Lilly Ghalichi

Lilly thinks MJ definitely broke the Girl Code.

on Dec 11, 20130

I threw myself a birthday bash for my 30th this year, so I think Coconut deserves a party too. She’s turning 4 this year (or 28 years old in human years), which means it's the last year that I’ll be older than her.  While I’m still the older mommy, I’m going to do a very motherly thing and have a party in her honor.
 
I wasn’t sure how the party would turn out since she doesn’t like to be outside very much, but I think she had a really good time. I invited all her doggy friends, and instead of a cake, I got her what she loves the most, a rotisserie chicken!
 
Everyone that was invited has a dog (since it’s a dog party!) with the exception of Asa. Even though Asa doesn’t have a dog, I really miss hanging out with her, and her positive energy in general, so I wanted her to be there.
 
Overall, I think Coconut had fun, but that party was SO much more work than I anticipated. I think it will be her last big birthday party.

49 comments
miso1234
miso1234

Lilly, so glad you put Reza in his place on tonight's episode. Reality hit him hard and he didn't know how to process it.  You are right, not wanting to hang out with FAKE people, and I'm so glad you decided  not hang with them.  Reza is low-class along with MJ his cheerleader.   They both thrive on belittling people and think it's funny.  However, it just shows how empty inside Reza and MJ are.  I cannot bear to watch the show anymore because I'm embarrassed for MJ and Reza.  You are better off separating yourself from these evil empty people.  I don't blame you if you are not on the show anymore because Reza and MJ are people I wouldn't even want to associate.  Stay away from haters!!! Love you Lilly.....

crayo
crayo

Miss Ghalichi: my respects to you and your family, please do not let bravo get rid of you, by your personality only puts a spot light on you automode.  Your high levels of education background is another reason to have you on the show and just simply i am sure tons of us we love you , and will follow you no matter in what show you are. Thanks for being so smart and fabulous .  Health and prosperity   Jose.

VintageVelvetSoul
VintageVelvetSoul

Love your commitment to Coco, she is darling, and yes she gives you unconditional love. What better love could there be...May you both have many, many years of love & fun ahead of you....

Ellie007
Ellie007

you should get married and start having kids your getting old woman!

FlutterBy
FlutterBy

Lilly your love for Coconut is obvious...I also have just fallen heel to toe in love with my Havanese....s he just turned a year old...but yesterday after putting ear drops in her ear for inflammation...she had some kind of reaction...like vertigo .. and then seemed afraid and not right....I had just switched vets because of distance...when I called the office to bring her right in...They actually had the nerve to discuss appt space....

 

I said it was an emergency....but apparently they did not feel it was....she seemed to calm down so I did too...but today I am devastated that our precious pets that are like our children are like animals to most vet offices...maybe all of them....

 

How do we deal with this?  I feel totally unprepared for any investigation of info relating to my fur baby...because what and how does one get correct info from the net....taking her to another vet seems logical..but again...how do I know I can trust them....

 

I have lost pets before but this small dog has stolen my heart so severely....that I know I am setting myself up for major hurt one day....how do we make these vets take their job seriously....if I called an ER for a family member would they discuss an appt?  

 

Why would cortisone ear drops not be expected as a possible cause of the vertigo?  It is a prescription....please someone anyone help me with this question....how do I find a good vet?  I have asked around...read reviews...looked at certification....and still managed to find one that treated my emergency as if it was nothing...my dog still does not feel well....and I will be calling tomorrow to get her seen...

Violet12
Violet12

MJ is not to be trusted - she is not a good friend nor a good person - this is what I see.  Her and Reza are only out for themselves - they make me not want to watch this show - they are embarrassing 

bella216
bella216

Lilly - Dogs aren't to each chicken bones....they split up like shards and can puncture the intestines....just thought you'd want to know .....for the health of your dog...or any dog for that matter.....best to read up on the care of your pet.  Saw you just put a chicken down on the ground for the animals to devour.....not good....

jennifer4747
jennifer4747

I  agree with you totally! I hate it when other females hate on another females potential happiness! We as women need to really search ourselves about that. Yes, GG was being hypocritical. but she should have gone to her, not her boyfriend, to shut it down. At the end of the day, it wasnt her business. Let their relationship be their relationship! If he likes it, she should love it. I usually caution saying someone is jealous, but it has been so clear from her continued actions that MJ was jealous of GG's relationship, and how fast it was evolving! Like you said, for her not to actually see it for her self, yet run and tell that-truly ratchet!

xxxemxxx
xxxemxxx

The housewives of Atlanta when on a girls weekend to Savannah and while they were there they went to a Queen show and the 1st one out looked like you. Watch it you'll see..

