Lilly Ghalichi

Lilly explains why she's disappointed in her fellow Shahs.

on Nov 26, 20130

I didn’t blog last week because I don’t really have much to say with what’s going on other than I am extremely turned off by and disappointed in the group.

I haven’t spoken to anyone in the group because I am hurt by what happened, and to be quite honest, I don’t need fake friends. I rather not speak to or hang out with any of them than to be around people that aren’t my true friend, and won’t have my back in life.

This episode you see me talk to Asa for the first time since the dinner incident. I am very honest with her about how I feel, and I tell her very clearly that I was disappointed in her as a friend during that dinner. 

Asa keeps trying to say I need to take accountability for what happened between MJ and I and stop blaming her and others in the group. I am not blaming anyone in the group for what happened. What happened between MJ and I happened between two grown-ass adults and no one is responbile for that other than the two grown-ass adults that were involved (MJ and me). I take full responsibility and accountability for my actions and my words.

However, that doesn’t change the fact that I am disappointed in memebers of the group—particulary Asa and Reza—as friends, or who I thought were friends anyway.

Reza is so fickle; one day he’s your best friend, and the next day he’s over you. After watching him and his love/hate behavior with his best friend of 20 years MJ, I get it; but, Asa, I had higher expectations of her because she purports to be a true, honorable friend. I respected her for that.

As Asa says this episode, we weren’t really friends, we were “working” on a friendship. I didn’t know there were blurred lines between friends and not friends.

Either way, I am in full force work mode. I am 30 years old now, and the last thing I want to do is stir up drama, or be invovled with people that enjoy starting drama. Ain’t nobody got time for that.

Xoxo
Lilly Ghalichi

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114 comments
Dee617
Dee617

I need to see Lilly off the show.  She does not belong on TV.  I am not jealous of any truly beautiful woman and will compliment beautiful women, but I honestly don't think Lilly is beautiful.  She's too fake looking to be truly beautiful.   When Lilly dies, she will be a very lonely woman who did not fulfill the most important things in a real woman's life because she's too selfish and obsessed with herself.  I have never seen such a braggart in my entire life.  In reality, Lilly has no real friends.  She has fake relationships with anyone who tolerate her for a second.  Her real friend is only coconut - a dizzy dog.  I am sure the poor pup spins in circles living with a human who has no feelings for other human beings.  Ali made the right decision not to marry her.  He would be miserable and would desire other women who are more real in appearance.  She dresses like a high class clown and would not be recognized without a ton of makeup, hair, and flashy other things. Lilly looks totally fake and eats like a cow.  Her mouth is sooooooooo ugly whenever she is eating, lol.

LuckyRabbitTagEstateSales
LuckyRabbitTagEstateSales

BTW. I like your voice! I'm not on zoosk but if your still in NYC lets meet for a non-alcoholic drink :)

LuckyRabbitTagEstateSales
LuckyRabbitTagEstateSales

Lilly, You are the most level headed one in the bunch. Its horrible they way they all backstab one another. The rest of the cast act like spoiled children. 

mrstb
mrstb

MJ who ? Did it on purpose . I record the show so I can fast forward over MJ , Reza and Asa .

gloria9266@sbcglobal.net
gloria9266@sbcglobal.net

Lilly, you are clearly the level headed on in the bunch.  Stay strong and true.  let's examine the facts:  you have asa who is self proclaimed Persian priestess, mj, who needs a personality check because she is so messed up, gg who is like dr. jackle and mr. hyde, reza, well dang, he sounds like he is going through menopause.  mike, is in love with himself, quite harmless though.  yeap, your the level headed one and well liked.  you go girl, your not only beautiful but you have  a beautiful personality.

WillnSF
WillnSF

Just speculating here but maybe Asa didn't come to Lilly's defense because Lilly didn't drink enough Diamond Water?

