I WATCH THE SHOW ALL OF THE TIME I STILL THINK THE PRINCE IS HOT EVEN IF HE ISN'T A PRINCE AS SOME PEOPLE ARE SAYING I WISH HE WOULD SHOW UP IN WAYCROSS GEORGIA AN SWEEP ME OFF MY FEET. AND P.S PATTI KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK

I LOVE LOVE LOVE MILLIONAIRE MATCHMAKER !!! PATTI YOU ARE AWESOME!!
I want to be like you!!!! I am single by divorce, 7 yrs. I have 3 grown children and 6 grandchildren... I moved to Raleigh, NC a few years ago from Birmingham, AL. Dating..... OMG!!! I am like you, I can the dating, mate finding process in Raleigh NC SO....... I want you to come to Raleigh set up shop and allow me to help!!! RALEIGH NEEDS PATTI AND RENEE' !!!!!!

I just came home to pick my dog for a run, when your show on your dates came on. I have men that want to get married and I have people all the time ask me why are you not married? Then I see the quality, and the eyes of the men they had you met and I cant believe it??? I never run into men that are soft spoken, seem interesting or do not come with a lot of baggage!!!! I am loyal, respectful, smart and many think attractive but I have struggled to find the right men and you seem to have them handed to you????I am sooooo confused!!!!

Hi Patti Iam new to your show, I was watching Bravo last month, and saw one epiosode. The one where the woman had 'Pink house' and 'Hello Kitty,' and buying a man who was clearly not interested. I just checked Bravo website to find out when you show is coming back on 2012 season. Didnt find anything on your next season? I am interested in being one of the women you select for meeting your Matches. How do I apply. Please contact me with details. Thank you

Hello Patti!
My name is Victoria and i'm from Norway in Europe. Do you remember season 3 episode 8? The man named Charles was so hot! I am 14 so i'm not interested in him. But I just wanted to tell you that when I saw his first smile when you said he was hansome, he reminded me about someone I have seen before. It took me half an hour to remember who it was. But I found it out and it's a boy from tv. Hehe, this was propably not interesting for you but I just love that smile on his face, take him with in more episodes!!! Love your show, Victoria in Nourth Norway..

Hi Patti,this is marlene ,I live in Florida, my daughter live in New York was raised in Florida ,born in Haiti. Patti I would love my daughter to be married ,I am getting older so she is,and she is not married can you can you call me.? please set her up for me. PATTI CAN U CALL ME. IT'S A SECRET.
PLEASE E-MAIL ME .

Lighten up "Duh", she can speak anyway she chooses, ya know free speach and all, Oh my God!!!! You stick with the way you choose to phrase your words.

Patty, you are fantastic!!!! I have the perfect match for Madison. How can I put a guy in touch with you? he is an extremely smart guy, young, in the fashion industry, over educated , from Europe very sophisticate.....I know that Madison is his match!!!!

you are too cool! ciao

Hi Patti,
I have never blogged before.I live and have a successful business in a desierable summer community.(in Rhode Island)I was born on may 31st,and I'm a few years younger than you.I was also in a seven year relationship with a millionaires .I ended it.
you remind me of the good parts of her,looks,and elegance.
I couldn't think of any other way to contact you,if your interested i could give you my website ,where I am photographed.
Regards,
Steve

Hi Patti,

I never realized you were adopted. Could you talk about that sometime?

Patti. I love your show. You do alot of great matchmaking. However, why do act so trashy. You're associating with so many higher class people. I'm not really sure why you like to change people so much either before setting them up. Looking from the outside in, I would want to meet someone who were being themselves. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with enhancing someone's appearance, but to change them doesn't seem genuine. I hope you find someone who excepts you for you. (Not sure what type of mate you will attract with your uncooth statements.) Good Luck. Laura

I'm wondering if your show travels? I've only seen episodes out there but why not come to Texas? And when you do, I want to come to a mixer...but not with an 'agist'. I know so many guys who fit that therm and your show is the first place I ever heard it used. It's a perfect one word description!

Good luck in finding your mate! I liked the guy crazy Shondra @ the limo. Maybe you should give it a shot?

Hey Patti,
Listen, I know your busy but if the older guy, Marc, who that crazy Shauna woman left at the car in front of the hotel is available, I would love to out with him. I can send you pics and some info about me if you like. I think he is sweet, funny and gorgeous and he won't be sorry ; )

I so hope you find a mate. I didn't like that last guy and secretly prayed you didn't marry him. I agree with your fortune friend. So I am praying for a wonderful man to compliment your life and future. Please oh please forget the weird lady that left the older "gentleman" standing by the car at the hotel. She is psycho like someone that hides in their home and cant handle society. That gentleman was what she needed and she was too stupid to notice. Duh what she said she needs and wants was standing right in front of her and so Mr. Big, "handsome with salt and pepper hair" too. I believe their "aura" didn't mix because she is completely psychotic!

