Patti Stanger

Patti talks about the "reformed" Jimmy D and her most religious millionaire, Mateo.

on Mar 2, 20100
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You are great. These guys are exactly what I coach. Only they find the women of there dreams by changing their inner game. The reason these guys do not attract the women they want is because they do not really know what they want. Thanks to you Patti you give them some choices and work on them personally. If you want a quality man let me know. I'm well rounded and interesting, a former pro athlete and love kids. Keep up the good work.

cindy l
cindy l

Hi patty I watched your show Mateo was really sweet, wish I lived in California. Don't find to many Christian men now days.

Stephen E (vancouver bc)
Stephen E (vancouver bc)

Yes, I think Jimmy D finally learned the hard way that even with chemistry and the 'it' factor, that you can't force a date in to a friendship or relationship. I feel he walked away with a better understanding of what kind of women he doesn't want. As you've pointed out, they take time and patience and most times it seems that the guys from LA haven't learned patience. Most guys on your show don't realize that their list of 'wants' often exceeds the 'list of 'needs'. I would give Jimmy D a third chance if he asked nicely, he just needs to turn the intensity down.

As for Mateo, well if Stiller and Meara can keep their love and marriage going on after all these years, RELIGION is only an issue if you make it one.

LauraM
LauraM

Patti, kudos to you for understanding christian dating values! No sex before marriage. I was really disappointed in Mateo for not agreeing with you. He was very hesitant about that issue; does he not agree with that standard? Good for his Jewish date that he putting him straight the "raising children" issue. Maybe he'll pay attention to your suggestions next time.

Mom viewer
Mom viewer

I have a good date, intelligent, Christian for Mateo. I'm sure she is in his age range.

EastCoastBabe
EastCoastBabe

Patti:

I agree, God has no religion, just as a truly "holy/spiritual" person does not define themselves by a religion. I get you, too bad Robert from Texas doesn't get it.

Anyway, Jimmy D, I am liking him more since he dumped the blonde bimbo. Perhaps there is hope for Jimmy D. I really like Whitney for him, she just may be everything he is looking for and needs to balance and ground him if he doesn't scare her away. Jimmy is looking for the same thing that every man is looking for: a chef in the kitchen, an adventurous, fun loving "lady" in public, a mother for his children, and a whore in the bedroom!

CrystalJ
CrystalJ

I must say I'm not a fan of TV at all, but watching your show I found myself glued to the tv.. I love your show, and it gives me hope in finding myself dating and in love again!!!! Thanks Crystal

Robert in Texas
Robert in Texas

Patti, I watched the show tonight with Mateo supposedly wanting a Christian date. Regarding this, you said something about the real God having no religion. It sounds as if you are saying that all religions, all faiths and their gods are equally valid with the real God. If that is your position, then you are at odds with Jesus, who said in John 17:3 "And this is eternal life, that they may know Thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom Thou has sent." Three chapters earlier in John 14:6, Jesus made the claim "I am the way, and the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father but through Me." In Acts 4:12 Peter states that there is salvation in no one else but Jesus. This all ties with the God's first commandment of Exodus 20:3 "You shall have no other gods before Me." These are but a few of a multitude of examples found in the Bible. Why would the God of the Bible say there is only one true God, only one way, only one savior? Because that is what is true and the entirety of the Bible reveals this truth repeatedly. I hope you will reconsider this. I recommend you read the words of Jesus in one of the gospels such as John quoted above to further investigate what Jesus claims about exclusivity of God. Thank you for allowing me to post my comment. Robert in Texas

Erictxman
Erictxman

I think some of these guy's behavior is awful. I think maybe sitting them down and showing them on tape what they did wrong on their date might be a good idea

LORI DUNNNG
LORI DUNNNG

PATTI,I WATCH YOU'RE SHOW ALL THE TIME AND I LOVE YOU!I REALLY NEED TO FIND SOMEONE MYSELF. I WANT TO MEET JIMMY D. I WOULD BE THE PERFECT GIRL FOR HIM!BUT I AM 40 ,LONG BLONDE HAIR,34 TRIPLE D'S IMPLANTS AND I LOVE TO HAVE FUN BUT I'M NOT AT ALL LIKE THAT DUMB BLONDE HE WENT ON THAT BAD DATE WITH.I'VE OWNED MY OWN BUSINESS FOR 10YEARS,AND I LOVE TO TRAVEL.I REALLY HAVE DATED MUCH YOUNGER GUYS BEFORE ,LIKE 10 YEARS YOUNGER,NOT WORKING FOR ME AT ALL.I'M READY TO BE HAPPY.

Jeannette
Jeannette

Patti, I love your show. I think you're very entertaining! I also want to say that I'm madly in-love with Jimmy D. He's adorable. I can see that he has feelings and I just want to protect him from all those bimbos.

SoVery
SoVery

Patti, I absolutely fell in love with Gummy Bear. I feel that I am just what he is looking for! I know that we would have so much fun together. He is a very "special" man and needs someone special on his arm. I am that person.

queenmaven
queenmaven

Mateo needs to meet Quinn, the former RHOC. They would be a match made in heaven (get it, heaven?)!

