Hello P.J., I dated a man for 6 yrs and our dream was to buy a sailboat and sail around the Bahama's chain islands and scuba dive. I live in Florida. Unfortunatly, that never happened and we broke up. You definitly fit my dream, if you like scuba! I feel like I am in heaven when I dive..it is so very peaceful and spiritual! I too have had some health problems and they are now getting better. When someone leaves you when you are down, that is NOT the person for you..and that is what happened to me. I wish I had met you instead of this other man. I am a few yrs older that you though, but very active. I wish you well and always just be yourself! I too think it's awlful for someone to tell you that you look old! You look great to me!