CG2012
CG2012

Real birthday parties for real people are so much more fun Lily :(

marina_
marina_

Lily, I think you are going to end up like Camille Grammer did. She was all the 'rage' the first season she joined the cast but it got to the point where she obviously outgrew her cast. She rightfully matured, hardly mixed in with their drama, and close to never did any filming in her last season unless it was an event where everyone gathered together. She had completely distanced herself away at the expense of losing her spot on the show.

 

Then I watch these new shows like Courtney Loves Dallas and the Rachel Zoe Project and I think 'Lily should just get her own spin off starring only her. She's graduated from this show.'

maebelle2001
maebelle2001

Your adorable. They should have a persian barbie doll made after you -- The clothes~~!! Stay away from all of them but Gigi. I don't understand why everyone was so upset with her. MJ, even made me want to scream through the TV screen. I don't think GiGi acted irrational at all. OH! and that one with the "Diamond water" what a load of pretentious crap. Boy, she thinks people are stupid doesn't she. Like the water passing over the Diamond was actually doing anything-- and that nonsense with the  sage burning -- I bet that woman in the background (working there)was gritting her teeth  to keep from laughing her behind off.Oh-- one more thing. Help that poor guy buy his girl friend a ring. Any woman that is really in love wouldn't care if it was a rubber band. Most decent woman would prefer someone smart with their money (a saver) not a garish show off that you know will end up living in a tent some day like many that have passed through Hollywood. Help that poor guy get his priorities in gear. He doesn't ahve to follow the fools.Hang in their cutey.Maybe you'll get your own show.

doxyroxy
doxyroxy

Thought your party for Coconut was cute.  It was a great time for your little girl & her doggie friends to get-together and of course for you & your friends to get-together too.  Life is about having fun!  I agree that MJ owes GG an apology & the lawyer in you is right: It was here-say! Also agree that alcohol fuels a lot of problems & GG probably should have talked to MJ when she was sober, however MJ intimidates GG when she's sober or ignores her.  So drinking is GG's way of being able to face MJ bravely.  It's not a good way to deal with things. Unfortunately in that group of friends, many don't have good coping skills & some have very deep emotional scars, including the desire to hurt others.  You've seen that yourself.  Until you entered the picture, GG seemed to be the scapegoat for their misplaced aggression.  She's grown, though is not perfect by a long way.  Think her heart is in a good place toward you though.  Asa's energy may seem positive, but be cautious.  She doesn't have a dog for a reason, & wasn't thrilled about Coconut's party.  She may not be as supportive as you think.  Don't be hurt by her again.

gloria.maldonado.902
gloria.maldonado.902

I don't think MJ needs to apologize to locknessa. Locknessa was wrong in not accepting responsibility of making out with someone else other than her boyfriend. GG needs anger management.

keepitreal42
keepitreal42

Lily, You seem to enjoy your lifestyle. MJ was only telling the truth about GG; for she was perpetrating. GG should apologize to MJ she was the one lying. However, it was not MJs place to expose the act of GG, you know how things get out of control when the gang goes out drinking. GG made a comment at the dog party about owners choosing pets that portray their owners personality. GG, has a pitbull and that is exactly how she behaves!!!!! 

msmith76
msmith76

Lily you need your own show with your own friends.  The Reza freaks are not your friends.  They do not even like each other.  Forget them just go and do your magic.  Best wishes.

Jendi37
Jendi37

Does anyone else feel like they have to shower after watching MJ & Reza chiillax?

Jendi37
Jendi37

Lilly,

You're awesome just because you get up everyday and make the decision not to make an ass out of yourself, unlike your Shahs peers with the the exception of GG. Darth MJ and Reza are greasy literally and figuratively speaking those  two don't know the concept of real friendship.

Esther1217
Esther1217

Lilly yout COCONUT is sooooooooooo CUTE!!!!

pinnys
pinnys

I think MJ did the right thing by telling GG boyfriend that she cheated. I mean really she cheated on him, but he can't even look at someone else without being yelled at WTF. Team MJ all the way.

kekekinz1
kekekinz1

Umm, it was NOT hearsay. GG told the whole world that she made out with the guy. No one would have known if she kept her mouth shut!

pinklipgloss
pinklipgloss

I can't believe that Reza and Asa were shocked and upset that Lilly didn't let MJ into her party at the last minute.  MJ is a grown woman and if she cannot RSVP to a party in a timely fashion like Lilly's 100+ other friends did, then she deserves to be locked out by the front gates.

