Reza Farahan

Reza explains why he was ready to cut loose in Cabo.

on Jan 7, 20130

So am I crazy or living in an altered universe? Why was GG's father setting up a lunch for GG to get an apology from her sister. I thought GG owed her sister an apology for calling her a b---- and wanting to cut her face with a knife. Confusing? I don't get it.

But forget that: Let's talk about something important: we're going to Mexico. Thank god this group is finally going to have some fun. And now that me and my best friend MJ have made up, I cannot wait to go to Mexico and party. Because all we've been doing is fighting.

And from that scene where we have to uninvite GG, it kind of looks like me and Asa are the puppeteers, when we're actually really not. MJ called me the father and Asa the mother of that group. We're not the mother and father. It's just that MJ's moral compass is not so crisp when it comes to things that are heavy. You should go to MJ if you want to know about sex or alcohol or hamburgers, but knowing about things that are right and wrong probably not the best person. I adore her, but she's not.

So we get to Mexico and we’re having fun. Mike was having a little too much fun. Because you saw me take everyone down to his room and we popped it open and that bitch got up like he had seen the Holy Ghost. Like, he had way to much to drink. He goes to the bathroom. I pop the door open to the bathroom. MJ couldn't have been happier. She was looking at Mike's junk like it was filet mignon. Home girl could not wait to rip into it. Okay. She was licking and wiping the drool off the side of her mouth. She was all about Mike's junk.

Umm, what else happened. We had a ball in Mexico. Mike drank too much. And it’s to be continued. So I’m going to say I love you. Peace out. I’ll call you, don’t call me, and I’ll see you guys next week.

132 comments
AngelTrinity
AngelTrinity

Reza I love love love you. One question though....are you into guys or MJ because the way you're always touching on her body is over the top freaky. I know you two have been intimate but do you still want her in that sense? Nothing bad to say about you or the rest of the cast I enjoy watching Shah's of Sunset.  

abuh2009
abuh2009

TEAM MJ!!! Tired of guys on tv feeding into the negative gay stereotype.

jgreene
jgreene

Lol, it is appalling to see you act like a high schooler, especially in your late 30's. trying to kick someone out of a click Ina childish immature way, really?! Been there done that and I'm 28 and realize even I'm too old to get away with that kind of behavior, left that bs back in my jr year of high school. When I see you I see myself when I was in my late teens early twenty's, grow up buddy. I know when I go out with my partner and see someone in their late 30's in a club hitting on guys that are in there 20's I feel sorry for them bc they seem so empty. I was a big fan season one but now it just seems you are being messy and petty, especially with MJ, everyone has their issues. Even you, which what was shown is that she supported you during those times. And you backstab her and gossip behind her back, not cool. Getting way too big for your britches...

khymele
khymele

You need to know what it is to be a true friend.  You get mad at MJ but you really need to take a cold hard look at yourself.  Shame on you.

elicat
elicat

Reza, I'm not sure who said what, but I know you have made comments that came off as being a little racist. And where in the world did you guys hear that "white people" kick their children out of the house when they turn 18? Speaking for myself, I am "white" and have never heard that before. My son is 25 and just recently moved out - his choice, not mine. And if he ever wanted to/needed to come home, my door is always opened! I've heard the term "white people" several times on this show and it always sounded degrading to me. I believe you should watch what you say as a lot of people do not take kindly to racist remarks.

lanim
lanim

Unfortunately, this is a challenging time in your life and I hope that you can resolve the issues with your life with your friends.  

bombshell8124
bombshell8124

You know I was curious to see if you had a chance to reflect and regret your behavior towards MJ. So out of curiosity I just looked at your twitter to see if you happen to post anything regarding the topic since I already expressed my disappointment that you did your whole blog this week and made no comment on the dinner scene. I was pretty appalled to read the following posted by you: If u have a friend drowning in a pool of alcohol & pills, get them help. Hope won't make the situation better, you'll regret it if u don't!

 

I'm just curious how you thought all of your behavior would help her? Is this your way of justifying your behavior towards her? And when you do mention her on here it's only to take jabs at her. Again, you haven't posted regarding the topic and maybe after tonight you will so I am left with your behavior and this cryptic twitter message to judge and it ain't a pretty sight let me say.

