I really really enjoy your show, Patti. I have seen so many recent episodes and I started telling everyone how it has truly become my favorite show.

However, I just learned in a re-run episode how you feel about redheads. It really upset me being a redhead myself. I agreed with pretty much everything you express on your show, but to hear the things you say about people with red hair is uncalled for.

I am happily with an amazing man. I don't know where your theory comes from. I though you wanted to empower women to love themselves and go after what they want. I feel as if I'm just getting a complex :(

Hey Patti! How have you been? I love your show a lot. I am not the conventional beauty and I was wondering; What does it take to be on your show?? I am 44 years old and 5' 6" tall and weigh about 240lbs. Are men looking for my type?? Do they even know we exist?? Patti please wright back to me and let me know, it seems on your show the women are all so beautiful and slender! Wow! I only wish I could find a match for me. Thanks Patti.

I love your show and never miss it on Saturday nights starting from 10:00pm.
Love U from Canada!!!!! Hooray! Here 's to you Patti!

So just watched the episode where the two millionaire's met...I've tried to search it online to find out if they are still together....Are Heidi and Bill STILL TOGETHER ?????

Please let us know

Does anyone know if there is a place to get updates on the millionaires and if they are still dating who Patti set them up with? I would be interested to know how things ended up for people...

I love the show, I love how opioniated you are. TO ME THATS AN HONEST PERSON AND i LIKE IT. I enjoy how you especially tell people when they really expect too much. My pholophsy is that when you expect to much of one person you are going to get someone who is only in it for the wrong reasons andf if you want true love then you cant flont your money and expect the real thing.

omg you are a really grate!!!!!!!!!! match maker I look up 2 you sooooooooooooooo much and you obviously are gorgious plz plz plz keep doin wat ur doin

Hi Patti,

I think your show is entertaining. I only wish that men were attracted to blondes....it seems you have an issue with blondes and the men on your show all "mysteriously" only prefer brunettes. What are you saying?? Is one not considered attractive or intelligent unless they are brunette? I guess one should strive to look like Heidi Fleiss instead of a blonde at all costs....I refuse to dye my hair black. I wish the men you had on your show were attracted to blondes...but then again when I come to think of it the men you have on your show can have the brunettes...you can save the real grown ups and handsome fellows for the blondes...that is if any ever come along!! Anyway I am happily married to a wonderful man who finds me attractive for who I am and not my unattractive hair color...blonde. Get over yourself...and your hair color! It only takes an extremely shallow idiot to think that someone is intelligent or pretty because of their hair color...how rediculous. There are very attractive people in this world and they are not all brunettes...I am sure there are some pretty blondes and red heads as well, don't you think?? Besides, most blondes these days are truly brunettes...and the big joke is blondes are supposedly dumb...anyway.

Thanks Patti!

Hi Patti! Just curious what reactions your clients have to being called names behind their backs. When the show airs, and you and your crew have been so critical of them, do they call and complain, or are they expecting this?
Also, how does Jill Zarin feel about your opinion of redheads?

WHAT DO YOU DO TO YOUR HAIR TO MAKE IT SO SHINY!?!? It's beautiful - come on, spill! BTW, you look AWESOME with a tiger . . .

I love your show...
I learned so much about myself;
no, I am not a millionaire,
but I see so many of my mistakes in them.

Wow....mt dad is 71 and has alzheimers and cannot stand him either but girl I think you are the bomb. I could not handle some of the arrongant asses you deal with. I love some of your sayings as well such as boobaliscious and others that dont come to me at the time. Finda Tamra a fun millionaire from housewives of the OC.....Simon is Di**. She is a hoot!!! Love a loyal fan

Hi Patti! I have watched your show from the beginning and I LOVE IT! You are so much fun to watch and I look forward to your new season! I even watch the reruns!

I love the show, I was just wondering if you keep tabs on the girls after the show. Mojo who got matched up with Greg and they dated, well I was watching Baggage today on GSN and she was on there. Still love your show!

Hi Patti I have watched quite a few of your shows...Now I have to agree with you Jimmy D. was a bit much. But you also sounded like a hypocrite when you asked him not to cut down his date. When you are speaking with your co workers you can be pretty harsh. Jimmy D. was harsh but so were you. You can sound very as bad as jimmy d. I just dont think you realize it.

Patti, I agreed with almost everything you said to those you were trying to help find love until you started on your bs about redheads. You are out of your gourd to say that it has to be in your DNA to like redheads. That you have to be irish because that is what they grew up with? WHAT?!?! There are more dark haired irish girls than redheads, but that isn't even the point. Your comments were rude, stereotypical and you sounded like a total douche.
I'm totally offended and can't believe someone like you, who seemed intelligent would say something totally ridiculous like that.