It is blatantly obvious that MJ has not liked Lilly from the beginning because she is intimidated by Lilly's slender figure, her ability to wear clothes that fit her properly and compliment her attractive appearance, and the successful business that Lilly started and runs on her own.  Nonetheless, that is no reason to like...or dislike someone until you get to know them...but MJ never allowed herself the opportunity to get to know Lilly.

 MJ should be more concerned with her own appearance on the inside AND the outside; MJ shouldn't be proud of either one currently; actually she should be ashamed of her outward appearance because of the way she falls out of her clothes which are 5 sizes too small.  MJ exudes disdain, jealousy and disgust for those she feels intimidated by or doesn't like for any specific reason.  Actually since MJ's mother is so blunt, MJ should take her mother shopping with her so her mother can tell her how ridiculous she looks falling out of clothes that were clearly made to fit tweens! 

I believe people would look past MJ's poor fashion sense if she was pretty on the inside...but unfortunately she is not...in fact her sour personality makes her quite unattractive!  She is mean-spirited and uses calculated moves to deliberately stab others in the back, while at the same time  talking in a slow-motion manner, having a doped-up demeanor, and appearing as a complete mess with a bit of dingbatitis mixed in!

 

kiki13
kiki13

I feel like I should warn you that giving an animal a chicken with bones in it is definitely a huge NO-NO.  They can't pick out all the bone shards and may eat some of the smaller ones by accident and that could puncture their intestines.  Ask any vet!  If you truly care about sweet Coconut you will find out more about this and follow the Doctor's advice.  

I think you are really together and Coconut is a little doll.  Just don't want anything bad to happen to her.  xx

beachmom419
beachmom419

i find you adorable and fun. i also follow your perspective on all the drama that surrounds your castmates. your group, and i do not call them friends, seems fickle. reza could "drop" mj last season because the wind blew in a new direction -- after years of a sibling-like love. mike has to be concerned because his professional ambitions are threatened because reza acted poorly and was caught on camera doing so with shawn. asa loves the world so -- she wants to give them her magical water -- yet cannot see an injustice done to lily when mj said that "no one at this table is your friend." all of these people are shallow, have been insulated by their money and persian power. at least lily has not lost her kindness in this process.

cassie920
cassie920

You are not perfect.  Get a life.

 

KimC
KimC

Lilly I just love you, stay true to who you are. M.J. owes you a big apology, she's had it out for you from the beginning because of her petty jealousy that her friend Reza brought you into the group. M.J.'s true colors were already out, we see how she is, now Reza's true colors are coming to light also. I was so disgusted that he did not stand up for you at the dinner when M.J. was going at you AGAIN! M.J. is a hot mess and will always be a hot mess, was not expecting that from Reza.

 

Team Lilly all the way!

tammy.harper2
tammy.harper2

Lilly,

I do not know if you read these comments, but if you do, please take some friendly advice. A lot of your traits that you deem as qualities, are not. Your values are superficial and based upon the money you have, how much prettier you are, how gorgeous your friends are, while not being able to say anything else positive about them, and the way you come off as fake. I don't believe you are an evil person with evil intentions, but your morals and values are horrific. I honestly have never seen a celebrity (Including Paris Hilton) who is more conceited and self involved. I have never seen a person who actually bases their friendships on how attractive they are, instead of their other qualities. 

When I first saw GG during the first season, I detested her for the same reasons, but I can say she has much more qualities and morals than you could ever dream of having. She doesn't base her friendships on their facial attributes and never has she come off as fake, bad qualities and all. You should take a lesson from her.

critic
critic

Who cares what Lilly thinks?  She's above Allah and everyone else....she doesn't belong with this group or any other...She is in a class of her own...Just Perfect...and Fake...

joanne.poccia
joanne.poccia

MJ needs to apologize to many people specially GG and You.

 

bjunebug28
bjunebug28

Lily I would like you a lot better if you would just loosen up and be more real.  I get it, you want to portray the Persian barbie thing, but even Barbie isn't very interesting beyond the hair and cute outfits.  I mean, cut loose, have ONE drink and socialize with normal people, who aren't employed by you to do your hair, makeup and styling.  You are getting really boring on the show.

