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Hey Patti,

I don't have a dating question (am very happily married!) but hope you will answer it anyway! I love the black eyeglasses you wear when you're working. What brand and type are they? I want to buy a new glasses frame and would love a pair the same!

best wishes,
Venus

Hi Patti, I've seen your show a few times and I like your mocksy. I'm a successful (marginally in comparison to the financial heavyweights who come on your show) Holistic Practitioner. I quantify my success by not only my financial stability but also my internal tranquility. I've done a great deal to evolve to my current status/level and believe that this is the time of my life when I'm at my peak in terms of beauty, wisdom, sensuality, and all that I have to offer as a person.

Patti, I've never been married. I'm definitely not a shy person, in fact when I was younger I was a wild little jetsetter....it has taken me a long time to settle in I suppose! And now, at this age, I'm stuck. I have grown into, of all things, A LADY! Dating websites are a little too casual for my taste. And Patti, I haven't been on a date in 9 years! And, to add to it I've been thinking that there's really only one kind of man that I want to be with....OK, how stupid is that! But at 53 I can say I know what I want! I want a Sea Captain! Can you help me to find him? Or can you give me a 'talking to' and a labotomy?

Hi Patti!!!

I love your show!!! I'm watching from Brazyl and it's great! I'm just woundering if you also work in other countries than US, cause I really need a boyfriend.
It's very dificult to find someone interested in a real relashionship, especially with a sucessfuly girl...
So, if you can help me...
Tks a lot and congratulations for your show!!

Paty

Hi Patti,
I really like your show and I think all your comments and analytical aspects on dating are genius. I really admire your honest opinions. So if I may ask you a question because I long for a relationship but somehow I'd always end up being single. I'm not interested in sex or hookups the first time meeting. I'm a 21 year old male who's gay but no one even notice because I tend to look straight. I'm out to everyone though. If I date a guy, he would enthusiastically talk to me for a week or two and then ignore me basically until I ask what's up. I'd end up getting hurt after that. I am patient but waiting for a week or so doesn't help. I wonder why that is or are most gay guys find ignorant is bliss? And how would I meet a "great" gay guy in a small town in NH? Thank you for your interest in my question.

Hi Patti, im from Brasil. I wonder if u could help me find my match despite of my location....
I lived in Los Angeles for 15 years,I came back to Brazil 3 years ago.Can u help me with that?

I LOVE YOUR SHOW I THINK IS SO FUNY.

Beijos

Paula

Hello Patti,

I have been single for three years now and I haven't had success with finding a boyfriend. It seems that all of the guys I meet have the same profile: they dont want a relationship, they have been hurt in the past, or my personal favorite I just don't trust anyone. It is just funny how this doesn't apply when it comes to having sex. I really want to find love but it seems that it doesn't want to find me. I also have a problem with finding what I want. It seems like I end up settling something other than what I was looking for. You are the best....

Hi Patti!!!

I think it's absolutly amazing what you do! It's so hard to find love. You give people hope. Your a "love angel!" Please help me... I'm a 25 year old female who broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years 15 months ago and I've been ready to move on. Problem is I have yet to meet ANYONE. I live in a small town and there are no decent men here. I've gone to bars, restaurants, grocery stores, and even church to try and meet guys, but found no one. I don't have any children and I have never been married. I have a good job, my own place, and support myself. I'm a cute girl with a GREAT personality and a heart of gold. I would be a great catch for someone I just need help finding him. PLEASE HELP ME...

Okay, Miss Patti-

I asked you a question on 8/4/09 and still haven't received a response. I know you are a very busy woman, but your book didn't touch on the topic I asked you about. Well, here I am over a month later and still confused. If you look back at my first post, it will explain further. I tried my little experiment and it's not working. Does there have to be attraction (on my part) for oxytocin to work properly? I know this is trivial, but (like I said before) I'm trying to find a "nice guy", but I am beginning to think it's impossible. They are either nice and not so great looking, or hot and an asshole. Is there anything I can do to meet a nice, half-way decent looking man? I am trying you suggestions in your book on meeting men, but Oklahoma sucks and I can't relocate I have a child. LMAO!!! HELP!!! LOL

