Dear Patti,
I think you are a truly amazing and unique woman. I am 20 and I live in a small town from ohio, and I know that I would never be attractive enough to make it on your show or meet your standards...I'm kind of on the heavy side. But my goal is to grow up and be as successful and gorgeous like you because you inspire me in soo many ways. I would love to meet you in person someday and have a casual and decent conversation but I guess ill keep dreaming. Anyways my question for you is how can I make it in L.A. with the standards being so high and what do I need to do to be a perfect 10 for a guy??

Is it ok to take a rose to a man on the first date?

Hi Patti

I love the show when you walked away from that lady and said she deserves to be single.

I would like to know is there any room for an Aussie female.
44yrs of age, educated,traveled,if so please let me know.

My life needs some spice.

My daughter loves your show and would like to meet with you. She has limited time as she is an ENT resident at Yale in New Haven. She does get into the city almost weekly. I think she will listen to you and I think she needs your help. I would tell you more about her in a private setting. Thank you for your attention to this matter. Sincerely, Lorraine

Hi Patti, Huge fan of u & ur show. I don't live in L.A., but am interested in becoming a member. My apologies 4 asking this qs. here, but I could NOT even get info. Re: how to b/come a member on ur main site;, nor could I find a ph.# 4 ur club when using 411's help. I'm more than happy 2 send u pictures, my background, etc. Signed, What 2 do livin' in NorCal...OY VEY! Help! Thx 4 ur & ur wonderful staff's time

Hi Patti! Just finished watching your show and have a renewed faith in finding that perfect relationship. I'm looking for a Cowboy who lives somewhere in the West, but most of them have no ability to even take care of themselves. I am 47 years old, but most people guess my age 10 years less. I have been married twice totaling 10 years combined and been on a bajillion first dates. I am a successful professional woman, but still have the Cowgirl in me from my 20's. If you ever have a episode for a mature Rancher type, I'm IN. Thanks for spreading the LOVE!

Patti-

Love watching your show! I have been dating a guy that lives 4 hours away for almost a year now. He is going to be 43 and I am 32. He has never been married and no kids; I am divorced and no kids. He is a professional like me, so work is very important to us both. He has known from the very beginning what I am looking for, marriage and children eventually. I am in no hurry by no means. I was looking at relocating to where he is this fall and we have "discussed" this on multiple occasions. Now, he tells me that "I am pressuring him." He has told me he loves me maybe twice. He has been to my place 3 times, while I tend to travel there the most. I have been nothing but supportive and he has shown no signs of not wanting to be with me. We have a great relationship and have fun. Not sure what is going on though in his head. He left Sunday from my place and I haven't heard from him in 2 days now. I told him I was going to give him time to figure out where he wants to go...HELP!!! What is thinking? Not sure if he is scared of committment or wants to end relationship but doesn't know how to do it? Hope you can help me :)

Patti I was wondering what you think i should do. My boyfriend and i were dating for 2 years when he found out that his mother was sick and he moved back to Iowa to take care of her. We have been keeping a long distance relationship for almost a year now, and so I asked him when he was going to marry me. He hung up and now will not answer my calls, my friends think hes cheating on me but i dont know because we have been together for so long and we love eachother to death. Maybe marriage scares him but i dont know what to do. I really love him!!!!!!! Please help me!

I love your show and admire you, you are brilliant and an amazing matchmaker!!!!

-Lila

I love your show Patty! I just wish there would be more possbilities of millionaire men looking for women in their 50's. It would be interesting to just to see who and how they are attracted. I know, fairly impossible. I am a widow of five, with four grown, and the youngest is eight. As a 56 year old woman I am very confindent and very good looking but it seems men at this age as you say men are agist and are not looking for committment and with kids wow!
I wish you well on your marriage and look forward to more epidosdes. You go girlllllllllllllllll!!!!!!

So I am watching the show RIGHT NOW (March 24, 2010 8:30) and Farrah is taking Chris out on a date. I comment under "long distance" because he is from San Diego and I was attracted to him on the show wanting to know if he and Farrah worked out!?!? You said he was preppy, and I like thatt...so tell me, is he still single?!

