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Hi Patti,

I have seen your programme for-quite-some-times, I found that your professional approach is very refined and up to precision (whether the result is yes or no) you do not find difficult to speak up your mind. Excellent!!!

I have a small quesion from you - are there any websites available for international matrimony alliances. What I mean to say, USA girl or boys want to marry with Asian or Europoean citizens.

JUST A GOOD IDEA FOR YOU ALSO.

Best Regards,
Amit

Dear Patti
I Live in Guatemala City, I am 42 yrs old and I like your show, what do I have to do to have the oportunity to participate on your show, I would like to find a men like 45yrs old or more that doesn't want a 20 yrs old girl, a men who wants someone like me
BR
Claudia

Hi Patti,

I'm 26 yrs old and recently broke up with my on and off boyfriend of 7 yrs. I love him very much but I got tired of waiting for a commitment from him. I want a family and be with someone that wants to give me just that. I have been dating these past months some sweet some jerks but none catch my attention. I hate dating and just wish I knew how to read the signs before I enter into another relationship that will lead to no where.

Heart Broken

Hello Patti,

I'm 28 and have just met the first "good guy" since my fiance died 10 years ago. He's a gentleman, works hard, LOVES his mom, takes wonderful care of his daugher and is super exciting, accomodating, supportative and all.....at least for right now.lol
I'm not jumping things too far ahead in my mind and assuming he's gonna be "the father of my kids", but from going out with him and talking with him he does seem like someone I'd be proud to call "my boyfriend."
But here is where it gets tricky: After long-term casual dating situations I decided to go back to no-sex at all (or at least until I'm in a relationship and comfortable w/where it was going). Well, a week ago I messed that up with him. Now it was known between the two of us when we first met that neither of us was gonna "rush" into a one,but if we cared for one another and it was going in that direction then being in a monogamous relationship would be lovely. I've asked myself how does one justify rushing into bed but not a relationship,but you can't.And to top it off,sex is HIGH on his list as "pre-requisites" to deciding on whether you're girlfriend material. How do I "work backwards" to fix this situation,b/c though it's happened only once, I really dont want this to be about sex.Especially since we connected on so many other levels before we even got there.
-Tia

Hi patty!!
I just watch your tv show, i´m really curious and interested.
i have 31 years old,single,pretty, blondy, green eyes and a big smile, hardworker, creative, spiritually, i am mexican and right now i´m working in Chile as a Brand KAM since last year but i´ll come back to México in few months.i used to go to LA frecuently when i lived in mexico city, i really like it. i totaly convince that my husband is overthere. i work since 15 years and live independent since 21. i love my family and thats one on the reasons that i want to return to México. i want to be part on your dating pool. what can i do?
i really think that i have a lot of qualities.Right now i want to know the guy of my life and share with him and make a precious family.
where can i give you a picture with my caracteristcs?
thank you!
Leonora

Patti,
YOU ARE A GENIUS!!! I am so glad there is a woman teaching men how to properly date girls AND it's on t.v. Please keep your show coming and hopefully any douchebags that are watching will learn!!!!
xo,
sarah

When does the new season start?

I started watching your show this past summer and I have to say that I'm addicted to it!

I have a question. I'm 19 going onto 20 in October. There's a guy that I really like and he happens to be a friend of mine. We're both going to the same college but I don't see him that often because he's taking different classes. I don't know if I should confess to him about my feelings or if I should just stay quiet. Please answer this and thank you!!

Patti I love your show i can't get enought of it and i'am not a tv person
thank you.Irlande

Sorry, meant Andrew Stern. :)

Hi Patti -

I watched the episode with Josh Stern and was absolutely enamored by him. Is he still with Whitney? I would love to meet him if not.

Hi Patti :
I Love your show, would like some more info about your services please send via e-mail some more feedback-and I wish you many years of success ahead-is there going to be a third season on Bravo TV?

Thank you Patty for some of the quotes you make on your show, It is enlightening. You keep it real and believe in "Love"!!!! I have hope. :-)

Darlene

Hello Patti,
I'm a single jewish mother of 2 toddlers and have been divorced for several years. I looked for someone else, but I have realized that, all the different men I have dated,are just jerks, and not right for me.
I was wondering if I could apply to be one of your matches?