Hello Patti

You are amazing and I love your show, and your confident.
I'm early 30s and I always carry myself with class, respect my self, watch what I say and what I wear and a I'm a very friendly person and I have a good and a caring heart. Men view me sexy, pretty. Everyday I get hit on 3 to 5 times a day. I get complements even from women the way I dress and the way I handle myself. If I want to I could have gotten married long time ago but I only get approached by losers or married men. When I have business lunch with a male customer I can see how insecure and intimidated he gets. Some of my friends suggested that I should dress down with no make up and wear sweater maybe will be easy to the right man to approach me.
Would you tel me what should I do? how can I attract the right one?
Thanks :-)

Hi Patti
Well first of all i would like to say that your show is AMAZING! i watch it everyday. I need some help! and i know i can count on you to tell me the real deal. I've known this guy for 2 years, but we have never seen eachother. Not too long ago we finally have a quick meet after 2 years of talking. I thought everything was fine when we met he was smiling it was a bit awkward but not too much to honestly say "I don't ever want to see him again" kind of thing. We usually txt everyday every 3 minutes. Now that we finally met he has been acting weird, not txting like he use to. & i don't know what to do. Should I Just forget about him & move on? Is there anything i can do to lure him in again? HELP ME!! PLEASE!

Love You!

i ASKED HIM...

Hi Patti,

I really need your help.. I'm 28 years old, and was in a really long dead-end relationship. I'm single now, and it's so hard to get my girlfriends to come out with me to meet "new" people. They are all married, engaged, or have kids. I'm over the whole club scene, but still like to have fun. It seems like it's so hard to meet new people, and actually have something in common with them. I'm a smart, beautiful girl, who is hoping to meet "Mr. Right", not just "Mr. Right now". Any advice??? By the way how do you choose your girls?

What are the chances that people will find real, true love on a show like this? For me, the viewer, the show is entertaining and ya, Patti does make sense here and there but I wanna bet; 5 years down the road, hardly any of those couples that are 'currently still dating' will be together. IMO, TV is not real life and this is the 'wrong' way to start a r/ship. Ain't nothing like a TOTALLY REAL reality TV show.
Patti, you are so real (as in down to earth and say it as it is) and I love you and your show. Keep doing what you are doing gal.

Hello Patti,

I love your show!! i am 28years old a mother and wife.My husband and i have been married for 5years.About 8months ago i found out he cheated on me, and ever since up until this date it hasn't stopped! i've tried counseling, vacations, and still no luck. i love him i'm so hurt i don't know what else to do.Is there any advice that you can give me? I really want to try to save my marriage! thank you so much please help!

Patti,

You've got moxy! I wish you could set me up with a special man who could appreciate a mature jewish women. I'm not into the club or bar scene. I would love to meet someone fun, intelligent, funny a renaissance man. I live in Florida and the men seem to all be looking for an arm charm that's 26. I'm 56 attractive, fun, intelligent. Please help! I respect your opinion.
Thanks,
Sophia

Hi Patti,

I live in Naples, Florida....and was wondering if you ever thought to bring your expertise here? We have so many beautiful people here, and a lot of wealthy men and woman. If you do please let me know, I would love to be your assistant!!!

I love the show, you say what we all wish we had the B*ll's to say!
Thank you for keeping it real!

Hi Patti, im from manila philippines. I wonder if u could help me find my match despite of my location....can u help me with that????????

Hey Patti,

You have mentioned numerous times about finding the "nice guy". I have met a nice guy the only problem is I'm not fully attracted to him. He's not ugly, but I usually go for the "bad boys". I'm divorced with one son and am ready to settle down again. I have read your book and loved it. I have actually recommended it to several single friends. They bought, read and loved it too! You know your s--t! In your book you mention oxytocin (sp?). I thought I would go ahead a sleep with him to see if the oxytocin would help me form that bond and maybe it would help me become more sexually attracted to him. We have went on several dates and he is not a player. I guess that's one of the problems, some girls like guys that have game, but he's too nice to be that type of guy. Is this a stupid idea or do you think it's worth a try? I don't want to let a good one get away. UGH!!! If you think this is bad idea, do you have any suggestions? I'm so damn confused! Help a sista out! lol

BTW, he's divorced and a father. His boys are his world.