KelleyGirl
KelleyGirl

Lily - Put on your big girl panties.  You brought up a subject which was best left alone.  If you cannot take the heat you should not have stepped into the kitchen door.  Did you think all were going to gang up on MJ?  Was that why you opened the door?  No one in the group agreed with what you did. They did not want to be involved therefore they didn't jump in nor was it their place. It was an issue just between you and MJ.  What perplexes me is it's common knowledge you and MJ are not friends.  Why did you invite her to start with?  Since when do we invite people who are not our friends to our birthday celebration?  Weird.  As for standing up for people.  I did not see you stand up for GG last season.  You sat and said nothing while she was excluded from much. 

SueSue38
SueSue38

Lilly.. I love You... U ROCK ..... Give Lilly her own show ;)

tobey
tobey

I agree with you Lily, it was a shame no one stood up to MJ and told her you are their friend too.  One good thing came out of it, you know who your real friends are and you cannot trust any of them.  I was surprised too.  Hopefully, they will come around, if not you have good friends anyhow and your a great business woman.  Keep being who you are lady. 

Pottymo13
Pottymo13

Girlfriend, do us all a favor and exit to the left....you are too real, too professional and definately too mature to be with this bunch of drinking like fools just to matter group...I mean, what were you thinking in the first place joining this group? 

zocola
zocola

Lilly you are the best. You are as real as they come. You are smart. You are beautiful (not just pretty). You must realize that with all that going on other people will be jealous. MJ is just nasty fat and sloppy. Her mother is better looking then she is. MJ is in love with Reza and she cannot stand that he liked you. If someone else had brought you into the group she may have given you a chance. You are right that they should have spoken up with the friend comment. It , in itself, made them all a part of the argument. They talk the talk but we can all see that they don't walk the walk.

Gonzosmom
Gonzosmom

You're a total trip Lilly, but definitely a lot of fun.

JulieMcFarland
JulieMcFarland

I typically don't blog...I do however read them and find them interesting.

Lilly these people are sharing with you how they see it. going down on the show.

My old saying was...if everybody is saying the same thing..then it has to be true...

saying get out now...and save your self...I don't think you should.. not with this or any of these people.

Whatever..

There friendships maybe 20 years old...but everyone of them is guilty of stirring the pot.

talking behind each others backs.  So they would, have and will do it again.

No.. TRUE friend would ever do any of this, not even for TV.

Asa is just making excuses, for her failure of being a good friend.

Reza...was the front runner..ONLY for the first season..everyone liked him.

Because he was having fun with it, people found him funny, likeable and charming.

BUT NOW.

His true colors... the ugly shady ones ...are showing now, and his popularity is fading fast..

He's trouble...he brought Mike into his business, only to hurt MJ.

Now he wants nothing to do with Mike in a business sense.

Seriously slamming him.. making him look a failure in front of everyone.

He worked Mike over to uninvite GG with the Mexico trip.

Asa could never have convinced Mike to do that to GG on her own.

Lilly it probably is true...that Reza only was interested in you.. so he could profit  from you in some way

so he became your fake friend. However he's done this to everybody. So shady of him.

Point is: Stick this one out...don't let them/him push you out of anything.

Things will change and if I'm correct about what might happen. Mike, You and GG (only if she continues to improve) will be the last ones standing.

Just Remember...

No one likes a smart ass...However, nobody likes a dumb ass either....and Reza is both.

Stay strong girl....Hugs

P/S There's a lot of pretty girls in California...that have the same things you do.

so don't let anyone tell you... that you should be ashamed of  who you are or what you do for a living.

Beverley Hills Baby...it is what it is.

nicolet7490
nicolet7490

I am getting warmer towards you, and I actually am starting to see a different side to you after WWHL.  You are quite mature compared to your elders in the show.  

