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The Millionaire Matchmaker
Patti Stanger

I love my gays! Viva La Gay (as Rachel put it)! Kevin was GREAT! What a sweetheart – definitely my favorite. I wish there were more gays AND straights like him! Smart, hard working, good-hearted – what a catch! He was definitely a highlight of the season for me!

Bill and Heidi – MATCH! Crazy kids aren’t listening to me and are breaking the rules… but at least they got an idea of what they could have WHEN THEY LISTEN TO ME AND MY STAFF! Speaking of staff, hiring Destin’s girlfriend (OOPS! Fiancé now!), Rachel, was another huge highlight!

I love my boyfriend, I love my staff, I love my job and I love all of my fans! You all make this worthwhile!

See you soon!
Xoxoxox Patti

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Comments

68 Comments
10/09/2009 - 11:51pm
Southern Oregon

How come BRAVO isn't airing all of your shows in my area??? I work in a hospital and all of us women's guilty pleasure is your show. I hope you make more!

09/30/2009 - 7:14am
mmc

Hello Patti, I'm wondering if the dynamic duo of Heidi and Bill are still together.They seemed to go together so well, and since they are both millionaires neither has to worry that the other is in this just for the money.They made the screen sizzle and it takes a lot to make me sizzle since I have been married for over 43 years.I also read some where that your Mother is suffering from cancer. Can you address this, even though if you want to keep it private I do understand.Watching your show is interesting to say the least.It boggles my mind that people have such different life styles from most people.

09/24/2009 - 1:38pm
Viewer

Hello Patti. I read your great book. Thank you.
Following your advice that the invitation for drink is an audition I reply to the guy who invited me to meet for a drink that I ‘m busy this week and I don’t drink. So next time he invited me for a juice or water. I told him perhaps hot chocolate after a good day of skiing would be great(since he found me through ski club website). His answer was Tap water for you…. Just want to notice that I was very polite with him. If I ‘ll keep turning down all drink invitations I don’t think I ever start dating anyone. What did I wrong in this situation?

09/12/2009 - 7:26pm
angel

Just wanted to let you know Love the show.Not sure what day and time it comes on but i watch it when i catch it on.Keep up the love matching!

09/12/2009 - 1:45am
Eilis

I would like to commend you Patty on your ability and insistence to perserve integrity in a medium which rarely displays or rather allows for such an approach.

09/09/2009 - 11:12pm
Nat

Now that you have broken some barriers with the last season I think one of the next barriers you should consider is international millionaires, and Canada doesn't count. But someone in particular I am thinking about is Rain (Bi) from South Korea. I recently became a fanatic of his and watched a bunch of his interviews on YouTube. Something that kept coming up was how lonely it has been for him and whether he has been living his 20's properly. Which is really sad because he could arguably be the most famous person outside the US with all he has accomplished in the last 7 years. He believes other people in their 20's spend their time looking for love and he is missing out on that. If you could reach out to him and help him understand what is holding him back from "his dream of having a family" then he can either come to peace with it or make a change. Your show is amazing and that is why I know you are the perfect person to help him because he is right up your alley.

Thanks from the heart of Texas!

08/21/2009 - 9:33pm
Tyneil

Hello patti love the show I'm from Toronto the only this this is not any thing like you company here yes there are website,vioce chat and other dating serivce but you take the time out to help the women I would like to find a man like that

08/20/2009 - 1:27pm
CGS

Patti...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me that you DID NOT send STD on the Megan wants a Millionaire?!?!?! She is an IDIOT. I can't stand her voice and these guys are so ridiculous...well maybe desperate. Why aren't they calling you to hook them up instead of being on this stupid show. I guess tv is really desperate. But get STD out of there and hook him up. He's a good guy once you break through his shell.
PS: I think your super fab...and i don't mean this in a bad way AT ALL...but why can't you find yourself a nice man to share all this love you have???? You certainly do deserve it.

08/17/2009 - 9:29pm
michele

patti, i know that sex-toy dave in on megan's show, but didnt i see Al the millionaire who wore a rope choker from megan's show first appear on your show and you told him that he needed to lose the necklace and stop coming on so strongly. am i the only one who remembers or am i dreaming this? to remind all, this is the guy who teased megan on the first show and she spilled her drink on herself. could someone please respond?

08/17/2009 - 6:40pm
Josh

I have been following your show the last few months. Each week it brings a smile to my face at the advice you give your clients. In today's society it is often hard to find geninue people that are looking for love. Only wish you matched homosexuals. Cheers and to many more years of success!

