I liked Robin a lot and I think she is really pretty and fun and smart. I agree that people don't have to change themselves to find love. If someone is a cheater, player, liar, etc., they need to change so that they can be better human beings in general. But so many people get married. One practically has to try to avoid it I think. Okay, the joke about the dog and botox is a bit far, but I think that was more a social satirical message than anywhere close to the truth. Just because someone can be silly and goofy and ditzy doesn't mean they can't also be introspective, serious, and deep. People aren't one-dimensional. And If Robin was the societal "ideal" appearance-wise, most elements of her personality would have been characterized as "fun-loving and playful" rather than crazy. If anyone has a strong urge to "improve" anyone else via weight, makeup, etc. I think that says more about the person recommending the change than the potential object of that change.