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Kelly Bensimon Offers Sext Ed

"Use discretion" when sending flashy photos, warns K.

To sext, or not to sext? Kelly Bensimon answers the question. "I personally think if you are sex texting with your significant other, it can be kind of fun!" The Real Housewives of New York City star tells HollywoodLife. "It's like wearing sexy lingerie."

On the other hand, if you're single, Kelly's taking a shot of Patti Stanger's no-sex-before-monogamy cocktail and adding no sexting, either, to the menu. "Guys talk! Anyone that says they don't are liars," the leggy beauty warns about your scandalous messages being passed around the locker room. "They literally sometimes exchange things. I know a lot of guys and they show me all this stuff [and say], 'Haha. Look at this girl.' I'm telling you, from all of my male friends, that's what they do."

This advice doesn't imply Kelly's freak number is in the red zone; she just advises using discretion. Texting "I'm wearing a blue bra"? Fine. Showing that? Not so much. "If you're doing that and you're not in a committed relationship, it shows you don't have a lot of self-esteem and it's not attractive to guys," explains the former model.

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