I recently joined one of those millionaire websites to find a millionaire for happily ever after bliss. I was tired of being in relationships with men who would not pay for dinner or take responsiblity for their actions. Anyway, the person seemed okay, tall and fit. He was tall, a gentlemen, but his teeth were rotten in front. It grossed me out. Also, on the first date he kissed me and it was unwelcomed. The second date he invited me to his home for dinner. It was nice, but He kept grabbing me and trying to kiss me and seemed to expect more. I was totally turned off. I realize that compatibility is more important than money. And if you have money fix your teeth and clean up. Besides finding out some other proclivities that did not come feel safe, I made it out of that house like a bat out of .....

hello Patty I love your show im a latina looking for Love and Advised in the Love department, I LOVE YOUR SHOW YOU HAVE THE MOST PERFECT IDEAS AND I WILL LIKE TO KNOW IF YOU CAN CONSIDER ME FOR ONE OF YOUR SHOWS IM A SUCCESFUL WOMAN PAY MY OWN RENT PAY MY OWN BILLS,IM LOOKING FOR THE LOVE OF MY LIFE , IM A ATTORNEY ASSISTANT , AND I HAVE A DEGREE IN ACCOUNTING VERY SMART AND OPEND FOR A GOOD RELATIONSHIP

Hello Patti I love your show, it gives me hope even though I could never afford to pay a women of your status to hook me up. Last night I was watching the show and you said some words that really made me think that maybe I should reach out to you to get you to consider a women of my status to find love"if you had the money you would do what you do for free to help people find love" ok maybe in not in those exact words but it was close....the episode with Paul from Vegas asking the young women(jewish) to marry him on the first date. O.M.G. my pillow was so wet from crying. Now Patti school me, what am I doing wrong? This comment site is good but it would be nice if you could cater to a small percentage of women like myself and give us(me) the opportunity to experience what it feels like to love or be loved....if you given the opportunity I could be a great catch for any man who is open minded....so I pray one day to find love and hopes of planning a wedding of my own...

Hello. My question is... do long distance relationships REALLY last?

Hello patti!
I have been talking to this awesome guy for the past 7 months he lives in LA and I in Las Vegas and im not sure what it his he is looking for. I have been out of the dating scene for over 4 years so Im affraid to ask him cause I don't want it to seem strange between him and I, it is obvious we like eachother very much but how can I know if its just lust or he really wants something more than that from me?

Outstanding show by the way always watch it!

Hi Patti,
First, i love your show, your amazing and i think what your doing is very cool. i'm 26yrs old from OC, California, i work in an "Electrical Distributor" Sales, i was seeing this guy for a little over a year in the military, and feel in-love with him, it was so hard being with him cause he was always gone and was on deployment for almost 8mnths, i stock by and held on cause i really loved him, he came back and i was so happy, i wrote him every day and sent him letters over and over, but, it wasn't the same feeling for him with me, i didn't know how to come to reality that maybe there wasn't anything there. I would drive hours and miles away to spend one day of happiness with him, i would do anything to be with him in a heart beat and just recently he broke it off with me, because of certain reasons, and i don't know how to let go, i'm so hurt because all i wanted was to be with him and share love with him. i care so much about him, i keep thinking that maybe he did care, but, doesn't want to hurt me cause he is leaving home, he doesn't think it will work with the distance. Patti, please help me understand, because i feel like i did something wrong, i thought i did everything right, going to see him, being home not, going out so that he wouldn't feel i was out being bad or partying. i was very faithful to him, emotionally, physically and loved him. i never asked for anything in return, his company was all that i wanted it was the most wonderful feeling being with him, and i really feel hurt. Please, help me understand why we must go thru this heartache of pain and hurt. I just wish i could have been with him. I would have crossed deserts, oceans, and moutains to be with him for just a bit.

I am in cameroon
am tired of african ladies.They are not just ok when it come to relationship.I Need a lady from USA please fixe it or give me tips on what to do. I LOVE YOU.

