So, after hours and hours of convincing and urging, I managed to 'force' Destin to allow Rachel to work for us. Good idea on my part? Well, we’ll just have to see about that – Destin may end up with a gray-haired mohawk when all is said and done but oh well, he could have been more firm if he really wanted to – plus, I love her. I thought long and hard about it, and although I am against interoffice romances in general, these are my children and it keeps them under my watchful eye. They better be good...NO FIGHTING! And Rachel, don’t let me down!
Speaking of 'interoffice romances,' can we talk about Heidi and Bill for a second? OK? I KNEW they’d go for each other from minute one. There was no doubt. Two great-looking people with (after all is said and done) good hearts… add a dash of chemistry, a tad of tingles and my watchful eye, and BOOM! ROMANCE! MATCH! GAME OVER! They win...and MC wins!
You know, normally, working with a millionairesses is a challenge. They tend to have either masculine energy or pick everything in life apart. Picky. Critical. Difficult. Heidi was different though. She was sweet and kind – a damaged flower that just needed some love and ‘water.’ A chance to find happiness… and get her pipes cleaned. Gorgeous girls over 40 in LA often think that their life is like Logan’s Run with lights out, however take that smoking biatch and send her to the Midwest and farmers will sow her fields!
And Bill? Ageism. Although I have no strict rule about what age should date what age, if you’re a sixty year old man, you found a winning lottery ticket if you’re dating a twenty five year old girl that doesn’t want children and genuinely loves you for you, not to mention finds you attractive. STOP WITH THE AGEISM. GET OVER YOURSELF. Youth is wonderful, but no replacement for wisdom and experience. Stop the madness and quit asking us how old we are! I like Bill, but stop. For the love of all that is good in the universe...STOP!
I just saw the Bill and Heide episode here in Brazil - just like everbody on this site, I came here to find out if things worked out for them. I know it is a rerun from 2009, so I was hoping the matchmaking service would have a follow-up page - but they do not... hummm... for me, maybe it is a red flag that the matchmaking is just for show, not for real?? Where are the evidences? I agree with a viewer here that maybe Bill's deal was promo for his upcoming new hotel... Very lame and cheap. I think they slept together that night and that might have broken the deal... Bill is pretty much set in finding a bimbo, trophy wife - although Heidi is gorgeous, he figured out his age. I notice his body was not toned at all - kind of an old guy body already, so Heide is not missing much - a better guy probably showed up for her, especially after the show aired back in 2009. If anyone knows anything, please post here... It was a beautiful show, unfortunately a fairy tale ending is really what it is - a fairy tale - not real.. too bad..
"Patti Stranger wants men to stop inquiring about a women's age but she is missing the point. The reality of life is women have a biological time clock for having kids. If an older man wants to find a women to start a family with then that is a legit question to ask."
If I wanted to start a family, it would NOT be with a man significantly older than me. (And um, I know a lot of 40-year-old women who are pursued by 20-something men, 30-something men, and older men--the competition can still be fierce, so don't get too arrogant, my friend.)
A man pushing 50 would be around 70 when the kid graduated from college--and I would not want to spend my time caring for a teenager and helping my husband through his old age issues. If these men want to have families, they'd have better luck by starting sooner than their mid-forties--I've met a lot of men who prefer younger, and are still alone. They complain that they're alone, but think they're too good for women their own age. Just sayin'.
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To Mae Williams and all the others who miss the point about Bill wanting someone under 40--he wants children from a women who can provide them.
Remember, beauty is really on the inside of a person......so is reproductive biology. Hopefully that will clue all in on Bills objective of wanting a women who can give him children. It has nothing to do with all the other comments that miss the mark concerning Bill and Heidi.
And Mae, when you talk about crows feet on man....real men laugh at that comment. Like we care. It shows our wisdom, experience, ruggedness and we wear crows feet like battle scars. When you meet a real man you will understand. Not all men fall into the PC metrosexual lifestyle nor would they want to.
Patti Stranger wants men to stop inquiring about a women's age but she is missing the point. The reality of life is women have a biological time clock for having kids. If an older man wants to find a women to start a family with then that is a legit question to ask. Women, take note.......when you are young and all those guys want to date you, don't play too hard to get. Time might just pass you by if you are looking for Mr. Perfect. So Patti Strange......ageism is a fair question in the mating department. After all, how many 60 year old women do you see having babies with younger men? But we have all seen older men fathering babies with younger women. That's just the biological way of the world. Don't read into ageism more than it is. And by the way, there are many hot women over 40 and if they don't want to have kids or can't then some men will like that too. But for those that do want kids, don't use the ageism term on them. It's their right to go after what they want just like women go after what they want. It's not about "getting over yourself".....it's about biological reality when a man wants a women he can have children with.
