Patti Stanger

Patti dishes on Shauna in her tell-all video blog!

on Feb 2, 20100
119 comments
Jane91
Jane91

I can not believe this woman! I've just watched the episode where she turned down Mark!! He is a very very attractive man, I so wish it had been me going on the date, he can email me any day ;)

hillaryamanda.r
hillaryamanda.r

Marc is exremely hot!!! I would've went on a date with him. Who cares that i'm 22 , it's only a 31 year age difference. I like my men seasoned and right off the senior citizens menu ;)

Wild-er
Wild-er

Patti.... I am a Sacramento millionaire and if Mark wants to relocate, you can set me up! That man was gorgeous, kind, intelligent and wayyy too good for that nut job Shauna. I am shocked by what I saw and so embarrassed for that woman.

Zoozie
Zoozie

That guy Marc was gorgeous!! He is 'all that' and more... Shame on that stupid woman for treating him that way. Even if he was a troll (and he most definitely is NOT a troll) what she did was inexcusably rude.

Happy Viewer
Happy Viewer

Patty!

I don't know if you even read these, but...I love your show, you are blunt and honest. Shauna angered me, that is not what people are mostly like from this area (ND/MN). Marc was AWESOME... I hope he doesn't hold it against himself that Shauna is a crazy old nut... if I were even 10 years older I would go for him.

Queenmaven
Queenmaven

Patti, Why in the world would you advise a man to choose an outfit for the woman to wear on their first date? Major faux pas...

monica
monica

Shauna needs to grow up! She thinks she's all that but she has no clue. No class!

hot ticket
hot ticket

There was a male porn star in the daters for Shauna!! Oh, if only Shauna knew, she is already mad at Patti imagine if she knew this!!

whydoihavetopickastupidusername
whydoihavetopickastupidusername

Totally disappointed finding out in the comments in this blog that Mark was on a different reality show. I really did enjoy this show and now it just confirms what a sham reality tv really is :( Sucks because now I won't be able to watch the show anymore knowing its all just a crock

Love your show Patti
Love your show Patti

Patti - Your show is awesome, my girlfriend and I are addicted to it. It is interesting how people can be so rich (monetarily) and yet so poor (socially/personally) at the same time.

BTW, you are super hot!!

Oretha
Oretha

I could not believe Shauna. If I had been in her shoes it would have been a no brainer. She just doesn't get it. Her behavior was juvenile and inconsiderate. I would have traded her spot in aheartbeat.

Whitney
Whitney

I can't believe what Shauna did. It was absolutely rude beyond all belief. And Michael, you seem like a great guy. I'm a fan. Come to Oregon? HAHA Congrats on the engagement Patti! Best wishes.

Whitney
Whitney

Patti! Congrats on your engagement. Shauna... horrible move! Why would you just ditch someone? Rude! Michael... you are such a cutie! Come up to Oregon =]

Ceil
Ceil

While agreeing with all that Shauna is a total wack job, I'm curious if anyone brought to your attention the fact that Marc made a less than prestigious appearance on "Seducing Cindy" the reality show of the former Playmate. I taped an episode just to see what it was like and was flabbergasted to see Marc as one of the guys on the show. The episode happened to be the one where he got the 'heave ho' (pun intended) and it wasn't because he had too much class for the show. Marc seems to be in desperate search of camera time that never turns out well. Goes to show that if someone with his looks & bank is fishing, something is wrong on his side of the court that needs addressing. I recommend you reconsider his status in your database. Just having your back here Patti, I think you ROCK! God Bless!

susan ferguson
susan ferguson

Patti, I love you! You say the things most people are thinking but are afraid to say. Thanks! Susan

twoman54
twoman54

Patti There is a show on the Style Network,called Split Ends. This is a show about people changing places w/each other @ diff.hair salons. Shauna was on this show. I can't remember if it was 2008 or 2009. It could have been before 2008, but boy was she crazy. When I first saw her on your show I kept thinking I have seen her before. Then when you mentioned botox,and her having her on business, it came to me. She owns a salon, and SHE DOES GET BOTOX. If you watch the episode in which she was on Split Ends you will hear her mention it. Just thought you should know.

leogirl8
leogirl8

Here's a radical idea: Put Shauna together with Rupert on a date and watch the fireworks as they try to flame out each other. Oh, and by the way Shauna...what was up with that S & M outfit you wore on the first date with Mark?

