Cast Blog: #SHAHS

I'm Not a Push Over

Mike explains why he was so upset with Omid and why he's happy things didn't get physical. 

I don't know what got into me! The dinner at Sammy's was supposed to be about Asa and GG making up. This was the night that was going to bring an end to the fighting between my two girls.

The night before, GG and I had a conversation about "all the s--- talking that I had been doing about Omid." She claimed that Omid had heard that I was spreading rumors about him. So he was retaliating by spreading nasty rumors about me. The issue is that I NEVER had said one bad thing about Omid. I actually liked the guy! I think this was another evil plan by Golnesa to stir the pot between me and her "man."

I promised myself not to say or do anything stupid when I saw him. That lasted about two-and-a-half seconds. My blood started boiling as soon as he walked into the door.

To think that this guy who had been talking all this shit about me, kisses me and pretends that we are cool. Such fakeness! I finally exploded when we sat down to eat. I'm not a violent human being, but I am also not a push over. I'm glad that neither one of us got violent. Nothing is worth getting physically hurt over. The truth will prevail and Omid will know who was really the cause of our issues.

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MJ: "I Finally Opened My Heart to Love"

MJ dishes on her new man.

Last year in Turkey, I was blind-sided in the best way; I had a revelation, a new found desire to become a mother someday. I am very traditional when it comes to marriage and children in one household and under one roof. That is my dream and deepest hope. I have accomplished success in my career and happiness in every other area in my life. I finally opened my heart to love. I became vulnerable to find love. I met Charlie via Facebook/Tinder. I didn't "swipe right" on him, but he screen grabbed my profile, and messaged me on Facebook one night while I was at my place with Reza and Adam. They drilled Charlie with a series of questions about "what would make you a good candidate for MJ." Suffice it to say, he passed the test, took me to a beautiful, romantic restaurant on our first date where the conversation flowed, and so did the chemistry.

I'm so glad to have met Asifa last year, and even happier she has joined our group. My first impression of Asifa was that she was very polite, prim, pretty, and cordial. As time went on, I began to discover that there are many layers to Asifa. We are a complicated group of people and I look forward to getting to know her on a deeper level, the way I know the rest of my friends.

At Asa's house for the fire jumping ceremony, we all noticed Mike engrossed by Jessica eating a piece of shrimp, and I called him out. To me it was sexy to see a couple turned on by one another. But when I said what everyone else was thinking, Mike and Jessica looked shocked at what I had said, which was surprising to me. I think that once you are in a serious relationship, cheeky conversation topics are not at all off limits, and for us, the best thing about our friendship is sharing good spirited laughs with each other.


Woah, Nelly! Bobby was in the room for less than five minutes when Mike immediately picked a fight with him? As I watched this unfold, I saw how high Mike's nerves were running... It was very awkward. I attribute it to all the fresh, new, successful, alpha-male energy in the room. The tension in the room was undeniable, and unfortunately it got the best of him. Mike and Bobby have some history, and within seconds of Bobby getting there it all came to a head. This is a bad start for both of them, and it spilled over into a divide between us all.


Here's to a fruitful 2015!

 
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