 

I still don't like you excluded MJ because it was not nice even if it required RSVP.  But she's getting on my nerves after she sided with Reza against Sasha. 

proudmom489
proudmom489

In my personal opinion how can people defend Lilly about the conversation at the table when she was the one that brought it up FIRST and on top of that started it off very catty. MJ had said hi to her and was just sitting there when she brought up the RSVP thing. Plus she was the one that said that MJ wasn't her friend and blah blah blah to other people in the group. During that conversation they were BOTH throwing out mean comments at each other, it wasn't one over the other. She couldn't handle the heat in the kitchen getting thrown at her by MJ and thought other people should have said something? Don't start anything you can't finish. BTW I am NOT saying that MJ was right I am just saying that Lilly needs to take accountability for her actions and not blame other people for not saying anything because at the end of the day that wasn't their fight, it was hers. Expecting them to say anything was also having the expectations that they would take sides which they didn't want to do. 

tjjpt
tjjpt

You are the best one, fake or not. You are pleasant, happy, and smart. You speak well. Wade the water carefully because the river is full of nasty shahs sharks.

tanntannj
tanntannj

Wow how in the hell did you get a law degree? You can't even spell!  You need professional help, you seem so far out there in lala land this season, and what the hell did you do to your face????

Oxford
Oxford

 

Yes to your reply sometimes falling down drunk is needed not only allow have a good time. Maybe you need to let loose a lot! I promise you that you'll laugh about it for years to come. No wait you don't laugh, you don't have any fun, and your butt is so tight I'm surprised you could even take a dump! Hello! You’re on reality TV and you should realize that if you sneeze and wet yourselves it’s going to be noted. If you don't need the money or back out gracefully.

 

cgon1977
cgon1977

You're my favorite. Hang in there. Don't worry about the two disgusting teletubbies. 

cinchy
cinchy

"Reza is so fickle; one day he’s your best friend, and the next day he’s over you."

 

Boy, that is so true.  He's fun to watch, but I wouldn't want him as a friend.  Stab you in the back as soon as look at ya. 

GiGiforever
GiGiforever

I do not watch this show a lot but I have caught bits and pieces of the show.  I saw the reunion where Reza tore into MJ.  I didn't know much about the show but I knew for sure that REZA IS NOBODY"S FRIEND.

I find you to be somewhat sweet, a bit lofty and generally nice.  I do not think you are mean nor did you plan on wreaking some havoc on MJ as portrayed by Reza.  You did not have to invite her and should have done what your soul wanted to do.  We always encounter problems when we listen to the voices of others instead of the promptings of our soul.

 

biancashines
biancashines

They hate u because you haven't "put-in" as much time as they have 2gether.  You are skinny, pretty and sweet   people will be like this for your entire life -  Jealous.  Nut up my wee princess as you are a breathe of fresh air.  chin up kiddo   you rule!

erica8123
erica8123

I couldn't finish this...

Ok here's the deal.  You are as fake as they come and I don't see you being this real friend you expect everyone else to be to you.  You are not the victim 100%, maybe 75% but certainly not 100%

Lindylooo
Lindylooo

I feel terrible watching how they treat you. Mostly Reza. You and MJ take serious jabs at each other, I feel less bad for both of you because you two go for the jugular ;) Be sweet and kind, try to not let it affect you. Show your best side. I think you make comments that people find 'snotty' when you feel a little uncomfortable and defensive. I get it, but I wish you would lead with your smart and successful side. Stay awesome.

gail3456
gail3456

MJ has to be the most repulsive person on this show. if someone couldn't RSVP me, don't feel guilty about it. i would not have even addressed the busy bodies inquiries. like you said, she isn't your friend. 