The way you handled your first date was genius (can't remember his name in this moment) He was coming on too strong, with his obvious desperation to get reassurance from you by repeatedly putting you on the spot. His compliments were overkill, and he clearly expected to be showered with appreciation/recognition for them. You were not rude, but refused to humor his antics, and it was masterful. I cannot stand guys like him, and always have a tough time knowing how to handle them. So often, a guy will ask me, in the middle of a dinner which he's paying for, whether i'm into him and/or the date so far. It's so rude and invading. I'm honest and straightforward, but I only have the option of either telling him what he wants to hear (usually untrue), or telling him I'm not into it,then spending the rest of the meal feeling like an a-hole drowning in awkwardness. I'd prefer to keep my feelings to myself, since I don't feel comfortable enough to share them with someone ive known for 45mins, and just be allowed to relax. Being pressured like that on date #1 is the biggest red flag a guy can wave, yet it happens so often that it amazes me. Patti, PLEASE tip the men off about how obnoxious this nonsense is. If he has to ask how it's going, then the answer isn't good. It reeks of insecurity, and it's bad manners. MAKE IT STOP!!!
I beg of you, Patti-PLEASE NEVER HAVE SHAWNA ON YOUR SHOW AGAIN! She's unbearable to watch.
I LOVED this season, and can''t wait to see you find the right guy for you.

Patti,
PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T CHANGE. Nothing that you say comes from a place of hate. It is obvious that your comments are about self-improvement. Anyone (yes even Andy) who doesn't realize the legitimacy of statistics and stereotypes, is just considering themselves. Statistics represent a group, not an individual. I adore your honesty and integrity. Your relationship with your family is amazing to see. You should have your dad on the show more often!!! When dealing with Alphas, you can't show weakness. Changing who you are will only weaken your status and committment. Being single does not equal failure. Settling equals failure.

Patti you rock. I think I might be addicted to this show. I hope you find your own love connection and get to walk down the aisle whenever the show comes to an end.

Patti, you rock. Your advice is so right on and most times I agree with you and yoru honesty is so refreshing. It was good to see your vulnerability when you were the client. I would love to be a fly on the wall during some of your meetings. Even more I would love to qualify as a date to one of these millionaires (wouldn't we all?...lol). But since I have to sit on the sidelines I must say your show is so entertaining that I hope it goes on for a number of years and the culmination of its end is your walk down the aisle with the man of your dreams.

You so deserve it.

I'm watching the reunion episode and I love your show because you are so honest with your clients. I say don't change at all!! Be as blunt as you need to be, these millionaires are probably used to people just telling them what they want to hear not what they need to hear. I don't like the way they are portraying you to be so offensive, I don't think so. Stay the same, Patti!!

Patti's vulnerability actual made her more attractive.

Hi,
I am a 61 year old who looks 50....good genes I guess. I have done a great job raising my son and now it's my turn. Not know where to turn or how to get back into dating especially at my age I joined a dating site. Well....there isn't much in central Pa. Men in this area have pot bellies and are extremely lazy.
I happened to come across Millionaire Matchmaker and have been hooked ever since. I have to admit I have received valuable tips from you Patti and I absolutely adore you! I'm Italian and originally from south philly... listening to you "go of" brings back great memories of home lol!!
I miss my son hate being alone... would love to get married again. I guess the next step is to buy your book. So, my question is which one.."Married in a year" or " 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate?"

hugs, patti

Normally I enjoy most of your advise and tend to agree with you. I caught a repeat this weekend that I actually had to turn off because of what you said. I'm 41 and met my husband at 35. I had a great single life for years and the wait was worth it. You told someone they should know if they want to get married in 6 - 9 months - I'm horrified! You can certainly consider that maybe-possibly-potentially this is the person you want to spend your life with, but you DO NOT KNOW SOMEONE in that amount of time. People barely relax out of first impression mode at that point and it's unlikely you have had to see them deal with a real problem. People are different when they have to deal with a very stressful situation and you have to know if you can be a partner with that person too. I think your statement is one of the main reasons divorce is so prevalent, people need to really know who they are marrying and you don't know that in 6 months. Many companies don't even permanently hire an employee for 3 months and you expect to pick a partner for the next 50 years in 3 or 6 months more!

I have such a crush on you Patti, don't ever change!
And don't carry on with that bloak what you'd been
set up with!

Patti, I just discovered this show last night as I got a new TV service and just never noticed it before.

Just wanted to see, not only are you really beautiful, but I like you. Your personality is fantastic, you deserve a really great guy, best of luck!

I'm dying to know if you saw him again - hope so!

Patty,

Why didn't you select Brad? My picker singled him out in a nano-second.

it was so nice to see this side of patti! so different from the "business patti!" a lovely lady! hope it works out! best of luck to you

Hi Patti,

Love seeing you dating! It's really great to see your soft, sensitive side. You're a gorgeous, strong woman and I think of you as a great role model for myself. I wish you all the best in your life.

Suzette

I so luv u Patti - you rock...but please chill and give the guys a chance......
you deserve love!! Your team has done the best job ever!! Hunks - hunks - hunks....jump the bones man! lol Love you keep up the great job~!!

Patty,

I need your help PLEASE! I live in Michigan, am 47 years old, have been divorced for 4 years and am sick of the men that are attracted to me. Maybe I am meeting them in the wrong places, I know you will be able to find me a match so please HELP>

Sue

Patti, I love you sooo much - dont let the flame die out! My best wishes to you and your family on this Thanksgiving! love Trina

Patti!Patti!Patti! You were a BABE in that cowboy hat and turquoise earrings! I absolutely LOVED the scene where you went zip lining and before you and your date climbed up, you were scared and shy and girly, my gosh, you were SO ADORABLE!!! It was fun seeing that side of you! Don't get me wrong, I like the way you handle your business and will NOT let anyone bulldoze you, but I also like your softer side. I wish you the best and hope you get everything you're looking for! I really enjoyed this episode!

Patti: YOU MUST STOP SAYING "oh my god"! Practice "oh my goSH." You literally said OMG after every sentence on your date!

Love you! d