I read most of your new book, I can tell you, I'm cute and don't look like I had 2 children, men never know untill I tell them, and then it's....Bye-Bye

Thank You
Anya

Hello Patti!
I bought your book... AND LOVE IT!!!! The mirror mirror and Matchmaking map chapters are working like a charm for me. I get plenty of guys coming up to me and telling me how beautiful I am,the only problem is, I can't respond i have no idea what to say!!! Do you have any flirting tips? Also what do you think about acrylic nails?
Lauren

My two Jewish daughters are 21 and 26....They are absolutely beautiful, and I KNOW what you're looking for, and I have come to you're rescue. Your site used to tell where to send "professional" pics only. J'aime is 26 years old, has long dark hair and brown eyes. She is also only 5 feet tall and has a great figure..and gorgeous. Taylor, is 21 has gorgeous long blonde hair that is "NATURAL", even though people don't believe her. She has green eyes and gorgeous also. She worked at Hooters in the past, and is also absolutely beautiful as well..and 5'3" tall and most importantly "Jewish". It's seems as though you have a shortage of Jewish girls that have the qualities that you want..They are having their professional pics done. Now what?

who's the Asian you scared sextoy dave with...lets set up a date!

Hi Patii, I am 47 and watch your show all the time. I am a former Member Services Rep. I worked at an HMO for the last 12 years. I worked in high volume call center and when I hear you say you need more help I wish I could help.

I love to see people find true love and your show makes me happy! I would love to work for you and make things easier on you and the staff. Above is the my e-mail if interested. Keep up the hard work,we love it! I saw someone posted a comement about seniors how about plus size women? Just a thought.

Awesome show Patty, what ever happened to Lonne the guy who owned all the bars with Ashton Kutcher he was quite a character

what is sex toy Dave doing on Megan wants a millionaire?

Your show is great! I actually just started watching it. I was sitting on the couch thinking..."Wow, I swear this job is for me." I wish I worked for you and was a part of the staff. I don't live in the area, but if I did, I would apply. Sometimes I feel like I have the best advice to give others, but need help in my own relationship. Anywhoo...I enjoy watching the show!!!

I watch your show and enjoy it but get upset when you tell people to walk away from cheaters. That once a cheater always a cheater, not so. I made that mistake in my first marriage but I've been in my marriage this time for 25 years and have never cheated nor has he. So you could be turning people away from their perfect match by saying this. We all make mistakes in our lifes and learn from them, this is what makes our life experiences and know that to make a true and meaningful relationship work it is based on trust and commitment. No one is perfect, no one.

hi patti!!
i love your show!! i love seeing how even the rich have problems with finding the right person. XD i don't know if that's wrong of me to say that but it really puts things into perspective that maybe money isn't everything i guess. i was going through the channels and i think i saw one of your former clients (david aka sex toy dave on vh1) i guess some dogs can't change. thanks for reading!! and can't wait for next season. Courtney

Hi Patti,
I'm 19 years old and have never had a boyfriend or gone out on a date before. I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm pretty and fun to hang out with and i have guy friends. I'm not super skinny but I'm at the right weight for my height. I keep up with my self. I wear makeup and dress nice. I just don't get why no one wants to go out with me. So if you have any suggestions that would be great.

Thank you for taking the time to read my letter.

Marie

Hi!!!! your show was really great..... hope we also have that kind of show here in the Philippines so i can join a dating games also. I'm also lonely sad confuse. My ex bf use me after we having sex.... I lost my virginity when i was 27years old but its to late because he never ask me to marry him because he lie to me. He said that he is single and never married then after in a few months i discover that he is committed already with his wife and his kids... he just using me and i felt so bad and confuse i cried many times please i need your advice how to move on because i still love him but he is still a playboy .

Hi Patti
I love your show,I have a dream to be Matchmaker like you.

Hi Patti:

Love the show! Your straight forward comments are right on and oh so true.