Hi Patti
I love, love, love your show! Ur the best. I was watching VH1 an of all people
on the show is sex toy DAVE. The show is called Megan wants a millionare.
I just thought that was so funny! I wonder if he took the stripper pole out of
his living room!! Let me know if u see the show!

Hi Patti

First of all - Congrats! You are awesome - I TIVO all your shows to make sure I do not miss one!I wish viewers would listen & apply your great tips to their lives instead of finding things to be "negative" about. You are just wonderful!

My question is - have you considered matchmaking for women like myself? I am not the 20ish age girl but 50 year old athletic toned, educated, attractive told I look like Cameron Diaz (all the time), no wrinkles (really), wear low waist jeams with hells, i.e, fun clothes(today fashions) - plan to allows be a fun fit bubbly young 80 yr old. Don't you have 60ish age men wanting women who have their their priorities right, love to travel, speack a foreign language, lived abroad, love God, appreciate a woman that takes care of herself and not tied down that they want to date with the possibility of marriage?

I bet, Patti, there are other women like me - I feel like your client that was the nice looking guy that was a really nice guy who you were afraid that he might just end up alone in his house because no one would know that he was available. Quality people are hard to meet even when you get out there.

Any tips?

If you do a show like this, can I be included PLEASE!
.....Sooo Happy For You Girl You are deserving - you have done this for many others - _ I would love your help!

Hi Patti,

Great show. Just finished watching the show with Xander. I think he is a great guy with nervous energy as a barrier to getting a second date. If he is still free, let me know.

Hello Patti,

I have to be honest, I love your show. However, I do not get to watch your show often. I totally agree your philosophy about dating and I wish there were more people out there that followed your rules.

Have you ever considered expanding your business to New York? I would be interested in being in your database.

I wish much success in your business.

Tammie
Long Island, NY

Hi Patti-

This is very funny. I 19 years old. I'm the kind of person that would match my friends up and no worry about myself. I am Bi(gay) whatever you want to call it. I don't care. hahahaha. I haven't dated for about 2 years now. I always hear that I cute and sexy but that the thing I really don't feel that way because of the result I have been giving. What Im looking for is someone down to earth. Loves to play sports, and loves to laugh and have a good time. What can you tell me that will help my situation.

Patti,
I really enjoy your show and how you tell it like it is. I am finding myself writing to you which is very new behavior for me.
I am approaching 60 years old in October,not bad looking as people tell me:) 60 is the new fifty and I certainly feel 50 or younger, widowed at 48 (husband with cancer for 3 years), work as a college instructor parttime and work fulltime as a manager, live in a small town in south, been on various personals since 2002 and have grown from the experiences, some good some not so good. Now I really want a partner who is committed to me, it took me some time to get to this point,so the serial daters, and commitment phobs were okay for me. I have lived alone for 12 years. Now it is so different , I was a commitment phob as well. I don't know how to get to the point of finding someone who would love me and commit. Then how will I let someone know I am ready for a relationship without sounding desparate? I stopped dating 10 months ago because I wanted to be different and to have different. Now I don't know how to proceed. Or is it hopeless?
Thanks for such an interesting, intelligent show.

Hi Patti,

I really love your show and I do think that the advise that you give is very refreshing. Thank you! I know that you do not believe in sex before marriage- but how do you feel about messing around about marriage- and only after the 3rd date. I am refering to petting outside of the clothes, etc.

Thanks,

Curious

Hi Patti,

Love your show, I would love to participate in the show, in MD, do you have any singles close by. Finished watching an episode with Joanna and with the sex toy seller.. I LOVED JOANNA, took my breath away.

Keep doing a great Job..Your BEAUTIFUL! I am 42 by the way. Bye

Hi Patti!

Okay so im not necessarily having trouble with men but i would just like to tell you somehting kind of intereseting! So i have watched all of your seasons and one of the guys kind of seemed very strange! I do not remember his name but i remember his proffesion he sold and created sex toys! Also he was famous for his stripper pole in the middle of his living room haha! Well i was watching tv the other day and i saw him on a preview of this new show coming out in august called " Megan Wants a Millionaire" !!! He is one of the millionaires she is going to date! hah I just thought this was very strange and funny. Alright well good luck with the show! YOUR DOING GREAT!(:

Mazel Tov!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so excited for you..from one Jewish girl to another!!
I will be turning the big 50.. and divorced..

