Reza Farahan

Reza is sick of Lilly's behavior.

on Dec 1, 20130

I'm sorry that I missed my blog last week, but real estate is on fire again and I've been incredibly busy.

This episode was fun to watch because I got to relive the trip to the American River. MJ and I had a mini vacation in the car on the drive up and we had a lot of laughs, but the best part was the secret that I wasn't taking her to the spa. You should have seen her face when she was trying to get back in the car to leave, it was priceless! It was really nice spending time with Golnesa and her family, and I actually thought I'd be able to get them to reconcile, but as you saw, my plan didn't work.

73 comments
observer12
observer12

You all always start out with the statement "Persians are or so and so".  So is this the way Persian men talk about and treat women.  Lilly did not follow you around your were just giddy when she came around.  Your too big to be picking on a tiny women.  Every negative  comment you say about someone else really remind me of you.

samsung
samsung

Lilly is the absolute definition of a narcissist. Its gross. I am sure she watches herself in the mirror and gets off on her own attraction to herself.

 

Paradise68
Paradise68

Reza, it seems to me that you wanted something from Lilly...not the other way around. You wanted a commission out of her...you wanted to sell her a house. You gleefully brought her into your group when you wanted something from her....when she was a benefit to you and all shiny and "new". When she didn't buy a house from you and wasn't a falling down partier like the rest of you, then she wasn't needed or fun anymore.  What a conditional friendship there, Reza. Funny how you all attended her B-day party, ate and drank at her expense, all the while thinking she was "fake" and on a "high horse".   You watched MJ be cruel and petty with her all last season and this one and yet said nothing.  You all sat a table and said nothing as MJ told one of your group that none of you were her friends.  You all are cruel and mean spirited group, with the exception of Mike I believe, and have no standing to be so judgmental and condemning of another when all of you are so flawed yourselves. Lilly was your "girl" last season and now she just another casualty of your viciousness. Sucks to ever be considered your "friend" Reza. The position is short lived, conditional and is sure to turn on you in a heartbeat.

terry.maki1
terry.maki1

Reza I love watching you.....you're so funny and straightforward. <3  Mike's trying too much to be right and he needs to step off! 

 

Ariana____
Ariana____

Weaseled?? You were obsessed with her and brought her into the group...

mollytex
mollytex

You seem like you're not familiar with how you were acting last season when Lilly was your BFF and you treated MJ like last night's turd.  Now you're throwing Lilly under the bus just like you did with MJ.  I don't think you know the meaning of the word LOYALTY.  Look it up. You might learn a thing or two. JMHO

Stephanie_in_WA
Stephanie_in_WA

Despite what everyone else is saying, I think you calling out Lily is keeping it real! She IS fake, acts FAKE and the only people we ever see around her are on her payroll. I think she definitely used you to get on the show, which then in turn got her free publicity for her swimsuit line. She knew what she was doing, and now she's playing the victim. 

 

You all can be mad at Reza for his other actions, but when it comes to Lily this time I think he is SPOT ON! 

nikkicomley
nikkicomley

Lilly-Well it's about tme you blogged! I've been waiting so I could message you! Girl you are waaaaaay too good for this gang of fools! You are real, you have class and have no time for this drama. I do not want you to leave the show because then I would miss you because you are the only one who is fun, positive and a breath of fresh air. Yes you do go a littly overboard sometimes but that's just you and that's okay, who am I to judge or criticize. I am sorry that Reza and Asa dropped you like a hot potato as I'm sure it must have hurt. Finding real friends who have your back in this day in age is tough....finding friends who have your back in this dayin age in the state of Caliornia is even tougher, and in LA is the worst!!! Probably makes you miss Texas a bit I'm sure. I can't say I was surprised by Reza's behavior but I was very surprised by Asa's. I lost a lot of respect for her when she said that your friensdhip was still new....what the hell is that??? Just rude. Well you're better than that girl and just keep your head up with Coconut by your side, keep having faith and everything will work out just fine. I truly enjoy watcing you on the show, you put smiles on a lot of faces out there I'm sure of it. Don't pay any attention to the jealous negative people. Good luck girl!!!!

nikkicomley
nikkicomley

Reza-Ya know, it was only a lottle over a year ago that your head was sooooo far up Lilly's behind and now you've completely turned on her for what??? Because she didn't allow MJ into her Birthday party the day before? That's pretty sad dude, especially since you're the one who brought her into the group in the first place. You know how hard it was for her to be accepted in the first place. But you wouldn't care about that anyways because you only think about yourself. Lilly may have an upper palate but she has ALWAYS been kind, respectful, gracious and giving to EVERYONE in your entire group.....including MJ who has done nothing but insult her from day one! You, like MJ know nothing about loyalty whatsoever. Honestly, I never thought I'd say this but Lilly is better than you and MJ and I say that because beacause beauty comes from the inside and clearly you and MJ are not these days. You both deserve each other.

