Lilly Ghalichi

It's clear to Lily that MJ is intimidated by her.

on Nov 12, 20130

Episode 2 starts with Mike and MJ fingering her dog's butt. Ewww -- go to a professional. 

The next scene is GG and I shopping at a cute little boutique on Robertson. Last summer everyone talked so much shit about GG to me and warned me to keep my distance from her. I was a little scared of her because of it. However, I don't like to judge people based off of what others say about them; I like to get to know them and make a judgment for myself. I must say, the more I get to know GG for myself, the more I like her. I realize she can be short-tempered and has her fair share of anger issues, but underneath it all, there’s a really lovely, really dope girl. I had a great time breaking away from work and shopping with her. 

This episode also gives us a glimpse into Asa working. As you can see, creating a product is not an easy task. Obstacles arise every step of the way and can be quite frustrating. I’m confident Asa will be able to tackle all the issues and see her vision come to life. 

Reza and Mike became partners last summer, however I haven’t heard much of them actually working as “partners.” Mike seems ready and willing to learn and work, but Reza doesn’t seem to be available for him! Come on, Reza, you gotta teach him how to fish before you can expect him to bring home the catch of the day. 

The situation that GG’s sister Leyla is going through is so heartbreaking. I understand that sometimes couples can’t get along and divorce is the only option, but when a man does something as despicable as this man did to his wife and his children, to me, that is nothing but a scum of the Earth bastard. Leyla and her husband were married for years and have two beautiful children together. To betray that family by cheating with another woman, in the family bed, with the children home, really should still be a crime punishable by law. How disgusting of a human being is he?

I respect GG for being by her sister’s side at her time of need.  No matter what happens in life, you should always be able to depend on your family.

Leyla is a strong, independent woman, and I know she will be fine in life. The fact that the children are involved is heartbreaking. I hope they get out of that house and into something new ASAP.

Reza and Adam are moving in together. Ohhhhh boy!!! Good luck to those two!! Living with someone you love is not easy, and requires a lot of compromise and patience. I love and adore Adam, and I think he’s really good for Reza, so I hope Reza can conjure up the patience it takes to make it work.

You don’t get to see much of my family in the show because no one in my family lives in L.A.! However, my brother, sister, and cousin came into town for my birthday party, so before they leave, we sat down to have a little family dinner.

My brother is a cardiologist, and well, as you can see, he thinks like one -- emotionless. I realize I’m 30 and am currently single, but I also just got out of an almost-11-year relationship. Give a girl a break! For the first time in my life, I am ready to open myself up to meeting new people. That may sound ridiculous to my brother, but that’s because for the first time in my life I am SINGLE. That fact that I’m 30 isn’t as bad as my brother is making it seem. I know there are still a few good eggs in there, right?!

166 comments
Kennyboy17
Kennyboy17

Lilly, at first I didn't like you, But after this table episode I thought you were damn real. Who wouldn't want to sit around and hang around with people who didn't have your back. And to continue not to hang with the group, you stayed true to yourself. Like you said, you had your own friend that you were happy with, like your beauty team. So that last episode that made it seem all sad and how you felt you regretting how you reacting at the dinner table. I was like... c'mon girl... i'm sorry if production had made you say that but I'm pretty sure no one would agree to that and that anyone would've agreed with you in the first place when you left that table. No one had your back, Why be friends with fake friends. It's worst being friends with fake friends than friendemies or something to that you said is VERY TRUE.

micahbyrd
micahbyrd

Lilly, WAY TO GO! Everything you said was on point...MJ was very rude and disrespectful not to RSVP. And, to think that you would reach out to her personally knowing that you ladies aren't friends is asinine! I love your comment "I make money"!

jmbgmom
jmbgmom

Lilly is an annoying 2 faced witch. She acts like she is all that. Look at the party she thru for HERSELF. Of coarse none of those people are her friends, one of her friends should have thrown her the birthday party. She needs to take voice lessons, so she can get rid of that horrible voice. N her 11 year relationship, I think that was all in her mind. She is nuts...

Toeknee
Toeknee

Those are the worst kinds of "friends" to have Lilly....the ones that stay silent or do nothing to help you out when you need it.....reza and Asa should be ashamed of themselves....

katiedidmomsaid
katiedidmomsaid

that dinner party seemed set up against you. I was most disappointed in asa. you showed yourself as classy and polite when mj took out her fangs and the rest of the cast sat silent, good on you!

Nolacoster123
Nolacoster123

Lilly! I love you're confidence, and your presence--but you can't call people uneducated!!!! That's a great way to alienate your potential customers who may not have a law degree like you. I know I felt special too when I got my JD, but I found out very quickly that everybody else (except my mom) couldn't care less. 

cavex2
cavex2

Love you and Coconut.  I enjoy watching you both and just love your hair, makeup and clothing.  I hate watching MJ and Reza talk about you.  I think the jealousy is too much for them.  