TillmonA
TillmonA

So true. Lilly, you are the epitome of class on this show. The rest of people (minus GG because I see a huge improvement in her) are phony and give the Persian culture a bad rap. You are so much better off without them. 

jmbgmom
jmbgmom

With as small as GG is, I wonder why she hasn't had her mouth slapped long before this? She is like a very bad behaved little dog. I wonder why everyone acts like they are scared of her. if I were Bravo, if they can't make her act right and stop threatening people, they should let her go. Not only does she behave very badly, threatening people, but she is another one that is two faced. With all the shah's in California Bravo should be able to replace her. Give her job to her sister. Everytime GG comes on the TV, I change the channel. I am goiing to stop watching if they don't get a muzzel on GG.

Jettybaby
Jettybaby

Truth be told Lily, there was absolutely no reason you could not have included MJ.  Move a seat over and set an extra setting.  To the extent of the lavishness of your party, do you really think the staff of oh maybe 100 or so would have blinked an eye at one more plate.  You were being petty and allowing your pride to make your decisions.  I do understand how you feel about the fakeness, but for God's sake woman you are the newbie and when put up against a 20 year friendship, the newbie WILL lose.

Ronica
Ronica

I think Lily believed they would treat MJ the same way like the reunion.  Remember when Asa and Reza went after MJ and Lily put in her two cents here and there with that smirk on her face.   So she is thinking they would once again join in on insulting MJ again.  Lily started it at the restaurant and MJ had every right to finish it.  MJ didn't say anything negative until Lily started with her about not coming to the party.  Sorry but any newcomer that comes to an event filled with my friends of many years and has the nerve to tell me I have no friends and these people are not my friends, sorry but the gloves are going to come off because I will tell you about yourself

Toeknee
Toeknee

Reza and mj know exactly what they are doing and that is to make you look bad...complete fail on their behalf....Asa and gg are frauds for not sticking up for you....you are way better off without the fakes and drama

Dr.Di
Dr.Di

Reza is a trouble-maker. In his next life, he will be reincarnated as a ladle, seeing how he likes to stir the pot so much.  He's about as reliable as the weather and clearly has respect issues when it comes to women.  I don't blame you for feeling abandoned during the fight.  No one came to your defense.  At the end of the day, I don't think you have much in common with this group.  They like to party (aka drink), you do not.  Don't waste time or energy upset over this situation.  It is what it is.

Andrea91745
Andrea91745

You could have had another chair added to a table.  I'm sure you would have done that if it were a member of your glam squad who emailed you letting you know they hadn't RSVP'ed earlier but can you add a chair to a table.  You seem to have great qualities but then you are so superficial and I can't shake the impression that you're reminiscent of a female impersonater doing Cher. Also... you're old enough to defend yourself.  I can see why you didn't fit in with the legal crowd, you can't defend yourself.  Use your wits (you do have some don't you?).  Just call it like I saw it, that's what these things are here for.  I do love the show for some reason and hope that you focus on building stronger friendships with this group and not on only MJ and their lack of support.  It seems they do support you.

kekekinz1
kekekinz1

Did you really think someone who betrayed his bff of 20 yrs was going to be loyal to you?!  You really need to get over yourself.

Sucked_in
Sucked_in

Annoying. You really do feel that you are above the group. it shows. Although the others were silly drunk in Mexico, you made more of a spectacle of yourself with your PrimaDonna act. Your near slip on the way out of the club is exactly what you deserved. Then, toss in your self thrown party (clue one you haven't any real friends. Who throws their own b-day party?!) your numerous dress changes, (you need to get over yourself before you can ask another to get over it). You're a head case. Take yourself off your high heals and high horse! Your parents should have taught you- be careful when you look down your nose at someone. You could be looking at someone with more money AND more class than you. People with real money don't brag sister. Humble yourself!

Mina7777
Mina7777

 @mrstbThat's a lot of fast forwarding considering the 3 you named are the main stars of the show.

bobbiesshihtzus
bobbiesshihtzus

 @SueSue38 I agree Sue give Lilly and Coconut their own show.  The others have no class and are a bunch of classless idiots.

bobbiesshihtzus
bobbiesshihtzus

 @Pottymo13 I agree with you they are ALL idiots and not loyal friends to allow that dumbass MJ to tell Lilly all of them are NOT her friends is low class and they all stood there silent.  I don't like any of them anymore.

nikkicomley
nikkicomley

 @tanntannjSounds like you're just a bit jealous! Why else would you come on here just to say that! Sad.