Kipenzi
Kipenzi

I am a 30 year old single woma, and I must agree with one person that said Shauna is a girl. It is so sad that he had to meet her.

dice
dice

Patti, your mother is so so beautiful! You are a lucky girl, seh is the sweetest.

Christmas
Christmas

Mark was a wholesome naive cutie, that is shy. The girl he went out with was nice, but annoying (she likes to take control and talks non-stop) and she had qualities that were not for him. He is looking for a laid back girl, that is deep and not all about herself. The girl he went out on a date with was all about her and not about considering what the other person wants or thinks and it isn't her fault she just doesn't know any better (I am sure she is a really sweet girl, but she is all about her).

JS
JS

OMG! Marc, honey, if I lived in LA and wasn't married, "white on rice" if you know what I mean. Patti - love, love, love your show! Congrats on your engagement!

Valerie 1903
Valerie 1903

Mark got back on him what he did on "Seducing Cindy" ( Another reality show) He was very Rude and Foul Mouth and was very immature. He is trying to be in "Show Biz". I think that there is no real shows anymore it all put on make believe Crap.

Michelle A
Michelle A

I was pretty surprised to find that Shauna was, once again, on your program. Watching the show, I actually was feeling sorry for her because I felt you and your staff were being unfair in all your negative comments about her. That was UNTIL I saw her disgusting and ungrateful behavior towards her date, Mark. He was a perfectly suitable and better than average 50 something. He was polite and chivalrous. Despite the fact that he may have acted differently on another program, his behavior here was nothing less than stellar. I have nothing against dating younger...I'm 52, a millionaire and attractive. But I am also smart enough to realize there are wonderful men of all ages and it's important to be open to all types if you really want to find a good partner. Regardless of his age, Shauna pre-viewed Mark and accepted the date. Her behavior was appalling and lacked any respect or consideration for others. If she never finds a good match, it's pretty clear why!

Sens
Sens

Patti,

First of all, I think you are the BOMB!!! I love the fact that you are such a strong and intelligent woman who is not afraid to say what she thinks. On top of that, you are soooo damn good at what you do! I love your show and will continue to watch for as long as you're on... and hopefully that will be for a LOOONG time!

Rupert, on the other hand, loves to hear the sound of his own voice. I gagged while watching him dominate every conversation, if you can call it that. He shuld just get a puppy and call it a day.

Smike... what a sweet, sexy, yet spiritual man. I wish him much happiness with Chad.

Finally, who will be the first couple you've hooked up who will get married on your show??? Let's see that soon!

Miki Marten
Miki Marten

OMG!!!! My crashpad roomies and I (we are Flight Attendants based in New York) are sitting here in the crashpad with our months still wide open, watching your show with Shauna, cannot believe she passed up such a caring, gourgeous, and all around CATCH!!! She is the type of woman, that gives woman with CLASS a bad rap! We feel sorry for you to have to deal with such trash, to put it mildly....We love love you and love your show!

Miki,Lynda, and Liz

Lynda Aguilar Moreno
Lynda Aguilar Moreno

OMG!!!! We cannot believe that woman Shauna....Myself and 2 of my other crashpad roomies ( we are Flight Attendants based in NY) are sitting here still with our mouths wide open, in shock! She could only be so lucky to find someone as gourgeous, sweet, and caring as Mark. She is the type of woman that gives woman with CLASS a bad rap. Bless your heart Patty, for having to deal with such trash. We love love you and your show.... Liz, Lynda, and Miki...... P.S. Anyway of meeting him LOL

LAS1234
LAS1234

Patti-You and your team are amazing! The only reason things don't work out is because some of your clients are just too stubborn to listen to your great advice! Keep doing what you're doing :)

