Patti Stanger

Patti explains the problem with millionairesses, the wounded, and why she won't be signing up for Emma's classes any time soon.

on Sep 22, 20110

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26 comments
Esther K.
Esther K.

Love your show :)And toninght .. Kelly wauw! nice eyes !! great smile For me a man off my dreams I will keep on dreaming

greatings Esther from Holland

clovesalt
clovesalt

The beautiful girl who went on the date with the (uptight) plastic surgeon needs to go out with the awesome guy that went out with the pole dancer! Sorry I don't remember their names but they were both worth something way better than what they went out with! Sorry to be judgmental but I liked them both and think they should hook up with eachother!

Cristina513
Cristina513

Hello Patti! I am totally smitten by Kelly...obviously many women are. Im in San Diego, 39yrs old, 5'7", long dark hair, sexy, and have a nice athletic body. I'm half italian, half irish. I am sweet, down to earth, and classy. I want to meet this man. I have a 10yr. old boy, and I am a massage therapist. I will not waste your time or his. Please contact me! Cristina in San Diego

Thank you...and yes, I LOVE YOUR SHOW!

Zel
Zel

Patti, I think this is the one and only time that you missed the obvious - Emma and Frank had amazing chemistry....and she has the strength to listen to him, allow him to believe that he is king, and then completely ignore his orders. Frank has the strength to devote energy to trying to set her on the right path, since he always knows best, and she makes him laugh!! He would make her feel loved, adored, and protected, and she is strong enough to not let him turn her into a doormat. Thank you for the wonderful entertainment! Zel

Katy Berry
Katy Berry

Hey Patti,

I just started watching your show and I like what you are doing. I appreciate your direct approach to helping people target what they want in a match. On episode 6, the date with the pole dancer and Kelly... I liked what I saw in Kelly. Clearly other women are interested as well, as I see in these posts. I'm interested in contacting him, or being set up on a date with him... If he's open to this. You can check out my facebook profile to learn more about me. Please contact me is this is a possibility.

Thanks for your time,

Katy Berry

Amygdala
Amygdala

I love the show, I love Patti's rules... I need her help!

rerun sunday.
rerun sunday.

I want to know how to meet daniel.. The groupon guy. He is adorable.

tam27
tam27

Hey Patty just wanted to say I love you and the show.You crack me up.I think you are a strong beautiful chic but id like to see your hair a little lighter I think it would only add to your beauty.I heard you say you wanted to loss more weight noway you look great.keep up the great work

Lazette
Lazette

You advice is always dead on you are so right about love and people. They come to you for help but they don't want to listen I don't understand it. They should at least try it your way and see if it works before they complain but you are always right. And as a viewer you can tell if its going to be a match or not. They always go down in flames when they dont listen. Just like the pole dancing lady she was full of energy and fun but you could tell right of that she turned her date off and he was ready to go immediately. I can tell why she and some other past guest are single she should have listened to you. But any way I love your show.

Beckie
Beckie

Aloha Patti and staff.

I just wanted to say "mahalo nui loa" for a fabulous show. I love the majority of crazy millionaires and guest on your show.It is very entertaining. I must say Emma, the Pole Dancer really blew it with her date Kelly. He was super cute and really sweet. I actually live in Kailua, HI. and I remember he said he lives both here and L.A. If he's looking for a single gal who is hard working, nope not a stripper and LOVES to have fun please let me know. Kailua Beach is a fabulous place for a first date. Shootz, you should bring the show here :)

Much aloha to all Beckie

kristen lovallo
kristen lovallo

patti love your show and your crazy points of view. you are so on the mark! is it possible to email the gentleman that ended up with emma, the stripper. he seemed rather nice and oh, so uncomfortable on his date. can't imagine what his children thought! plse have him email me in pa. I am 55, blonde, blue eyed, 5' 2" and have a whole lot more class than emma! thanks, love ya krissy

Viewer #4
Viewer #4

Kelly is a real man. I want him!

adam konigsberg
adam konigsberg

patti, Hi and how are you? I would love to go out with you! Check out my website and feel to contact me if you are interested. Warmest regards, Adam

temecula viewer
temecula viewer

Emma didn't want to find love she just wanted to promote her business!

Kelley B.
Kelley B.