Your show is awesome and you are as well. Andy is adorable.
If he has a brother, uncle, (ok, very young grandpa..lol) let me know..
If you know a nice Jewish Boy in the Midwest.. remember me :)

I read your birthday story (engaged) and the chills went down.. You deserve it..

As grandma would always say... HAVE A HAPPY, HEALTHY, LIFE TOGETHER..(in her cute Russian accent)

Patti,
Just want to say C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S!
I am so happy for you.
I think you are beautiful and intelligent, and I just love your sense of humor.
Much happiness to you!
Vivian.

Hello Patti, I watch your show and I love every episode. Every part of advice is very helpful of course.

My name is Deanna, 25 yrs of age and studying to be a make-up artist.
When I was in LA attending school I met many guys, but I can tell which ones were playing from the ones who were not. The guys who had these big time jobs/careers who earn ALOT in their 30's were trying to go out with me. They didn't leave me alone until I gave him a chance. I did and a few turned out as a possible boyfriend. I saw it before it even happened when the guy is so into his work that no relationship could work.
I never tried to pick up a rich guy and I have no idea how I'm attracting them. Also they don't seems to have interests in doing things that are meaningful. Why?

HI Patti,

i would like to know if Heidi and Bill are still dating. They seemed like a great match.

Patti,
I really like the show and like your values - it is cool you promote chivalry and expect the man to be a gentleman. You don't like people living together before marriage too. I think all this is great, and I am a guy! I won't tell too many of my friends, but I love the show!

I love your show, but I found your comment about bi-sexual women to be very disrespectful. You stated that no man wants a bi-sexual woman to be the mother of his children because she may leave him for another woman. The same could be said for a straight woman leaving her husband for another man. Just because they happen to find someone of the same sex attractive doesn't mean they'll have some irresistible urge to cheat. It's about the person's integrity, not sexual preference.

hello patti

Let me start off by telling you i love your show is wonderful...my name is nancy and well im 21 years old i been single for almost 3 years and i dont anderstand why i belive im not bad looking at all and super fun i dont know need some seriouse advise!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Patti,

I am a 44 year old woman who is divorced for 3 yrs now, and i have been dating and i find myself meeting a lot of 20 something guys. There is one that i had a relationship with and i am in love with him but he decided he wanted to date someone his own age but he keeps calling me and wanting to see me. What do you think i should do?

Hi Patti,

How do I join your group of women? I am an African American woman 43 yrs old, professional. I don't seem to pick the right men and I think you could help me with this problem. So what do you think, can you help?????

hi patti
i love your show and my dream is to find one milioner lady for my self and i wish to find some one like you and iam 27 can you please help me to find my dream lady?

PATTI!
LOVE...LOVE...LOVE YOUR SHOW!!! Just wanted to say how much I've enjoyed your show and your spunky attitude. (gossip time) *F.Y.I. in case you haven't seen yet...your old buddy "Sex Toy Dave" is back on the reality scene. I saw him on the preview of Megan wants a millionaire. LoL. He will be a millionaire bachelor paying for her love. I must admit you tried your best with him. You can take a horse to water......and then watch him drown. He's the same ole sleazy cheezy "Sex Toy Dave".

P.S. that B**** millionairess from last season looked like a chicken from a Wallace and Gromit picture!

Hello Patti,

I need your sound expertise. I live in San Diego, CA and the quality of men is nothing short of pathetic. What cities do you recommend are best for finding quality men for long-term relationships? I am seriously thinking about relocating.

