Tamra Barney

What Tamra Barney did have a problem with was Eddie looking like he was having a little too much fun.

on Sep 3, 20130

Thanks for watching Tamra's OC Wedding and I hope you had a great Labor Day weekend.

About three years ago I watched a beautiful wedding from my balcony at the St. Regis Monarch Beach. I always thought to my self that I would love to get married there one day. Well that one day happened, and it was more beautiful than I thought. When I got the email that there was an opening and it was only five weeks away I knew we could make it happen.

So my hunt for the perfect wedding planner started immediately. We interviewed several amazing people, but I knew when I met Diann Valentine that she was the one. She thought about things that I would have never thought about. You will see more of Diann throughout the series. And NO I did not buy those shoes for $6,000. They were amazing but not that amazing!

CUT Fitness: I loved that you got to see a small portion of our Fitness Studio (CUTfitoc.com). Eddie and Lissa were teaching a BODYPUMP class, which is one our most popular classes. CUT Fitness is 6,300 square feet and we have three studios where we teach a variety of class like TRX, BODYPUMP, RIPPED, GRIT, CYCLING. WHINE-BARRE, YOGA, CXWORX and the list goes on. If you live close by, come and try a few class on the house.

267 comments
lorain
lorain

Why did you follow him around that night if you had no problem?

Judybrown
Judybrown

I wonder how many of Eddies family members pulled him aside and said the f*#k

Judybrown
Judybrown

So I had a little time to catch up on some of my shows on Bravo, Im enjoying your wedding special until I see Vicki...that's all I could stand. I couldn't finish watching, why in the Hell would include her? Alexis, Gretchen, anyone but Vicki setting there saying "I love marriage" oh please Vicki just shut up and go away.

LEFTYNLA
LEFTYNLA

Tamra and Eddie:  So Heather mentions Tamra's behavior at her bachelorette party and Terry texts pics from Eddie's bachelor party.  With "friends" like Heather and Terry, who needs enemies?

plcol1953
plcol1953

I just need to know Tamara, are you attracted to women that cackle...Vicky, then whomever was ewwweing in the backround. 

chatty
chatty

WOW, look at your bachlorette party segment and look at Eddie's, so totally different. I would be so upset, no excuse for what he did drunk or no drunk.

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

Terry is a jerk for sending pics to Heather and the women were idiots for going to the party .......when Tamra shows up there is always trouble

Sucked_in
Sucked_in

"I HAD no problem with Eddie at a strip club". You liar!!! That's why you followed him to Vegas. You deserve what you saw! Mexico in reverse!

Lubby
Lubby

Aww man I was hoping this show would tank and no one would watch it. My friends and I took a oath to not watch this classless train wreak. Come on people you vote by watching this crap!!! Get better programs for petes sake.

lynnwhitlock
lynnwhitlock

This show takes something that should be beautiful and makes it totally classless.

mshack@1993
mshack@1993

I Had NO problem With Eddie at a Strip Club. That is what this blog was suppose to be about not Labor day or Cut Fitness. You totally went around the world and did not mention anything about the topic at hand so I will. Yes you did have a problem with Eddie's bachelor party that you went as far as to even go there that already shows your insecurity. I guess you got amnesia about Mexico. Put on your grown women panties

olivia1952
olivia1952

How sad that your children are going to see you eventually at your bacherlotte party.  But I think what is even worse is them watching Eddie.  Especially your daughters.  If you have problems with them caring for Eddie,  you will see why.  He seems very controlling which I thought that is why you broke up with Simon.  But I guess this is the price you pay for a little fame and money. 

RHOviewer
RHOviewer

No blog this week?? hmm we wonder why... How about your bridesmaid and "friend" Heather?... we were hoping she would stop by to say some many nice things about you ...I guess you both know how we feel about you...

Kimberly07
Kimberly07

Eddie always seemed level headed and calm to me but watching him lately makes me concerned that you may have just married another Simon. He's showing some controlling behaviors by telling you who you can invite to the wedding, how much you can spend. Didn't he tell you he wanted nothing to do with the planning? I also think he crossed the line at the bachelor party. He has that nasty strippers boob in his mouth and his hands on her breasts. Not cool. FACT: That's cheating. Good luck with him you'll need it.

grandmaforever
grandmaforever

Tamra, I agree 100% with you opinion when it comes to your mother. She totally stood up for your brother. she just kept yelling at you like "we didn't need to say it"..i wanted to slap you mom!!! and obviously your brother is a jerk!~

CeciliaR
CeciliaR

Tamra,

I just watched the scene with this you and Eddies family. Wow! Your brother is just down right a  terrible person!!!! How dare he talk to you like that in front of your future in-laws. How embarrassing, rude and down right cruel. When he walked in he had a mission to embarrass and hurt you. The really sad part was that your Mother lied about saying  she said she loved you all the time and never told him to stop.  I remember the episode when she stated that she Never did! I can not believe that your parents let him do that to you. Those are thing you do not speak about the frist time in-laws are meeting. Keep your head up and I would stay clear of your family. I think jealousy has taken over them. Keep your head up!!!! XOXO 

eve.emanuel.7
eve.emanuel.7

Please go away & stop now. I think if you keep yourself & your husband on the show you are not gonna make it as married couple...so if you love each other 100% leave this show NOW!!!