I have been dating a wonderful man for the last three years. We had been 1000 miles apart for the first two years, as I was finalizing my divorce and custody. I fianlly moved from Indiana to Denver to be closer to him(a year ago after the divorce was done). However, it seems that being in the same city with him this last year has been very stressful and hard on us, and we dont seem to be as happy in the relationship as we were early on. He is very distant to me, doesn't talk to me much anymore and I feel like we're on two different planets, versus being minutes from each other....Now I'm confused... should I continue to try and make this work or forget it, and move on?

Dear Patti,
I just saw your show, in Athens, Greece. And to be honest, I felt that I really would like for you to be my Matchmaker.
Is that possible ? And what does something like that cost.
I'm a bit more mature than the girl in your show but I'm sure that there must be older millionaires out there who are looking for a woman that would really care for them.
And to really know that the person next to them is there from the heart, respect and gratitude. I am a very giving
person. And I know how to value and reward a person who knows my worth and appreciates what I am all about.
In a nut shell, I haven't been too lucky on my own. Do you think you can help ?
We can get into more detail if you wish to get in touch and if you think, a woman from the Mediterranean with an
older, sophisticated wealthy man would make it interesting
for you to take on this happening.
Thanking you( more than you possibly know )
Yours sincerely,
Helen Mattes.

Hello Patti,

I would like to ask if you could help me find the right person for me. I live in the south and am a farmer and I dont get too do a lot of traveling I have over a million in assets but I do not make a million also Iam a workaholic I love it. Iam not a bar hopper and living in a rural area its had to meet people. I was married for a number of years and I mis that one person that would make my life complete. I have no kids but would love to have one or two before its to late. Can you help get me on the right track.

Patti,

My boyfriend and I go to the same college. This summer, which starts when we will have been together for about 5 months, he will be working about four hours away. We will see each other many weekends, but it won't be anything like our current situation, where we see each other for at least 30 minutes every day. How should we keep our young relationship healthy and help it keep growing?

P.S. I really really want to know how you keep your face and figure looking so fabulous! I wish you'd publish some beauty secrets!

Hi, my name is Nicole from Puerto Rico, i married twice, aaa no I did not kill them,:) my comment is to Lance, God what's wrong with you??? And I told you that with respect, look you say one thing and them say another that contradict tha first, I see in you that you so selfish, inmature.

First of all, my friend how you said that you felt in love with the girl, only when you saw her, my friend i think that you dont know what you want for real, also maybe you act so fast and other thing that we the woman dont like, and this is that the men are calling constantly and are so posesive, no ,no you have to be cool, remenber in our society, the woman scare herself with that profile, cause remember that our newspaper are full of death woman by her boyfriend :( and how is that the girl cheat on you, God, maybe is time to stop writing, cause not finish, but for real Lance you need help from , read again, and again, your letter and you will see.

Well Patti, I like your program a lot, make me laugh and at the same time, we'll see , "the people and how think.

Thanks, and lot of hugs for all of you :)

Nicole

Dear Patti, I am married to a military man who is overseas, we try to talk everyday, but sometimes we run out of things to talk about. Do you have any tips? People do listen so sometimes can't be hot and heavy on the phone or web cam.

Hi Patti,

I live in Brazil and would like to know if it is possible to sign up with Millionaire Matchmaker from Brazil. Maybe this is not possible, but I need to know if a girl needs to be living in the US to participate.

I love the program.

Hi Patti,

I live in Brazil and would like to know if it is possible to sign up with Millionaire Matchmaker from Brazil. Maybe this is not possible, but I need to know if a girl needs to be living in the US to participate.

I love the program.

Hi Patti. This is not a comment, a just have a question: What a women has to do to get in to Your millionaires club.
P.S I love Your show!!!!

Hi Patti! I adore you and your show, and really appreciate all the blunt but positive advice you give. After reading these last few blogs, I've decided to order your book with express shipping! Your advice is so down to earth. In this modern age, women really need to be instructed on how to act in relationships, and you provide that gift, so...thank you so much.

As for me, I am newly re-entering the dating scene after taking almost a year off to work on myself emotionally and career-wise. I hope your book has a chapter on "telephone protocol" because I no longer know how that works. For example, if a guy waits the usual two days to call me (after asking for my number), is that a sign of insecurity, or is it still considered "cool"? I'm 32 and so don't have as much patience for go-nowhere guys as I did in my 20's. I need your book!! Can't wait to see it.