ebouffard
ebouffard

u all need a reality check look the real world if your part of the united states  our boys are dying

ebouffard
ebouffard

wow that's below the belt ........ lilly u don't need friends like that . your more mature  then anyone one of them

katiedidmomsaid
katiedidmomsaid

Dude I only hope this a fake you for ratings because its hard watching such cruelty in action. If it continues, I'll stop watching. Lilly didn't weasel her way into your group (and what a sad group), you brought her into it and fawned all over her. You might have forgotten last season when you threw your BFF under the bus in such a harsh way while talking about skinning Lilly to wear her but the viewers DO NOT forget.

doxyroxy
doxyroxy

Unfortunately, the Iran you loved is gone.  But even though you loved it, there were things about your beloved country that were restrictive and caused you pain & grief that you carry to this day.  Sasha carries the pain and grief of never knowing the marvelous place you adored, except through stories from his family, friends, and fellow Persians who fled their homeland.  In Sasha, I think you see the free Reza you wish you could have been.  In you, perhaps Sasha sees himself as the boy growing up in a chaos-free Iran.  Life scarred you both and caused deep wounds.  I'm sorry for that pain, but striking out at someone who isn't the cause of that suffering is wrong.  You hurt not only Sasha, but also his brother who certainly was innocent.  I don't pretend to understand what you endured, but I hope you don't allow it to fester,  It will only bring you more misery and you deserve to be happy, Reza.   Bitterness doesn't become you, but when you're laughing, you light up the room.  Also remember that you have a very true and honest friend in Mike. 

fell
fell

Reza, so the point is you did not make any money off the "friendship" with Lilly. What kind of punk are you? How much money have you made off of your other "friends"? When I first started watching this show, I could not figure out why a group of 40 something's would act like a bunch of bratty kids. Y'all must have had a really screwed up childhood, because y'all are still there in this childhood. Lilly  is way to good for all of y'all. And you know the reason why? She grew up!!! 

zocola
zocola

Those nasty genes of yours are showing. Show us just what kind of back stabbing animal you are. Distinguished? YOU? HA HA very funny. You are a joke. A sad joke.

Pame85
Pame85

Reza you and MJ  definitely deserve each other.... you are both fake and rude

Pottymo13
Pottymo13

Reza when you met Lily and threw her in the face of MJ you knew how high maintenence she was. As a matter of fact, that's what you like most about her, remember? The fact that she doesn't worship you and find you and your pals rather mundane and common is the real reason you now want to dis the kid. She reminds all of you of how mature people should act and that's the reality none of you can handle....in short, she's toooo classy for all you hood rats with money.

boogiewiz
boogiewiz

I think you should be ashamed of yourself... You and your mighties think you are all over the top. Lilly was at least honest... more than any of your little herd.  Not responding to a written invition and being upset because room couldnt be made is so dissrespectful .. she didn't rsvp so she shouldn't go and no one should be upset about it.. MJ is not a real friend to her.. Lilly was YOUR friend and YOU stabbed her in the back.. And end of season you cut MJ down with her being a drunk and pill popping and then this season you are getting the booze for this lush to drink.. You and MJ belong together, 2 backstabbing pretenders.... sad,, 

tjjpt
tjjpt

I like you less and less. You seem to enjoy mocking or cutting your friends down. You are no one's real friend.

Emmalisa
Emmalisa

Wow!! You're the worst kind of evil

liquidwallpaper
liquidwallpaper

Reza, You say Lilly should get off her high horse because she thinks she is better than the rest of you. But I just saw how terrible you behaved with that young Persian man. Calling him of the boat? Mad because he was lucky to be in the US and not in Iran where he would probably be in jail for being gay? He can't be openly gay? You came off like a snob and a hater. But we all know that the real emotions behind it all were jealousy& insecurity. He was young , slim and handsome. Face it sweety, there is no amount of nice clothes, shoes or jewelry that is gig to make you look better. Be happy with yourself, hit the gym because the kid was right you are a bit plump.   What makes you a good person is what is on he inside. This last season you have become too full of yourself and trying to sound cool. Just be real. People watching you are embarrassed you represent the Persian ay community. Mike Is a better spokesperson than you are. At least that is the way you are coming off on the show. And a little advice, MJ is a hot mental mess and you bounce off her like the same kind of fruit loops. If they put you , MJ and Gigi  together they could call you the NUTS of IRAN. 