EdenM25
EdenM25

Lily,

I just think your success is awesome and your a great role model for women in business. Maybe a bit vain, but...it's not that awful to be. I love your whole attitude and how positive you always are. You rock! I think the group should be ashamed of how they didn't say one word when that awful MJ said they were her friends and not yours. Their silence spoke VOLUMES! I'm sorry for that for you. Not nice at all. I'm glad though that your the type of person who can realize when people are being fake and when they aren't. Too many fake people out there. Keep up with your focus and your dreams! Also, Reza....I just wasn't surprised by his inaction! Not one bit! I would never trust him ever again! He showed his true colors during that dinner! I used to think he was great. My mind has been totally changed about him. He's beyond superficial! I'm very happy your successful and that you have positive friends around you! You don't need people like they are! That MJ is really just GROSS! She really needs some drug treatment, clearly! It seems she only speaks up whenever she's high on whatever pills she's taking! And her liquid courage. Well, enough of those fake ass people. God Bless and stay as Fabulous as YOU ARE! ;)

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

it would have been nice if one of the guests had at least followed you out to see if you were ok ......weird how they just sat there and let you go

pam.miller.9889261
pam.miller.9889261

For someone who waxes on and on about etiquette you know very little about it.  For starters: the greatest etiquette breach one can commit (aka you accusing MJ of being rude) is to accuse another person of a rudeness (by doing so you, are in fact, being even ruder, as there's a chance their "rudeness" was unintentional, but accusing another of rudeness can never be unintentional because it is based on the assumption the other person is in the wrong).  Additionally, it is BEYOND gauche and rude to clap for or toast yourself - at your own birthday party or anywhere else; (do you ever see the Queen of England singing "god Save the Queen"?  I don't think so.)  It is also a major faux pas to throw your own party. It’s also ridiculous to declare a “birthday month” or “birthday week” – what are you – FIVE years old? You really need to pick up Emily Posts' "Etiquette" or start reading Miss Manners online. Seriously, your parents must be so embarrassed and mortified. Additionally, PLEASE stop assuming that people don't like you because you're "thin and pretty"; for starters, you're projecting and it just shows how insecure you truly are. It's a great defense mechanism - "People don't like me because I am so fabulous" instead of having any semblance of self-awareness and realizing it has nothing to do with aesthetics and everything to do with the way you relate to and treat people. I hope for your sake you read this, take it to heart, and work on changing yourself into a better person. There’s a reason you’re single, sweetheart.  You can turn this train around though. Good luck.

tjoy310
tjoy310

I hate to say this, but you don't need this show or those people.  They are not friends nor are they keeping it "real".  Their jealousy of you is so obvious. You've been nothing but nice to all of them & they don't appreciate it nor do they appreciate a real friend.  Just look how they turn on one another. Reza dissed Mike, calls himself team MJ after he dogged & outed her at he reunion. GG the "crazy" one is the only one is "real".  She's a ride or die friend. I'm willing to bet that your crew is probably plotting to get rid of you & GG. I wouldn't sweat it if I were either of you girls, you both can do well with your lives without the show.  They're sad, really sad

garfieldusa
garfieldusa

I have liked you from when you first started on the show. I am very disappointed in Asa. I truly did not think she was like the rest of them but clearly she is or she would have stood up and said she was your friend!!! Reza is just with whoever  gets him the most show time these days. I used to think he was a decent person but he has the "BUG" of fame now and has changed! You need real friends and clearly none of these people know how to be friends like that. You are better off without them!!!!!!

superfantastic
superfantastic

I am getting caught up on the show and I am so disappointed with these peoples actions!  You go girl and get yours...let them be miserable.  These individuals are supposed to be adults, this grade school mentality is silly.  Keep your head up!  

Picket@fence
Picket@fence

The 'Lilly Show', that you called a birthday, was beyond narcissistic and juvenile.

plainandsimple
plainandsimple

MJ's not your friend. And to take it one step further, anyone who is friends with her can't truly be a friend to you bc there is not doubt that she speaks negatively about you. You were guilty til proven innocent in her eyes. You need people in your life with backbones... or else you just have another snake in the grass waiting to strike you. You are prettier than avg, successful, confident, which automatically means you are public enemy #1... an insecure person is VERY VERY dangerous! But I hope the best for you, take care.

shelly3630@gmail.com
shelly3630@gmail.com

Lily I know we are watching you on TV, and don't really know you, but I real so, so sorry for you, to the point that I hope some of this  made up! If not, please if anything do not let anything that poor excuse of human being MJ say or do effect you or your life in anyway. It is so beyond me how, any of those people could expect you to be more then passing to her, after the way she has treated you from day one, and if she treated them or anyone they cared about that way, they would be just besides themselves. She makes me sick to the point I can not even watch her anymore, she would turn on anyone, she is out for only one person herself, that kind of person you do not want in your life, and seeing the way, the others did not stand up for you should tell you something, keep them at a safe distance. 