Blink
Blink

Reza I enjoy you...however stop acting 12 years old.  Really freezing ppl out is immature.  If you have a problem with GG, be man enough to go confront her and maybe you guys can resolve the issues.  As far as MJ, unlike most in the comments, I see MJ faults.  She's as self-centered and judgmental as you....and I see why your two have been friends for so long.  MJ is not going to like all your friends and you're not going to like all of hers, so stop putting her and Lily in situations where you know they will be catty.  And also, you and Asa putting Mike in that pressured position wasn't what true friends would've done.  Unfortunately he wasn't confident enough in his own beliefs to tell you and Asa, he wasn't going to uninvite GG.  I'm saying all this and find GG to be the most irritating, annoying and issued riden person on the show. But Reza the way you're acting is horrible, grow up.

eavila
eavila

You've known MJ for at least twenty years. I'm sure she's been acting the same way since you first met her, but now that you are bff with nobody gets you like Asa & your newbie friend buzz kill Lilly, the way MJ behaves bothers you? NOW your calling her out? I don't get it? No I do get it. Since Asa was more popular than MJ last season you must side with popular.

Yol
Yol

What happen to you this season?  You are so mean and self-centered.  MJ was part of your heart and we've watched you cut her out.  Shame on you!

Mishelhoney
Mishelhoney

I agree with ghocie, I was excited for the show to come back on and now seeing Reza and Asa acting like mean girls is just childish. Just cause your in love with Lilly you want to trow away your best friend MJ because she isn't a size 0 like Lilly is childish. I maybe only one viewer but I'm not going to watch adult act like kids

isaboo
isaboo

So sorry you are not the same person I thought you were the first season.  You appear to be pretty shallow and a "Fair Weather Friend".

 

Mommyjam
Mommyjam

I would rather watch MJ and GG battle their issues and come out on top, than watch you, Asa and Lilly.  The three of you are awesome examples of what kind of friends to avoid.

jaggi99
jaggi99

U r such a hypocrite. U uninvited gg and invited lily. U r nothing but Asa 's puppet.

Natalie.0
Natalie.0

Why are you being so mean to mj? Where is your loyalty? Anyway I moustache you one more question but I'm shaving it for later

Peaceonearth
Peaceonearth

you have changed & not for the better! put one of assa's hats on & there u go.....fits u perfect!! see it doesnt feel good when u r put down , does it? this is what u have done to ur best friennd,MJ !  i am so taken back with you & this makes u not cute & funny NO MORE!!!

MommaCarol
MommaCarol

Reza, such a disappointment.  Fame has gone to your head.  And you have screwed over your best and oldest friend.  Shame on you.  What happened to that guy from season one?  I liked him a lot!

pamski22
pamski22

Reza why r you so far up Asa ass lately come get real!!!

pamski22
pamski22

Asa thanks she's better then G.G. come on your just jealous of G.G she hot and your not !!!!

GHocie
GHocie

You were one of the biggest reasons I was so excited to see this show come back, but after watching the episodes so far...I wish they would cancel the show or remove Asa, so you might start acting like the caring, funny person you were before. You now come off as self centered, money hungry, back stabbing and petty. TRUE friends don't sell out the people they love, they don't try to make them look bad or hurt them, and they don't gush over new ones who don't really care about them. It really is sad what you've become.

KARMEN111
KARMEN111

Reza, I was unable to watch lat week's episod and just saw the rerun and I must say each episode I dislike you more and more. You were everyone's favorite last season but this season I dont know if it is your true colors coming out or if the fame has gotten to your head. Either way, I hope you can appreciate constructive criticism.  Your ONLY true friend in this show is MJ. Everyone else is out to get something out of it for themselves.  I hope you can sit back and see that for yourself.  I am also hoping that this is not your true character and you change your horrible ways soon.

