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Patti, Wow! I don't know where to begin. What an awesome show. Last night I caught an episode and decided to email, hoping this would find its way to you.
I am not a millionaire by any means, just a simple firefighter, wondering if there is a way to meet Anthony/Tony, the recently retired NYPD K9 Officer. What a cutie. Oddly enough, I found myself really attracted to him - not just looks, but personality, too. Plus, I was really digging his accent. Crazy, I know, but anything sounds better than what I am accustomed to in Kentucky. I totally felt what he was feeling when you announced that Robin picked Luke (excuse me Luke, I usually puke) to go on her date(s) with. OMG!!! The poor guy looked devastated.
Who wouldn't have picked Tony? Being a curvy woman, I would LOVE to meet a guy like that. Guys I meet these days are only interested in having sex. I am looking for substance.
I can't believe I am posting this, but am all about seizing an opportunity.
I think last night's date with the football player should have asked him right up front about the child support issue. If she looked it up on the internet good for her. But if it is true, she should not have gone on with the date. I don't give child support slackers any rope. It's not a personal issue, it's a chacter issue.
I think the millionairess and the NFL player were both disgusting people. Both of them have some major personal issues.
Love the show and glad you are getting back to CA. I wanted to comment on Freddy, he got caught. I don't know the whole story but I really don't need to. He either took care of his kid or he didn't. The fact it made it in the papers indicate where there is smoke there is fire. I did not have an issue with her bringing it up, I am sure the editing didn't show when and how she brought it up, but I am a firm believer he wouldn't of had an issue or had to be defensive if he was taking care of his business in the first place. The girl was beautiful and sweet and he was cool until the handstand stunt, what a gross out!!! I am 100% on her side on this issue, and she was the one that stood out to me that was looking after their children! Good luck to the girl, she won't have any problem finding her diamond, and she won't have to look in the ruff. As for Time Out Freddie: Grow Up!
I could not believe the table manners of most of the people on the show Tuesday evening. As they ate, they would stuff their mouths and then talk with their mouths open!!! Ugh and gross. That would be a deal breaker for me right there!!
I don't think it's a big deal that she googled Freddie, however she should NEVER have brought that up on a first date. I think she crossed the line bringing that up, they aren't even friends and don't know each other and to bring up something so incredibly personal was plain rude. It's good to know and have that in the back of your head, but get to know a person before you start bringing up legal affairs in their lives. That could be a very painful subject to bring up and tank an entire date. I thought Freddie had a lot of class to move beyond the gaffe and have a fun night. Stacy is a nut job and very embarrassing. All she cares about it herself and has no interest in getting to know someone else. Showing that video on a first date was so weird and she blew it and will keep blowing it until she learns to have some interest in other people.
How little respect can you possibly have for other people, Patty? Poor Stacy's self-esteem is even lower than yours--so you insult her and put her through a LIE DETECTOR TEST?
Yeah, yeah, you're the one with the reality show and the money, the fame, etc. Too bad you don't have any dignity.
Freddie makes football players and black men look really bad. How does a black man go on national tv and say, " I am attracted to white women and Latino women. It is really easy to see that your Dad didn't feel that way A_ _ Hole. You can get a white or Latino woman but chances are, with you in the picture, you'll still get a black child A_ _ Hole! You get exactly what you deserve!
Love Love your show I am such a big fan! I watch it and dream that I could be on the show! The episode I just watched with the football fan appalled me...he needs to step up to the plate! She had every right to ask about the child support and I agree with the others on here it is a character issue. Anyways, would so love you to come to Ohio I have a lot of great girls who so need a great guy and just are not having any luck! Keep up the good work! You are a wonderful person helping others find true love because it is truly hard to find!!!!
Just saying....from Ohio :)
Patti, You've had 2 hot girls on the show so far: Whitney, who is the girl who went out with Jimmy D. She was magical. The other girl was a blonde who dated the artist who painted a picture of her. Again, magical. You should either invite them back again or find other girls that have their same quality of great looks and poise.
I absolutely love the show. You are definitely keeping it 100 in your evaluation of the millionaires and advice to them before and after the dates. About Freddie.... It is unreasonable to attack this man's character based on media input - they don't truly know the inside. I can understand the date's curiosity in Googling Freddie, but overall I found her to be trifling. His own self hate is the core of his problem. About Robin.....I actually liked the technique you used with her. No one would've been able to get her to really see her own lack of self confidence with speech alone (She only hears the voices in her head). She like the alcoholic that someone videos and later plays back for them to see through sober eyes. I truly hope that she SAW herself after the program aired.
Patti I LOVE your show!! Absolutely love the way you tell it like it is you know what you're doing of course and if your clients would follow your advice they would all get what they are looking for, true love without going through all the extra BULL.
THANKS for keeping it real ,a devoted fan ALICIA ,Conway,S.C
Have been a HUGE FAN... but this season you seemed so stressed out by NYC. You were always YELLING at your clients and prospective dates for the mixers. Plus, there were no outstanding matches. Are you trying to promote your business by doing this Bravo reality show, because if you are, your track record is not selling itself, and you certainly seem to attract a lot of weirdos. Even if it is all in the name of fun entertainment, which I have enjoyed, I must say I would rather see the behind-the-scenes business of successful matchmaking, millionaires or not.