08/14/2009 - 11:19pm
Viewer Jodie White

Patti Let Me Start With I Luv U And Ur Show. I Like How U Keep It Real. U Let These Rich Men Know That With All The Money In The World They Can Still B Left Out Of The Luv Department And That Is Y They Come 2 U. I Have Been With My Man 4 10 Years But I Use Some Advice From Ur Show And Apply It In My Relationship And It Realy Helps Us Stay Strong 2gether Thanks 4 That. U R Good At Wat U Do. Lol I Saw Sex Toy Dave On The Megan Wants A Millionair. He Looks So Foolish He Would Not Have 2 Go On That Dumb Ass Show Had He Listen 2 U.

08/14/2009 - 9:05pm
brownskingirl

Thought the bits of your show I caught were funny. I purchased your book because I've very single why I don't know. I'm glad your book cleared it up for me. According to te book black women only fit one description "exotic" and we should be careful with children we bring into the world. WHAT?!

08/13/2009 - 9:41pm
Nancy

Patti!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am the single mother of two girls ages 9 & 11. I live in a pretty small hilly billy town....I would love to meet a man with money...not exactly a millionaire but someone financial stable...a man with all the qualities in your book. Which I am reading right now and loving! However, living where I live it's probably not going to happen. In your book it says relocate but I can't with my girls. I am 44 and just got out of yet another bad relationship. Besides praying and reading your book..what can I do. I am really a woman who loves the finer things in life trapped in a middle class life. Besides the fact that I want a tall, dark, handsome gentleman.....do you know any in the Syracuse area...probably a crazy question but ya never know. Nancy

08/12/2009 - 12:07am
Elaine

Patti..You are FABULOUS GIRL! I am 47 and I think I look great (and not for my age)...... Listening to you freaks me out (men dont want women over 30ish...ahhhhgggg, so sad these men need arm candy and no substance. You need to do a show for us hot woman over 45!!! Does that mean you are going to interview 80 year old men for us! Anyway, I love your show, keep up the good work! Love wins in the end.

08/10/2009 - 6:45pm
Viewer

patti,, really like your show, thought you might want know, that as a 46 year old business women in MN ,, i was skeptic of show and even you,! another "scripted" reality show!,,but honestly you project such a good attitude . Your good at being honest, going with your gut , you put your best foot forward, you go with your insticts and it shows confidence with out being over "attitude girl"
the limited time that i do have to watch television ,i look for light but yet, real and possibly something i can take away to use in my own life. Dont usually write to people on tv but thought why not, people dont get to hear enough good, :) wish you continued good luck . tks,wendy

08/03/2009 - 11:35pm
Eva

Sooo, I love you and your show;) I am married with 4 children. I don't need a hook up but would really like to do what you do. I have hooked up several people around me and I am going to be in another wedding of a couple I introduced in 4 weeks. How could I get into what you do or ... better yet, work with you?

08/02/2009 - 3:01pm
Tiffany

Patti,
When does Season 3 start!? Please post an update so we can get excited for another crazy season!
Thanks,
Tiffany, Virginia

07/27/2009 - 3:54pm
Tobias

Patti,

STD (Sex toy Dave) is on this new reality TV show called "Megan wants a Millionaire." You need to find him LOVE!

07/24/2009 - 4:51pm
CrissyBeth

Patti,
L-O-V-E your show and love your staff. I hope Destin and Rachel have a fairytale wedding soon. Whatcha waiting for Destin??
And Chelsea has an amazing talent to keep everyone (Patti included!) all together ... being easygoing and a peacemaker / teambuilder is truly an unappreciated and vital talent in any business.

ONE TINY SUGGESTION: YOU REALLY, REALLY, REALLY NEED TO EITHER HAVE AN UPDATE SHOW OR POST UPDATES ON YOUR WEBSITE. Honestly, this would be an awesome addition and help to complete your stories! People want to know!!!

Patti, your advice and insight is priceless and dead-on ... I find it to be 99% accurate (no one is perfect of course). I was married at 18 and divorced at 23, now have an 18 year old daughter myself, and got re-married for the 2nd (and last!) time when I was 41. I was a dating and active single mom for a LONGGGG time, believe me I know first hand about all the dating drama out there in the world. I find it somewhat of a miracle that I found my dream husband as a 41-year old single mom. But I say it again, Patti's advice and insight is priceless. If everyone would listen to Patty, 99% of the world would be happily married and raising beautiful families.

The Heidi and Bill show made me cry ... undeniable true love (not just chemistry) is beautiful perfection. Are they still together??? Updates PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!!