Lilwavsurfer
Lilwavsurfer

I love your show and have watched it since it's inception.I am hoping you will host a show for women/men over 40(you know... the divorced with kids crowd). We have done everything! Ready to meet someone new people. We are unlike like those living in denial. There are dececent people out there who) . This is real, REALITY TV at it's most. I am a female and straight but.............................. Call me FIRE ISLAND ...The BEST VIEW THERE IS (from my house) J

Isolda
Isolda

Oh my god!!!! I cant imagine this lady Shauna turn down Mark. He looks nice. I will date Mark. It looks like this woman is not secure of herself. She acts like a little girl. Hope she resolved her issues and maybe one day she meets the guy of her dreams... GOOD LUCK SHAUNA.

BB
BB

Shauna needs to be shunned the way she did Mark. Mark is actually too good of a man for her. She makes me fume and it's women like her that give others a bad name. And she is not all that! She needs a major reality check. Top A B****. She needs to be ashamed of herself. Do not help any more, there are women out there that actually deserve your help.

Jennifer123
Jennifer123

So I thought Marc wa a great catch but seeing the post about a reality show junky I've changed my mind. Patti when will you be in NYC to do a little match making. I'm 43 recently divorce but my net worth is in the millions and I'm tired of taken care of everyone else. It's time for me to be spoiled. Hope you come to the east and help me out!!!

DonnaDavis
DonnaDavis

Apparently none of you saw Marc on the new Fox Reality Show "Seducing Cindy" where, when he is not chosen to stay on the show, goes off in cursing tirade. Not at all classy. And the fact that he has now been on two reality shows tells me he's just another fame whore. But yes, definitely good looking.

starchild
starchild

Patty -I am confused with your philosophy -you want your older male clients to find someone with a little more essence, but during the casting you only look for hotties and if they are dressed comfortable you yell at them and make them dress pretty sexy -doesn't this contradict your thought process?

k from the real
k from the real

Hi I no Shrink but the deal with Shauna wanting a younger man is has a mommy complex.She wants some kid with little or no life experience . No street smarts she can tell what to do and mold into what she wants. She would be on any man's ass endlessly everyday . your need to do this you need to do that. No man with a spine is going to want that.

mart h
mart h

Patti...Wouldn't it be a total hoot if you hooked up that plastic surgeon guy with Shauna! I think they're perfect for each other, not trying to do your job, but I'd love to see those two on a date!!!

KristaM
KristaM

OMG! I can't believe she did that! I am 24 years old and am not into older men, but that guy was seriously sexy! I would have went on a date with him just to look at him! He can do WAY better anyways!!!

Mirage
Mirage

Patty, Congrtats to you. I did not marry until I was 43, ofcourse he is a functional alcoholic and it had to end after 6 years. I am a single parent from a relationship when I was 30 and my daughter will be 21 in March. Now it is time for me. it has taken a couple of years to pull it together and while pulling it together I have started to loose the weight, and now I am ready for a dinner date. Okay SHAUNA!!!! No more TV time or she will have her own show. Every nut that has done something outrageous on TV got a show. Mark seemed like a very nice gentleman and tell him to contact me if he comes to NJ. The dress might have fit me, I am 5'9" and according to waht people say( I am Quite an attractive woman when I go out to events) they Siad it not me!! Get me a date, must have a steady job, be tall, attractive, ( Mark and the guy she called "Santa" is adorable) and someone who is in his 40"s is okay also. Thanks Patty!!!

PK
PK

Mark (Hertle?) is a serial reality show contestant!! Watch "Seducing Cindy" on Fox Reality - I had to look twice to realize this was the same guy. He was booted from the group in the second episode - he turned out to be a real jerk! Cindy booted him for being a name dropper and admitting that his longest relationship was 12 months. He threw a fit, profanity and all, as he left the location. Is this guy being sent to these shows by an agent?? So if you thought Shauna was a nut (and she is), don't be so quick to give kudos to Marc. I know a lot of this stuff is put on for the cameras, but gee whiz!!