Have you ever thought of doing a little matchmaking for Seniors?

Just a thoghght.

Thanks
D

Hey Patty,

NEED HELP!

My homegirl and I need a millionaire ASAP! do u have any tips? by the way we're in the MILITARY.

HELP US PLEASE!

umm.. Patti I know you're the match maker but when watching that episode with Jullien (Prob. Spelled wrong) I was wondering, Why didn't you just hook him up with a foreign girl? Someone who spoke a different language. He seemed more relaxed when he showed off his language speaking skills with the waiter.

Hello Patti,
Just have a few things to say about you and your show it's great. I was watching today back to back shows and the one with Bill & Heidi I think is great for two people to have feelings for each other. I didn't think that you were over 40 but look more about 32-35 yrs of age. My current financial project has not given me the time to be on your show to find my soulmate. I've married 2 times no kids but want to have some day. My 1st lasted 8 yrs she was my 7th grade sweetheart and the 2nd lasted about 6 months she was 34 when she past on with cancer. I'm a truck driver by trade and now trying to start my own company. Lets see I'm 5'-4 1/2" about 185 average Italian,Irish mix. I don't drink like a fish and don't smoke the smell of it makes me sick. I need help with everything that is a life long partner,business and family as well plus my outfits are not the greatest. On the business side it could be a half a billion dollar company in the transportation industry.

Patti,

I love the episode with Bill and Heidi. I can only imagine how many times your team has been asked about the progression of that relationship. I respect their privacy and your professionalism so I will not ask the obvious question. However...Have you considered some type of "follow-up" episode? There has to be an original show Bravo can come up with here !

Keep up the good work ! Maybe we will see you in Texas someday!

HI PATTI,
MY NAME IS VANESSA LYNN MCLAURIN. I AM READY FOR SOME ACTION IN MY LIFE, AND ALSO READY TO GET MARRIED AND HAVE SOME KIDS ONE OR TWO. I AM 33 AND A BROWN SKIN WOMAN LOOKING FOR A GOOD LOOKING MAN THAT LOVES TO WORK ON HIS JOB AND TO SUPPORT HIS MATE. IF HE IS A WHITE CAUCASION MAN THAT IS 34 OR 35 CAN YOU SET ME UP WITH A WHITE MAN. BECAUSE I AM SCARED OF MY OWN KIND OF PEOPLE AND ANOTHER THING DO YOU HAVE ANY ONLINE QUESTIONS TO ASK.

Greetings Patti,

Do you ever match people in Miami?? I live here and love it although it can also be a 55 yr old man and up...with the 20 something women city.

I am an intelligent..told beautiful, 5'3", 112lb, 50 yr old woman who passes for 40 all the time..without botox! I have been single now for about 2 yrs - having been in a 25 yr relationship previously.

I've dated men 44 - 60...love to tell you more and send a few pictures...tell me how!

Continued success!
Karen

Hi Patti, I love your show. Need your advice please. I am 46, divorced, no children... Will have a significant inheirtance in the future. I have a personal trainer I work with 2 hours per week, & do cardio about 4 hours per week. My hair is shoulder length, but I am letting it grow out. I have size A cup (should I get implants)? What is the best my expectations should be? HELP PLEASE...
Elaine

Love the show Patti the only problem i have is that i really don'r see to many BLACK PEOPLE on there....why is that? Love to meet you Ms. Patti and crew

Hi Patti!

I love watching your show...but is it possible if you could match someone not from the US....i would like to be matched and meet my prince charming ;D im 32 and still single...

please help me find my prince charming...

thanks and have a great day!

Sincerely,

Ginger "Asian Girl"

Hello Patti

I just started watching your show, and your show seems interesting to watch. I wanted to ask you, why would a guy have a problem trying to get to know a girl that he is interested in. I may not be the tallest guy, but I treat women with respect and I am confident with women. Even though I have not dated a lot of women. A lot of women I talk to and try to be friends with, seem to be stuck up, snobs and want nothing to do with me. Would you know what the problem is? And I have been trying to find away to ask this one really amazing young women out, we have been good friends for a long time, but she lives in a different country, could you give me some advice on what I could do?