I love watching your show.

hi Patti,
i'm hilla - a 37 single from israel. i watch your show every week and love it! love you and the fact that you embrase your job. i'm a lawyer and a life coach.
i'm going to relocate by myself to L.A. in september 2009. finally following my dream to live there and to study music video &T.V productions (in MI).although i look young, (not more than 27 as people say all the time) and in a good shape, i havn't found my soul mate yet.
do you think you can help me? (i dont mind to start from the "meeting guys through the internet and face them in 3 months from now, when i arrive to L.A).
i would like to send you some photos and would appreciate if you help me to find him -only him :-)

no need to say that i'm looking forward to get marriad & creat a familly now. i feel that i havn't been so ready for that than now. i would love to meet a great single guy between 30-44 that has the same wish and maturity as i have. (even a divorced with a kid).
a bit about myself: i'm very open minded, like to enjoy life and the little things, love dancing &music,
very spiritual & down to earth, vital, funny and creative.
love movies, books and culture in general and to work out.(i'm also a feng shui practitioner).
the guy has to be good looking, sensetive, with good communication skills, stable (emotionally&financially),
honest and love life like me. (interesting & smart is not bad eather..). preference for a juise guy.
my impression is that i can count on you, as you're taking your job into your heart and you seem so peofessional as well :-)!
please tell me if you would like me to send my photos or more information.
i'm looking forward to hearing from you!

continue to prosper in your show & your life,

shalom & thank you in advance,
hilla meidan

I was wondering if you'd do a show on updates of how all the couples are doing (if they continued on from their first one or two dates)? I am very curious about Heidi and Bill. They seemed like they had a shot at making it. Can you update me on if they are still together. Their date was so romantic. Hoping they are still going strong.

Hi Patti,
I just want to start off by saying that I have the upmost respect for you. You really look after the best intrestes of the women and will not take any nonsense from these impossible men.

Im not sure if there is any truth to this but I was dating a man that is claiming that he is going to be on your show. I know he is not looking for a decent relationship and he told me the only reason he wants to be on your show is for exposure.He is pretty good at fooling people and is an incredible liar. He has several girlfriends that he lies to.

I hope if he gets on your show that you figure out what a womanizer he is.

Your awesome!

I wish I was able to meet Johanna. Too bad I am married and even worse not a millionaire. However, there may be a chance that if the next two months do not work out I may end up separated. Iam trying to make things work and may even plan a trip to the Kingfisher. Maybe for next summer.

It was so funny I was watching the show and have the same mentality as STDave. But, I love my wife and women like Johanna.

Dear Patti,
I'm having a problem with my sister.She usually gets on my nerves because she takes my clothes, invites her friends to our bedroom aan d makes it messy.My parents never punish her.
What can i do?

PATTI , THANK YOU !!!!!! THANKS TO YOU AND YOUR ADVICE I AM FINALLY CLOSING THE DEAL AFTER 2 YEARS!!!!

Hi Patti,

Love watching your show. Thank you for your great tips. I need your expert opinion on a situation that keeps happening to me. I do online dating and occasionally I will go out to nice classy restaurants to get an appertizer. So I meet the guy who I never met in person because this is an online person. Well we meet and good conversation, no talk about money at all which is great. The problem that I am having is after the evening they want to French Kiss me and want to Makeout. I do not like this especially when we first meet for the first time. Of course I do NOT give in to his demand and I do NOT even French Kiss him. I turn my head away so he just kiss my cheek. Then after that I do not hear from the guy. When I go out with a guy I want to get to know them first and he know me. But I always get guys who want to have SEX when the evening is over. This happens to me when I go out by myself to a classy restaurant. A gentlemen will talk to me and then he suggest would I like to go dancing that same evening. I don't mine going out daning the same evening and things are going really smooth. It's like after the dancing and it's time to end the evening. The guy wants to Makeout. I don't know how to handle these situations anymore and I am getting tired of it. So it doesn't matter if I meet them Online or when I go out by myself.
P.S. I have dated men where money is no object to them. They have bought me little gifts, etc.. Please help me what can I do?
Sincerely Debbi

So.....had a long day in the yard, you know TLC winter to spring to the oh so longed for summer yard facelift the day turned dark cold and wet...I yeilded to the will of mother nature and turned to my ever loving couch with a great book and the noise of the T.V. for background.
Only to nod off into deep slumber for all of what felt like hours but in reality was mins.......I have never seen your show or heard of it before. I woke to your voice Patti. The voice of the world I once thought to be a world addicted to Oprah ....soon to become a mith in my world.I believe the word that pulled me out of my fresh air coma was something something VAGINA (( the passive Uri and the the man well mommas boy Zahgro((spelt wrg Im sure ))

You are a lie dectector....you strap on this sensor that triggers all kinds of signals yours eyes send silent messages and then no sooner does the viewer see what your eyes think your voice says what we all think but shy to say.