Grageo
Grageo

Could you be more jealous of Sasha?  As a gay man, I'm also disgusted by your expressed disdain of those who "swish around West Hollywood."  How ironic you would make these homophobic remarks in such a bitchy tone while wearing an extremely gay pink and purple shirt.  Trust me, you aren't anywhere near the "middle" of the gay spectrum. 

lisazem
lisazem

UUUMMMM>>> Seriously Reza, you are the one that needs to get off the high horse.  you make us rather sick!  You treat EVERYONE bad, you put EVERYONE down, you are NOT a good friend.  what gives?? what the heck did Lily do to you, anyway,  why are you being such a dooosh??  

MJD4
MJD4

I was worried about you last season, and how you feel for phony Lilly so quickly.  You seemed to have seen the light!

BravoAddict513
BravoAddict513

I honestly think you are one of the funniest "bravo-lebrities" on bravo, BUT you are also one of the most fickle in terms of friendships. I cannot keep up with who you like... I'm getting whiplash over here. It seems like you get overly excited about new people (i.e. Lily) and you only pay attention to the surface without genuinely getting to know someone and you will defend these people until the end (i.e. cutting MJ, your oldest friend, off). You can also apply this to your business venture with Mike, I don't really think you thought that one through very well because you just go all into something / someone without really understanding what you're getting into. Maybe you need to just take a step back in your future relationships whether they are social or business oriented. 

PlasticPeggy
PlasticPeggy

BS Reza, you brought her in, she didn't weasel her way into anything.  As I recall, you looked positively thrilled that you had a new shiny plaything to stir the pot.  Just because she has a mind of her own and won't be your little pawn, you're offended?  Ok.  Also, at least you acknowledge how fake you are - you started a friendship with her to make a buck.  She hasn't peddled her wares to any of you.  Face it, you're not cut out for her bathing suits, or her business law degrees.

phillip.mcgaugh
phillip.mcgaugh

Reza, with all due respect, I don't know if you are self aware of your own motivations. Your roar in on a white horse when the trumpets are flaring (under the guise of offering friendhip: i might add, hoping that you sell a house in the process), then you turn on this new "friend" and they get blamed for everything A-Z, and then some. The horse does an about face charging in the other direction away from self responsibility and self awareness. Lilly might actually have some of the traits you are mentioning, and their might be some truth in what you are saying, but someone you are using that to absolve yourself and maybe some of your guilt of any responsibility. You talk about Lilly viewing herself as so above others, but you yourself call a fellow Persia someone just off the boat. Humility needed. I feel for that guy. No, I'm not against you, but I would be afraid to be a friend.

Dr.Di
Dr.Di

Lilly doesn't want to drink and party which is why she and "your" group don't connect.  Funny, you were more than happy to be associated with her when she first came on the scene, all shiny and new.  Now she's out lived her usefulness because she doesn't want to create drama by getting in the sandbox with the rest of you.  You are an opportunist.  If Lilly is smart, she will run and not waste another minute on you and what you call friendship.  

Lck
Lck

Wow.. Good insight on Lilly. But..I hate the way you treat the rest of your fiends. It was nasty to bring MJ to GG's family outing. You ruined it for them, and it was not your place. I don't know how MJ is hanging with you after last year. Either help Mike out, or cut him loose. He obviously doesn't seem to know what he's supposed to do. Make him your assistant if he can't sell.

bootsie
bootsie

Reza, you are the fake one if Lilly had bought something from you would be up her butt like you were last season after all that MJ did last year now she walks on water the viewers  don't see any difference in her that why the ratings are going in the toilet did you read what 95% of us said last week keep hiding your head in the sand if people don't walk behind you ,you turn on them.

Adoniat
Adoniat

I sure loved the heck out of you the first season.  Boy was I wrong!  I think the term mooshi-kaseef is what a good new name for you :(

Hammy27
Hammy27

I have to agree with the mean comments. Lily is new to LA and while I think she does whine a lot you all are being mean to her. I keep hearing you say "You have to have thick skin to be part of our group" Great, but does that give you a license to say mean things? Put yourself in Lily's expensive high heel shoes - new to town, high demanding, pretty girl who was hoping to find other Persian friends. Take it easy on the gurl! 

LilyL
LilyL

I am so over you.  You go for the jugular, not a gentleman at all.   You and MJ deserve each other. Both mean, self centered and you both have no loyalty at all.

 

And as far as being fake, Lilly was all you could drool over when you thought she was going to buy an expensive house from you.   Now that she is not going to fill your pocket, you throw her under the bus and run over her. Not becoming at all.

Toeknee
Toeknee

Time practice what you preach reza both you and mj.....

PLM7489
PLM7489

This is my first season watching the show but I did catch part of some reunion shows prior and wanted to see how MJ came back from all that was said on the reunion shows. I'm glad you 2 are reconciled and I have to say you are freaking hilarious! I watch the show for you and MJ she's a trip too!  Loved the rafting and camping that was so much fun to watch! I think the show is great and will continue watching. Another commenter mentioned that Lilly wasn't really connecting with any of the viewers and I would agree -- I don't care one way or the other about her and usually tune out her scenes anyway -- the fun ones with you and MJ and the others I'll rewatch. GG is a trip, too!!