Brink

Patty,

I'm not bitter, but I somewhat share "Jenna's" point of view from Chapter 1 of your book: "[Men] only focus on the physical. I'm looking for an enlightened guy who will love me for me".

At 5'9", I am currently a size 22 - formerly a size 10 - and I can tell you, I am MUCH happier at my current weight that I was when I was living on yogurt and salads, spending hours in the gym and breaking out into a cold sweat every time I walked past a bakery.

I am ENJOYING life now - since I'm not going to the gym every day, I have time to do the things I find joy in, such as visiting art galleries, reading a good book, going to a film festival, or going out with friends. While I''m out with friends, I'm no longer afraid to try out that new restaurant in town, or have a hot dog at the ball park.

You said that until "Jenna" got into the gym and lost BOTH the weight and the attitude, she was [basically] going to be a loser. Are you saying that it's more important for a woman to fit into every man's vision of perfection than it is to wait for someone that will love you for yourself? Are you saying that image is more important than substance? And if that's the case, should pretty wives in your world be prepared for divorce if [God forbid], there is some sort of accident or tragedy that causes them to lose their looks?

Hmmm....seems a little shallow to me.

Sign me - Fat and Happy

I met a wonderful guy about a year ago, however, we just had our first date a week ago. I know you have rules about when to have sex. When is the appropriate time to have sex. We are both adults in our thirties with past and seem to have clicked and I would love this to last and hope to marry this guy one day. He has asked me to go away with him on a weekend get away in two weeks, we have only kissed! He expressed he didn't want to have sex with me because he had feelings for me and the day we made love he wanted to be special so I think it's going to be that weekend. Do you think that's time enough? I'm crazy about this guy and I feel he is really into me too. You are the best on this subject, you rule! Please help me with this and respond before it's too late!!!!LOL

Patty,

I would love to set up a Millionaire Matchmaker office in Kentucky. How would you feel about adding a new office?

I am a 45 year old woman, a teacher for 20 years with 3 sons. My passions are helping others and making the world a better place. I have traveled thousands of miles in my efforts to improve the lives of others. I am currently divorced and like lots of other women am trying to find the perfect match. I have not had success in the past and would love to help other women not make the same mistakes as I have made. I have basically supported every man I have been in a relationship with, both emotionally and financially, and have a passion for others to not fall into the same pit.

Of course I would love to have you make a match for me, but for the time being I am satisfied to help others.

Best,

Michelle

Hello Patti;
First of all, Mazel Tov on your engagement! I wanted to make a comment on one of your episodes. FYI, the word "Gyp" or "Gypt" is a racist and derogatory term. As a Jew, I would think you would be highly aware of this.

Hi Patti,

I think you are fabulous and I want to know if you ever do public appearances- I am involved in a charity event coming up in August and we would love to have you come out.

Please let me know-

Ladonna

hi patti! i love ur show i just started to watch it few days ago and i want to ask how can i join in that matchmaking thing? do u have website? pls reply :)

thanks
sandra

Patty..
I need a millionaire boyfriend immediately …where do I find them??
J-

Hi Patty
I am 33 years old; I am an Interior Designer from Fort Lauderdale, FL. I am single, attractive, and independent, but it seams to be impossible to find a decent guy this days. Where should I go…where are they? I need help…

I am 55 years old....I was married to the love of my life for 22 years....we dated for two years before we got married.
2 1/2 years ago she passed away.
I would not know how to date if my life depended on it.....I don't even know when a woman may or may not be coming on to me.
Where do I start.
Also......
Is it a bad thing to consider dating/marrying up to someone who has financial security which I do not have.

Hello Patti

I watch your show and love it. I am wondering do you have any matches for a 48 year old in your brood as I am a very strong and independant woman and I have been alone for the last 8 yrs+ while raising my son and now that he is in college I need to get a life lol. I Love life and I am very much in a young mindset. I love the beach and I am very much a romantic. I can be in a champange or sweet tea enviorment I love black tie or jeans and tee shirts. I work out 3 times a week and I love the theater and dining out traveling and I am willing to let love in. I love to travel and laugh allot.
Hopeful Rosanne
Any Ideas for me

Patti,
What happened with Harold? That girl you set him up with has a striking resemblance to Marilyn Monroe.
(Never blog or post so I hope you read these....)