Devon Rinus
Devon Rinus

hi, i would love to meet someone through you but do not know how to go about.

julie andolpho
julie andolpho

Patti, I don't know if you read these, but I just want to let you know I think your hair looks great. You look sooo much better w/o the bangs. Actually, you look about 5 years younger. Please, never do bangs again!!!!

California Mom
California Mom

Patti, there definately seems need for your service thse days. I wish you were not so vulgar and had more of a ladies tongue. You may not like someone but there is no reason to trash them. You tell Jimmy D women don't like rude jerks (I have sanitized your real comment) but he is mild compared to you. I hope that is not how you really are and it is just for show ratings. You also seem so upset when people are not in love with the very first match you make for them. Two people can be great people yet not great for each other. You take is so personal and start talking negatively about them. Remember, the matches are about them and not you.

A dutch/brazilian woman
A dutch/brazilian woman

Hi Patti,

I am a dutch girl, i live in The Netherlands. I am 23 years old, studing and looking for a real relation.

But do you help aswell duth people?

Greetings,

Alysia
Alysia

Hi Patti! Love you and your show! I manage a beautiful apartment community in Atlanta, Georgia and think it would be great if you came here for a singles mixer.

Viewer in Chicago
Viewer in Chicago

Patti, I thoroughly enjoy watching your show. I particularly got a kick out of the episode with Shauna and your comments about her facelift, botox, etc. But, everytime I looked at her, she reminded me of someone (or something) and I couldn't put my finger on it. Finally, it dawned on my what it was.... The Chicago Picasso! If you cut and paste the following link, I think you'll agree! (or just Google it)

http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:20071027_Chicago_Picasso_with_kids.JPG

Renee G
Renee G

Patti, I would like to say that I like your show. I like how your show shines a light on the millionaire society and each millionaires personal life. But I must say the I'm a little dissappointed with your choice of words on the episode with Jimmy D and his bodyguards first appearance in your office. Yes, Jimmy D did arrive in your office with "two big" bodyguards. And yes, they were both black as we all can see. But I believe as a classy lady in the public eye, you could have left out "These two big African-American bodyguards!" That was already apparent! No matter what race or ethnicity, I'm sure if two big bodyguards appeared in your office it would have been just as intidating.

queenmaven
queenmaven

In the previews for next week's episode, I caught a shot of the clueless salon owner from Tabitha's Salon Makeover. Are we recycling characters?

Judy Dee
Judy Dee

Patti, I love your show and as a christian woman was so glad to see you had Mateo, a christian man on. I was really curious to see how you were going to find a woman for him. You might think about going to some local churches to find women for him. There are some great good-looking christian women out there & it is really hard for christian men & women to get together. I don't know why, but it is.

Pam, a fake blonde
Pam, a fake blonde

love the show! i would also like to add my two cents about the blogging though...some of us can't always watch the video blog but would love to READ your blog and comment! please consider us when blogging :)

and bravo...please make your page more user friendly!!! you have such a large audience of viewers that come here to read the blogs on the shows and your page is very outdated! i bet only a fourth (maybe less) of your audience is posting to these blogs, but you have so many more that ARE reading them! invest some money in your website, PLEASE

jennifer  DeRobbio
jennifer DeRobbio

I watch all ypur shows and fell in love with Jimmy D. He liked to party and now realized there is more. We have alot in common and I would treat him like gold, The money doesnt impress me but i see a deeper side to him. We would have so much fun together and Im not a blonde bimbo THANK YOU. I would hard and appreciate money.SO I think we would be perfect together

snesser
snesser

Patti!

I know you hear this all the time but I love the show! Jimmy D is such a cutie but he needed your help! I think deep down he is a sweet guy who needs a girl with more going on upstairs but can keep him in line!! :)

Not all blondes are bimbos I promise! I am 28 years old with a great medical device/pharma job and I am a nurse finishing up my master's to be a practitioner. He is someone I would love to go out with--what is he doing with these crazy girls!? Make sure to let him know that there are good girls out there and when he finds it--its worth the wait.

Good luck to you with the wedding plans, you do a great job helping others find love. I wish you much success and happiness in the future! ~Stephany

Jamie D. D.
Jamie D. D.

Patti you are awesome. I watch one of your shows and had to DVR i love the way you find people true love and I love the morals that you set out. I think that people like you that are willing to give everyone else the love that you have found is great. I myself am happily married for five years now and i wish i could give people the gift that you do. One other thing how is it that I could go about getting one of your posters the ones that say P.S. xoxo. lots of blessings and love

S
S

Let me at Jimmy D, I'd like to show him how little HE has going on up there. I bet I could talk circles around him about Armor Group, his competitors, his business. Tell him we can chat about Baghdad unless oooooh -he never had the guts to go check on his business there. I am so glad I did not follow through re the business development position for which I interviewed with AG; I had no idea at the time the company was built by a bonehead.