9judgenot
9judgenot

Reza you are a flake.  You change friends like you change pants.  Lilly didn't sell her home so your no longer interested.  Bottom line she didn't put any money in your pocket.  I think you use the word friend to loosely, do you have a clue what it means.  You knew who Lilly was when you got involved with her.  Why does she have to drink to have a good time.  I think if it is not about Reza you loose interest.

cinchy
cinchy

" You've made ZERO effort to form friendships with any of us."

 

That's simply not true.

 

"You even blame the crew and I for the disgusting things that come out of your mouth."

 

Also not true.  She said,  "MJ **and I** said the worst things to >>>each other<<<."  At least she admits it.  MJ doesn't.  MJ can't even say sorry to GG.  Sorry.  Not sorry.

DawnMarie12
DawnMarie12

Reza you're the fake one! It's only a matter of time when your boyfriend finds it out too!  You will eventually cheat on him with another man.  Lily has class and would make a better reality show then the Shah crew that is on t.v. now?   Nobody cares what people wear or look like.   Nobody forgets how you made them feel and YOU AND M.J.  ARE MEAN SPIRITED PEOPLE.  Lily has shown nothing but class.   You are a Narcisstic nut.   

observer12
observer12

You are no ones friend. You are disgusting and two faced. You treat people like objects that you can pick up or throw away.  You are really hard to watch. Lilly is what she has always been. I have never seen her act better than the rest unless you call not drinking acting better than the rest.  You are very cruel and so is Mj.  (She probably is better than you two.)

Ronica
Ronica

wow! so Lily is your next target.  While stuff you said about her, some might be true, please do not forget YOU brought her into the circle and you were fine with her helping you put down MJ.  Reza, Reza, Reza! 

doxyroxy
doxyroxy

 @terry.maki1  Mike's not trying to be right.  He IS right.  When you have good character, you stand up for what is right, even if that means you tell your friend they are wrong.  It doesn't mean you don't love your friend, but sometimes there are behaviors or actions you cannot support.

Dee617
Dee617

@nikkicomley And you a dazed and confused nut who can't see people for who they really are.  I hope you don't have kids.  They'll turn out a mess!

fell
fell

 @Pottymo13 Exactly! This group of middle aged people is just too much. Can you imagine how they will be acting when they are Sixty years old? I figure they will be mentally entering their Twenties by then.

Pottymo13
Pottymo13

 @MJD4 Seen the light my eye.....Lily simply has reminded this group of how immature mundane and common they all appear and all of them resent her for it. We're talking about people hitting their 40's still acting like they all just graduated high school. Grant it Lily is stuck on herself but what is the crime here?  You got Asa who every single time she's on camera is selling something, always selling something, Mike who whines about not making money, yet spends mega dollars on poster for a bus, GG who makes us all sick, MJ who acts like a 2 year old on steroid formula and Reza who can't decide on anything outside of a deal....they all are just hopelessly stuck on not growing up, its rather sad to watch. Team Lily all the way.

ESinAZ
ESinAZ

 @BravoAddict513

 I have to agree!  Sometimes, I want to throw a nerf ball at his big face on TV, and the next second I'm laughing my arse off.

Agree re: Mike, too.  Reza needed to provide some guidance, take him on listing meeting, showing homes, ect.

dagove
dagove

I agree, though wouldn't be afraid.  Just wouldn't ever allow someone like Reza past the distant acquaintance stage. Would never know if a hello or a hug was a genuine hug or a backstab at some future date.

 

I'll admit that watching reality tv is sometimes like watching a train wreck you can't look the other way.

 

Saw an expose site about Mystery Diners where they showed waitress who was on prior shows.

 

Will hope Reza gets real.

If he is real, then I hope he someday can understand how much the title of this page applies to him.

 

Reza to Lilly: "Get Off Your High Horse" Reza is sick of Lilly's behavior.?

Is he so high on his own high horse that he has altitude sickness and can't see how ironic and self-contradictory he is?

 

katiedidmomsaid
katiedidmomsaid

 @Hammy27

 Word. And I don't even understand that comment bout having to have a thick skin to be friends with them. Is that them admitting that they are cruel to their friends? Sure sounds like it.

Amberlykan
Amberlykan

 If none of you consider Lilly your friend, why did you go to her birthday party knowing MJ did not RSVP and would not be there?  Makes you look like a bunch of drunk bums!!!!

 

katiedidmomsaid
katiedidmomsaid

 @PLM7489

 the reason that mj is fun is because shes always drunk or pilled out...her friends and us viewers are her enablers