~ Crissy :-}

07/23/2009 - 2:44pm
Beverly

I loved this season so much. My favorite is when you gave Dave a taste of his own medicine with Johanna. She was sexy and funny and he couldn't deal. The licking the eyeball thing had me rolling on the floor. You should have her on again and fix her up with someone who can handle her I will surely be looking for her.

07/22/2009 - 11:25am
Mona

Hi Patti:

I have watched yoru shoe for 2 seasons. My favoite episode was the one with Bill and Heidi. I was wondering if the two had gone on anymore dates since the show. They seemed like a cute couple and I hope that it works out for them.

07/21/2009 - 10:47pm
marce Ca

I caught your show flipping channels and I must say I'm hooked. But I loved Bill and Heidi, to me sparks just flew the moment they saw each other, there was total quemestry there, I hope they find true love with each other, it would restore my faith.

07/21/2009 - 7:06am
Edison

Hello. I'm currently an 18 year old who has just finished high school and I just wanted to say I really like your show. And especially the fact that you have these clients who come in and ask to find their love of their life, it makes me feel great just watching those who really pair up.

I would like to know what it would take to be part of this community. I would love to join and work for you!

07/14/2009 - 10:57pm
Kimmy

Love the show. Has anyone noticed that girl Michelle, the one that dated Patti's millionare Harold looks similar to Marilyn Monroe? I just looked at the video and she has a striking resemblance when I look at old Marilyn photos. I wonder if she gets that a lot from people?
I liked her personality too. I wonder if Harold knows what a gracious and beautiful girl she was.

07/10/2009 - 12:49am
holly ann

THE WHOLE UNIVERSE NEEDS A DOSE OF YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love is tough sometimes but with the right tools anyone can have love. keep up the tough love patti... i am 40 and only found real love 5 years ago. i hope you get the pat on the back you deserve. It isn't just great t.v. patti, it,s real life xoxo

07/06/2009 - 8:15pm
MELISSA

WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF KEVIN AND RANDY ARE STILL SEEING EACH OTHER...THEY ARE SO CUTE...JUST WATCHED THE RERUN.

07/03/2009 - 10:59am
official216

Patti

You are sooooooooo Hot!!!

06/23/2009 - 11:18am
Jo

Patti, I love your show BUT.... believe it or not, women STILL DO LIKE CUFFLINKS and many many women out there LOVE a man's shirt tucked into his pants. I know these are pet peeves of yours, but you are not always right :)

06/11/2009 - 2:07pm
Chico Friend

Patty, I'm a fan. Married 13 years,still very in love. I have a friend,beautiful single,successful,normal... who needs to be in your data base. She lives in Fresno,CA. Is it possible for you to help her? She's 38 , never been married,wants babies,husband,and love. She is a 100% gem. Blond hair, blue eyes and is mainly only attracted to black guys,which is fine but limits her matches. What can we do? Sincerely J Pitt

06/07/2009 - 5:22pm
Viewer

I watch the show all the time...just wanted to say that you are an amazing matchmaker , I really think you were put on this earth to find people true love and you do an amazing job!

05/28/2009 - 11:12pm
Viewer Fran Reed

Hi Patty, LOve the show. Wish it was on more often. Do not remember how it was said, but you once stated catering to younger people. Why not the senior group.? We are hot, sexy , and passionate too. I believe we can do it better also and not break the rules. Come on Patty, help us out too. You are greeeeeeat at what you do. I'm good at what I do too. Lol!!!!!! True!!! Fran

05/28/2009 - 9:35pm
Christine

Patti,

Thank you for another season. It was great.....by the way.. my daughter would be perfect for the immature millionaire from FL. If he would have went to the washroom in front of her outside, she probably would have gotten a hose to spray him down, while laughing the whole time.

Cannot wait for the next season.
Thank you.

05/28/2009 - 8:12pm
Viewer

patti,
i love your show is there a 3rd season comming soon and can you hook me up with a milloaire?;)lol

05/27/2009 - 2:19pm
Rosie

Congratulations on your book and another wonderful season. The clients you work with are something else. I couldn't stand that BUG-eyed woman from Minneapolis. OMG. She was awful, fake, spoiled, and very full of herself. I loved the artist that made a portrait of his date. That was so special! I need to give your book to my gff, she needs a good man.
You are awesome. I love how you are. Keep up the good work, because you are helping people find love, and we love seeing you deal with the clueless. :)

05/21/2009 - 4:04pm
Tammie

Patti, You ROCK!!! I cannot wait until the next season. I, like several others wish you catered to women over 40...I am a Southern woman and wish we had something in Mississippi that compared to you!! I love to watch you and you give great advise. Looking forward to next season!! Best wishes, Tammie J.

