I understand why Golnesa is mad at Merc, because what Merc did was wrong. I stepped out so that they could talk it out alone. It's something that is between them and has nothing to do with me. When I stepped back in, they were still at it and I urged Merc to apologize to Sean, and was very happy that she did. But I want my girl Golnesa to know that her words will be heard louder if she takes a less aggressive approach. Even if your words are the truth, when you are aggressive, it actually makes it harder to hear you.
But ultimately Mercedeh and Golnesa love each other, and if they can both find understanding for the other's feeling, they will get right back to that BFF place they were at last year.