 

 

babygirl92106
babygirl92106

@tanntannj Be more specific; I hold a degree in English. what spelling errors are you referring to, pray tell. Incidentally, this is a rather casual blog. An occasional misspelled word is forgiven for the sake of expediency. Lilly is a graduate of Loyola Law school and a member of the California State Bar. Additionally, she holds a Business Degree from the University Of Texas, Austin. Et tu??

cinchy
cinchy

 @Lindylooo I agree.  Lilly is the most real one of the group, but she needs to stop taking the bait.  Mean Girls set out bait.  They want you to take the bait.  I mean, they make snide remarks and to get under your skin in order to draw you into a cat fight.  

 

I had to learn how to stop getting sucked into arguments with Mean Girls.  When they throw out that nasty comment (bait), just stay calm and react in a steady, even, calm, unflustered way.  Once you get used to that, it just becomes automatic. 

mrstb
mrstb

 @gail3456

 MJ  who ? did it on purpose . I record the show so I can fast forward over MJ ,Reza  and  Asa  :)

doxyroxy
doxyroxy

 @Jettybaby  I'm sure Muhammed could have run out to the garage and dusted off a folding chair to shove in at the card table in the corner.  Are you kidding me?  Did you see the set up at Muhammed's home?  The tables were elegantly set and there was NOT room to squeeze in another place setting.  LOL.  The whole group came KNOWING that MJ was not going to be there because she was too lazy to text an RSVP.  MJ was lame.  Lilly certainly had every right to tell her that she had responded far to late and the seat had been given away.  I'm sure MJ was welcome at the rest of the party, just not at the sit-down dinner.  Half the guests were not invited to the dinner for Pete's sake.

Whasup
Whasup

@Dr.Di totally agree

CherryiPhone
CherryiPhone

 @Andrea91745

 Cher is of Armenian background...Armenia is right next to Iran, and the people look just like Persians...so to an outsider they kind of all look the same...Lilly is just looking like her heritage. Sorry if you met Cher and the Kardashians (also part Armenian) first. Once the world gets to know people from that part of the world better, we won't all look the same.

lucky8
lucky8

 @Sucked_in

 Lilly is Lilly!  Take her or leave her - but remember Reza bought her into the group and already knew exactly how she was.  What was his "true intentions" - - oh, I just figured it out.  It's something like Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.  Mauricio and Kyle are friends with people until they make a deal on a real estate deal - (Reza was looking for real estate for Lilly in the beginning).  Maybe, just maybe that deal was struck and that is when Reza decided to turn against Lilly!  Lilly may not fit in with this group, but she has every right to throw herself a birthday party and who says she can't change clothing how many times she wants to.  Hey, it's her party and she can do what she wants.  Looks like she got a big bash that's cuz she does have friends.  They may all have the same things in common unlike Reza's crazy group of two-faced people.  GG was crazy, but now she's more normal than any of them.  Asa - what world is she in blessing the water bottle line with smoke and a special outfit on - (:) - they are all nuts except GG and Lilly! 

tjjpt
tjjpt

 @cinchy  @Lindylooo That is smart what you said about mean girls setting up baits. You see that with Kyle and Tyler in Beverly Hill Housewives also. MJ is the meanest one around.

Sucked_in
Sucked_in

@lucky8 GG has humbled and grown, yes. I guess the multiple dress change is her choice. It appears though that she spends more time trying to convince herself of her importance- everyone else stopped paying attention. As far as real friends, not sure I can agree. Saw a lot of fakeness amongst her party goers. No one more than herself though. Definitely think Asa is out there? Must have been a lot mushroom chewing in her life.