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Getting to know Destin

By Destin Pfaff

I have to write blogs about the show? Patti, the girls, the guys, myself... everything? Oye.

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Well, as I imagine you know, my name is Destin and I am Patti's assistant (and matchmaker... and COO of the company -- stay tuned for that.) I tend to call myself the "Executive Assistant" or "Office Manager" or "Head of Luxury Services," (as I set up most of the events for the company, manage the website, handle the girls, matchmake, do luxury sales, etc., etc., etc.,) but really, at the end of the day, I'm an "assistant." I still have to pick up the dry cleaning, drive Patti around to run errands, occasionally cook, blah blah blah. It's from one extreme to the other. In this wild world of love, you have to be able to do it all, and I do. That's why I rock. Modest? No.
I'm also a working screenwriter and producer. I have a hot girlfriend, crappy car and caring relatives and friends. Patti, Chelsea and Alison truly are part of my extended family and I love them very much.

Working for Patti is an adventure -- one few are able to handle -- and I totally enjoy it. She's a hardcore business woman, a perfect reader of people and is no holds barred when it comes to her opinion. She really is how you see her on television. Hell, so is Chels and Alison, and probably even me.


One may ask, "If you're writing, acting and producing movies and shows, why keep working for Patti?" The answer is simple. I care about her greatly, and I get paid very well. Nah, I'm just kidding, I don't get paid well. I love matchmaking.

In the coming weeks, you'll be reading all of my intimate thoughts on Patti, the business, Chelsea and Alison, the men, the girls, my life, and the show. So, stay tuned and enjoy!

-Des

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