I happy and sad that David and Doug didnt work out. Happy because David is such a cutie he deserves someone better. Sad because he didnt find someone to be with. It makes me wish I had more money I would have so picked David!!!

I enjoy watching. I see where Patti gives the "little pushes" of what not to do and what to do. If I ever luck up and find a man to date I will be sure to use her "Little Pushes". On that note the man named Mark was not bad looking... hint hint! LOL Why are these men not in the Poconos????

patti, about tonites show !did you not see the realiter on seducing cindy?he cussed her out and called her all kind of names when she sent him home..this was after the first time he was on your show and got dumped by that "cougar"..i would not let him back on...i think he is a fake!

I just want to thank Douglas for helping me get a clear picture of what a person with narcissist disorder is like. I'm a graduate student who is doing her mental health clinical rotation. I was a bit bummed that I hadn't been able to meet anyone with narcissistic disorder, but thanks to Douglas I can say that I have at least been able to observe this disorder in action. The part that bums me out is that he is hot; unfortunately, he has nothing else to offer. I do agree with him that he has significantly reduced his carbon footprint, which for the most part, means he has not left an impression on anyone but himself. Douglas: if you came to the show to get your eco-friendly line some advertising, you're misrepresenting it. You should have just sat there and looked pretty.

Hello Patti, That Bruce guy was HOT HOT HOT!! I just can't believe what Nicole did with him. He has wonderful energy and is just very kewl!!! To bad for her, but great luck for someone out there who likes a man like that!!!!

Hi Patti, Big fan of the show. I am 45 - divorced - have 13yr old daughter. Seeing Nicole (The Toxic Date Girl) "raised the flag pole" as you say .... and made me believe in LOVE again. She is the "complete package" without a doubt. Time for me to start hunting again.

Patti,

I've watched your show since its debut and I love it. I am a big feminist but I agree with your advice. As you illustrate, you can be a strong woman but also enjoy typical male qualities. I'm engaged to a wonderful man and he is a "man's man" but he is confident and we are great together. I think the point of your lessons are less about women being passive or old fashioned (which some critics say about you) and more about people finding out how women/men work best in a relationship with another person.

I would have to say Patti does do job well. But, When it come to the point where she announced who Nicole picked her date. One of the gentlemen said safe bet and left, of course he was going to leave Patti said to step back. How could she say She never had anyone do that before? Hello, this is a job to match others together as mates. She should realized he got shot down twice. DUH! Date #1 ran back in the hotel now Date #2 pick someone else. Patti have always had people in the mixers, with their hearts crushed please! Needs to take that into consideration.

Doug Doug Doug.... When he sees this show he will understand that he need to turn his ego down a notch. Or like everyone else is saying he will have Doug himself as a boyfriend. Live happily ever after baby!

Patti nailed it on the head when she said Doug is an A--H---. I'll bet the other guys were breathing a sigh of relief when they realized they weren't picked. I felt bad for David from the very moment he was picked. He seems like such a great guy and the very fact that he was willing to "roll with the punches" from overcoming his fear of heights to being insulted about his choice of dinner, certainly shows what a quality guy he is. I wish he would have ordered the steak! I'd happily go out on a date with him...in fact, I'm a chef and would happily prepare dinnner - Steaks for both of us!

As a nurse I'm disgusted that Tricia views a pharmicist as a drug pusher. They do work with nurses and doctor's as a team in the best interest of the patient. What's working/not working for that patient and what is the best outcomes we can achieve. If Tricia thinks this is drug pushing then when someone's life in her family depends on that medicine or "drug" I strongly suggest she keep her comments to herself. Unless of course it's her life/death situation and then she can be green and refuse the "drug"!

Patti, I love your show and I really like when you give advice to your clients. I just don't understand when they don't take your advice and try to throw it back in your face. Doug and Nicole missed it entirely.

Patti: These "he-women" will not change. Instead of focusing on softening them up, you need to find men for them who will let them lead. I come from a long line of powerful women... and they've all managed to find men who adore them just as they are.

Hi, wish I had a million dollars- enjoy your show beautiful Patti

Nicole acted as if she believes she is somehow intellectually superior, but being an event planner is not exactly rocket science. Too bad the Ph.D. in Pharmacy did not challenge her on this. Perhaps she thinks being eco-friendly gives her status.

Patti was wrong. She is not masculine. She simply has no social skills.

Patti,

Seriously Bruce was such a cutie. I felt so bad when Nicole denied him a kiss and still only allowed a kiss on the cheek the next date. He isn't to old for me, he's perfect! Please send him my way!

Patti,

Love the show and you!

Charles, "chuck", the pharmist ("drug pusher", as labeled by Nicole) guy. Read somewhere he was a Millionaire on Season 1, but I thought I saw him on another reality tv show- any idea? It's killing me to know I've seen him somewhere, but just can't place him.

Anyway, think you are amazing. You definitely have a gift when it comes to match making. Best wishes on your wedding and marriage.

XoXo, Cristina in Boston

Oh Patty! How do these freaks find you?! The Twit with the fake English accent and Douglas the dweeb will forever have to pay for it - no one should have to ever put up with them - Yawn.

