. The party's success made you seem more confident, keep going. Don't keep talking about trying to change let everyone watch you do you! Good Luck!

ESinAZ
ESinAZ

You proved that you can be a mature business woman.  You looked fabulous at the extension event; you and Omid, both!  Hope you have been getting the drinking under control, it really is a problem for you.  And..BTW-"ain't"? I'm sure you were using it to make a point, but it just doesn't come across as the new woman you are trying to be.

Lolita2012
Lolita2012

I can't help it. I think you're awesome. 

liufunnygrl
liufunnygrl

Blame it on the alcohol...don't drink! You rocked it tonight! Good for you.

promulgates
promulgates

Ah yes. Blame Mike. Blame Asa. Blame Lily. Blame Lily's dog Coconut. Girl, time for you to grow up. Tell daddy to sever the apron strings.

lanim
lanim

Unfortunately, this is a challenging time in your life and I hope that you can resolve the issues with your life with your friends.  The show captured the unflattering episodes with your drinking  and you mentioned in your blog about Mike's responsibility to assist you to stop. As reality, the social pressure can be overwhelming. Keep positive. 

Micheles609
Micheles609

GG I love your name. Fighting is left back at the school ground your to old to fight go get help that solves one of your made up problems. The "Face" doesnt mean your beautiful,cute or pretty because your not. Your a hot mess.

Natalie.0
Natalie.0

I like you GG. You might be a bit angry but at least you act from the heart And aren't just mean when part of a hate mob like they did. Asa getting you uninvited was just mean cause now she finally has a friend to back her up. You and MJ keep it real. I'm disappointed In Mike for selling out and uninviting you. I'd take mj to the gym with you and you guys can take on Persian Barbie and interfalatchick snot priestess Open up a can a w@$&jp. A$$$

Zoey_10
Zoey_10

I like you GG but knowing about you trying to apologize to "the beast" just days before the cabo trip makes you look shady. Everything else they are saying about you, brush it off! Congrats on your engagement! Omid is super handsome :)

GHocie
GHocie

I had moments last season where I found you childish, but that changed as I continued to watch you. I think you need to get control of the drinking and see someone about the anger, but I also see a real person, who is beautiful and stands up for what she believes. Get the other parts in check and everyone will be able to see the amazing woman you are inside. Stop living in your father's pocket, put yourself into your business and mend things with Mike and MJ. They are true friends even if they let you down with the disinviting. Omid is handsome and seems to have your back. Keep him close. I really wish good things for you and hope the rest of the season finds you pulling yourself up and standing on your own two feet.

NikiTenn
NikiTenn

You are one angry woman. I hope you get some much needed counseling because you are a

train wreck. You shame yourself, and your family with your bad behavior. You also appear to be quite the alcoholic. Get some help girl. You may be pretty on the outside, but you are very ugly on the inside.

scrapper
scrapper

i dont know what show some of you are watching but in my opinion GG has blamed asa for her comment about his nose when she was drunk and just didnt understand what asa was saying. asa has a big nose and was saying she admired him for embrassing the herritage, then she blames mike for not MAKING her stop drinking when we all can see you cant make her do or not do anything, and she blames lilly because mj said something rude to her AGAIN and lilly responded, and she blames the entire groupe for being rude to her at dinner after she insulted that other girl about her dress from six seasons ago, and her sister has every right to be calling her out she has been dealing with her being irrisponsable her whole life. it is everyone giving her passes her whole life that has made her this way.

Josie57
Josie57

OH' GG! What can I say? When you lose your temper, you lose all of your credibility. When you drink with a temper, it is even worse. I really hope you stop drinking and start taking responsibility for the things that you do and say. Stop attacking Asa, stop calling her the vile names. Why don't you sit down with her, lose the attitude and woman up? Apologize for your wrong doings and then you will move forward. Your own sister was threatened by you. You attack when you feel that you don't like what someone is saying to you. Stop being on the defensive all the time. You are a beautiful, young woman. Stop the anger, drinking and fighting and your life will get better. Let MJ handle her own battles. She causes enough of her own drama. You don't need anymore problems. Good luck to you and Omid, I hope you are happy.

MomLeader
MomLeader

I think folks need to give GG's sister some slack. Look, she works her butt off, and she sees her Dad giving GG BOATLAODS of money every week to keep her in her lavish lifestyle. It must look like their inheritance is being shoveled out to GG because she doesnt want a job. Look, I like GG, can't stand Asa, but I think GG and her sister will be fine, they are blood and deep down there is love. When GG steps up to the plate and works, they will come back together hopefully seeling lots of extensions together!. Lets not alienate those two in these blogs. GG needs her sisters as her friends are throwing her to the wolves.

jatn
jatn

GG some people shouldn't drink and you're one of them. You were wrong attacking Asa about the nose comment. She meant it as a compliment and you're the only person on the planet who didn't get that. You have a giant chip on your shoulder and alcohol just makes it worse. Anger and alcohol are a dangerous combination and it's good you have friends who will tell you flat out that you behaved badly and need to cool it on the drinking. I also see where your sister was coming from when you finally decided to help with the family business. She did the work and now you want to swoop in and take all the credit. Even your father was trying to explain that to you but you didn't get it. It's great that you realize you have a problem with anger and that you're doing something about it. I just started watching this show and I love it. You guys are fun to watch and as an American it's interesting to see another side of a culture many of us don't understand and have/had preconceived notions about.

CharlieD.
CharlieD.

GG, guuurrrrl. I love you because you ALWAYS keep it real. I also have "rage and  "anger" issues, and I also have found myself un- or disinvited to functions because of it. Last year I took an angermanagment class and it was the best decision I've made in my whole life. Although it has been a year, I still am not invited to functions, which includes my own family. Which is SOO painful!!!! I hope that in time you realize how much this will hurt you AND those who love you......I hate that you have to be seperated from the "group" but hopefully things will change. Good luck...GOD bless!!!!