Although Emma and Kelly were not a match made in heaven, I believe Kelly is the perfect man for me... Psychotherapist, spiritually grounded and very interested in communicating with such a "gentle man". Thank you and love your direct approach, seering honesty and fabulous show... Kelley

latinagirl3
latinagirl3

Hi Patti I just watched the pole dancer and knew that Kelly would be uncomfortable. He seems like a great guy and I would love to meet him except I live in Florida. I am new to this blog and don't know how to send you my picture. Please help me I am ready to date. Thanks Jenny

Leah (East Coast)
Leah (East Coast)

Patti-love your show. Frank Stiles and I are alike, don't laugh...its not easy being me! Could be the double Chupacabra-match of the year. I'm quite serious but I would not want to be on the show to get to know him. My uncle lives in Henderson and I'll be in the Vegas area during the last week of October. Respecfully yours, Leah

Leah (East Coast)
Leah (East Coast)

Patti, Your show is great. Last night, you introduced Frank Stile. My friends have been nagging me all day to contact you. He and I would get along well, and I am as guarded as him. Never married, my career has occupied my attention. Born in south coastal New England, I've lived in Florida and now Hilton Head Island, SC during the last 7 years. Though the coastal lifestyle is great, the social life is not. I don't have "baggage" and don't want anyone elses. My uncle lives in Henderson, NV and I usually fly out to see him every October. Might be the Chupacabra-match of the year, but I would not want to be on the show and would rather take it step by step keeping it simple and grounded. Respectfully yours, Leah

kristen lovallo
kristen lovallo

Patti, love u and your show. I felt so bad for the guy stuck with the stripper. he looked like he wanted to run out of there! i would like to meet him! Can u give me the stats on him? I live in Pa., 55 yrs old, retired from working for the commonwealth 30 yrs. I am widowed, have a 25 yr old daughter who lives in n.c. I lve by myself and have been widowed 4 yrs. he seems like a really nice guy and I would like to email himas a start. Is that possible?

kristen lovallo
kristen lovallo

patti, love you and your show... I watched the recent show where the stripper girl was the date. She was a real piece of work! Would u consider allowing me to email the gentleman that got stuck with the stripper. He was so embarassed! I thought he was rather nice! How old is he? Tell me more......

Jackie Cole
Jackie Cole

You totally had to deal with crazytown this week, but it was also kind of sad. Both Frank and Emma want real love, yet neither one has done the internal (and external!) work to get that.

Chris was a hottie, too. I would date him in a heartbeat! I have kids, I grew up in Hawaii. If you have a hard time finding an appropriate match for him, let me know. :-)

Donna13
Donna13

Hi Patty,

I want to meet Emmas date Kelley. I believe I may be what he is looking for :)

Monteneesh
Monteneesh

Hi Patti, how are you? Well i am a 20 year old that is currently not working and is at home i do go to school over but sitting out the semester. Just want to say i admire you so much as a business woman and for the strong personality that you are. I would love to run a successful business for my self one day hopefully soon cause i am thinking about it. I just love you, you make me feel good as a young woman and i do listen to the advice you give the girls on the show. I live in Jamaica so we don't see these things normally. Keep being you Patti love you lots. I would love if bravo could bring something like this to Jamaica i would love to get on board with something like this it would be fun.

Your DatingDiva
Your DatingDiva

The pole dancer: such a good example of so many dater's mistakes! It's great to be honest about who you are but putting too much on the table too soon is a big no-no!

The plastic surgeon was another good example. Everyone wants someone who fits into their life well, but you have GOT to be willing to compromise! In order to have a healthy relationship you need to take your partners wants and needs into account too. Like Patti said, its a RELATIONSHIP not a dictatorship!

Pat  Dine
Pat Dine

Patti, I watch your show all the time i love it. But i have a question is all your dates you set up are there just Millionaires? I'm just a normal person retired from the medical field just looking for real love . So i guess what i'm asking is do you set up dates for them kind of people.

Thank you Pat Dine

Lulu Carbone
Lulu Carbone

Hello Patti

I cannot even find the words to express how much I like your talkative, honest and, most of the times, hard but necessary words and advice you give to people, hoping that they will ever come to their senses and be able to overcome their problems with relationships. You go strait to the point and do not circle around, like most people do, in order not to be rude and only polite. You are one of a kind. In a very good way! I really like watching your show and really think like you. Sometimes people might think I am rude, but as you, I am only doing my job. Except I do not get paid for giving my friends(who have problems with their relationships) advice. Really, if I lived in the same city as you, I would love to be able to work with you. I think I could really add and help a lot with everything I see. I just enjoy it. I am originally from Brazil, but have been living abroad ( The Bahamas, Miami and now New York), for my husband's work. Nice talking and writing to you! Keep doing what you do best and not only trying to help, but entertaining people at the same time! How much I wish I could make money doing something I love as well! If you ever come to NY again, please, get in touch if you have the opportunity. Warm regards, Maria C.