What I noticed was TROPHY girls in the line up....yha I get it " THE "P" PICKS THE GIRL " But..........what Im so intrested in is this!

You have a gift YES.....

What I want to know is if you can get a line up ladies that may not reflect the picture of FLAWLESS. Yet are portrayed FLAWLESS by your presentation of them.

I have always been the the girl in the line up who is not flawless but somewhat cute....yet sets off a signal of sorts....Men talk to me to get to my flawless friends...I love the rules you set and how you do not hesitate to tell a match when they have dis-regarded the importance of them.

I want to know why hard working goal oriented girls get the

....."HI, I'M ---- WHATS YOUR FRIENDS NAME "

I would love to matched up with the brutal honesty you dont hesitate to express....Your a DONALD TRUMP in the match making world...

This epi you were brilliant....You new that mommas boy was only out for a roll in the hay.....and you new he was not honestly wanting a match....but still acheived his match " A girl weak to fall fall for his pre school conversation " not a life long match but a match all the same......She then realised you have rules for a reason.....Had she paid attention to you she would respect herself more. He wanted one thing only and should have enlisted to fling.com

You are a dream come true. I was hooked on your show in 2mins. You created a dynasty I never experienced before.

Are you as talented match making... the average women the kind that are real and not just perfecting themselves to be a barbie on a millionaires sleeve.....But a dimond in his Rolex.

I will now be following the show in awww as it was truly a reality.....Beauty prevails even if jobless...lol. I look forward to your next match making lesson. I wish I was AMERICAN......

As you are genius..............I would love the RAW truth in the way you employ reason in your match making. Thank You I felt excited after watching your show.

I can't believe how easy you and your team make it look. I am a pretty 41 year old. I am funny, honest,take care of myself,yet I have a very hard time getting the love and respect I want and know I deserve.

I raised 2 children and helped raise a neice on my own. Mine are 21 and 23.I have always been independent,and have an awesome personality. I am not cocky, just happy with myself.

The last episode featured the hypnotist and the comedian. She seems like a real down to earth, sweet and sensitive person. I guess she reflects me. It is cool you select everyday, real people for your men to choose from.

I have been with men whom are rich, and money is money. Personality, respect and ability to enjoy simple things life can offer is hard to find.

I wish you could help me. God is a must. I am very spiritual and racey at the same time. If men are believers, they tend to be a bore.I want it all.But if I can't, I am still happy alone.

I would love to have the opportunity to be screened for your show. I truely feel I will not disappoint you.

I am a barber by trade, even though I don't exercise that one. I created, ran, managed a cleaning service on my own. It was a great success, until a car accident.
I still do some cleaning, but I just began writing a book. I also am creating a line of jewelry out of hardware.

I love the outdoors,boats, motorbikes, and cycles. Baseball and football also.

I always discribe myself as white or black...all or nothing...Ugo or maserati.

I am not generally flashy,but know how to do it up and be sexy-classy. I guess I never feel appreciated for my natural ways and easy goingness. It always gets taken for granted. I am not a settler.Please help.

Thank you for your time.

I love your show! Your advice is so real and true. But then again, it seriously scares me that I will never find Mr. Right. I am 40 with 4 kids and have not dated since the death from the love of my life. I just don't know if having kids are going to scare them off. Or how to even get back out in the playing field. We were together for 8 years, so really it's been 14 years since I've really been out there. I wish you could help me get over this hurdle, but I'n not a millionare and I'm sure you don't do charity cases!! I'll just keep watching--that's for sure!

Patti, I just love your show. You've got alot of heart and you've got the nerve for what you're doing.Let me tell you that I also love the fact that you tell the truth ,and that you DOM'T take crap from anyone.

Hello pattie i have i guy in my life who is sweet attentive a great father and a hard worker. he tells me he loves and misses me all the time but as much a i would like to believe him i feel it's got to be to good to be true what should i do to put my gaurd down or should i put my gaurd down.