Wow i know Im a little late for this but I just saw this episode and was wondering... what happened? Did they get married? are they still dating? did they break up? Probably being too pushy ,so sorry!
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Funny how everyone is so concerned with Heidi, saying that Bill is an ageist.
He said that he wanted a family, but Patti did not listen to anything he said (in her typical style), and instead wanted to hook her up with Heidi.
Why would you hook someone who wants to create a family and fill a large house with kids up with a 41-year old woman?
It doesn't make any sense from a biological standpoint.
I also loved how Patti was disappointed when her Jewish client didn't go for the Jewess but for the Gentile girl instead, hahaha!
Dear Patti,
I am feeling like there's no representation of really nice black guys, who like BLACK women. Not only that, but where are your plus sized placements? There are millionaires who like plus sized women, and you NEVER feature that....Most women are not paper thin... I would like to see a women who is a size 18 on your show....
Thanks,
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Patti,
Any job openings? I'd love to work for you. I am intuitive like you and I agree with you most of the time!My husband and I watch your show every week. We love it. We love you. You are awesome. You are spot on. And, I have to say that I am practically saying what you're saying before you say it. So, obviously, great minds think alike. You rock! I don't care what these other people say about you making money at it. You're a business woman and good for you. And you know what else? If you can teach these egotistical 'ageism' bastards a thing or two while they're on your show, then you've done a good deed for the day! I'm sure it's not in vain and someday, they'll remember what you said...
Does anyone know the exact words Patti used when saying something about the woman is the____ to be adored. Worship the woman and you can have the world.
Heidi is way too good for a man like Bill. He would never stay with her as she ages, no matter how beautiful she is and will be. He's a player who needs young women to validate something he doesn't have.. a personality...to go with his money, looks, and strange house.. Match him up with the young gold diggers until he realizes what a foll he is? Heidi deserves better.. and if you can't find it in LA, then maybe she needs to look outside the pretentious "box" that LA affords. The girl has it all.. maybe she just needs to move to another area of the country where people aren't so pretentious.. You seem to have to dress all of the women like high priced hookers with their boobs out, long, straight hair, etc.. That is just bizarre to me.. What does That have to do with finding true love/a person who is a good date/fun/nice personality? One can go on 100 sates with Barbie/Ken dolls, yet, that does not a "good match" make? You do not seem to spend any time on matching people. You put them together in 24 hours based on looks, height, age...appearance only?? It seems like the majority of your matches never work out after one date. Maybe you need to spend more time beneath the surface, as, you are basically showing that beauty/age are only skin deep. That does not ever last in a relationship...
Im looking forward to see what happens next for Bill-Heidi's romance. Is there real love connection?..And btw, i really like watchin Patti as a matchmaker for this show..Beautiful, smart and tough woman..she really rocks..Me and my husband love the show b/c of patti..we like everything about her..
I also felt pretty invested in Heidi and Bill and I'm really curious to know what happened w/ them. I mean, like everyone has said, Heidi is absolutely wonderful--smart, sweet, and beautiful (which was a nice change from some of the ridiculous male millionaires we've seen). and yes, there were definitely a few times Bill was a jerk, but I sort of thought he at least was starting to overcome his ageism (I guess Patti is the only one who knows though). I also liked this episode b/c the chemistry was especially palpable btwn the two.
Bill got what he wanted ~~ advertising for his hotel!! His shallowness appeared when he tried to add up her age, admitted he used the "gift" bikini to check out her body, and when he said he had to go on a yacht for two weeks as his excuse for not making another date. Heidi should not look back on this one.
But I like the show and love all the dating advice it offers!! And I loved it when Patti threw that guy out for saying he thought the "second choice" girl he had a date with should call him for a second date!! Hehehe, Patti took him straight to the door!!
Good show but be careful with "Bill" dates.....or the show will start looking like an episode of Bachelor instead!
I absolutely LOVE the Heidi and Bill episode. I am really interested in finding out the current status of what happened.
