I thought the goal for the matchmaker was for Patti to find a girl that is right for me. Instead, I feel Patti's goal was to change me to fit the type of relationship she thinks I should have.
My dream is to find a quality girl who loves me for who I am and enjoys my lifestyle. The stripper pole is not going in the basement and more importantly, I want a girlfriend who likes a pole in the living room. More conservative men looking for traditional relationships may find Patti very helpful, but for me, I found her advice somewhat insulting and not quite useful.