Do hou nave any more shows on Gay millionaires? Please, I hope so. Other than that, GOOD SHOW PATTI

Hi Patti,

I love your show and secretly wishing i could be one of the girls. : ) love it!!!

I really wish I could find a Mormon matchmaker. I have been through two marriages and two divorces and am only 26. I am too good with men and usually settle because I doubt I am good enough.
Pattie what would you recommend for a poor lost girl that doesn't go to clubs and my best place to meet men is at church, obviously that isn't working, plus the Internet?

I love this show and really enjoyed your first guy millionaire. He is so sweet and I hope he finds happiness.

Thanks for a new perspective.

Amberlee

Patti,
OMG!! You rock lady. Gay matchmaking thank you!! You are answering my prayers. We need this out there and what better lady to out us!. I just want to make aware that gay women have the hardest time meeting each other and we can only really count on our friends to match us up, but they are not professionals and I am still single lol. They don't have the experience nor the love you have connecting people, with keeping all the values, morals, makeover NEEDS, you stand by, so please don't forget about us wonderful women that are trying to find love. Especially us femme gals. I have been thanked though for setting most of my friends up, gay and hetro. because I am a lot like you. Love and luck to you...xo Nancy

Hi Patti! I love your show! It amazes me how shallow some of these men can be. But I thought you were a little hard on Alex Edelstein. He was such a gentleman. Frankly, I thought his hair looked terrific, and suits and cufflinks show he wanted to look as gentlemanly as possible. I think devoted businessmen are great. Please give him another chance and invite him back to your show!!!

Hi Patti:

I don't miss your show and I love your personality and the strong women you are. Although I just purchased your book and received it yesterda it is awesome! Love your mother, very strong willed. Anyways, I would like your advice, I have been dating this man who is divorced but still is battling legal issues with his ex-wife (alimony and child support). He is basically stressed out all the time. He treats me well although sometimes he has outbursts because of what his exwife is doing to him. We've been going out for 6 months now and he refers to me as a friend although i know all his friends and relatives and he takes me to family gatherings etc. How can I know if he is considering to take this relationship to the next level. I am afraid to ask him, where i stand. We were intimate after a month of dating and still are. Thanks, Victoria

Patti
You're show is great and i would love to do what you do. I've actually thought about creating my own match making club but instead of the millionaires like you i want to do one for like the middle class and up. I would have a screening and certain requirements in order to join though because I still want it to be classy. I live in the south but I have big cities around my area such as New Orleans, LA. I could never compare to you but I think it is so awesome what you do and I would love a club exactly like yours with the personal time with the clients and finding exactly what they want. I'm pretty good with relationship advice even though i may not use it and i think I could do it. I would love if you could give me some tips on how to get started and what would be good price range or if you think it is worth pursing.

Miss Patti,

I am not much for TV or reality shows since I spend most of my time flying in the Navy or out with friends, but one of my roommates told me about this show and I happened to see Episode 9. Is it possible for a viewer to pass along information to one of your potential girls? I was pretty much taken back by the girl in the blue dress that turned down the plastic surgeon after being picked third. I know as I write this that there is privileged information and such, but, maybe I politely ask for you to pass on my information and see what comes forth? I am a romantic at heart and always see the potential.

Very Respectfully,

Josh

Hi patti please form which place we need to pick up a good man just tell me, I don’t think from any where this day’s ?

Hi patti I love your show from the first time I watched I wish we have like you in the middle east like (Lebanon) so every one will be ok and happy, I only watch your show when I was in Canada, it is to bed we don’t have it here,good luck . we love patti.....

Patti,

I LOVE URE SHOW! CAN I WORK FOR U??? I AM TOTALLY SERIOUS!!!

Hey Patty,

I'm not out, as in the closet, but I want to explore that side of myself. I have dated girls but, always had an eye for the boys. So, can you hook me up? I saw the show with Kevin and Randy and that's exactly how I feel. I got the message that there was more then just their sexuality to them. I feel like socity is so stuck on labels that we don't always see through to the product. I come from a small and my family is very religious so, that plays a huge part into who I am. I want somebody that wants to be with me and not just my dick or ass! What do you say can you help me out.