FlutterBy
FlutterBy

Reza...i try not to favor anyone, that way my posts remain objective....but you were my favorite on this show...i am not able to catch the episodes on their first run, but eventually catch up....i have to ask ""what happened?"" Double quotes are serious....your personality this season has really appeared to be a colder version of last....of course, this is a tv show...but it is sold to viewers as a "reality" show....now you knowwwww.....those cameras do not make for spontanaiety....so. how has this version of you escaped?? This version seems very surfaficial.....now before you check the dictionary, i will tell you, that is the word i have used for years to describe this personality trait when I observe it in people....meaning surface and artificial at the same time...people are either deep or surface....you are showing signs that you may not need a snorkel mask....that can be a bad thing when you want people to stay up late on Sunday night to watch you in a show......let me be clear....none of the other cast members would need that mask either, but I really thought with yoyr storyline, you had some depth....its not looking positive....some viewers have said you are a party boy who crosses your friends....i hope this is not true....

Ittbittit
Ittbittit

Reza, I used to think you were funny, and had a good heart. I thought it was so touching how MJ went with you to your family, who you hadn't seen in years and to reconcile with your Dad. You have totally kicked her to the curb in favor of Lily. I don't care what you say, or how you try to spin it, or what you say were your reason for doing so, you so embarrassed MJ at the party where you just had to get up and name the people who were your good friends, but excluded MJ. You meant to hurt her feelings. You kicked her to the curb because you are all about money, that is your best friend. Lily has a lot of money and you are hoping she buys a house from you so you'll get a big commission check. Lily "seems" slimy and I am sure if you sided with, or showed a forgiving spirit to MJ she would probably buy a house from Mauricio. In fact I hope she does and that will shake you up and let you see MJs importance to you. In season one you so talked about Asa and her clothes, "Punky Brewster" and now she's your good friend. I used to like her but the way she talked about MJ is disgusting. I think she wants to be your friend because she needs money to pay her rent. She needs to quit going on trips, which she can't afford , and take her looking for a job.

Ambam41
Ambam41

I understand  that you are a proud gay man but it is sad to see the way that you act on TV. I am a shame for you to act like that. You are 40 years old so when do you decide to clam down and act like a respectful gay man

janet.g.davis
janet.g.davis

My goodness, where did all the HATERS come from!  MJ has serious emotional issues.  Her mother is a freak and that has done serious damage to MJ.  She can work past it with help.  The WHOLE world, including Reza and Asa do not owe her a LIFETIME PASS for bad behavior.  Reza is allowed to be upset with MJ for royally mis-behaving with Lilly, Asa an GG.

lola95404
lola95404

Reza, you are an ugly human being.  a 20+++ year means nothin to you?  Its really hard watching you destroy your  friend  on national TV.

elicat
elicat

Reza, you have become so mean and annoying! "You should go to MJ if you want to know about sex and alcohol or hamburgers....", "MJ looking at Mike's junk like it was filet mignon..."! Do you even read what you write?!! You call MJ your best friend and this is how you treat her? Your blog had no substance and was actually very boring to read. You have changed for the worse since last season. And now you are sounding racist! I don't think you can get any lower. Keep this up and you will lose what little fans you have left!

Lazam1
Lazam1

Reza, you are the number one party Queen!  Stay that way because you remind folks that life is not all serious...there's gotta be moments of laughter and being insane.  Take care Reza~

SwimCards
SwimCards

I hope you're watching the episodes, Reza. You blast MJ for trash talking Lilly and how many times have we seen you and Lilly trashing talking MJ?

BobbiNJ
BobbiNJ

Can't think of anyone else that is as bad a friend as you are. God help the people you supposedly are a friend to.

zoey101
zoey101

Oh one more thing You are in my Country now... You should really watch what you say about it and the people that are really from here as we are not foreigners my dear "You Are"!!!!

SunShyne_in_Florida
SunShyne_in_Florida

Reza in the beginning your antics were cute and funny, but now, you need to tone it down.  You are starting to get on my nerves. 

 

You cannot say things like..."I do not like anything dark, not even my men".  You sound racist. 

 

The way that you have been disclosing things that MJ says to you is inappropriate if you consider yourself her FRIEND.  Stop being such a little girl.  SMH.  Little girls tell everything that they hear, but big girls retain information that is discussed between friends, especially if they do not like someone.  Stop calling MJ out.  It is not nice.   

