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Patti Stanger

The Perfect Date and the Douchebag

Patti reveals how she really feels dealing with Ayinde, the commitment-phobe, and Will, the douchebag.

Mar 23, 2010
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Patti, I have a friend that needs to be on your list of girls! Please let me know how I can send you a her photo and information. She is one of my best friends and every time I watch your show I think of her. Please respond and I will send a wonderful girl your way for your clients. She lives in Aventura, Florida. She went to college in UT in Austin, TX and is in her mid 30's looking to settle down and has a heart of gold! She is in sales and real state. She has allowed me to reach out to you. I am married and have a 2 year old. I found my prince charming thanks to her advice to try a dating service, so I really want to pay her back by sending her your way, to the best. Many thanks,

Evelyn

You are giving little teasers about your wedding; are you going to air it on the finale????

Love, Love, Love the show and would love to see Johnny D again, any updates?

Please keep the show going and thank you for working so hard. Really enjoy hearing you tell people how it is and watching the clients mature and so glad you yell (I am there with you) at the ones who don't.

Finally a nice sincere guy! I liked Ayinde, but wasn't Jocelyn on America's Next Top Model?

As for Will, total narcissist who will end up alone! He is not the least bit ready for a real woman in a serious adult relationship. Let him keep playing with his expensive toys and "assistants!"

Finally a nice sincere guy! I liked Ayinde, but wasn't Jocelyn on America's Next Top Model?

As for Will, total narcissist who will end up alone! He is not the least bit ready for a real woman in a serious adult relationship. Let him keep playing with his expensive toys and "assistants!"

Was excited to see Ayinde's date was Joslyn, who competed on America's Next Top Model the season that McKee won. She impressed everyone with her bubbly personality on that one, too, but her Southern accent was thicker on that show.

I thought this was suppose to be about Ayinde and Will. This is about Kevin and Justin :(

Thought you did a great job matching Joslyn with Ayinde. Did anyone else recognize her from one of the early seasons of American's Next Top Model? Joslyn was one of my favorites then and again now. I think Patti did made a great match of Joslyn & Ayinde. Good Job, especially since the end of the show says they are still dating. P.S. Love you show and how you "keep it real" for your clients!

This was a shocking episode, I couldn't believe what I was seeing. He did try to play you but now this Will character is a loser and the whole world knows it. How insulting to his lovely young date, my heart went out to her.. His narcissicism is over the top and one day when is an old, wrinkled, man perhaps with a child he is parent to, he will most likely lose again. Karma is a bitch but nevertheless it is the Universal Law of cause and effect.

U ROC!!!! PATTI I LUV THE FACT THAT U ARE STRONG WILLED AND A REAL WOMEN WHO CARES ABOUT HOW THE MANNERS OF A MAN MATTER AS WELL AS A WOMEN, THATS WHY I AM SINGLE FOR 11 YEARS AND LOVIN IT, I HAVE NO TIME TO ALLOW A MAN TO MISTREAT ME BEEN THERE AND NOT GOING BACK, ALTHOUGH I AM 50 AND NOT BAD LOOKIN 4 MY AGE I STILL TURN HEADS AND WOULD LOVE TO MEET A MAN TO AMUSE ME AND TREAT ME LIKE THE CONFIDENT HARD WORKING WOMEN THAT I AM , HOOK ME UP!!! I AM FAR FROM BORING, I LUV REAL PEOPLE, I HAVE BEEN FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO TRAVEL TO TAIWAN, FRANCE, GREAT BRITAIN AND THRU OUT THE U.S. WAS MARRIED FOR 27 YEARS, NOT TO 1 GUY.......AND WAS HEART BROKEN, ALL 3 TIMES....MEN SUC....BUT I BELIEVE NOT ALL , & THAT RATNER GUY GOOD RIDENCE....U GO GIRL...LUV YA

Jocelyn looked like a perfect match for Ayinde. Was she on America's Next Top Model?

Umm, is this the right video? or is it just me? Cuz Ayinde was a sweetie!!!

Who is she discussing????