Patti, I just wanted to say, when I seen Farrah Franklin, my heart stopped, because of the beautty, and then to hear her laugh, OMG, I just LOVE her laugh, my heart kicked in and ran the Kentucky Derby :). I have my own money, I do NOT need a woman to complete me, I want one to have a relationship and do things with, Love is the biggest thing I want in life, I just can't find it, a real woman that is honest, and real. And I have dated, but I have no luck with them. They are out to cheat, take my money, and I can't stand that. And you proberly don't read this blog, but God Blessed me with a positive attitude, good sense of humor, and honest. I am a retired US Army Soldier. Thank you Great Show!!! HOOAH!!!

Hi Patti,
I love your show! I just have to say that generally I think you are a great judge of character. However, for the first time I was so disappointed by the way that you treated Jimmy D from Chicago. He seems like a genuinely nice guy. When he called Cara nuts he was only saying out loud was everyone watching was already thinking. She a Scientologist! Need I say more? If that's not enough, she was so superficial and a major airhead. Please tell me your chewing him out was only staged for TV and not how you really feel...The girl has serious issues. Jimmy I love you!

Hi Patti! I love the show so much. I'm a business owner in pet care. Your approach with people has been really inspiring to me. You have a real way of saying exactly what you think and are so confident. People may not always like what you say but they respect it. Your attitude has really influenced me to be more confident.

I think if I decide to move in with my long distance boyfriend, he will propose.. Why do you think if you live with a man before marriage, he won't propose?? I understand the logic somewhat. But, we love eachother and want to be together. It seems like the natural choice in moving forward. He's a good man and not your typical jackass. We've talked for a year and dated exclusively for about 6 mos. I'll be 30 in July and he's 32. We're both successful in our fields. I think we've both been out there long enough and are ready to settle down. So why isn't it okay to move in before marriage???
Thanks!!

Hi Patti, I have been dating a really great guy for a month: Jewish, gorgeous who's a yacht captain. He works for mega millionaires who travel often so his life belongs to them. When we're together it's glorious! He's the perfect gentleman. When he's away on the yacht I seldom hear from him. Is dating a workaholic worth it?

Patti, I'm 28 years old and I loved Jeff the jazz musician! He made me laugh out loud the entire episode. If I was single I would definitely give you a call and to ask you to hook me up. He's so hot! Just dropping by to wish him luck in love and I just wanted to say I Love LOVE!! Keep up the good work! Post Script: Surfing is an awesome first date and money is just paper.

Laurence was so mean to that cute Samantha. What a jerk. Hope she finds her millionaire and that we see her again on the show.

hello Patti,
I have been divorced for many years and just ended a long term relationship, I am looking to move out to aneheim calf durning the summer and want to know are the men any tuffer there then they are here in nyc, I fell in love with jeff you had him on last week and the girl was just so mean to him. I am 43 and have 3 kids 2 girls 21 and 19 and my son 15.. what are the men out there like when it comes to single moms and having that longterm relationship. I look forward to hearing from you and your staff, I think you all are amazing and I love the show. Thanks a hopeless romantic.. is there any out there

Patti - thanks for revealing your real age on the show. I was a little curious and had you pegged at 41 or 42 at the most - only because you had mentioned that you were over forty. You look fabulous and inspire those of us that are approaching 40.

Patti,
You got it wrong about men not wanting woman over 40. I'm 50 years old and I still get my pick. Marriage, no I am not married right now and I don't care about that. The right one will come. I'm having fun!
Patricia in Massachusetts

Patti, dearest: I want to exude your sexiness. How on earth do you walk in such stilettos without falling or wailing from pain at the end of the day?
-Clumsy and clueless

Hi Patti!

You're doing a fabulous job of sharing your ability to link people together, and to entertain the TV viewers; coupled with your teaching the "ageist" and silly boys, how to be men! Very enjoyable! Your patience is admired. Cheers! And warm wishes, Laurie-Beth

Hi Patti,
Hola Patricia,

I love your program, I have a suggestion ... you should integrate your, Millonaire Latin.
It would be interesting to do something like Latin Millionaire in Spanish.