05/19/2009 - 6:01pm
J.

Patti, you are the best! I don't see anyone being as straight-up with people about what they need to do to find love.

How can a nice mid-western girl find real love? Either men aren't looking or the wrong men are looking at me. What's a girl to do who is in her late 30's and desperately wants true love and a family?

05/18/2009 - 7:51am
B-Plus

Patti, I absolutely LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, your show. However I wonder often why there are not more black girls represented.There are some really beautiful black girls out there. Is it because Millionares don't want black girls? It is just a question. I would appreciate a response. I would really like to know.

05/16/2009 - 2:54pm
Tal

you claim 99% match making but none of these people seem to get together at all...it's entertaining with you putting them all down, that's the only thing people watch anyway,..people making fools of themselves..good luck yenta...

05/16/2009 - 12:29pm
Viewer

Haven't I seen "crazy" Cara on another reality dating show? It seems to me that she was the one that had a total meltdown when she wasn't picked on another show.

05/16/2009 - 11:14am
Viewer

I am not a millionare but just a nice guy, happened to watch the episode with twin girls (Engineers). Myself, a Computer Engineer/Professional, anyway, you can set me up with one of them? How do I get in touch with your staff to discuss the possibility?

Thanks!

05/15/2009 - 1:20pm
lisa

your too funny

05/15/2009 - 6:15am
JOANNA

HI PATTY, I ENJOY WATCHING YOUR SHOW. WHAT'S THE CHANCE OF ME GET ON YOUR SHOW. I'M 47 YEARS OLD AND SINGLE.

JOANNA

05/14/2009 - 10:13pm
Viewer

Dear Patti,
On one of your first shows, you said that you don't recruit redheads for certain reasons. Are you really sure? What about the Angie Everheart or Ann-Margaret type?

05/14/2009 - 6:00pm
Viewer

Hi Patti,

I love watching your show! I also like the lipgloss that you wear -- it looks like a light pink?? Could you tell me the name and brnad of lipgloss that you wear?

Please share :-)

thanks so much!

05/14/2009 - 5:42pm
Viewer

I love the show. However, your first gay guy is far from 44 years of age. Come on. That guy is 52 at the youngest, if not much older. It is obvious he has had work done, which is to be expected from a millionaire who can afford it.

I think Patti should require all contestants/matches reveal their real ages.

05/13/2009 - 10:29pm
prema

Patti, I love the show. You have excellent advise and with that I would like you to fix me up with a nice guy(does not have to be rich) I am just tired of being single. I want to share my love with someone special.

05/13/2009 - 10:05pm
Haley

If you ever decide to retire, let me know! I am a great Match Maker and would b perfect for the role. :) haha

05/13/2009 - 5:53pm
Scarlett M.

Patti, you kick bootay. You should be the President. You would shape up Congress and you would get it done. Keep it up!

05/13/2009 - 6:56am
Viewer

If you're so brilliant, how come there has been no "seal the deal" between you and your boyfriend? Just asking!!!

05/12/2009 - 4:11pm
do

Patti, I absolutely love you and your show! I am a romatic at heart and it's good to know there are people out there who think like I do! I am a good judge of "fixing up" people, but they're not millionaires! ya know us regular folks need love and romance too!LOL

05/12/2009 - 10:58am
Viewer

Are Heidi and Bill still dating? How about having a show about the couples that are together and throw in a picture or two of the weddings????

05/11/2009 - 6:46pm
Cat

Can we say SUPER EGO?? And some of your millionairs are sporting that super ego too. But of course I watch, sometimes with my fingers over my eyes cuz it's just too painful to watch "full on".

See ya nest season

05/11/2009 - 5:29pm
Viewer

Patti, millionaire matchmaker is my favorite show.
I love your personality, & since i'm gay, i'm
glad you love the gays! My favorite show was
when you fixed up bill & heidi. They make a
perfect couple! I hope you can have more gay
millionaires on next season..tks again patti.

Sincerely, gay bill.....

05/11/2009 - 2:33pm
Warrior

Very good season of shows Patti. Bring back Johanna! She is so wild and funny. Dave was overmatched on this date.

05/10/2009 - 5:11pm
ojodio

Love the show ! Love the way you bust everybody's balls.They all so deserve it. You say what we are all thinking. However I really never felt old until you pointed it out. Now still unmarried at 53 I am dying on the vine out here in the desert. You should open an office out here. Ton's of millionaires. Palm Springs. I would leave my job to go to work for you. You need to break into the over 50 crowd. We need you!Think it over. You are missing out . Plus it could be a great second location .Easy to get to and far away enough from L.A. There is a place named Introductions but they are nothing like what you do. You are the best.