I hope Doug is preparing himself for a lonely life, no one will put up with his enormous ego.

Patti-

Not only are you beautiful, funny, and hysterical, but you have devoted so much time to helping others. It is great to see someone telling people like it is and actually helping them to CHANGE, instead of only pointing out the issues. I love the show, and enjoy watching you do your thing! COntinue to keep it classy and funny, and I am sure you will be around for a long time.

David is so sweet, you could tell from the outset he totally did not want to go out with Doug, but he took one for the show and the viewers. Not a shock that Doug is single, I cannot imagine who can tolerate him for any length of time!

And Nilcole...oy! To call a pharmist a "pusher". What a wack-job.

Patti,

We are now eight episodes into Season 3, and you are batting zero percent as far as a successful match goes with any of your clients beyond the first date. The lesson for any observant viewer is that having a net worth of a million dollars or more does not make for a genuine and/or well-rounded human being. On the contrary, in all but the rarest of instances, such a status produces an arrogant, self-centered, pompous, immodest, and despicable person. In the latest episode both Doug and Nicole fit that bill. My hope is that in the future you find some millionaires who think and act outside of the established ten foot by ten foot box, and match them up with persons of the like. It is getting extremely tiring watching the same type of people week after week demanding the perfect match when they themselves are so imperfect.

Did Nicole not see the irony of going on a "toxic tour" on that huge gas guzzling bus with just her date Bruce, who by the way was absolutely charming. Did she really think that was eco-friendly?

I just wanted to say that I found it interesting that Nicole claims to be so eco-friendly, expect she had a full sized bus for the "toxic-tour" with only 4 people on it! This does not seem like an eco-friendly decision.

Patti -

I think it is interesting that Nicole claims to be so eco-friendly but she has a full sized bus for the "toxic-tour" with just 4 people on it!! Seems like maybe she is eco-friendly when it is convenient.

I want to date Bruce!! He was adorable and such a sweet guy-Nicole has no idea what she let walk away! Genuine people are hard to find here in LA, she so needs a reality check!

Bring on Bruce! =)

Patti, I loved Bruce!! What I wouldn't give to meet a guy like that!! Wow!!

While I feel that Patti and her staff do try to match up their clients, I don't really understand why at the beginning of each show she says she has such a high success rate? I've not seen a single episode where any of the couples go out more than twice.

Hi patti: i love your show i have a problem im 19 yrs old i live in texas an am a very very shy person an everytime i talk to a girl i start to freeze up when i talk an i get quit for a long time an i feel so dumb an unsuessful what should i do to get a girlfrind.

These poor dates. Your clientele is single for a reason...

Hello Patti and friends:

I reside in the Dallas, Texas area. I am a bit of a looker and get attention but, I'm not totally into them. I am 34 year old Cancer, where do you know personally I could find a nice, respectful millionaire that's ready for a committed relationship?

PATTY, LOVE YOUR SHOW AND HOW GOOD YOU MANAGE TO TAKE CARE OF THEM A HOLES!!! LOL I'M A PROFESSIONAL HAIR DESIGNER AND I'VE NOTICED THAT YOUR HAIR IS NO LONG BIG AND PUFFY ANYMORE. IT LOOKS BEAUTIFUL, STRAIGHT AND SHINES LIKE THE SUN! LOVE IT!!! THE KERATIN COMPLEX IT'S A LIFE SAVER!!!! I LOVE IT TOO..... ;)

Good you kick his ass out. Do you have women for women?? If so me first.

Doug IS an a-h$%^! I'm glad David saw through him and lost interest.

I like Patti...one suggestion, don't tell young people you will blacklist them if they don't follow your orders. It comes off as borderline psycho.

Hi Patti, Just wanted to say that I have NEVER seen two such up-tight people in my life, as Nicole and Douglas. They weren't even nice, and they seemed to look down on the potential dates. You said in one episode that Gummy Bear had walls up; well so do these two; what self important snobs. Who would even want to be around them? As a mother of 3 happily married kids, all I can say is that if my children treated another person like they those two did, I would be mortified. Love the show. Linda

excuse me, I'm sorry to all of the Patty fans, but I cannot believe you aren't aware of the difference between chicken and beef. Cows produce methane which is bad for our environment. Methane is worse for the environment than even carbon dioxide. Even though doug is a little cocky, you need to know what you're doing wrong. At least they have jobs that help the world. Without them your job probably wouldn't even exist. mk, thanks.

Excuse me, sorry to the Patti fans, but I have a bone to pick with you. I cannot believe you still have no clue what the difference is between cow and chicken. Cows pruduce methane which harms the environment and is even worse than carbon dioxide. Even if you dont appreciate Doug's personality you need to respect that he is doing the right thing. I bet you dont drive a hybrid or even know what a greenhouse gas is. Their jobs, in my opinion are more important than yours and if you are still unaware of the problems going on with our environment your about to have a rude awakening when our country is given a child policy and we can no longer breathe without masks. Mk thanks, bye.

saw the episode with Bruce....that would be my perfect guy! you can tell he's sweet, interesting and laid backed-completely my type of guy. No way I would have denied a kiss from him. I want to date him! how do I find him?! :)