Cast Blog: #MATCHMAKER

Xander's Experience

Making a Match: Finding Romeo's Juliet

Making a Match: Beauty, Bikinis and Breaking The Rules

Making a Match: A Bachelor's Bachelor

Making a Match: A #Matchmaker First!

Making a Match: The Matchmaker is Always Right

Making a Match: Patti Melts and Bravo Reunions

Making a Match: Speidi, Bad Guys & Playboy

Making a Match: The Real Perez and Sexy Sonja

Making a Match: Making Jill (and Ally) Happy

Making a Match: Crashing Chilli's Date!

Making a Match: Larry Birkhead & Melyssa Ford

Patti Turns NeNe's Bridesmaids to Brides

A Waste of a Good Mirror

Getting a Nice Guy for Rachel Uchitel

Breaking 'Matchmaker' History

Two Millionaires That Shouldn't Be Single

The Critical Dick Goes Home Alone

A Dorky Doc and a Hopeless Romantic

Carson Kressley, the Millionaire Whisperer

Patti's Vlog: Everyone Gets a Valentine!

Patti's Vlog: Patti's the Love Doctor

Patti's Vlog: Stefan Richter Tried to Date Patti!

A Bashful Beauty and a Not-So-Golden Oldie

A Shallow Old Dog and a Sweet River Rat

What Rosie Wants and a Gay Hugh Hefner

Great Expectations and the Running Man

Courtney Kerr and a Swedish Peacock

Sarcastic Cheban and a 'Man-diego' Bachelor

Sweetheart Swayze and a Virtual Phantom

Patti's Biggest, Most Tempting Mixer Yet

A Red-Hot Night for the Millionaires

Time for Some Spice: The Ginger Mixer!

Gaynor Gets the Girl (So Does Allison!)

Adam Gaynor Wins, Allison Baver Skates By

Patti Says Leave Boss at the Business

Chef K Wins One for the Lesbian Team

Mitch Berger, NFL Peter Pan, Grows Up

Johnny Out Sweets Yigit

Sweet Yigit Gets No Sugar on His Date

Just Robin Being Robin

Xander's Experience

What can you bring to the table?

It was a pleasure to be on the show and I enjoyed the experience. I am not too keen on the idea of matchmaking with the knowledge that the ladies are aware of the men's financial status, because it brings another element of concern to the dating procedure. Nevertheless, it was an experience I won't forget. The dating selection process was a bit out of the norm of regular dating, but I was fascinated with the selection protocol.

I felt Patti wasn't quite thorough enough with the interview process of the millionaires, which prevented her from truly finding the right match for us. I think with a little more thoroughness with her clients, she could have accomplished her goal and found ideal matches for us. The girls I chose for the dates were both very sweet, but there was no strong connection. I think both were too young and didn't possess the necessary attributes for a committed long-term relationship. I am a very busy and successful man with a beautiful daughter who needs a woman who can be an attribute to my family. I bring love, honesty, and financial security to the relationship. The question is, "What can she bring to the table?"