05/10/2009 - 12:16pm
Mike

Hi Patty,

What's the chances of you introducing me to Angela for the Philippines. What a spitfire :).

Mike

05/10/2009 - 8:20am
Viewer

Patti
If you love your gays perhaps you should have consulted with a few before you asked some ridiculous questions.
Bath Houses? Seriously, where have you been in the last couple of decades?
If all the women listened to you and your staff they would have to be Jewish, long hair, spray tanned to an inch of their life, mini skirts,brunette, and low cut tops. How can you run a dating service with those kind of rules for women. Not much diversity.

05/10/2009 - 3:07am
Linda

Dear Patti: I'm a 64 year old recently retired accountant and yours is the only realty show I watch!! Your show is so much fun. I've lead a very quiet life, but found my soul mate on DATE.com in 2002, married in 2004. And it is just a kick to watch you, you are so open and in charge. My husband 'says' he doesn't watch, but always seems to find something to do in my area when you are on. Congradulations!!! Your fan, Linda.

05/09/2009 - 11:18pm
lesa

Patti,
You are too critical of people and I dont like watching you.

05/09/2009 - 5:27pm
a "Gay"

Normally I don't comment on these things... but I was particularly irked with that last episode featuring a gay millionaire.

Seeing the preview alone made me blink more than a few times. When you bought up gay marriage and the politics involved which has been a major thorn in the side of many people, I was impressed.

Then you 180'd. Your lack of knowledge and ignorance to the gay community was pretty offensive. Making assumptions that all gay men and women got to bath houses or are promiscuous was a real bummer.

Shame.

05/09/2009 - 4:49pm
Ron in Vegas

Easily the best show on Bravo. Patti has expert advise and hope that the show is back for season three with more episodes.

05/09/2009 - 4:14pm
Viewer

Patty,

Oh how we gasp at your candor and we LOVE it! Just remember dove, if you love it up with your clients your business will increase 10 fold. You are probly scaring your potential clients to death who are watching the show.
We clenched everything we had, when you told the dude his date said the "sex was bad." OMG!

You are fun, keep it up. :)

Lee

05/09/2009 - 1:14pm
Joanne

Patti,
Thank you for another interesting and insighful second season. I'm happy to hear Bill got over his ageism handicap and saw what a wonderful and great catch Heidi is; that Dustin 'man-up'd' and is now engaged to a wonderful woman; your first 'gay' was not a 'queen' but a true southern gentleman who seems to put the 'straights' to shame!
Also, congrat's on your book--after reading the chapter on this site, I'm definately going to the bookstore as I couldn't stop reading your wonderful advise.
You don't need a psychic to know you're great at what you do, just a good talk to yourself as "Millionaire Matchmaker" to help you find if you're ready for marraige or happy with what you have in your current relationship..another case of 'Dr. heal thyself'.
Looking forward to next season...hopefully you won't ditch so much on us over 40 and single women as there are alot of us out there who need to have some ray of hope.

05/09/2009 - 10:26am
Viewer Carol

Do you ever deal with persons who have disabilities?

05/09/2009 - 1:10am
Charlo

Hello. I Started Watching Your Show Tonight, A Marathon Bravo Was Running. I Must Admit. I'm A Little Disappointed In The Your Attitude On Your "First Gay Millionaire" Show. The Comments Or Should I Say Your Statements You Were Making, Made You Seemed VERY IGNORANT! Every Time You Kept Emphasizing On "The Gay" Comments. From Your First Meeting With "The Gay" Your Rude Comments On His Positions And ASSUMING ALL GAY PPL ARE INTIMATE On The First Date. I Do Not Know What GAY PPL You Are Around, But They Are Probably As IGNORANT AS YOU If They Are Intimate ON THE FIRST DATE! And YES "I AM A GAY!"

05/08/2009 - 8:39pm
Jena

OMG! I think I've seen that guy on another reality show. Who's on next season? Bret Michaels? No recyclables please

05/08/2009 - 3:02pm
JayClipTX

Great show and a great season, Patty! Looking forward to Season 3 already!

05/08/2009 - 2:38pm
Shelley, Texas

Hi their Patti' I've watched all of your shows and I learned from each one of them. I love your show by the way I hope to see more of your show. Even though last night was the final episode. I hope that you'll be making more shows in the future. So I can enjoy them again
youve been great entertainment for me. Keep making them shows huge fan
Shelley, Texas

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