Me encanta tu programa, tengo una sugerencia...deberias integrar a tu programa latinos y latinas Milllonarios.
Seria interesante hacer algo como ¨Latin Millionaire¨ en español, para los latinos.

I just watched season 2, episode 5, (I think) Chris, the millionair surfer......and age-ist!
Well, let me just say.....I LOVE surfing and I would have loved the first date as surfing then dinner. He was right on one thing....unless you know the high you get riding a wave, you won't get it. and I also liked the fact he wasn't into material things. Very cool.
But my God......35 is young! The gal he picked was awesome and smart and beautiful. He didn't call her again...what a jerk. He is a age-ist!!!!!!
I will tell you, I am 53 and could hold my own with any 20-something. I surf, rock-climb and play the drums. I look younger then my age and guys in their 20's always ask me out.
That being said, I would never discount anyone because of their age. Chris is cutting himself short because he is so narrow-minded. I just can't believe this......I am soooooooo mad!
I just had to sound off.

Thank you!
surfmamma

Hi Patti, i love you show....
Just wondering, i got divorced few years agos(married for 6 and im only 25 age old)... till cant put myself out there completely and dont know how to do it, in someway i think im scared to get hurt ago,,, how do i do it?

thanx for the attention to the present

When are you going to come up to San Francisco and try it hear? It is vitually impossible to even date anybody in the bay area.

I think you would find it very challenging to try matchmaking in this city. I just turned 40 and have only dated 2 guys in the last 8 years in SF. I am looking at moving to another city since I feel it is not happening to me here. I would love to see a show based out of SF.

Hey Patti, just started watching ur show and it's great i like it i wish i can be apart of it cuz i like older sucessful woman i think it's sexy but im not no millionaire lol so sucks for me...i liked shana tht superficial B what u like to call her, i tihk she is wild and sexii and she needs a wild guy like my self specailly if she like young guys! like Ashton Kutcher... ur great i love ur personality..w/b

I think this show is the best. Patti tells it like it is. You can't be in more honest than Patti. I loved the one with the millionaire bitch Shauna from Mn. Isn't it interesting when people don't like to hear the truth. I hope Patti never changes. You go girl.

Hi Patti-
Love your show! I just watched the episode with Jeff Koz and thought he was just adorable, and couldn't' stop thinking about him. I hope that you have found his soul mate. Honestly there have been some of your guys that I could care less about, but Jeff seemed so genuine and sincere - a truly likeable guy.
I am 52, mother of two wonderful young men, divorced for 7 years and I am currently trying the dating scene. Which at this age, can really suck sometimes. I have learned a great deal from watching your show and have kept a positive and open mind, and learned confidence when it comes to dating especially at this point in my life.
Keep doing what you're doing! You and and your staff are a joy to watch.

Patti, in the intro to your show, you say that you have a 99% success rate, yet I have yet to see one match that has worked from the shows. Why no follow-up on couples as that would be the best PR??

I've been dating someone for nearly a year, have no clue where it's heading or what it is. At times he makes me feel like a million, the other times not so much. What shuld I do, ride the waves or get out of the waters?

Patti, I watch your show all the time. I love how you are very upfront and honest with the guys. You give them a good love kick in the butt, and I always clap when you do it. Just wish you could give some guys here in Ohio a good kick as well. Keep it up!!

Hi patti! my boyfriend and i are huge fans of your show. you are so dead on, it's spooky. but, i have a quesiton...

my boyfriend has been on tour for 6 weeks, which was hard but doable. we have been together for 5 months. however, i just found out he is going on a 4 week tour in europe, then an all summer US tour. he will be gone for several months...with little communication b/c the life of a tour mgr. is crAzy. anyways, do you have any suggestions? like, is it too pushy to talk about expectation levels while he is away?

Patty - I don't think it was necessary to talk about what great Blow jobs you give. You have No Class and I, for one, will no longer watch your show. You are a Lousy matchmaker and I don't believe your 99% satisfaction record judging by what I see on the show.