P.S.- I would attack a photo but it want let me

Hi Patti,

Earlier this morning, I accidentally came across your show, the Millionaire Matchmaker when I was surprisingly taken aback by your guest, Uri Mann. Perhaps it was fate, but ironically, the night before, my grandmother called me up asking about my personal life...Now, for all those who have Jewish grandmothers, they would understand this constant need to badger their grandchildren about their future marriage plans.

The conversation ended with me saying "no, nothing new in that department" and then I ended with, "grams, you know I usually don't meet Jewish guys at salsa clubs"...my grandmother politely paused and that was the end of the conversation.

My point Patti, is that when I saw that Uri was a salsa dancing Jew (such as myself), I immediately jumped at the opportunity to as you if and how it is possible to get in contact with guests on your show.

Again, thanks for the great show and please let me know!

Thanks,
Alla

PATTI i LOVE YOUR SHOW I THINK IS SO FUNY. I like the
way you taking to guys they deserve to some one ones in
a while to tell them what we think of them.
You go girl

Hi, Patti! I love your show! I need your expert advice... I have been dating this really great guy for about 7 months. He has a fairly high profile job in the entertainment industry. Our opposite schedules make it tough to see each other even once a week, if that. I am a teacher , so my weekends are free, but he is always on the road (or even out of the country) working most weekends. When we are together things are great, but when he is gone he texts me but never calls. We haven't had "the talk" so I'm not sure where he stands as far as the exclusivity of the relationship. All my girlfriends tell me I should bring it up the next time I see him, but of course all the guys say don't do it. So, how do I get the answers I'm looking for without scaring him off? I'm a pretty low maintainance girl...All I want is commitment and a little communication...Is that too much to ask??

Hi Patti,

You and your staff our AMAZING!! I think your staff have the most amazing job ever! How do I send you my resume?

Tracie

Your team are wizards when it comes to match making!!!! I have been watching the show the last two weeks that I have found a little time and I am surprised every time with the show. I wish I could get set-up myself. I want a man that has his own money and does not want some one else to be paying his way all the time. I work hard and just want someone in return to work hard as well!!! My prior relationship was with a Club DJ in Las Vegas for 10 years. We bought a house together when I was 25 in 1999 and at the time I worked at Southwest Airlines and could basically make my own schedule. So I could get off as much as I wanted or work as much as I wanted.(He was 10 yrs older then me.) So he got all of my party years 20-29yrs young. Meaning I was 100% dedicated to him so I did not go out and party because that is how I am when I am in a relatinonship. I stayed dedicated to him while he one day while I went to work for a 16hr shift went and got married and proceeded to move everything out of the house ( beds, couches, computers,you name it!) Only for me to come home to an empty house and my sister-in-law cussing at me for not inviting her to a wedding I never had. Yeah! She heard on the radio (<-- yeah embarassing to say the least) the congratulations to him & wife. I seem to have big goals and work so hard to acheive them and some how this quality gravitates to losers or shall I say con-artists. I wish I had a man that had his own money so that part could be out of the perspective and move on to just enjoying the ride we call LIFE!!!
SO cheers to Patti for helping people find LOVE!!!

God.. this show is the most boring show to teach a rich guy for how to get a wife?? If a guy has money and couldn't find a wife, he is having erection deficit. And need to pay for 10,000 to join this club? Come on. switch the channel.

Patti, I love you to pieces & marvel at your abilities. And I agree with you about those men & their age hang-ups. I had a question for you. Who will fill your shoes, once your gone, if you don't ever get married & have a child? I would hate to see the great job you do, just fade away because their was no one to replace you & your talents.?

hello patti, love your show and saw u use alot of limousines like to have your business 1800 700 limo
thanks

Hello Patti-

I am recently divorce for the second time and I am so over the relationship thing - I am 38 with four incredibly wonderful children and they are my focus... I love the fact that you see straight through people, as I do - took me a little to long to learn, but I have great insight on the men and women of this world. I love your passion and your ethics and if I ever had a career change - it would be to work with (I apologize - for you) I saw what happened when Chelsea asked for a raise -- joke! You and your staff are awesome and there are way too many clueless individuals in this world. Make it a GREAT day and keep the episodes coming.... Love ya!~