I, like the other viewer Stephanie, felt an overwhelming emotion for the episode with Heidi and Bill. I too thought they were PERFECT for each other. She is so beautiful...inside and out. She seemed so heartfelt, that it made you cheer her on through the episode. And Bill...amazing, seems to have it all! I loved his comment about the fairytale wedding...oops, date! Nice sign!
So, as Stephanie above, I too would love to know the update on them! Did date 2 ever happen and what has been the outcome of that relationship!! I sure hope something happened!! I felt the chemistry for them and hope it does actually end in the fairytale wedding!
Just saw this episode -I hope Bill realizes how amazingly lucky he is to have met and gone out with Heidi -hopefully, he can close the deal. Beauty, brains, --so amazingly gorgeous -inside and out- what a rarity! Would hate to see him end up being the dumb guy who doesn't get his act together and go for the gold. I was watching the show with a male friend who was literally clawing at the screen every time Heidi was in the frame. To see what a wonderfully heartfelt and honest person she was in addition to all her other beautiful attributes just made her perfect -what a fabulous woman. If he doesn't get his act together, you should have a website just for Heidi, cause I'm sure there are about a million men ready to chomp at the bit and jump through hoops (however high) for her right now.
Please tell me that Heidi & Bill are still together I'm dying to know.
Heidi looks a little bit like Cheryl Tiegs don't you think?
My opinion is Bill is a cheap date and an egomaniac. He couldn't come up with anything better than giving Heidi (putting her on the spot) a bikini and getting in the water with her.
Looks like a BILL RE-RUN to me.
He's like sooooooooooooo NOT!
This show is truly an embarrassment to traditional Jewish matchmakers.
Patty, "Big Patty", as your Mom calls you.please close up shop, you're just in it
for the money and if I ever needed a matchmaker I wouldn't go to you.
Patti -
You interrupt your clients a LOT. It's pretty rough to listen to.
Other than that, my first experience (with Heidi and Bill) was fun. Thanks.
Patti,
Is your boyfriend Andy...Andy Cohen? I saw a picture of you and Andy at the Real Housewives of NYC premier party and it made me wonder!
Love the show- you are a strong, hilarious, fun woman!
Do you have any minority clients? I see only white people on your show most of the time. There is not one black women or male to be a featuered date or millionare. What's up with that? It's crazy because I think your show should be more diverse. Like on the bachelor on NBC, who owns Bravo, They have never featured a minority as the Bachelor or Bachelorette. Sounds pretty racist to me. Not to say Patty is a racist but really we need to get more diverse on these shows. How about getting a millionaire who is Afro-American who loves black women? That would be nice!!!!!!!!! I
P.S I just saw a show with an Indian guy. I hope to see more of that.
Your show gives a perspective that needs to be seen. People drifting from one relationship to another is epidemic in this country. People jump into bed before they know anything about one another. Why is it that, just because women have jobs and safe birth control now, that things have gotten so out of balance? There is alot of "Relationship Lite" going around. But, ironically, there is nothing light about relationships!
Last week's show was fantastic! I actually cried at one point but the ending left me disappointed. On the surface Bill and Heidi were perfect together but I can't help but predict it didn't go any further. He didn't close the deal and set up another date. Instead he gave the lame excuse about that stupid boat trip. What a bunch of bull. If he were serious he would have called her and set up a date for when he returned. Patti, there were a few other guys at the cocktail party who were visibly upset when they weren't chosen. Review your tapes and set her up again. She deserves better. BTW, personal trainers should be lumped into the same no-no-no category as actors (waiters), artists (dog walkers), models (escorts) and musicians (office techs). Been burned once, but never again.
Patti-
Not only do I love your show, but I find you to be a true inspiration to all. All of your insight on "agism" is so true, and that is a big reason why I was such a fan of the Bill and Heidi episode. I was watching with my fiancee, and we knew from the beginning that they would end up together. But, we are dying to know where they stand right now! Please give us some updates on their status.
Thanks!
The whole show is fake and its made purely for drama like everything else on bravo. Patti is a walking contradition and a sexist. The men who date her millionairess have to have 'seven figures' in her words but the women who date the millionaires can be strippers or centerfolds.
I'll say the same thing I said last season...I love watching this show..its like passing by a horrific accident on the freeway-you cant help but watch. There is no millionaire who would let this woman speak to them the way she does especially if theyre paying her. I know last season they werent even real clients, they were given memberships for free which explains why she can do that! ITS NOT REAL!!!!
