Patti Stanger

Patti explains why she had good feelings about this week's matches, until Ayinde blew it.

on Oct 6, 20110

Full transcript after the jump

25 comments
lilac girl
lilac girl

I think bracha was also on jerry springers show 'baggage' another dating show (but she didn't win it)...am I right? anyone? is she basically just trying to ditch the chef role n break into acting now thru appearing on 3 diff shows? ! Shes def gotten sum attention!

WG
WG

What's with the guys blindsiding these women with dates like "let's go surfing for the first time," "let's work out all morning!" and "let's garden with this charity group!" Don't get me wrong - nothing is wrong with these dates but Ayinde's date was totally not dressed for working outside. She was a really good sport about it but come on...how about giving these women a heads up about what kind of day they should anticipate??

So disappointed with Ayinde...to nix someone because she "isn't established enough" is very shallow and unrealistic. The funny thing is, Bracha is more "the catch" than he is. She's gorgeous, funny, smart and had a great attitude. She'll flourish on her own or with a man who will inspire and encourage her -- not dismiss her.

neilz2
neilz2

Thank you Carioca69! I knew that Bracha had appeared on both shows! In a previous show, Leslie the tall blond over 50 supposed self made millionaire, also appears on Big Rich Texas. Is this a trend?

yakooozzaa
yakooozzaa

Hey Patti How would you like the phone # to Abe's prego girlfriend here in Oklahoma??

Lindsay
Lindsay

I have absolutely nothing good to say about this show or Patti! Which probably mean Bravo won't post this message!!

ReneeL
ReneeL

Hey Patty, Love you, Love your show. My comment is about Ayinde -- I saw him for the first time on your show last year, I thought he was such a sweetheart, his story captured my heart. Shortly after watching your show, I posted a short 30-second Youtube video; now, after his 3rd appearance on your show, I've gotten a couple of not-so-nice comments. I have NOT had the opportunity to view last week's show, but based on the comments here and on his Facebook page, he obviously said something that made a lot of women angry. I'm a bit surprised with the comments I've received based on a video I posted "last year" on youtube. Renee talking about Ayinde

TexasQT
TexasQT

I think Mitch and his date Tova were perfect for each other. Ayinde must like men or something because you couldn't have gotten any better than Brascha. She was utterly gorgeous. He must have been intimidated by her, seriously. Patti was right in dismissing him from the club.

pjack
pjack

He blew it after getting instructions on what not to do. Men go for the visual and not the intellectual woman so i am not surprised at what happend. He still has some work to do on himself before he finds the "and" he is looking for. Many men live like this although they will continue to dat the "right now" chick until they find the "and" they are looking for. So sad as it is a waste of everyone's time and energy by not being real about what you want in a mate.

Jose Cedillo
Jose Cedillo

Hello Patti,

I just wanted to find out how I can apply or interview to be part of your gay mixers. I'm a 32 year old-professional and I would like to find love, I am a simple guy, who loves sports and loves family. I really don't know how this work, but I wanted to give this a chance and hoping you will reply. I have so much respect for you and it's great how you help people find their partners, which leads to love. I hope one day love knocks on my door and maybe you can help. thank you xoxo

Jocutee
Jocutee

Honestly Ayinde is not all that. If he wasnt on the show that girl wouldnt give him her time nor day. Forget about the wealth, Ayinde you need to shave.

cathy p
cathy p

Why don't you do more in depth "matching"? Do Meyer's Briggs Personality Proficles and things that really go into Who people are?

morris2057
morris2057

Love the show and think Patty gives good advice. Word up Patty. That military/disco outfit made you look like a stuffed sausage.j

Kdog73
Kdog73

Totally agree with 'Carioca69', Bracha is on Operation Repo wearing nothing and then shows up on Millionaire Matchmaker.

Temecula Viewer
Temecula Viewer

I realize you have NY street smarts savvy but the eat me comment and the cussing just make you look bad not classy. Yes, the "testing" that Ayinde was doing wasn't helping his cause one bit. He blew the date from moment one. He really reminds me of RuPaul! The young lady he took out had so much to offer and he just couldn't see past his check list. Very closed minded that one is.

It seems like many of the women are "hungry" for marriage. I personally wouldn't want to marry a guy with three kids. It seemed like many were saying yes they didn't mind just to get a chance to meet the millionaire.