I absolutely love you Patti! You ROCK!!! You keep it real and force people to be true to themselves. I'm a Jersey girl myself and am proud to have another sassy brunette from the beautiful jersey shore representing...on top of that I'm a born again christian, (I know how you feel about them but I hate judgers and I like to curse :) don't tell my pastor) God loves everyone and I'm so happy to see you treat everyone with respect...I think my favorite client of yours was the lady who thought she was a lesbian...she's just so sweet and of course gummy bear...love him. All that to say, you totally rock...your show is the only one I choose that he won't complain about but get into. AND, Congrats on your upcoming wedding...you deserve it, ain't love grande.

Patti, I'm very happy to see you kicked Will's sorry ass membership out the door. I hope the girl he was "suppose" to go out on a date, get a nice guy. If I was her, I would have called you first, Then cussed him out and his assistant and really I wouldn't get on that plane when I seen his assistant riding with him. He sucks and yes you are right about his wanker, Cuz I know he's not all that great in bed and him being so selfish seems he would last about 10 minutes if not less. He's not gonna learn his lesson anyways he's gonna be that 47 yr old man picking up younger chick and his toupee falling into their drinks..

Just think that when a businessman (Will) goes on a date, he wouldn't take his personal assistant. I'm surprised she tolerated the entire date... would have found my own way home. It was just plain rude!

Ayinde's a nice catch. Hope it works out for him and his date. They looked cute together. :o)

UNRELATED: Do you ever work with people with a common STD such as genital or oral herpes? It's very common, but when dating it does come up as I've been recently infected. It's taught me to be more selective and actually has brought me to some higher quality men. It was a tough, but valuable lesson. I'm forty-three going on forty-four, APRIL FOOL'S DAY. Still single, divorced about eleven years now with three teen-aged children. Two moved out and only have a soon to be fourteen year old left. Ever cast in Sacramento, CA for women over forty???

Thank you. I enjoy your show!!!

I've seen your show and i like it but i must have to admit you are one of the most sexiest woman i have seen i think that if i was a millionaire i would date you in a heart beat keep up the good work

Patti...I went to High School with Nequesha and she dated my brother for about a year! I was so surprised to see her on your show. I was also so bummed to see her disrespected like that :( I have lost touch with her and was hoping to reconnect!!!! Sure hope she finds a great man (too bad my brother was such a loser!!! :) )

Good job kicking this Player out of the club. GeeeeeRossss.

I can't believe Will did that to her!!! Three is definitely a crowd! Will is a piece of spoiled work. I think Will just tried to get face time for himself, his company but more importantly his "personal assistant." The only person he was trying to impress WAS his assistant. Was he trying give her her own 15 minutes of fame? Patti you totally called it. I think everyone, myself included is learning the do's and don't's of dating but will is only in elementary school -- he has a long way to go.

You were so right about Will, what a DOUCHEBAG! The minute I saw his assistant on the plane the date would have never happened. You know he's got to be banging her.

I was so happy for Ayinde and Jocelyn. You could just see them click and it wasn't like any of the other dates featured on your show. They genuinely we're having a good time with each other while others just seem to have their guard up and don't want to let anyone in.

Good Job!

Love U! Love the show! Best wishes on your upcoming wedding...God Bless! You're a doll! Luv Robert 2010

I WENT TO HIGHSCHOOL WITH WILL! and let me tell you - his opening quote of, "the joke in high school was men want to be me and women want to be with me" could not be more RIDICULOUS! he literally TRAVELED to the neighboring town and would LIE to girls that he was the starting runningback, when IN FACT, he NEVER played...except for one time, when the head coach played him and muttered, "this otta be good" while he ran onto the field.

so WILL - the next time you decide to go onto a reality show, remember...more than you and "all the girls who you meet" in LA watch it...including ex-classmates. good luck finding true love - especially when you can't even find reality.

PS - Will's dad, who he said he talks to every day...he goes to the local pool every morning wearing a THONG SPEEDO! boom.

The match wuth Jocelyn and Ayinde was perfect. They both had a great sense of humor and seemed to have bonded well. He comes across as a gentleman and seemed very real. I hope this match works out. I think they are perfect for each other from all appearances.

Patti I think your'e great. I love that you see a person for who they are at the very first moment you talk to them.