-Kim

I have a friend that is recently divorced and would be a great personality for your show. How do you submit an application?

Do you have Millionaire women for the "average" guy to meet,and fall in love?

Hi Patti, My daughter who loves your show said I should write to you. I am 62, attractive; I look and act much younger. I'm on eHarmony and trying to date; the correspondense goes on fast and furious and then the guy just falls off the radar! Is it a game with men; they have alot of womem they write to and then drop. Do they have any serious intentions of finding a true relationship? I'm a thoughtful and romantic woman, not high maintenance. I just want a man that wants to enjoy life with me. I was married for 34 years and became a widow. So I know how to make a relationship work. Please advise!

Is a Season 3 in the works? My daughter and I (both happily married to millionaires) really enjoy your show, and are dying to see new episodes. Patti, you're so much fun to watch, and we really admire the way you handle your clients and the prospective "dates"!

PATTI, MY ASPIRATION IS TO SOMEDAY BE A FABULOUS MATCHMAKER LIKE YOURSELF!!! I WOULD LOVE TO WORK FOR YOU. CAN YOU GIVE ME SOME ADVICE, WHERE I CAN GET SOME MATCHMAKING TRAINING, IS THE MATCHMAKING INSTITUTE A GOOD SCHOOL TO GET TRAINING?

Hi Patti,

I'm a voluptuous 39 year old woman who would like to know if you have clients who are interested in women of my stature. I would love to be one of your girls. I live in Los Angeles and I have been so into work and school, I have not had time to date. If you or one of your representatives could get back with me I would appreciate it.

Thank You,
Rosetta

Hi Patti
I watch your show as often as I can and just wanted to say "Great" job and ask a question regarding the show ? I am a military officer and was wondering if you have ever thought of stepping outside the millionaire club and trying something a little patriotic from time to time ?? How about putting your talents to work for the single deserving officers out there ?? lol -- I think it would make for a great show and who knows maybe even a match or two.

Think about it and keep up the great job.

Ron

Well, I was flipping channels and love watching your show but don't usually watch a whole episode. The more I watched one of your bachelors, the more I wanted to meet him! He was on the episode with two millionaires who were double dating. They appeared for their date with jackets and no shirts for a joke. It was the other man who went entirely the wrong way and was unsuccessful. He was very spiritual 46 and handsome. He is for me! How can I find out more about him?

hi patty, more power to your show. i wish it would last forever.can i get a contact number on how get matched or how to get a date on your show. thanks God bless

Hey Patty need datting advise.
I am a 21 year old woman in Vancouver. I dont really dont know how to act up during a date,sometimes I say really dumb things, and the guy isn't into me right away just because I said something dumb..I really want to guy to see me again, but it never happens. :( Please what can I ask during the date. I dont understand guys aren't honest by not telling you that they don't want to see you just because I said one stupid thing. And I am quite really picky..

Patti,I love watching your show!!Your so honnest and you handle a lot of stress and BS from people.I look up to you so much. Ive noticed you have done some wonderful stuff with diversity, even if it's Black,White,Gay,Lesbian, etc..But basically I wanted to know your thoughts on Plus Size dating. I know Plus size isnt the most accepting thing in society today but I feel their are Beautiful Large Women that have a lot to give (such as myself) then men just do not give the time of day, and believe me most of us have an amazing personality on the inside.Also I know many women are looking for someone to help with their weight loss and motivation,and help with self esteem, what tips can you give me in finding someone? Or do you think you would ever have guys on your show looking for Plus Size girls?Patti, keep up your beautiful open mind and spirit going. Hopefully you will consider this, Cause I sure as hell would be your Number One girl on the plus size show lol Thanks!!!

SOS Patti
I need your help to find what I am doing wrong I have seen a few of your shows and I can see you do understand the matches that you are with and you spot there problem.Can you help me.