TexasQT
TexasQT

Saw the show with Mitch and Ayinde. Mitch's date was classy, sophisticated, yet fun and the conversation flowed smoothly. Ayinde, on the other hand. All he did was flash that thick-toothed grin and JUDGE every single one of those women on qualities that he probably does NOT have. Bracha was absolutely drop-dead gorgeous and she should be so thankful that her "date" or INTERVIEW with Mr. I'm Looking for Michelle Obama did not work out. He definitely must be gay, because she is a true catch. Even got her hands dirty for him and he still found fault with her. The little boys helping them garden was easier on her than he was. I love Patti's blunt and real advice to these guys. She tells it like it is.

chris123+$
chris123+$

Her name is bracha and YES that was the same girl I just lookd at my divo, its Her ..lol which show is fake or is she really that much of a mess...

Oklahoma Viewer
Oklahoma Viewer

Im with you, he was a TERRIBLE DATE! His idea of a woman is EYE CANDY on the arm. Im sorry but she was a lovely date and he should have tried some adoration. Who wants to be with Mr. Snooty Patooty. She tried to have a wonderful time and he kept shooting himself in the foot. He is describing my mothers generation, does he want an OLD LADY or a young beautiful wife!

Freebird22
Freebird22

There seems to be a common theme with many of these millionaires--they're @ssholes. It runs the gamut from treating women like objects, treating them like they're inferior, being rude, arrogant, and condescending, you name it. Instead of realizing they're dealing with another human being, it's like they're going to the grocery store, looking at the box for the ingredients, and when some are missing, the women are summarily "dismissed."

Patti presented Ayinde with some excellent choices. The one gal he chose was drop dead gorgeous, had a warm, positive, and outgoing personality, and a good sense of humor. It almost looked like he went into the date looking for a reason to reject her (perhaps for ego reasons) as opposed to get to know her.

Even though it wasn't a great date with Ayinde, the gal had the class to take the high road. Patti's indignation at the end was not only understandable, it was justifiable.

Had Patti fixed this millionaire with the gal Ayinde rejected, I would have been one happy guy.

mglove
mglove

OMG! What happened to Ayinde? Did he loose his damn mind? I think you are spot on him...he is not ready for love an commitment, but he is feeling the social pressure to settle down and have a family as he is getting older. He is engaging in self sabotage because of his fear of loss or disappointment. He seemed so much more self aware the first time on your show. He needs to see tthat doctor on the regular before he recks himself.

Ralph-o
Ralph-o

Patti, you're always accurate in your analysis of the guys and gals. You're specific. You speak the truth. You don't exaggerate. Only the slow-of-mind could ever find fault with anything you have said up till now about anyone! Go girl! You rock! People would be better off listening to you and following your advice rather than criticizing you!

Marie1976
Marie1976

The EAT ME " comment on your ads is gross and Brqavo should pull those ads.

Carioca69
Carioca69

I hope that you guys take a look at that episode of Operation Repo 904 because it's the same girl that Ayinde is romancing.

RhondasWorld11
RhondasWorld11

Ayinde has "MAJOR" issues...Women should beware of men that hide behind their so-called intellect to determine or justify his inability to commit. Ayinde's blatant disrespect & unfair judgement for each of the wonderful women chosen should give him a clear understanding that these women aren't his issue - HE "is" - I pray he continues therapy, clearly its needed.

Love the show
Love the show

Wow, was I surprised to see this week's episode with Ayinde. He's not the sweet guy we all thought he was. He's still a commitment phobe, in the form of fault-finding and unbelievably high expectations. A lot of these millionaires and millionairesses need work, like major therapy. They're not ready to be matched up yet, not just after one or two therapy sessions. Patti tells them straight up what they need to work on but they are either unwilling to listen or can't change that quickly. And if they are not ready, Patti's going to have a lot of headaches when matching them up, because nobody will be the right fit if they're not the right person to begin with. No wonder Patti gets so frustrated! But I LOVE the show and admire the work that Millionarie Matchmaker is doing!!! Good luck Patti, you have great intuition, and I look forward to seeing you set yourself up!!!

nysuziq
nysuziq

Patti-Ayinde has a page on IMDb with a head shot and 4 pictures of himself! Its hysterical and his only "credit" is your show! What a phony.