Hi Patty,

OMG.....this episode was a mess or at least half of it was. This Will character leaves even me at a loss for words, which rarely happens. First of all, I completely agree with your assessment that he "is not all that". He's semi-attractive, but not at all drop dead gorgeous like you would think someone with his attitude would be. Then when I actually saw him on these "mini-dates" and then the real date - it was appalling to say the least. I cannot imagine any girl (even a gold digger) wanting to go on a second date with him. He was SO boring and self absorbed, it was painful to watch. What was funny was the look on his date's face throughout the entire evening - she was clearly miserable. I"m glad you called him out like you did. I wonder if he has any idea how much of a douchebag he looked like on national TV?

Ayinde, on the other hand, was actually refreshing to watch. His interaction with the therapist was raw and real - made you want to route for him even more. He's a genuinely kind person who deserves love, unlike some of these other bozos that you seem to get tangled up with on this show. Although it seemed he and Josylynn were a perfect match, perhaps as they got to know each other more, they weren't so much, which happens and its nobodys fault. I'm willing to bet they treated each other with respect and remain friends though. I hope you do find his soulmate as he totally deserves one!

Congrats on your engagement and good luck with the wedding planning.

I loved this episode it had enough love, romance, and chivalry with Ayinde and Jocelyn but also had the drama, craziness of Will and Nequisha. I thought Ayinde was such a sweet guy and hope that he and America's Next Top Model Jocelyn have a good dating run if not more. Best of luck to them. As for Will what a JERK!!! Everyone is asking why he would do such a thing. Am I the only one who thinks he wanted to fulfill a rainbow fantasy of his? Tried to get Nequisha liquored up to see if he could be the man with his girlfriend/assistant and her? I could be reaching though but it sure seemed that way.

LOL! Patti cracks me up...I truly appreciate her blatant honesty! She's the Simon Cowell of love!

I enjoyed watching Ayinde. It was cool to watch as he shared with us a need for some assistance in an area that is blocking him from finding and keeping love. And I thought it was great that Patti took that information and went to work to help him address it so he can move forward. I am rooting for Ayinde. He seems to be a jewel.

Patti seems to be doing a great job planning a wedding in the middle of running her business. All the best Patti.

Correct me if I'm wrong: but don't you always have one 'great' contestant, and one 'flawed' contestant ??? I mean: it's the shows format, - And, in the end, isn't it the 'bad' news that gets your ratings ? What I did see, is that there were NO unflattering shots or portrayals of 'adorable' Ayinde. Likewise, there were flattering shots of 'douchebag' Will.

There are no perfect people. And no on is one-sided. Wonder what these guys are REALLY like ??????

It is a bit different to bring an assistant on a date, but she has to understand him too, and she should have just shown him herself and made him pay attention to only her and not his assistant. who cares if she was there. I think the guy has a character

I was in love with Ayinde and Josylyn, I really hope they work out. She really look like a good person. Her personality was so awesome. Ayinde was so nice, it's so rare that you see a good guy and so real. Do anyone know if they are still together?

Patti, whats with the two Goths that are on your staff? They so don't look like your type so to speak.

I'm so bummed Kell on Earth is in its final episode and it seems like there have been Millionaire Matchmaker going on for months. I hope Kell on Earth gets this many episodes next season.

Will is an absolute tosser!

Where are the millionare women for women? Sign me up. Where is the show Real Gay Spouses of DC. Yes they can marry now in DC. Sign me up for that one too...oh and my partner Melanie...lol

Margo

Patti,

Fun show..however, I am not sure why you seem to consistently use the slur 'shiksa' throughout the season to label non-jewish women. It does paint an ugly picture of how jewish women may speak about other non-jewish women and I believe you are doing a disservice to the way a nice confident Jewish girl would behave. I have been mistaked and been blanketed with that term before. I felt it showed ignorance and made these Jewish women seem angry. And I hate that label on Jewish women. Good luck to you and the show, I'd really like to hear classier descriptions in the future.

I am a long time fan of the show and appreciate that while you take your work seriously you don't do the same for client(meaning you are willing to roll with the flow when they are goofy) you picked up on both of their quirks from the start but I think you should have cut them off before you matched thenm with some poor girls. In particular Peter Pan, who was surprised by his behaviour??? - you knew what he was and again, I think it would have been better to cut him before he had the chance to screw up a date. Your standards are too high for his kind of trash. I love the show, keep on helping!

I thought that was Joslyn. I recognized her voice, and she was also the one who said she wanted to open her own modeling agency. I like that she didn't bring it up. That means she's not in it for the reality show status, but for what the shows are aiming to do for her. so yay!