Ph
Ph

  I don't like the way you sister treats you , she is smart but she needs to treat you with love.  GG keep working hard and everything will be okay.  You are better than Asa and Reza, you are aware of your issues and try to work on them.  You look more real than the Asa, Reza, Lilly and even Mike.  I hope you and MJ keep your friendship. 

Lazam1
Lazam1

Congratulations for you and Omid getting engaged.  I wish you happiness and much success in your marriage and whatever business plans you have in the future.

I have to say one thing though, I really wish you would stop your drinking.  With you, it's not a matter of a few drinks; once you start drinking you can't stop and no one around you can tell you to stop.  It must come from deep inside of you to want to stop.  Your anger never gets released unless you are intoxicated, and it is very mean filled with hate.  You are such a lovely person when you peel away the self-hate, anger, and unhappiness with yourself.  No one can tell you to be happy you need to find it, define it and keep it without using substances that do not bring out the best.  My best wishes for you and yours for the next season!  Take care! Shalom!

 

bravo_luver
bravo_luver

GG its clear you get out of pocket but I still like you....Beware those two TURNCOATS Reza and Asa are trying to have you erased by not filming with you...they are even pulling Mike and MJ into it. I cant wait for the reunion show!

shalviyah
shalviyah

stop blaming others for your drunkeness ..and woman up and try and change no one is perfect honey

 

patsyandrox
patsyandrox

Asa went after you first, got you "uninvited" and now she's after MJ.This is all premeditated. She wants you and MJ out because you are both competition for Reza and Mikes attention or because you and MJ can't be broken up. She starts fights and then plays victim. She knew you would go after her, so she started something up with you. Be smarter than her next time. Flower essences can help you so much with your anger issues. Find a good herbalist in your area or do research on flower essences. The liver is the anger organ, an herbalist can help you do a safe easy liver cleanse too. It could need help because of childhood medications, or heavy metals, or pesticides or any number of things. Hold your head up, you are a better person than Asa. I wish for you a happy healthy life.

jackie78704
jackie78704

Congrats to you and Omid , I pray that your really sorry for your action cause you were out of control and I think your friends were scared to say anything . You  def have anger issues Alcohol doesn't help you and if you have self esteem issues ( can't imagine Why ? Your beautiful) it doesn't help with that either. Glad to see you understand where Mj was coming from so you should of understand Asa not wanting to meet with you or want you on a fun trip. You have to admit your the one who is responsible. It doesn't matter what s said I am gald you made up with Reza but I believe it because you were left out to dry . Do I agree with that yes and no Yes it good to set boundries but no I think as your friends they shouldhave help you get on the right track. 

Frenchbabedoll
Frenchbabedoll

Two things helped me get over my agressive temper tantrums. One, is the shame and embarrassment I had afterward. Then if I could objectively say that I was not the one who initiated the arguement and the other person instigated it or was intentionally vindictive or hostile towards me, I recignized the underlying reason behind their words/actions. By doing that, I can usually be the bigger person because I realize how miserable or insecure that person is. Lastly, when some is a jerk to me, the last thing I want to do is react, because by reacting, you're giving them want they want - a rise out of you - and I'll be damned before they get that! Stay strong Beautiful! Your sis, Asa and that gay guy scream insecurity and jealousy - don't fall for their BS!

SelaLeah
SelaLeah

I didn't watch the episode closely but it seemed to me like GG was all over the place trying to justify her anger- what's new?  At first she claimed Asa insulted her new beau. Asa explained to her that she was complimenting, not ridiculing.  GG, in her drunken rage turned it all around and claimed she was hurt because she had to alter her own appearance to seek acceptance or for whatever reason.  Now she is back saying her BF was insulted- even though anyone who watched the episode (even sporadically like myself) knows that isn't true. 

 

It's hard to imagine that she was bullied- especially since she plays such a good bully today.  Instead of changing her nose or whatever work she had done, her parents should have worked on changing her attitude.  I wish GG and Omid well on their engagement but I can't imagine what kind of guy would want to marry a girl that needs so much work.  For his sake, I hope it is a long engagement.

Weekadoo
Weekadoo

GiGi, You reap what you sow. No one should condone physical violence and threats. Please get help for yourself and go to AA and anger management. Everyone on the show talks behind each other's backs. Don't let it get to you. I hope Omid calms you and you can lead a happy life some day sober and learn to be happy on the inside.

Bigwednesday
Bigwednesday

I am getting annoyed at your sister too. I get it, she is smarter and better and all that...and she lets everyone know it too. Got it.

You need to just accept the fact that you cannot change anyone , only yourself. Let them be who and what they are - nothing you can do about it - but you can change you.

Giggles88
Giggles88

I think deep down inside you are a good person. You got some anger issues that needs to be address but you told MJ at the lunch you were going to handle that which I think is good. Nobody is perfect and the crew got their own demons to tackle so for them to isolate you from the crew is not right. Communication is the key to forgiveness and I think the crew should see that. As far as your sister you guys are sisters whether you don't handle your biz or not is between the two of you. Keep it pushing girl!!! :0)

avalis
avalis

 @SelaLeah

 Bringing up the big nose of a person you just met or were introduced to IS rude and definitely not complimentary.  You have to be on familiar terms with someone to focus on a part of their appearance that is out of the ordinary. Asa was extremely patronizing and rude when she brought up Omid's nose after having just met him. She attempted to disguise her true intentions by making the whole thing sound like a compliment, but it clearly was a put-down and both Omid and GG saw it as such, they weren't fooled.