I would love to meet Patti. She is my kind of girl. Tough, fiesty and together. We would make a fine boisterous couple!
I started watching this show a few years back. I get dating advice, get a few laughs, and sit back and watch the train wrecks happen...
I agree that Patti needs to reign in the four letter words, even if she normally spews them. It's not good t.v. It gets in the way.
I've been told that eating on the first date is a no-no. Let the person like you before they see you eat!
I'm curious if any of the people who attend the mixers have hit it off with each other, if they were not picked as a mini-date, but caught the eye of someone else who was attending the mixer. Are these people also clients, people off the street, or both?
The football player's date was far too good for him. Of course she was in the right for googling him - and it's not HER fault he's a deadbeat! And good for her for asking. If he had nothing to hide, he wouldn't have been so freaked out, he would have welcomed the chance to clear it up.
And that loser has the nerve to claim that his date was rude? I think she's damn smart.
I googled him after the show and it appears that he has a pretty bad rep in footbaball circles also - full of ego and self-delusions.
And funniest of all is how Patti bought his line about being taken advantage of by women. And decided that the girl she fixed him up with was concerned about money. Patti's great tv and a terrible judge of character. Also, no class at all. She never misses an opportunity to talk about body parts the way a 6 year old does. And then screams at people constantly.
But, like I said, great tv!
The football player is a deadbeat. His date was smart to google him and very upfront to ask him about it. Far from being rude, she was being honest and giving him a chance to explain. And if he hadn't been guilty, he would have been embarassed by the mistake and eager to set the record straight and prove himself to be a good person.
I googled him also and found out he's not only a deadbeat but also something of a joke in the NFL. Long on ego and short on ability. His fellow players don't even respect him and on top of that, he's a deadbeat.
As a therapist, it's really clear the guy has serious issues. I doubt his girlfriends left him because they were golddiggers. They no doubt left him because he's a deluded jerk who won't even support his children. Then claims to be the victim.
Patti is so naive to be taken in by him. Also a bad judge of character.
Patti is really a bad judge of character.
I'm sad that I can't watch your show (I don't have a tv-just at the moment) and I live in Calgary, Alberta, Canada where the show is blocked on the internet. I am a 37 year old woman (divorced) and now back in university full-time as well as working part time.
I don't remember the man's name, but he was the "chosen" date by one of your female clients. She was that dragon-lady who appallingly ran out on her gorgeous date even before it began! (The one who lost her shoe outside the hotel.) Anyway, I'm sure he has moved on, but just in case he's lonely and wants a down-to-earth Canadian woman, could you give him my number? ;) He was so sweet and such a gentleman!!! (Did I already mention breath-takingly gorgeous?)
Thank you. Send me an email and I'll send you my number! Tammy
Patty what's going on with you? You use to have respect for both you business and your clients. Now it appears that in order for someone to find love through you one must pass the gates of hell while your on watch. Lighten up Patty what do you have to be so angry about??????
Hay watcher, have you been in NY? Wow Patti, your great Hun, you hit it right on the mark almost every time,this person has no idea! Does she? Wow I am from Florida and Ive lived in NY for over 14yrs. and I know, it's full of weirdo's you can't help but run in to allot of them,I mean most of them, well NY is great-shows-dinners-ways of getting ahead in differnt types of jobs-modeling-schools, BUT people find them some where elase or take Patti on and she will keep trying, I am sure that wasnt it for these New Yorkers,so give the women a break! Patti you and your business is just fine!
I disagree. She was out of line. I'm sure she has some issues also. It also was the timing of her question. She just met the man. If she googled him and had a problem, she should have not gone out. However, she wanted to get a money date in. She was like a child that just realized they had fingers. She was low class. I'm glad he did not go out which her again.
I can't wait for you to get back to LA. Those NYC people were ugly and weird. Let's not even talk about their clothes. Hurry back home!
Tammy: He looked great, but he was on a later show - he was a mini-date but not chosen for the master date - and he was such a jerk about not being chosen that Patti tossed him out. Keep looking, and good luck!
LOVE your show Patti
i think that you are doing a great job at picking people. So much so that my daughter and i are taking a little trip to L.A. for your casting calls. She is so beauitful inside and out. she found love once and then he found a extra love.... smuck i know you can help, find her true love again, i have faith in you patti !!
Idk, i guess i'm sick of all these mindless African American athletes forgetting who and what they are. The former NFLer said he incessantly meets gold digging women, but he only wanted women that didn't look anything like him. The first thing he needs to consider is that many of the Caucasian and Latina women that have dumped him after they got what they wanted, may not have ONLY been money hungry. But more importantly, they may not even like African American men. If you charm someone with gifts and money, you open yourself to be used by ppl that may despise your race but will still indulge in the treats you trick. Wake up negro, there may be deeper issues than chix only wanting your money!