Patti,

Where can I meet a wonderful caring,passionate,sensitive man?? they are surely not in the Ventura County area. And if they are they are all married.

Hi Patti,

I love watching your show! it is something I look forward to. Just wanted to say I really wish older women were looked at as a precious jewel meaning 40's just like 20's I haven't dated in over 10 years I went through a bad divorce. Some of your shows bring real light to a relationship and I realize what I am missing =).

Regards,

Over 40 and hoping Mr right wil find me someday.

Hello Patti,

I have been in a serious, monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for the past 3 1/2 years. I will be turning 21 in a month and I'm not sure what to do. I like to have friends and socialize and go out and have fun. My boyfriend does not. He says that all girls that go out are sluts. I'm not sure if I should be with him because can be jealous and he told me he wants to get married in a year. I am not ready, he knows this. How can I tell him that there is nothing wrong with having fun and having girls nights out? He makes me feel so guilty about doing so. Hope to hear from you soon....

I am no where near a millionaire, but had a question. I just got out of the military and will be starting CHP soon and have had no luck finding anyone out there. I have tried dating, but lack finding a common interest or what to say about my life. Having done 3 combat tours, it is not in my interest to share those stories at the beginning. Any advice? Also, watched the show today and thought the trick played on Brie was out of line. I think she is attractive. Is there a way of meeting her? Thanks...

Hi Patti,

I am recently 21, but seemed to have always struggled in the relationship department. I have had one long term relationship, and that's about it. I am pretty, very athletic and intelligent, but for some reason I don't get much attention (and this isn't one of those I'm fat and leaving that part out-- I'm not fat). I'm not good at approaching guys and I know that's part of my problem, but why don't they approach me? What can I do to remedy my situation? I don't want to get married, but it would be nice find someone.

Patti,

I just saw Access Hollywood, and saw you match-making the stars. I would like to be matched with George Clooney. I'm a school teacher and want to play. I'm told I look ten years younger. I'm a brunette with blue/green eyes. I'm single, never been married. Would you give me a chance?

M

Hey Patti,

I've been following the show and I have to say that I absolutely love David (the sex toy entrepreneur) and would absolutely love to meet him. I am very well educated but also love to party...I have a thing for porn and sex toys too (but that's between us ;)). I am also a young model and actress, that's his type right?

Email me directly and I can send you some photos :)

Please let me know.

Amanda

I love your show, but I have often wondered something...
Can you have been married before and have children from that previous marriage and still be eligible to be matched?

The reason why I am asking is because I was married for 8 years to the father of our three children(we married right out of high school), and we have since divorced. I am 27 years old and am just curious if you screen against these types of things?

Thank you!

HI Patty,
Im a big time fan of your show,your honest and you get to the point without any BS!

Im 21year's old, and live in Maryland. i was in a 2year relationship and i was ready to get marry, but the guy kept giving me BS on top of more BS!
Now i want to find a man that's not going to play with my heart and that's ready to get marry.
i know im young only 21 and want to get marry. but im not like aother girls that want to be from guy to guy.
i want a husband that loves me as much as i love him. and a family.
HELP ME!

Hi Patti,

So what do you do when you are a guy who does not watch sports, is educated, cooks well, plays music, teaches kids, has one of those different "Rambo" backgrounds, is cute, funny and charming, ends relationships on a positive note where everyone got what they wanted, no crimial record and has been known to do volunteer work, but would love to meet a real smart woman who would like a small family (1 or 2), but her career gets in the way?

I have no problem meeting woman, but a mix of stuff I'm lookin for is very hard to find.

Peace,

Ty

Hi Patti,
Love your show. Need help and suggestions please. I'm a 33 year old Journalist mother of two. I've been in an exclusive relationship for about 2 years. The man who I've fallen in love with has broken up with me 5 times this year because he claims that he loves me but is torn with accepting my kids. He is 42 years old by the way with no kids. He has been very involved in their lives including families. I'm very heart broken..HELP. Patti, I am ready to settledown.

