Patti says: The guy next door is often athletic, can hang with the girls (and the guys) and is the type of person who really responds to friendship. Be yourself and smile, and you’ll win this guy. Careful though – don’t go too far into the friend zone or you’re screwed (well, not screwed!)!

Patti says: Younger players respond to mystery – always have a poker face on and never reveal your hand. Take a chance and double down.

Patti says: Nice guys don’t always finish last. They often respond to appreciativeness. They need a lot of encouragement so be sure to praise them. Be nice back, just not too nice.

Patti says: Divorced guys have often been through a lot of drama – those who are high maintenance need not apply. Be unpredictable and spontaneous and this guy will fall in love with you. And don’t forget your monogrammed flask ;)

Patti says: Always be current and know who is on the NYBT list. Make sure you’re well versed in current events and always let him lead in the conversation. Embrace the creative side in him dying to get out.

Patti says: Be prepared for anything and always be ready to go on the drip of a dime – and have a dime bag on you (kidding). Never say his favorite artist sucks...unless it does.

Patti says: Be the ‘girl next door’ meets ‘the fashionista.' Make sure you know what type of music he likes and are able to sing along if there are any words to the songs (techno anyone?) Never ever talk about his own music – talk about other music you like.

Patti says: Be a hot girl.