A World of and for BBW! That one that picked the plumber is so understanderable. When one has been only seen as a surface BBW and has had to give and do, anything /everything to get noticed. No one could possibly understand unless they have "walked in there shoes"! millionaire or Not! Before on air, are any questioned or surveyed? Many both men and women are BBW and BBM's! millionaire's. With selfestem down the tubes! Love isn't something that grows like money on a tree! It takes alot of guts for those women that get the 'boot' from you to know what or how to be what you want, before they show up! Do any get a pre- evulation like you give the ones that put money in your pocket? Or from the way you dress do you even have "pockets"!!!
I' m from Brazil and a love your program, I like very much, why you dont came here to show your beautiful program, and discover a brasilian girl, to good american man heheheee... I have 44 years old ,I would like know you a day, you are a beautiful woman and very good businesswoman.
Good luck for you !!!!!!!! God bless you.
Patti, Big fan of your show and look forward to watching another season. its nice to see someone stressing the important qualities of finding love. I myself have giving up on love/companion, but enjoy watching how you help others find one. Makes it a little easier to handle having to be alone. God bless....and keep the episodes coming : )
Hay Patti do you ever do older people,like 49yrs.old & up for women and then looking for older men? And are you ever going to come to Florida? You have such great friends here,should would love to come & sign up for older rich women, looking for older gentlemen, specially when you have single girlfriends here,in stead of sending them over to LA or NY come-girlfriend come too Florida! Us older women need Love Too! We are waiting!
Funny how you hit it on the head with Shauna-the legend in her own mind! She appeared on a salon takeover show on a different network and the initial impression you had of her was dead on the money!! She DOES NOT get along with successful females!!! Too bad you can't meet my sons' choices of potential girlfriends! Would probably save them alot of horror and heartbreak!
I just watched your show today for the first time. Well actually I watched a few of them as it was a marothon event. I'm intrigued by the people you have on your show. I too am looking for the final love of my life and am looking to marry rich. I am not a wealthy man but do make a pretty good living and love to travel. My dad told me that it's just as easy to love a rich woman as a poor one and I'd like to see if that is in fact true. True love comes from the heart I know, but I want someone who is willing to work with me to get through life both romanticlly & financially. Got any room for a honest, resonably good looking, employeed guy on any of your upcoming shows? Thanks for your time Patti :)
I would like you to know that I so love you, your magnificent team and the work that you are doing. You are so not afraid of telling assholes that they are assholes...lol...I admire and respect you for making the world realize that "dating means dinner" and not the other way around...
Stay beautiful and honest, may God bless you and your team for the good work you do...
Please come to Kinston and help a poor girl out... I am 31, keep dating 'men' in their 30's that are commitment phobic and find fault with anything. I am an independent woman that chairs many community organizations, lives life outloud and has a friend base for miles. The trouble is finding the one that will complete my little family, myself and 2 beautiful labs!
I have a very successful career, own my home and car and do not require anyone to take care of me. However I want someone that I can depend on and thinks of me during the day when I don't even know it.
I know there is a man out there but can't get through the bad ones quick enough... help someone that has everything but the love of her life!!
Hi Pattie and team I have just watched your show for the first time. I have not laughed so hard in ages. What a great show and concept, credit to you for dealing with these people, me I would be banging my head against the wall. Awesome.
hi Patti, i am a huge fan of you, and your show!i am 21 years old, but i have the brain of a 30 year old when it comes to dating. i am very mature and successful. born and raised in Queens New York. i keep dating guys who arent right for me.i am attracted to 'bad boys". i would love to meet a decent, intelligent, hard working,spectful, trust worth guy and i need your help!!!! my email address firstname.lastname@example.org .... please contact me. i would greatky appreciate it!!! much love, kelly
Mark the Realtor is adorable!!!! You need to prep your girls a little more on how to NOT act on a date. Even if the blind date were horrific they need to know how to stick it out in a polite manner. Set me up with Mark!!!
Hey Patty, I'm a huge fan of your show. Lovin the drama and your honesty about yourself. I've yet in all the years I've been watching you, seen any relationship that has ended in marriage. How about doing a show on all of your successful match-ups????? Would love to see that. ta, Scarlette
Hey Patty, I too love the show but I have been wondering about the success stories. It would be great to see the weddings and who really worked out........I think its time~
Hello Miss Patti, First and foremost, i LOVE your show! You are such a great entertainer, I love how honest you are about everything and you don't hold back! Lol. I know your a genius matchmaker and i would love to meet you some day and potentially meet someone who's looking for true love
Patty, you are so gorgeous! You should find love too! Have you read "Are you the one for me?" By Dr. Barbara DeAngelis? I read this book and it helped me so much! I found my husband shortly after reading it. She kind of looks like you, but I think you are prettier! I wish you the best of luck in life and love, and I think you are dead on with your advice, take care, Liza
Ill date Mark the realtor anytime. I though he was strikingly handsome, tall, broad shoulders and just had that "manly appeal". That woman was terribly rude to him and its a blessing he didn't go out with her! Im 43,super fit, attractive and available :)