Han Da'Man
Han Da'Man

On Mateo's date:

Mr. Harvard Business enters the meeting convinced that he’s got a list of specifications a mile long. You were eventually able to get him past most of that, but found the ONE thing he wouldn't compromise: A Christian woman.

Then in strolls Andrea, shows up literally out of nowhere. (I'm still amazed you let her stay; so distracted you must've been by the "ugly, fire-crotch b*tch"). Then she goes on a minidate, then a real date and even Mateo is willing to look past the ONE thing he couldn't look past before.

Why?

What was it he saw and/or felt when he was with her? It must’ve been something magical.. I don't know, but I wish I could've asked him what it was. He almost tried to describe it, during the mixer, how he was drawn to her and felt something like comfort just standing near her. That was the “it” factor, some intangible spark, the undeniable chemistry; and it was crushed only after she was adamant about raising her potential kids in her faith. Figure out that “it”, then we’ll really be on to something..

On a different note:

Ms Chelsea Autumn, you are one smokin’ hot babe, with quite a sharp little mind in that beautiful head of yours. Good luck with Capt. Love Boat, I hope he realizes what an amazing catch you are.

Finally, a toast:

To Patti, may the marriage be as beautiful as the wedding, and may each day bring the two of you closer and more happiness than the day before.

Cheers

Erica Ricks
Erica Ricks

Patty I am not a wealthy person I am 40 in the army I am recently divorced my children are adults and I really want to find love I have never had a man be a man they do it in the beginning but never continue I would like my soulmate a person with real chemistry do you have any advice for me I am a little shy but once I get to know someone I open up I am open to love I am open to marriage

Jennifer J Brown
Jennifer J Brown

I saw the show last nite with Mateo and Jimmy D. I would luv to meet Mateo. I live in Corona, CA having recently moved here from Buffalo, NY about 5 mos ago. I am Christian and attend Grace Baptist. I am Italian, Japanese and English. No children and am 5"3 almost 5'4 and weigh 130. I dont know how to get on your show but I am trying to find ways on this website.....

A.J.
A.J.

I just have one question for you Patti, what do you use on your hair? It is so beautiful and shiny, just gorgeous.

Baron
Baron

+1 for written blogs over video.

Patti needs to branch out a little more to find the right woman for Mateo. He chose the woman that was brought by a friend because, frankly, no one that Patti selected had the "real" qualities that hee was interested in. Obviously, he liked he flashy women (like the lovely RED-HEADED ex-cheerleader), but he related more to a down-to-earth type, even though she did not meet his most fundamental requirement. I'm not saying that Patti needs to have a "Christian" market sector, but she does need to find more women who offer substance. I guess many of them are not on the market!

Antonella
Antonella

Patti Stanger YOU ROCK! I would be perfect for Jimmy D and he is absolutely adorable. Love the show!

AbbyD
AbbyD

I agree, I would rather read her blog because my computer is at work and also runs very slowly.

sexy girl
sexy girl

love patty u the best of the bests...

Susan from Texas
Susan from Texas

I saw the show with Mateo and thought he was so great! It was refreshing to see a guy who highly values his religion and is willing to let it be known! I thought he was cute and had a really positive vibe! Tell him if he would like a good women who is also a firm believer in God, I'm here in Texas!

Louise45
Louise45

Has Mateo heard of free will and we're not always suppose to act on it! Did he really think he would reform a Jewish woman, I think he just likes dating, lol

carriej
carriej

Jimmy D is a changed man! It's too bad he picked the drunk...he definitely is subdued, like a person who got a serious head injury. But it has helped him, not hindered him. I hope he finds love soon!

No more videos, please!
No more videos, please!

I don't like the video blogs. I'm in the office during the day and it's much easier to read what Patti has to say. Please write your blog....Thanks!

Fashion Watcher
Fashion Watcher

Patti!

I really want to know who made the dress that Whitney was wearing when she went on the last-minute date with Jimmy D. I absolutely loved it! I am also pretty sure she paired it with Christian Louboutin shoes, but I am not sure!

Also, you have such wisdom and I really feel inspired by you. Your commitment to your job is amazing!

samlee
samlee

I saw an episode of your show a week ago and I got hooked! I had all your episodes set on my DVR! and even wathced a marathon of last year's episodes! It's really interesting how you do this matchmaking. Wish I am in one of your mixer for this episode! haha! Religion is really a deal breaker! I am a christian wished I was in that mixer! Maybe Mateo would have picked me! I am turning 31 soon! and Patti you are doing a live show in SAN DIEGO on my bday!!!! I am trying to convince my friend to come with me as I will be flying to CA from Chicago this friday for little birthday vaca!... You are great Patti, wish I have your gift in matchmaking! and maybe one day I will be chosen to be part of your mixer!.. still waiting for my future christian husband!

Maria James
Maria James

Is that the same Whitney that Laurence and Andrew went out with last year??

Lari
Lari

Patti, I just want to say you are awesome... I absolutely love your show and your personality! I just want you to know I am a loyal watcher till the end!!

Melissa Littleton
Melissa Littleton

Hello Patti,

please e-mail JimmyD phone number! Would love to meet him!!!!!