A.Barrian
A.Barrian

--Hypocrite Hypocrite! Asa and Reza continue to alienate GG, in order not to film with her. Which gives Asa the perfect opportunity to attack M.J character every chance she gets. Claiming M.J is unstable popping pills, As "SIDE KICK REZA"" is laughing like an idiot .....Needs to choke on that " MUSTACHE"!! Reza's only loyalty is spitting in MJs Face....So stand in line Asa your next!! You have always antagonized "GG" to defend herself, Now your doing it to MJ ... Its so sickening to watch already. BRAVO ...PLEASE LESS SCREEN TIME FOR THESE TWO HYPOCRITES..

nancydrew70
nancydrew70

OMG. the comments you made about MJ are totally inconsistent with your longtime friendship and making up. I can't wait to see the fireworks at the reunion. You are so out of control.

BeatchOnWheels
BeatchOnWheels

Reza, I loved you in season 1. I'm not sure what happened to you, as you now act like a jerk. In season 1 I was so happy to get a glimpse of a culture I would not otherwise been exposed to. your love of family and closeness of friends remind me of my family and friends. But season 1 seems to have changed you and now you are an embarrassment to the Persian community. It is so sad.

Baby0112
Baby0112

Reza I think fame is getting into your head really fast and you see MJ as a nuisance. Your declaration of love for a friend of 20 years is painful to watch as you put her down. You are all over ASA coz you were both chosen by viewers as all time favorites and bling, you need to cement that relationship coz of opportunity. Remember Reza, viewers are fickle, right now my heart is with MJ and GG .. You don't want to be in their shoes..it is painful...

 

RileyRoo
RileyRoo

You are a horrible friend.  Ask MJ about sex alcohol or hamburgers?  I think people should ask you about being unfaithful, bad mustaches and armpits.

piperbeau
piperbeau

I don't really care what you, and your mean girl friend asa did in Cancun!! Not interested....You both ruined this episode for the viewer's, by not inviting GG!!! 

A.Barrian
A.Barrian

@Mommyjam - Whoop Whoop.. Well Said..

JaneGold
JaneGold

@janet.g.davis According to your profile, you have only posted 4 comments. I see that one comment was posted on Lilly's blog (telling Lilly she is amazing), one comment was posted on Asa's blog (bashing MJ and telling Ass that she is amazing), and now you have the comment posted here for Reza... If I had to guess who is the real "Janet Davis" --- I'd look in one of 3 places. Pretty pathetic to be making up code names to bash MJ in your comment sections! We, the viewers, aren't stupid.

thesepeoplernuts
thesepeoplernuts

 @janet.g.davis he's allowed to be upset with her for the way she has treated Lily and Asa but what should not do is belittle her and do the horrible mean things he has done.  I don't know what world you live in but in the world I live in friends who love each other and have been friends for over 20 years don't do that to each other no matter how mad they are at one another.  The only one i think has crossed the line in this issue is Reza.  I haven't heard MJ say half the despicable things that he has said about her.  It's quite disgusting.  And the fact that you are justifying his behavior speaks wonders about who you are.  MJ is no angel in this whole thing but she definitely is not misbehaving.  Now GG, that's a girl who has misbehaved.  MJ may have made a few catty comments but nothing even remotely close to what the three "mean girls" have said about her.  They talk about her weight, they talk about her work ethic, and now they are calling her a pill-popper.  True or not, real friends would chose to help you in that situation not giggle and laugh and belittle you on national television.

thesepeoplernuts
thesepeoplernuts

 @elicat I agree with you 100%!  I used to love Reza but now all he is is a "mean girl".  I would never want a friend like that.  Never.  I would probably kick his ass if he was my friend and never speak to him again if he did to me what he has done to MJ. 

 

allieac321
allieac321

@SunShyne_in_Florida I agree. I thought that comment was so ridiculous...buy a mirror Reza...you're dark...what you don't like yourself?

SunShyne_in_Florida
SunShyne_in_Florida

 @piperbeau

 

GG needed to stay her crazy behind home.  She did not need to be in jail in Mexico for being violent.  Laws are different in other people's county.  GG needs to stay in the US and act-a-fool, where her dad can bail her out.