As far as Paul goes, this was a shock and a half. This was kind of interesting -- Paul picked the hot, 21 year old cheerleader, right off the Christian boat, from one of the universities. I was thinking to myself, this is so not a fit. Once his religion sets in, and once her way of thinking sets in, it's just going to be a clash. He wanted this little hottie and I pushed him to pick Cidney because Chelsea had picked Cidney in advance. The prettiest girl in the bunch was Cidney, she was the front runner all the way, and she was Jewish. She was the only Jewish girl to pose for Playboy. What could be better? He didn't want her! Then I kept begging and begging and finally he goes out with her. What happens? I get a phone call that they're ENGAGED on the first date! Now I wasn't so sure about this, I'm one of those, "If you're a cliff jumper, and you jump off the cliff, you're going to fall splat on your ass!" type of people. I don't believe in it, but they are still engaged today.
Patty, I think you are great!!! Love your no-nonsense approach to love. My partner died last year and I would like to have a relationship again, however I don't feel I need to have one. Would love to know your thoughts. Thanks for your time.
Best Regards, Bernard
Hi Patty, I know that you are really busy, but I was hoping that you could help me out. I have been a widow with three children for 3 1/2 years and I have been ready to move on but the men are slim pickings. I am really frustrated. I have a lot offer a man and would like it if you could help me find a husband. It is very lonely being on my own. I hope that you will help me. Thank you, A very lonely woman, Jeri-Mae
Help me please. This is probably your 10,000th email asking you how I can possibly be considered as one of your "girls." I am 24 years of age, intelligent, and am able to find humor in even the most trying of situations. However I no longer can find the humor in my love life, or should I say, lack there of. I am extremely impressed with your show, with the way you handle men, and women. I would be proud to take your advice and whatever man you may suggest :)
Thank You, Brandi
Hi!!! My name is Giselle i am from Brazil-Rio de Janeiro,live in San Jose, Ca Wanted to know how can i gets chosen to be on the show. contact me please. thanks!!
I am 48, grad school educated, and yes Chubby! I feel and look beautiful! Thanks for the encouragement-about how there are desireable chubbychasers out there! Hope to find a great one soon!
BTW....Have a terrible time finding your show! Even DVR doesn't list the next time you are on, so presetting the recording is impossible! Missed it last week and I was soooo disaappointed! You know a woman has to lead an interesting life to get an interesting man! So hope you can get your great show listed for us fans so we don't just sit at home waiting! (Bravotv.com says you are going to be on this Tuesday but it doesn't say so on our Comcast TV schedule.)
Hi Patty, love your show and wanted to know how a lady gets chosen to be on the show. thanks a bunch. Pamela
Hello, I love, Love ,love your show. I keep checking my cable guide & cannot find your show. Have seen the reruns * want to see new shows. Please when are you comming back?? JUNE 18,2009 Thanks & God bless you! Petunia
How can i find out when your show airs? I live in Las Vegas and have Dish. My girlfriend who lives in Loa Angeles said she would try out the show if she could find the time and day it's on Bravo.
Hi Patty, Bought your book and wasn't quite sure if it would be an informative read when I noted the size and the cover. Never judge a book by it's cover. Once I started reading, I felt it gave excellent advice and was very well written. One thing that puzzles me is recommending to "older" women (those over 40, but it pretty much seemed to be referring to those in their 40's) to date men 10-15 years older than these women are. Even though these men could be settled down, have good retirement $'s (well possibly at this time...and don't forget who the money will go to...children, nieces, nephews), and can still go through the motion with pills, you seem to forget that they will probably leave this earth before the woman in her 40's will. Then what? She'll be looking for someone when she's in her mid- to late 60's to early 70's and that's no fun. Someone in their late 40's moves much faster than someone in their late 60's-70's-80's. I became single at your age, and had two children to finish raising (8 & 10 yr olds). I focused on putting food on the table, a roof over our heads, and educating them. I did date, but did not want a long-term relationship until the children spread their wings (they were adopted and I didn't think they needed anything else to go through besides the divorce...their Dad and I stayed friends because of them). Here's another point...I'm now in my early 60's looking and feeling attractive and there are very few men I've met (out and about or dating websites [M.C]in N. CA) who are my age or a few years give or take who are "desireable" men. Remember, my age group lost many boyfriends or new husbands in the Vietnam War....more than we'd like to think...and those who did survive ended up with emotional problems and many now live on the streets, and that has left a hole in the "desireable" men category for those my age wanting to date men my age. I look at attitude, personality, capabilities, and appearance. I would prefer someone who's attitude is younger than his years, but who is wiser because of them. I have my top ten list through reading your book, and felt it really confirmed who I am wanting to meet. I am not interested in meeting someone older that 65 nor someone younger that 58. The percentages are low here in N. CA but I believe in miracles and the universe providing. Thank you for a well-written book full of insite and great tools. Karen