I agree with Diane. The bathing suit present was too intimate for a first date, or even 2nd or 3rd. Heidi kept saying how nervous she felt wearing the suit. Then she ends up kissing him, perhaps in an effort to feel secure in a strange world wearing barely nothing at all. She was very vulnerable, and that's not a good time for passion.
And his comments about her body meeting his approval are also red flags. He mentioned her hot bod at least twice, and that shows where his priorities lie. To be honest I think they are too much alike in ways that are not complimentary. I want it to work out with them, and I think it was a great move on Patti's part to give them a go. If nothing else Bill is getting a chance to see that 40 really means fabulous!
And Patti, thank you for all your advice for those of us out in the dating world. I just watched your show for the first time yesterday and I'm hooked. You give us single gals way more than hope. You give us practical advice. Keep it coming!
Diane is sooooo right. There was way too much trying to make Heidi feel worthy of Bill. If Bill is an ageist, he needs to fix that first before you try to sell Heidi to him. She deserves better than to be the product of a "hard sell". Also, she should not have put on that bikini. This episode was all about selling Heidi to Bill and that's offensive. she is soooo much more smokin' hot than he is, and smart too. She should get herself a boy toy and be done with it. Then, perhaps a man her own age will see her with a young stud and have his interest piqued. My husband is 8 years younger than me an thinks twenty somethings are useless. Still love your show Patti!
This is the first time I felt invested in one of your couples. I really want to know if Heidi and Bill are continuing to see each other after their initial date.
After coming to this website for the first time, (as pathetic as this sounds), I am incredibly let down to see that there is no additional information of their status as a couple.
Please be kind and fill us in.
Thank you.
Patti,
I hope this isn't taken the wrong way, but have you had any comments from your clients regarding the way your assistants appear? They seem like very nice people, but when dealing with millionaires, do they get offended by young staff with piercings and mohawks?? I noticed that another show "First Class All The Way" had staff that were very professional looking when dealing with millionaires.
Bill gives Heidi a bikini!!!! What!! Why was the date at his resort? This was an AD for his place and he could write the expense off as business. Awful. Looks only go so far.
@ Bella. You are so right, that is Sarah from the Oprah. Good eye!!
I like the fact, that you don't give privilege to the the privileged. You treat them as people looking for love. Your pushy but respected and your opinions are great!
I think Bill has commitment issues. He uses age to give himself an out incase it doesn't work..
Men like him are do not see how they really look...He has crows feet around the eyes a younger girl might be interested in him for a year or two, but she will outgrow him. What is his real personality like?
Heidi was naturally pretty and gosh if she is over 40, let that not get in the way. If she looks that good now, she will age with grace. Some young girls look older than heidi and they do not have the class.
How much is Bill willing to chance for a life time partner? Does he want depth and a women who can think for herself or does he want a woman who bows and and worships him, but have little depth.
goodluck to both
Love your show Patti. All the advice you give is solid common sense yet effective tools in effective long term relationships.
My hubby and I never had a real honeymoon and we are planning a trip to Vancouver at the Kingfisher Spa. We are love Heidi and Bill!! We watched last night and again tonight and we're rooting for Heidi & Bill.
Love your show Patti. All the advice you give is solid common sense yet effective tools in effective long term relationships.
My hubby and I never had a real honeymoon and we are planning a trip to Vancouver at the Kingfisher Spa. We are love Heidi and Bill!! We watched last night and again tonight and we're rooting for Heidi & Bill.
I loved Heidi!!! She was great and WAY too good for Mr. Schumck that thinks he should date a 29 year old. Listen old man, your body was nice but I am sure your balls sag and money just can't fix that. Stop discriminating against women your age. Heidi is beautiful and successful, she can get better, I am sure of it.
Do we know if she was wearing her own designs on the show? If so I need a few of those shirts. Does anyone know the name of her t-shirt line?
I have to say, as a full time, middle aged, working mom who also attends school AND is dating..I LOVE YOUR SHOW! While not all aspects of it fit into my life, your advice is right on target. I have to laugh when you're giving your "tough love" - been there, wish I had heard it before now!
Keep up the great work! I wish you, your associates and your matches all the happiness and success in the future.
Loved this episode. Heidi was the total package, age and all. I hope they're still together. They made a cute couple.