Pottymo13
Pottymo13

Wow, her brother was on a rampage last night and I kinda liked it.....and so was Eddie....that I didn't like. All in all, the show is high drama bore....next!!

debsdebs
debsdebs

WOW that backyard family dinner was soooo bad.  I can't believe your family would air such dirty laundry when meeting Eddie's family for the first time.  CLASSLESS!  Your brother needs to grow up and get over his childhood spats with you and your mother needs to accept her responsibilities of the family dysfunction and and move on also.  Eddie's family look very uncomfortable!  I don't think the wedding planner needs to worry about the OCHW starting trouble at the wedding but better watch out for your family.  I'm not your biggest fan but I did feel sorry for you:(

angellea03
angellea03

It does not matter what we say got married regardless. I thought Eddie and Tamara were both disrespectful to each, but Eddie took it to a different level, but they were both wrong. I wish the best and happy they were able to move pass this.

 

drakey
drakey

You had a man as matron of honor because you were afraid someone might look better that you in the pictures! Can you ever tell tell truth!!

drakey
drakey

you had NO problem? then why'd you show up?

dandelion55
dandelion55

He's a man! Where the problem lies is with Heather for showing you the pictures in the first place. Her husband should not have sent that to you.

Canton2003
Canton2003

Tamra been watching the show pieces by pieces.  My only concern is every time you mention Vicky name round Eddie face show how much he does "not" like her.  But when you bring up Gretchen name he makes wise crack jokes but you can tell Eddie like Gretchen.  Overall you will have problems with Vicky being a friend when it comes to your marriage with Eddie.  Vicky going to be butting in then divorce number 4 will be on the way.

 

The only reason I'm telling you to be careful I went through something like that.  Where my friend interfere with my fights with my husband which were little stupid ones. Then I found out how jealous she was of my marriage to the same guy at the time for 15 years. (still married going on 28 years) She tried to brak us up which I won hands down.

 

So if you are truly  in "LOVE" with Eddie please set ground rules with Vicky being a friend.  You have no worries Gretchen being a friend but Vicky on the other hand look at who she is dating. For some reason I believe that is why Eddie dos not like Vicky because of Brooks.          

LoveBravoBB
LoveBravoBB

Tamra,

I'm reading some of these comments. Don't listen to some of these haters.  I see that you are growing and trying to be a better person.  Keep at it.  Keep working at being a better version of you.  I see it.  Your growth is good. Don't stop. Eddie is good for you.  

LoveBravoBB
LoveBravoBB

Tamra,

I am loving Alexis this season.  Eddie doesn't need to be concerned about her and Jim.  Rather, the issue should be Slade--who's a real jerk.  And Gretchen.  The other issue is that idiot BROOKS!!!!  I don't like him!!!!!  

 

But Vicki is SUCH A FOOL!!!!  oH well, let's hope ONE DAY THE fool she's through Brooks. And stop thinking Eddie isn't good enough for you.  He is.  Work on your inside--so it matches your outside beauty!!!  

Elizabeth1916
Elizabeth1916

My respect for Eddie diminished greatly when he felt he should 'get back at you' for something that he THOUGHT had occurred during your weekend in Mexico with the girls...but, in reality...you did nothing...he should be so embarrassed ...Eddie showed his immaturity and completely disrespected your relationship with the 'stripper stunt' and further made a fool of himself by not escorting you home and going back into the stripper room.  When Eddie first appeared on the show, I thought he was a man to be respected....however, he presented himself poorly during this show.  If this is the real Eddie, I wish you luck, Tamra...he also showed signs of bullying you with the "uninviting Alexis situation"...I hope these moments were his poor choices demonstrated due to stress but exceptions to the rule, not his normal behavior.  No one is perfect, but I would hate to think you are marrying an immature, bullying, philanderer; especially, after all that you went through with Simon.     

MAKelly
MAKelly

I have not watched your wedding show at all.  I think you are such a mean bully after watching you on the housewives.  You pretend to change, but watching the reunion was a bit to much of the mean bully coming out.  You really are not a nice person, and I am sure you will be having a 4th marriage,  good luck to you.

tjjpt
tjjpt

Admit it, you are the mean one in every circle you belong. You were nasty to your brother, mother, and father. You were nasty to your housewife cast mates when you felt like it.  You r  dog looks tough and muscular but I feel he was much sweeter nature than you are. I think you should be thrown into the pit with the nasty Miami housewives like Alexia, Ana, and Adriana. In a scenario where those Miamian trio gang up on you,  if you can fend them off, you earn the right to be first B**** of OC.