miabella12
miabella12

Lilly I don't understand what kind of a human being you are. I use to think you were adorable and very classy compared to the rest . I also admired you for your honesty and good morals until I heard you  ordered Colby beef meatballs. Are you KIDDING?  Do you know how they raise that aminal? they are caged in small quarters and treated inhumanely. You wear fur and you don't seem to care about animals welfare. Either you are ignorant or don't care. Either way I have lost ALL of my respect for you. Too self centered. I see you love your dog but for the sake of animals please be more considerate of what you eat or try to gain weight from. There's a lot more to choose from than that poor Colby beef.

neeks5885
neeks5885

What happened at that dinner was just plain wrong!!!! Friends don't treat friends like that. You deserve better and honestly you are way better than all of them!!! All they do is get wasted and make fools of themselves on tv. So glad you never gave in to the pressure of drinking and by the way if you don't drink they should understand that and not give you ugly looks when you refuse. You are totally my fave this season!!! TEAM LILY!!!

june1966@
june1966@

YOU ARE THE NEW STAR OF THE SHOW!!!!   DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU ANY DIFFERENT!

YOU ARE EDUCATED

YOU ARE WEALTHY

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, GLAMORUS AND GENEROUSE !

YOU ARE THE STAR OF THE SHOW!!!!

Mory
Mory

I didn't know what to make of you thru last season and this has little to do with your spat with MJ, it has all to do with that party, boy was that a joke. You don't know the meaning of the word friends, most of your guests were acquaints and pretentious ones at that. Most real people can count their real friends on one hand and were takin LA so get real girl. I will say that what come out of your mouth is certainly are amusing.

AKRogers
AKRogers

I think your brother's comments were rude AND sexist. PLENTY of women have their 1st child after age 30. Why do males from certain cultures think they are in charge of women's lives? Your party looked beautiful, great idea: Persian Prom/birthday party. I am disgusted by the behavior of the gang (except GG) towards you at the dinner. These are clearly NOT friends. MJ has constantly been rude, brash, hostile & condescending toward you & these clowns think that you should have just ignored that & allowed her to attend your party anyway? !!THAT'S their idea of friendship?! THEY are the one's who are superficial & PHONY !! They think they are helping MJerk's self esteem by condemning you? JUDGING YOU?!!!  I am disappointed in what I'm seeing in  the behavior of these people this season. I thought Reza & Asa were getting real with MJ at the reunion last season by addressing her addictions which she is in constant denial of (TYPICAL of Alcoholics/druggies)  but seems now they are just kissin' ass to maintain some association to MJ. And Mike needs to shut the hell up with his attempts to intimidate you with his manipulating remarks. You ARE the only REAL person in this group. Too bad so many people have such low self worth that they find the need to put you down. I'm sure you're use to it. Be yourself & shine on, you Diamond !!

MizzouTraveler
MizzouTraveler

Lily or Lilly?  Who really cares?  A pompous bore with severe body image issues.  The tells are all there.  Just a matter of time before she's out.   She reminds me of the toxic Faye Resnick.  ick

backgammon
backgammon

OK, Bravo.....is it Lily or Lilly?????

Bigwednesday
Bigwednesday

I think Lilly is interesting to watch. I think her silly comments about one of the reasons she likes GG is because she is skinny is a tad bit silly. Lilly maybe skinny but she is no JLO! Jlo is not skinny but has an amazing body that is toned and tanned! I look at Lilly and think, skinny. Anyone can be skinny...no biggie...but toned and tanned?

 

Anyway, Lilly wears a lot of makeup and has big 80's hair but she is interesting for this show.

shelly3630@gmail.com
shelly3630@gmail.com

Lily I am sorry you had to sit there and, people who were to afraid of a women, who can not even dress herself, say stop, it was like sitting at a school lunch table. I really hope, you do not forgive or forget, no matter what people say on here or out there, a lot of it is really jealousy. Because if I could, be that skinny, and have hair like yours I would do it in a heart beat, and my better half (my fiancée, adores every single part of me), and I paid for my own boobs too!!!! My point is, from day one, it seems to me, she didn't like you not because you were friends with her best friend, he has other female friends, you were everything she wished she could be, you can dress, you can get all your body parts in your clothing for one (god does she look in the mirror, it is not attractive when things are falling out, does she know this, it makes me shake just thinking about it), you can get any man you want if you really wanted to, and you know it, you are actually making money doing your own business, she pretends to, she acts like she works, do you ever see her actually work, I have yet to see her sell something, it is odd. So you like fashion, so you like to own our own beauty now, go for it, you can. If you read these, If I can let you in on something, I am 40, I don't look it at all, at least people tell me all the time, I found the love of my life, truly, I did, I went through a couple duds, I got two gorgeous, I mean beautiful daughters before I met him, but he adore everything about me in every way, and I could not ask for anything more, truly, so no time limit, it happens, if you let yourself open to it and to anyone. And keep people like MJ out of your life, they are just BULLIES plan and simple and it seems, her statement "I WIN" she is just a child, you are a grown beautiful adult, go hang out with adults, they are more fun.