Vanessa80
Vanessa80

Oh Lilly I don't kno u but I dont like u very much!  Every scene ur in its all abt u if not you talking abt something that u were NOT there for either so I don't really see ur point.  Except I will give u credit for stating the obvious (abt drinking when talking w a freind blah blah..)  No sh*t !  Thanks for your once again BLOG abt everyone on this show except for LILLY  is wrong.  I'm so over your good girl act you don't do or have never done anything wrong Ms. Fckn Perfect!  And your 30 stop talking like ur 12.

nvt
nvt

I enjoyed watching Coconut's party no drama. MJ has no moral compass and has become her Mother she enjoys all the messiness she creates. In the Gay community women like her trail after Gay men forever hoping one day the man will see how much these desperate girls love them and change their ways Look at the way she came after you over Reza's so called friendship. At this point consider yourself lucky that Reza showed his true colors. You are better than those two.

red2
red2

MJ is sooooo WRONG about betraying GG. I guess people like Mj want to stay on the show at all cost. Mj has no story line. Her mother is prettier and more interesting. Unforantely, Mj is always going to be the fat & ugly girl. Its sad but if she was nice her looks would not matter. GG was there for her all last year when she wasnt friends w/Reza and she does owe her loyalty to GG.

Reza also isnt very nice laughing about the situation w/ Mj. Reza should have stepped up and told MJ to apologize sincerely to GG.

TeresaToo
TeresaToo

MJ is a nasty thing, isn't she?  Toadies up to Reza, and others, just to be top mean girl.  Bleeeech.

gloria.maldonado.902
gloria.maldonado.902

@msmith76 I think Lily is a freak in her own self. Pleaseeeee someone that thinks she is better than anyone els....I give her the no drinking but she falls under the weirdness on her own.

doxyroxy
doxyroxy

 @pinnys  MJ didn't say it to be helpful to Sean.  She and Reza (with a wicked smile on his face) said it to be hurtful to GG. That was cruel. She was trying to get back at GG for the night at the restaurant when GG agreed with Lilly that MJ should have rsvp'd. You would be on the team of someone who did that?  **smh**

maebelle2001
maebelle2001

 @kiki13I give my dog soup bones(you can find little cute ones and he'll love chewing on them and you'll love watching him . I ahve a carin terrior -small, not as small as yours and his last four days. Great for his teeth too. In fact I throw them out. he can't take them apart .The most important thing is the bone isn't brittle on soup or steak bones so he's safe.

 

rorysgirl60
rorysgirl60

 @KimC

 I totally agree! MJ is a hot mess. I think she drinks all the time even before they go out to bars, dinners, etc. For some strange reason (maybe she has a magic mirror) or she listens to anyone who happens to be siding with her at the time, she thinks she's the bomb. Well she's a bomb and not in a good way. When she met with Mike for lunch and he asked how she was, she answered, "How do I look." She's always flipping her hair and wearing clothes that look like she's a sausage in a too tight casing. She flip flops between people, taking sides for whoever will benefit her at the time. GG does have her issues but when push came to shove last season, she always had MJ's back. MJ really needs a lot of help and instead of all the time she spends with her makeup artist etc. she should work on what's inside because it's truly ugly. She's no true friend to anyone and she'll be a lonely old lady one day and wish she'd done things differently. She is TRULY her mother's daughter!

doxyroxy
doxyroxy

 @bjunebug28  Why must people push Lilly to drink?  Drinking does not determine if a person is cool or not, whether a person is fun or not, whether they are exciting or boring.  Get over that one issue.  Damn.  No wonder people don't want to go to rehab, and they think, "I'll never have fun again if I give up drinking."  There's fun in life without alcohol people.  Seriously, there is.  Not everyone in the world drinks.  Look at the people on this show.  Does drinking make them happier and more fun?  To me, it seems like alcohol seems to ruin most of their fun, fuels most of their fights, and makes them turn into raging a--holes.  So tell Lilly again why she should drink? 

tonya.liscombe
tonya.liscombe

 @red2 I agree except for mj's mom being prettier and interesting. I think mj's mom is verbally abusive.but I have seen her make an effort to improve their relationship. I hope they continue with there therapy

whovianforlife
whovianforlife

 @TeresaToo

  I think that both MJ and Reza are both shit-stirrers from the word go. They are mean-spirited, and enjoy watching other people in pain from something they've created. The show needs to have GG and Mike give them both the permanent dismissal from their "group".  They all act like they're 10 years old instead of adults.

bjunebug28
bjunebug28

 @doxyroxy No one is "pushing" anyone to drink. No one is saying that drinking is "cool."  My point is not the drinking, it's the socializing, and not acting as if you are too "good" to hang out with people.  My suggestion was to have "ONE" drink, hold it, nurse it, whatever, but not to get drunk, or be an alcoholic.  There is a distinction and when people can't get that, then there's a problem.

Vanessa80
Vanessa80

 @doxyroxy K  "doxyroxy"  like your name is a mature man or woman. :)  Its just my opinion don't get so personal. Merry Christmas!

doxyroxy
doxyroxy

 @bjunebug28  No, there's a problem when a person says they don't drink and someone else tells them to drink "just one."  That person has a problem.  The distinction is that you can be quite social without alcohol.