As1helper
As1helper

Guess what I'm NOT watching again...!

angelwings9195
angelwings9195

Tamara please don't be the next Teresa G. from New Jersey.  She got so completely star struck with her spending that now the couple will be facing a lifetime of problems.  I understand you need to have something interesting enough for the public to want to watch your new show, but really it is only one days worth of memories, and really the over-the-top wedding for your 3rd marriage seems just ridiculous, and its not at all what Eddie signed up for.  maybe your salary for the new show may be your justification for the expenses, it just makes you look a bit snooty and irresponsible.

girlygirl1972
girlygirl1972

I was thinking the same thing!!  They looked like they loved seeing Tamra and Eddie fighting. Terry had smile on his face. 

Karianne
Karianne

 @Lubby I didn't watch and judging by the comments I didn't miss much!

Martinez8Betty
Martinez8Betty

 @Kimberly07  how GROSS!!! a breast in his MOUTH..I will have to watch again.. Yikes....Good Luck with that Tam,,,It's JUST SAD......

 

RHOviewer
RHOviewer

 @CeciliaR The right question is what make the majority of viewers and people in her life including family members say ill things about her? I don't think jealousy is the answer. I don't  think the majority of people think she's evil just because they're jealous if her.... This is a "damaged woman" who doesn't know how to heal her relationships. And I wish she lives her mother alone.....

drakey
drakey

 @Pottymo13 UGH all these comments are making me curious to watch!

RHOviewer
RHOviewer

 @LoveBravoBB Where do you see that because most of us would like to see that too! Do you mean the timely calculated and emotional admissions, or the timely calculated apologies for the camera? That's not what help  people change...This woman has an inherent anger issues she can not talk about someone or to someone she disagrees with without diminishing the person or throwing venom, period.  For what is worth actually feel sorry for her because she doesn't seem to learn from anything in her life. And she continues to do so to this day, you just have to see what she still says about Gretchen these days... This is a sickness, Gretchen doesn't even mention her anymore she's focusing on her business and her real friends....

As for Heather she just thinks  she better have her as a "friend" than as an enemy,  it's that simple Does anyone really think the uppity Heather would befriend someone as trashy as Tamra if it were not for the camera?

Her only match is another damaged human being named Vicki, they really deserve each other. Even their friendship is not not based on mutual respect ,but rather on common interest, that is bring down whomever they feel threatened  by...

angelwings9195
angelwings9195

 @Elizabeth1916 you don't think that Tamara letting the Mexican stripper bounce his junk off her face is disrespectful or letting the stripper put his face in her ... is disrespectful,  heck even in the bar before the strippers while she was dancing on the bar  she let that  guy do the same thing.  Karma just served up what she deserved or at least needed to realize how wrong it was to allow those things to happen in the first place.

 

drakey
drakey

 @tjjpt LMAO!!!!!! What a concept! Are you listening Andy!!

CeciliaR
CeciliaR

 @RHOviewer I don't know how one "Lives her mother alone" ? Can you explain this? Her Mother was a disgusting example that night she lied and let her son ruin Tamra and Eddies party.  

 

angelwings9195
angelwings9195

 @RHOviewer  @LoveBravoBB  did anyone catch the scene after Eddie hears about what really did happen in Mexico, to which Tamara still denies and showing just what friendship means to her, "oh you're going on what Heather said" or something to that meaning...Heather didn't lie, she just didn't realize that Tamara does lie and didn't tell Eddie about Mexico.  The fact that Tamara omitted things about Mexico makes one think that she realized those things were inappropriate and disrespectful.  (Because Tamara has always overshared about her life to Eddie, to a fault in some cases.)

RHOviewer
RHOviewer

 @CeciliaR How do you know that?....hmm...let me see, .you must have some time on your hand....don't get in that, you won't win!

CeciliaR
CeciliaR

 @RHOviewer  @CeciliaR   I scrolled down the page and half the post are yours. I must be so boring being you. just a little advise GET A LIFE IT IS ONLY A TV SHOW!!!!

RHOviewer
RHOviewer

 @drakey  @CeciliaR Thank you for the correction! I actually like when people correct my mistakes, what i don't like is when people think they're perfect...

drakey
drakey

 @RHOviewer  @CeciliaR RHOviewer, I think you meant semi colon; sorry!! and yes she needs to leave her mother alone! The woman looks like a whipped pup!

RHOviewer
RHOviewer

 @CeciliaR Oh really ? you don't know what I meant and yet you addressed perfectly my claim...hmm interesting, how did you figure it out? Hey smart a** I have some suggestions for you: a semi column after "night" and an apostrophe after Tamra and Eddies" would be better...

Now about the mother, yes I feel very sorry for her because Tamra can't stop putting her on the spot again and again. Besides she had already talked about this previously with her, so why rehash again and again about the same thing on camera? You can see that the mother feels already bad... it really makes me sad to see her sad face all the time! I don't ever recall seeing this poor woman happy...Tamra is just USING HER MOTHER  FOR SYMPATHY and she's not going to get any from me!!!!