DianeM, I TOTALLY agree...she went to his city...AND it looked like she initiated the kiss...bad move. And, yes, he's so not genuine. BUT, has anyone noticed this might just be all fake...Bill there to promote his hotel and Heidi to promote her line? it may be these Millionaire's have more to gain for exposure for their brand.
Heidi looks to be a fantastic woman. Beautiful, accomplished, with a true heart. The episode with her and Bill.. They looked like a match made in heaven. Like Barbie and Ken! Unfortunately, like most men with his looks and money...he will always have one eye open. Hopefully he will prove us wrong. But to have her come to Vancouver so he could publicize his resort and show off his success??? Tacky!!
PLEASE PATTI TELL US!!!! ARE BILL AND HEIDI STILL TOGETHER?????
They seem like the perfect match. Hell with all that money she could get a surrogate to carry as many babies as he wants.
I am dying to know if Heidi and Bill get married, I would love to see that! Their date seemed so copacetic you know? Anyway, I fell in love with your show from the very first episode I watched and I wish that all your clients would just listen to you from the get go because you've been proven right time and time again.
Patti,
First of all I want to say thank you for telling the "older" gentlemen what is what. Secondly I wanted to tell you that my husband is 7 1/2 years younger than myself. I met him when I was 33 and he was 25 I never thought it would amount to what ended up be 8 1/2 years of marriage and a total of 11 1/2 years together. So that being said there are "Gems" out there but probably not in L.A. We live in Southern California, but neither one of us is from California so maybe that's the catch. I understand what you are saying about L.A. because we are very close to Orange County and I witness the superficialness on a daily basis. Luckily for my husband and myself we met in another state. Here's to gorgeous women of all ages getting want!
I saw an episode of your show the other night. And in it, you said that men shouldn't make a bisexual woman the mother of your children because she might up and leave you for another woman.
Are you a complete imbecile? Any woman can leave any person for any other person. A heterosexual man or woman can leave their marriage for a member of the opposite sex. A homosexual man or woman can leave their partner for a member of the same sex. A bisexual person is no more likely to cheat than any other individual. Cheating is not opportunity based (though, considering the bias against bisexual people, they also have less opportunity since both gay and straight people are paranoid about dating them). Cheating is a decision made by someone amoral who chooses to have an affair or leave someone after a commitment has been made. That is not something that bisexual women do. That is something that people do.
Do you advise the women of your MC to avoid marrying ANY of the men you introduce them to because, as a man of means, he could up and leave you for the next attractive 20 year old who bats her eyelashes at him? No. Because you assume that if they want a long term relationship, the availability of hot women who want them for their money won't change that. But somehow a bisexual woman interested in a long term relationship is bisexual, and therefore eternally sexually promiscuous and incapable of commitment.
Your logic is not only offensive, but shows how truly empty your mind is. I have met dozens of men who treat, but in my life, including four years at an all women's college, I have yet to find more than perhaps a couple of bisexual women who have cheated. Women, if only because of differing societal expectations, are almost always infinitely less like to cheat on or unfairly end a relationship. This is not to say that it never happens, but you place all of your trust in the men just because they supposedly want to settle down, but none in bisexual women, because they could potentially leave you for a woman. What about the hundreds of young, still learning and growing women you have introduced to these men? How many of them will "grow up" and mature and realize they want something else from life. What then, when they decide they don't want to be died down any longer and leave for a younger/richer/more attractive/more interesting/more like themselves man?
You prejudice is showing, madame, and it is ugly.
Patti, it never ceases to amaze me how good you are at what you do. I'll come work for you!! I really hope Bill doesn't drop the ball on Heidi...seems like he will with his two-week yachting excursion. Whatever. Also, on a totally unrelated note, I've taken a lot of your advice to heart, such as the no sex until we're in a committed monogamous relationship, and making him come to me before I go to him...LOVE IT. Granted, I'm still single, but I feel much more valued thanks to your guidelines. Actually, I think I'll join the club! Hopefully I'll get the Patti approval!
Patti,
Congrats on your success. You are pushy as hell with your clients, but they usually need it & it apparently works!! Where your pushy, abrasive behavior does not work is with your employees. You take things out on them, yell at them way too much & face it; sometimes you are just MEAN!!! You have already lost one good employee due to your abusive behavior. Do you want to lose more?!?!
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