Isabel

I'm a 28 year old male. Watching your show has made me a better guy.

Patti -
I wanted to let you know that there is a LARGE pool of single, attractive, professional women in Chicago who struggle with the slim pickins' of successful men in the midwest.

I'm an attractive 36 year old professional (Chicago MBA), who does triathlons and hikes mountains (I'm in fantastic shape), is well traveled, enjoys going out on a Saturday night and loves to read the Sunday NYTimes.

I think the men on your show would be pleasantly surprised by the women in Chicago. Please let me know if you plan to come out this way and I'll round up the girls!

Most of the woman that I see you match men with who are in their late 40' and early 50's are with women in their 30 somethings.

If a man has his children who are grown and a woman has her chilren who are grown, is there any way that a man would be interested in a woman their own age? or are they only interested in woman younger by a decade?

Life seems hopeless for woman in my age range. I am a CFO, with a comfortable income and asset base. I have been told that I am quite attractive and look younger than my years by about 7-9 years.

I recently gained about 20 pounds but my male friends in their early 40's tell me that I look great.

what happened to Bill and Heidi?

worst show on tv..sorry...we turn bravo off when this comes on..its sooo stupid! and i can honestly say, it is the only bravo show everyone hates:(.

I am 24 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. Even thorough I am a bigger person who is trying her best to lose weight and become beautiful, nothing works. Guys always look at the outside and not the inside. I would love to meet someone who i can spend the rest of my life with and have a family, but alot of days i think it is never gonna happen. I would love your help in meeting someone who will love and accept me for me and not what i look like.

Melissa

Patti,

Good evening, or should I say morning. I live in the Seattle area, which from what my sister tells me is an un-friendly city to date in. Do you know if that is true?

I have been dating on and off since my divorce 3 1/2 years ago and am having trouble finding quality men here. I would love to get remarried, but I am beginning to wonder if single men in my age group (gulp mid 40's) are only serial daters. Are all the good ones really married?

I watch your show, which I love, and am still confused over dating. I was married for 23 years so this is still all new to me especially online dating. My ex was verbally abusive but don't project that onto other men and have checked all my so called "baggage". I have a wonderful job with a large global internet company so can take care of myself, am intelligent, and basically a happy fun person. So I am beginning to wonder why it is so hard to find men in Seattle. People tell me I am a catch and very low maintenance (still don't know if that is a good thing) but one begins to wonder and second guess themselves at times.

I think there are so many choices online that men look at it as a kind of candy store. Or like looking for a used car. They go to the lot thinking they want a certain make and model, then once they are there see all these choices. Newer, older, and can't decide so take a few for a test drive. They gravitate to the shiny sporty models, which might look good but have a few problems. But over in the corner out of the way are nice dependable, reliable ones that will run for ever and always be there when needed. I know silly analogy, but true!

So, if you could grace me with your wisdom on trying to date in "frigid" Seattle I would greatly appreciate it.

Your loyal viewer!

Patti,
I love watching your show, I wish you could find me the ideal guy... being 58, & still very much attractive , i wish I was a millionaire, but no... I often wondered after being divorced for 9 years, how come a loving kind heart, sweet personality, great laughter & beautiful eyes, & smarts doesn't matter..... men are so shallow....I look forward to your show, your amazing, & yes your honey is very handsome.
keep up the great show... Luv it!!

Patti,

I really enjoy your program and how you are willing to help match people together. Well I am a divorced 52 F and been married twice to not my so called best friend(s). I now live in a Historic Mining Town in Arizona, I attend church but I feel that now in my life that maybe i dont't have that one certain person that will come into my life. I am believing that i will probly live on my own. Unless the good Lord be willing and put the right person in my life. I believe in old fashioned values.

Patti,
I must say i Love the show! I love your great attitude and smart witty approaches with not only men and women. Your a Come Out And Tell it like it is! I love that!!! I watch the show JUSt to see your HONESTY its so repressing! Im only 20 years old and Hay if you ever need to expand your branch to northern California I would LOVE to assist you. I am a big supporter and just wanted to tell you, You have a fan! haha and believe me i don't go out of my way for these kinds of things! :) Keep up the great work!