Coni Garcia
Coni Garcia

Patti,

You are fabulous & I absolutely love your show and have a great respect for your business. I just saw another episode with Shauna...please do us all a favor and never accept her as a client again. She is in need of serious therapy. I realize she is good entertainment for the show but she doesn't deserve the attention. What she deserves is to remain single.

marcy_suarez
marcy_suarez

Marc was waaaay too good for Shauna. I'm 26 and I would kill for a man like that. Gorgeous, Classy and refined. Won't be on the market for long. Your loss Shauna!

Amber Rawls
Amber Rawls

Shauna was out of her mind. She will probably just die alone and be very bitter about it. What a shame really. I honestly wouldn't wish my worst enemy on that woman. I don't think she even knows what she wants. She wants young and studly but they don't want her. I don't think she gets that. She is really very sad. Anyway, the other part of the show with Michael was interesting. He really is very shy. I am from Texas and he reminds me of a lot of the guys around here. I have dated guys like him. He doesn't need anyone to bring him out of his shell, he needs someone who will let him come out of it on his own. He is very attractive and he has a lot going for him. I don't think the girl that he was set up with was right for him. He is really low key and he strikes me as a slow mover. Thats not a bad thing but I don't think LA girls are going to cut it for him. I could be wrong but I've seen his kind so many times. I would love to meet him. He seems like he would be a blast. I love the shy guys.

Sally Mae
Sally Mae

Shauna is strange. I dated a man 63 and I was 44 and had the time of my life. It was all about me most of the time, he was relaxed and funny and fun to be around. He had money so the problems weren't there. The young good looking studs are most of the time DUDS and bores and it is all about them. So if she doesn't listen let her live her life alone ad her dog.

Fan From Wheaton
Fan From Wheaton

The young bachelor, Zach, that Shauna was drawn to and wanted to date instead of Marc looked very familar. Is that the same Zach, aspiring photographer, she dated the first episode at the wine bar???

Oh and I couldn't agree more, Shauna is CRAZY.

Anna Rice
Anna Rice

I am 47 and married to a younger man. However, I thought Marc was great and if I were single, would have loved to have gone on a date with him. Shauna is stuck in her own psychotic nightmare of wanting to be young forever.

I love my husband because he is smart, caring and a wonderful man. Not because he is 12 years younger.

jdkc
jdkc

Based on that unbelievable temper trantrum she pulled in the hotel, Mark dodged a bullet. She seemed a lot more concerned about losing her Loubitin than her pride. Really sprinting from your date?! Mark and Patti handled the situation well, and I like that Mark treated himself to a nice night out anyway.

MTS-CXXXV
MTS-CXXXV

I must say I very much admire the way you dealt with Shauna. Judging from the footage on today's shows, a stern talking-to is probably something she has needed for a long time (although I doubt she is taking your words to heart). You should be proud of your handling of the matter and the good service that you provide.

nearly40
nearly40

Patti, at first I wasn't sure what you meant by Shauna needing to have her feminine brought out. As soon as I saw her interact with the coach you set her up with I completely understood. Nothing soft about her.

Shauna seems to be having a mid-life crisis though she's so stuck I wonder if she'll ever figure it out. First off, she needs to stop behaving like an entitled little twit. Running away from a date? Seriously? And she expects anyone to treat her with respect? Get a clue Shauna.

Marcella
Marcella

Hi Patti

Congratulations on your engagement!!!

Cougar Shauna is pitiful. There is no way a normal heterosexual woman in her 40's would have done what she did to Marc. He is not only gorgeous, he's a real gentleman. Drop Shauna as a client and pick up Marc. Trust me, he would be better for your business.

Love ya!!!

Marcella

debjj
debjj

I was embarrased to watch what this Shauna woman did to Mark--she is definately someone you need to drop kick to the curb!!! She is classless and you are correct Patti--she is "not all that"

Whitney
Whitney

Patty I love you! My boyfriend and I watch you all the time.