gibsontara34
gibsontara34

you would have been better off not to invite her. Then there would be no argument. You just can't be good to some people...they will punish you for it

MissyItZme
MissyItZme

i don't know if you read this or not, so i will just say it.. Lilly grow up! who cares if you have a law degree or whatever you have.. Going to college and advancing your education and having a business does not make you more intelligent then anyone else lets get that straight. i got a really high score on my lsats and i didn't go to law school because its not for me but i don't put anyone down or try to act better then anyone . Although you and mj had your ups and downs, however you could of extended your invitation and allowed her to come. But no you made a stupid excuse and lower yourself. if you didn't want her than you should had to invite her in the first place. That really shows the character in you. I used to think highly of you, because your middle eastern and successful and educated but you know, all that does not matter. Actions speak louder than words. 

Standalone2
Standalone2

This was a long unnecessary blog. over the top.  I guess that is who you are all around.  Anyway RELAX a little this is a reality show not a New Broadcast.  

Dreid123
Dreid123

I'm not even going to bring up the evite mess with MJ. It just proves even more how shallow you are! That's why your only friends are your stylists! And you pay them!! Smh

Dreid123
Dreid123

I'd rather have a root canal than listen to you talk! Your voice kills!!!! You have on way too much makeup and you are extremely shallow! In the words of MJ, "Please take Coconut and circle your way off my tv"! Reza only liked you because you have money and that's the people he surrounds himself with but now, even he realizes that you're annoying! And you're a Debbie Downer! You better take whatever man can tolerate you. You thought you were so hot that Ali would marry you but sweetie, you are a hot mess and extremely irritating! Your money and your law degree that you mention every 20 minutes can't fix that!!! You don't belong on the show! Period!

pinklipgloss
pinklipgloss

@pam.miller.9889261  You're a mess!  Your story about rudeness sounds like the infamous "who's on first" scenario...you talk in circles!  If you want to discuss rude behavior why don't you talk about MJ not RSVP'ing to a party?!  And what is wrong with throwing a party to celebrate something good?!  There is so much bad in the world I say "Way to go Lilly" for celebrating the good things in life!  In summary, you conclude that because you "claim" that Lilly has no manners is the reason she is single?!  Really?!  What a ignorant statement to make!  That is an uneducated comment to the "nth" degree!

janshell
janshell

@pam.miller.9889261

 wow preach!!!! But I would add that they both behaved badly towards each other! There friends should have mediated and told they to just iron out their differences!

AddictedToBravo25
AddictedToBravo25

@pam.miller.9889261 Emily Post is passé. We don't live in England. I'm all for "I Like You: Hospitality Under The Influence" by Amy Sedaris!!!!!! My gift to all Brides to be ! LOL

Flana
Flana

@miabella12 ! Sorry, but you're thinking of veal. Kobe (not Colby) beef is from Japan and raised in the rice fields of Japan. Because there's not enough land for them to exercise, they don't have the opportunity to develop as much muscle as other cattle. As a matter of fact, Japanese farmers are known to rub/massage the cattle so they don't get sore from lack of exercise. While I applaud your feelings about animal welfare, please fact check your points before you post them.

CreoleRed504
CreoleRed504

 @miabella12 Ssssooooo she's self centered b/c she eats meat and wears fur.... If that's the case a whole lot of us are up S*#@^ creek w/o a paddle.... I hope Lilly eats her meatballs with her feet kicked up on her zebra rug, wearing a mink robe, humming diamonds are a girls best friend....

p-note
p-note

 @june1966@ gross!! Not in my eyes!! watching her is like listening to nails on a chalkboard!

freshidea
freshidea

Confident and strong. I'm glad you didn't roll over for MJ like everyone else. She could've RSVP'd to your party and this would've been a non issue.

katiedidmomsaid
katiedidmomsaid

 @Mory

 how do you know if she was close with the guests? because of what reza, the backstabber said? lol

pam.miller.9889261
pam.miller.9889261

 @Flana  @miabella12 Kobe beef is fed vokda/sake; why it has a higher fat content (up to 60% fat per 8 oz of beef) and tastes to good. The cattle are "massaged" to facilitate alcohol absorption into the animals cells; not to "calm" them.