Hey Patti,

I've seen your show and I think it's good you're making an effort to get financially successful guys to find a lovely girl/wife, but it seems as if these guys are all struggling immensely!

I know exactly what these guys need to be more attractive to these girls without having to spend thousands of dollars.

I'd love to hear your comment Patti, and of course for those that are interested, you can email me info@livedatingsupport.com.

Dear Patti,
How much does it cost to request your services to find my
life partner?
Thank you.
Esther

Mrs. Patti,
I am 20 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. When I was in high school I wasn't really looking for one because I was focusing on my academics. But now since I am in college I want to start dating because I know that I have to go through this process in order to find my future husband. But so far I always seem to pick the jerks (you know the ones who start off as a nice guy but then turn into a**holes). I’m not use to the mind games that guys play because I have never played the game. Why can’t people mean what they say and say what they mean? I usually meet them off campus which my friends always yell at me about. But the guys on campus are like woman in BOYs bodies. They are soooo feminine. And what I want is a man but I don’t what a jerk. I can’t seem to find a balance. I find myself attracted to them (the jerks) at first because I find them interesting and different from what I see everyday (the woman/boys on campus). I want someone who will treat me with respect and like the princess I am: p. I was wondering if you could give me any advice that would make this process easier. Do you have any pointers as to how to behave, where to look, and what to look out for etc, etc? I would really appreciate it. I love your show. I wish I lived in Cali so I could come and get personal help. You probably hear this a lot but I think you're wonderful and brilliant. I mean I am not in a rush too get married (I still think I am too young…maybe after I am 27 or something around there.) And I know that I have a lot to learn and see in this world (and a whole lot of traveling: p) But I would like to start the process though. Because I do want to date the person for a while (like 4/5 years before I marry them to make sure I am not making a mistake.) Maybe after I get my master's, I can come enjoy your club. ;). Good luck with everything. Thank you so much for you time and patience.

Patti, Thank you for being you and doing what you do. Everytime I watch your show I wish that I was not 62 and that I could ask your to find a great love for me. I have been successful most of my life and thought I had a good marriage but I like you became a work-a-holic and lost that love. Now I am the outsider to the family because I was the one who ended the marriage to dad. Because of all the stress I let self pity overtake me. Then I watched your show and realized that I can pick myself up, dust me off and try again. I have only about 30 more years left of life before 90 and I need to get started. I don't offer much money financially right now because I just started a new career after a layoff but it wont take me long to get cracking again. I saw the show that you took on the gay community and was elated. I thought maybe you would next take pity on the older generation who very much wants to find love and companionship. I have full life time travel benefits with a major airline, little money and lots and lots of love. Please send any left overs my way.

Lonely in Plano,
Marilyn

How can I start my own matchmaking company/business/become a matchmaker? I have "matched" many couples and give great advice, but I seem to learn even more watching your show. Do you offer training? Help!

Hi Patti,
I'm 21 years old about to be 22 in 10 days, and my dilemma is that I am completely in love with a guy that I met my freshmen year in college. When we first started, we liked each other very much, but things got sketchy and we ended up being on and off for a year. During the "off" times, we both definitely dated other people. We lost touch sophomore year, but just recently I got in touch with him, and I realized that there is no other guy in this world that I love besides him. Still, he now has a girlfriend with whom he's been with for 2 years. I don't know what to do, and I know even though I am young, I love him so much, and I couldn't picture my life without him. Do you think I should try to win him back?...

Dear Patti,
The show is alway a showcase of mid to older age guys with hot young chics. Do you ever service 40 year old hot chics who are looking for a 40-50 year old gentlemen? Just curious, need help in Springfield, Illinois. Thanks for your time.

i would like to know would you every do an episode in south florida and if i would like to be the offical photographer and i would like for the pictures to be put on your site and i would like to take a picture with you of course lol !

i keep hearing on your show intro that you have a 99% success rate. but none of the people shown on the show seem to stay together. so do any of them really? and if so, why not have a show showing how successful your matchmaking really is -