Patti,

I used to love you, but the thing with redheads is WAY the hell off. I, along with many others, were personally offended. I hate how everyone throws us into a whole different category as though we're a completely different species. I have seen many ugly redheads, same as many attractive ones. This is NOOOO different than any other hair color. There are a hell of a lot of ugly ass blondes and brunnettes but we don't go point that shit out do we? My fiance was turned off by redheads his whole life until we met, and now we're getting married....so re-think your theory.

Hi Patti,
I really enjoy the show..Some of the Millionaire Guys are "real jerks"..The majority of them have high expectations of a Lady...What ever happened 2 the good ole days...When A gentleman asked a lady out for her company..And not for How much she makes, Or if She's blonde and slim???

Hey Patti!! I had an idea I wanted to throw at you. Im 20yrs old living in Arkansas, my dad is a doctor and Im looking for a man I can be with that can give me what Ive had and more. So I just thought have you ever considered taking wealthy sons and daughters and also matching them and helping them with love. I live in a small town and theres not much money here and I remeber you saying that if your partner does not have as much money as you do or hasnt been broght up money that in the realtinship the women turns into the man..thats whats happening to me ..my boyfriend of 2yrs just got a job and my father is a doctor so I dont know that he will ever be able to take care of me and meet my needs the wat Ive had my whole life. So Im looking for a rich mans son lol basically maybe you can come up with something on your own. thanks for your time.

Patti,

I absolutely love your show and I recently got my 77 year old Mom to watch it also! I am a female new to the dating scene (again) at age 41 and I just can't get over how the men I meet need serious direction! I think you need to expand your show to not just millionaires but to the average CLUELESS men, they need your help! Come on Patti do it for all womankind, we have to date these men, can't ya help a girl out??

Patti, most of my friends are stunned that I watch your show, but I think it's funny and I'm in awe just how spot on you are with matching up the dates. Any hopes of having a spin-off show for people that are NOT millionaires?

By the way, just as a sidebar, I ordered some flowers from 1800Flowers.com per the adds on Bravo and your friendship with the owner. It was a disaster. The receiver never got their flowers for their birthday, and the phone numbers provided to call the merchant to iron out the issue were no good; just sent you on a wild goose chase. You may want to have a chat with your buddy over there since you're associating your good name with their service. Just a heads up!

Keep up the great work on your show, and I wish you and Andy all the best! Oh, please tell Chelsea she looks great but looked much better and more natural as a brunette. All my best, Tony Y.

Patti,
You have made me so strong.I was in a relationship 8 months and he never told me he loved me. I thought it was me, and that maybe I wasn't good enough for him, but in all reality he was never good enough for me. I did what you said and moved on and two months later, he was on his knees begging me back. Did I take him back? Hell no. I moved on and began to date someone else. We have been together for a good amount of time and I am so in love. But thanks to you I will never doubt myself again and will continue to spread your word.

Thanks
Megan

I love the way you can see right through the posers like the millionaire with his assistant girlfriend. You are so astute in a sea of creeps.

I love your show. Can you use an East Coast apprentice - ME - I am a true New Yorker, more specifically a "Queens Girl", Russian background (my family brought me here when I was one from Ukraine), I have been an attorney since 1998, presently I am a solo doing 2/3 commercial litigation work and 1/3 matrimonial cases (these family law cases keep work exciting, most of my clients are men who refer me likewise to their male friends, they are so easy to work with by the way in divorce cases as I find their goal is more to move on and seek conclusion instead of retaliation). I am married, two young kids. Maybe Bravo can do a similar show with a novice matchmaker in multi-cultural NYC or I can be your East Coast apprentice.

Patti, I love it when you put these California egomaniacs in their place. Protect these young women from such douchebags. You are performing a service. Dr. G is probably one of them. You should like Bethenny though. You two are smart no bullshitters.

First of all I agree that red heads are a matter of taste. I will also add that red heads are pretty or ugly! There is not a middle ground for us. I am a natural red head. My three children are as well. You stated that guys only like red heads because of a heritage fetish? Wow you are off base! Why would Jessica rabbit be a red head if they cannot be sizzling? I turn heads all day, and don't get me started on the attention my daughter attacks. Unfortunately for us the only red head we have that represents us is a strung out starlet. Lindsey Lohan! But why do you think she use to turn so many non irish heads?

Patti. You mentioned cluster headaches on the reunion show. I have suffered from them for 27 years. They are beyond horrible. Does Botox help and if so, does it just diminish them or does it get rid of them? What else do you do to treat them?

Dear Patti,

I love your show. Tell it like it is.

I'm 63 years old and financially more than stable. 1st husband left me, married 28 yrs. 2nd significant other died of multiple illnesses, lived together over 10 yrs.

I just bought an RV motor home and will do some traveling.I'm adjusting to life a lone.

Pray I find a parter in life who is equitable and just.

