I could bring a lot to the table for Xander! Everything he is about is an ideal match for me- his sincere natural flow about him along with family values is refreshing and yet powerful! I think a man that knows what he wants and is driven is very attractive besides his physical I can tell we would be on the same level with the direction we could take in a relationship! Please send me info on how to meet this amazing man- I am the woman he needs in his life?!

Xander, I like everyone else above agree that you are a genuine and beautiful person. I wish you the best. I just saw your episode , and didnt realize that it was last year. But just the same, best of luck. I would love to meet you one day.

OMG!!!!!!!! I saw Xander on Millionaire Matchmaker today and he seemed too good to be true. He had a great sense of humor, very handsome, polite, smart, fashionable, and who doesn't love a man who adores their children? I have a four year old little girl and the way he adores his daughter is some amazing. Being a single mother I would prefer someone who already has children because finding someone who already has the patience and understands the bond between parent and child is so important. I love a man that isn't afraid to give a woman a compliment and I could tell he was nervous and looking for ways to keep the conversation alive...woman that are more sure of themselves and well rounded can help hold a conversation. I wish I could meet me a Xander even without the millions...thousands would do...LOL....It helps that I'm totally a MILF...well I wish him the best of luck.

I ENJOY PATTI'S DOMINATING APPROACH. SHE CAN BEEN QUITE ENTERTAINING. I ALSO AGREE WITH YOUR STATEMENT ABOUT HER BEING MORE ATTENTIVE TO THE CLIENTS. HOWEVER I ENJOYED YOUR EPISODE. I WAS PLEASED TO SEE VIOLET DECLINE YOUR OFFER ON A SECOND DATE.(THANKS VIOLET!) MY FIRST IMPRESSION OF YOU WAS DAMN THIS GUY IS HANDSOME...HAS STYLE, FAMILY VALUES, AND HE WANTS TO SETTLE DOWN.(WOW) I AM ALSO BI-RACIAL, A SINGLE CAREER MOM I AM BLESSED WITH ONE TERRIFIC DAUGHTER, LOOKING FOR A FRIENDSHIP WITH SUBSTANCE. I BRING WONDERFUL PARENTING, HONESTY, SINCERITY, COMPANIONSHIP AND LOVE TO THE TABLE.

I know the episode is pretty old at this point; however I would like to email/chat with you sometime. By the way, that's great that you have such a wonderful relationship with your daughter. I had a wonderful dad, so I scrutinize men that have children more so to see how they are with them and what kind of time they spend with them. After all, if they are poor fathers-what would make them good in a relationship with a woman? Not that you need any kudos from me lol. I do think it's great though.

Take care

Pamela

Xander...I don't really watch this show, but a repeat episode was on the other day and I happened to hear your voice in the background as I was studying...and you said you were from Sacramento. That caught my attention, as I am also from Sac, so I started watching the show. I thought you were absolutely adorable and very polite! Any girl that complains about being complimented on her beauty is out of her mind. You truely seem like a genuine and handsome man, and I hope your search went well after that show aired! xoxo

Xander I never watched the show until I saw you on it then I watched again hoping to see on there but never did. I admire you for being devoted to your daughter despite how busy work may keep you. I think your a sweet guy and the way you kept telling your date she was beautiful made me smile I think it's hard to find people who are interested in the real you when they know your financial worth I'm glad you didn't do the show over because you of ended up with someone shallow and not caring about you and most importantly your baby. The one thing about you I liked was your style I love a man with his own swag and I could tell you express through your style not by flashin cash and bein over the top. I would love to talk with you and just get to see what your really like away from cameras and patty lol Im sure you'll never read this or email me but if you do it would make me smile and I'm sure your in a relationship by now and if so congrats and blessings to you both and your daughter but either way I'd love just to talk to you. God bless. 1.

hi xander i would love to meet you ,i been looking for man like you ..to settle down and start a family....i hope we can meet one day soon....love and peace

Xander, I was really pulling for you. I think you are amazing, and you are exactly the kind of guy I wish I could run across (millions or not). I agree with some of the other comments here, that there are women who believe in marriage, family and have good strong moral values, and you might have a hard time finding that in LA. You are a gem, and I know love will find you!

Xander,
You definitely captured my interest last night on the show (I think it was the smile). Forget the fame & fortune, I will take you and that gorgeous baby girl of yours.... No questions asked! I agree with the first comment, you need to look outside of L.A. ;) More like the Louisville, Kentucky area. Smile!

Xander- are you available still????????????????????
I would like to go on a date with you.

I don't know about Xander's situation now, since this episode aired just today in Europe. What a man!
I think it is sad that he has to be pushed to be more outgoing and something that is not really him. It is nice that he is shy, that he has his priorities and is honest.

I don't know if he actually is going to read this.. but...

You ask what 'she' can bring to the table? I know what I can bring to the table! If I had the chance to date you, I am sure I could make you feel comfortable being yourself. I don't need you trying to impress me, I want to get to know the real you. I would show you what it is like to have a woman in your life, not a girl.

Xander...I feel ridiculous writing on a message board. I've never written on one before. But for you...I couldn't help myself. I'm intrigued. Email me so I can share my thoughts and I also have a question for you.

Xander, I can tell you are a great guy with specific needs. we should meet - I know you'll be
intrigued.

Xander, you're segment is still my favorite. Your positive and open-minded attitude was really great to watch. I was rooting for you and the second-date girl because physically, you two were cute together. But I hope your date with her didn't discourage you from complimenting women (most of us love it!). You seem like a guy with a ton of great qualities and very deserving of a wonderful woman...hope u find her!

I saw you on the show... I have to say that you were the only man up until now that was so kind, down to earth and real. I loved watching wou! how do I find u?!!

Best wishes,

Natasha

I HAVE WATCHED THE ESPISODE WITH XANDER AND I UNDER WHERE HE IS COMING FROM.I WOULD LOVE TO MEET HIM IN PERSON I AM 25 YRS I LIVE IN THE WESTCHESTER COUNTY AREA, YOU CAN CONTACT ME THROUGH EMAIL,SO THAT WE CAN GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND YES I AM SINGLE WITH NO CHILDREN STUDYING TO BE A MIDDLE SCHOOL TEACHER.

I have to agree with Xander's comments. From the viewing of the show, it appeared that there were not that many choices of women for him during the screening. It's rare on the show for a man to actually be looking to settle down and start a family. Majority of them so far have said the words, but their actions proved otherwise. Xander actually seemed interested in following through with monogamous dating if he could find the right woman. Don't give up Xander! There are plenty of us women who believe in the sanctity of marriage, honesty, family, know the beauty of a real relationship, and have lots to bring to the table. You just might have to look outside of LA to find us.