Thanks Patti Author of: "SOW: Scholars of Word"

Patti i am from Punxsutawney Pa and i am helpless here i am a single 25 year old girl. i do not want to be 30 and still be guyless.. haha please help me. i love meeting new ppl but its hard around here believe me, if you know anything about my town you would know i am crying for help.. thanks xoxo Lori

absolutely love your show patti...but, when i watched the reunion you mentioned to bring on the chubby chasers...that's fine...but...then the comment you made, "we'll eat together"...kinda got me frazzled a bit...eating isn't always the reason a person is "chubby"...i wasn't fat until i got sick 4yrs ago...my medication, my enability to walk and excercise like i use to has landed me this awful body...still love ya!!!

Hi Patti,

I must say you are really something else with the characters on your show! Very interesting cast of clients looking for the most basic need we all want, Love.

Take Care

Rey

how do you go about becoming one of the women on the show looking for that perfect man millionaire

I am astounded at the immaturity of the men. No wonder they have problems without assistance from Patti.

I love your show, Patti! I think Destin acted like a total JERK this episode! What was his problem??? I hope you get better clients in New York!

The girls you have on the show have no personality, are fake and not even cute?! How does one go about getting an interview? I'm 46 and am more down to earth than half of those girls that came on your show. Thanks, Mitzi, San Diego

Hi Patti and the Team, 4/16/10

Wanted to drop a line and say I LOVE YOUR SHOW!. I look forward every week and your re-runs to catch what you are up to Patti. What a riot. With your feisty, no bs, personality, I laugh out loud sometimes. I feel I may be mustering up some gumption to apply for your NYC show. Keep up the good work. I appreciate what you do for us gals who deserve it and don't have the opportunity to get it.

Best of everything to all of you!
Lorraine

ps - I think I would pee my pants if Lisa
Lampanelli interviewed you about your show...between her jokes and your take-no-prisoners attitude it would be something to watch. I know I would.

You had Mojo on you show? She was on that stupid reality show about marrying a millionaire several yars ago. She is obviously no good! She is not in it for love! Didnn't you see that first kiss? She was disgusted by it. This was a bad call Patti.

I can see why you and Jill are friends. You are both nasty, rude very jealous ladies. Can't stand your show or you, I won't watch it anymore.

By the way have you only really made 1 match on the show. Maybe you need to "get a hobby."

I love the show but am curious {after watching on and off for a few yrs.} are these guys for real?! do they ever find love? no amount of $ would make it worth me in a room with 99% of these rich guys for more than 5 minutes. I guess I'm lucky I'm a newlywed and my guy passed all the tests then and each new one I issue.

Hi Patti. Love the show and love the fact that your so 'in your face' with these guys. A serious story for Greg (finale episode). When I first met my husband at 27, I had been a professional ballet dancer for just about all my life - and nonetheless, terrified of skiing. On one of our first dates he took me skiing as well. I could barely make it off the gondola (walking off that is!!). Fast forward now, I have just turned 48. Married to this guy who also set me up with private lessons. Now have 4 children. Two are serious alpine racers, one on the travel free-style team, and one "late-comer" (can you say "three years old"?, but has already been on skis since she was two!!). Bottom line here? Have patience. This 48 year old mom cannot get enough of skiing. I live for it. We have a home in a ski resort and ski every weekend from start of season to dead last day of the season. I have even become better than my husband who has skiied since he was a child. My goal? Heli-skiing from the back country mountains up in Canada and Alaska for my 50th, with the fantasy of being one of those chicks you see on those extreme ski videos! Greg, don't dump that Mojo. I like her and there is alot of promise. Happy powder days!

Hey Patty,
Since you are friends with 1-800-Flowers - can you find out if Chris McCann is SINGLE?
Matchmaker Matchmaker make me a match...
He is adorable!
LeLe

I agree with Super Fan... Enough with Dustin... between that Mohawk (which NEEDS TO GO), and his pompous attitude, he is ruining the image of the Millionaire's Club. Patty, I am a HUGE fan of your show, and never miss an episode. As soon as Dustin starts to speak, I fast forward... I love my DVR!

How dare you say nasty things about the wonderful Mrs. Bethanny. Jill is the one who held onto a personal phone message for four months so she could play it on the air in the new season. Get a life, Jill.

Love you Patti.

Love love love you, Patti; however, you need some real (i.e. crystal) champagne glasses at the office. A Waterford pattern with hearts comes to mind... you are far to lovely to be drinking bubbly out of a dixie cup!

Patti I hope you read this and take it seriously!!!! I think Dustin/ Destin (whatever his name is) has a bad energy. I'm just waiting for him to go on his own and try to get his own show. After watching tonights show (the final show), I decided I really can't stand him. He acted like an ass, I hope you dealt with him for that! He really got on my nerves, he thinks hes too cool for school and you need to school him!