Patti, I am so disappointed & defended. I love watching your show & loved you. Now I don't know if I even want to watch anymore. I can not beleive you of all people would be so close minded as to say "I hate redheads" that's as Prejudice as a person can get.  I've met brunette's I didn't care for, as well as some not so nice looking,  but I wouldn't think to lump all brunettes together & say "I hate brunettes".  I think you should be so embarrassed & ashamed, & I beleive you owe your Redheaded veiwers a HUGE APOLOGY.     

Patti, I love you and your show. However, as a true redhead with curly hair, I'm very disappointed in the way you treat redheads. Everyone deserves equality. You are a proponent of gay rights but what about the stereotypes against redheads? Furthermore, dyeing someone's hair red does not make them a redhead. I hope that you resolve your issues against redheads and treat everyone fairly.

Patti, why do you dis-like red heads so much?

I am a true copper red head and I don't meet the stereotype of a red head. 

I have been told more than once that I am too nice. 

Everyone in the world is different. That's a good thing because if everyone were the same, it would be a very boring world. 

Patti! You look 10 years younger with that gorgeous bob! Ditch the wig and make it reality!! Gorgeous!

Patti's pathological hatred of redheads is really puzzling. She may even be a self-hating redhead under that pound of black mop on her head. Or, as someone below pointed out, someone she was interested was more interested in a redhead. It's just too pathetic. I want to like her, but someone who dismisses and constantly disses a whole section of the population is not a nice person. Plus this wasn't a show about redheads. It was about how much Patti hates redheads and therefore didn't find any for her show. Pathetic woman.

Patti,

I used to not like you when you came onto the scene. Then, about a year ago, I decided that I wasn't being fair and I watched a marathon of your show. Now, I love you. You are a beautiful and vibrant woman. You deserve the good man that you have.

When I recently saw a show with your boyfriend, my like for you ampted-up!! You two are lovely together and I wish you well.

Your peeps are fabulous! They are a beautiful couple.

I know this is my first post ever on Bravo, actually on any blog or website. I just don't do this normally - but I felt I have to say, your short hair looks incredible on you!  You really must go to a shorter style and the color was fantastic too!  LOOK IN THE MIRROR!  Beautiful.   Actually, almost every Housewife on all the shows should dump the extensions, most are way too old for that crap.  By the way I'm not a hairdresser, I'm a male Admin. Secretary - just looking at what is professional.

stupid mixer, good couples.

I really agree with the comments about cutting your hair.  I was struck with how much more attractive and current you looked.

Well he is not dating her now.  Look at his Facebook.  Seemingly very happy with a non-ginger type.  That's Aspen for you!

Just proves that when you are rich you can get a trophy!

Would love to know where to get the wig that Miss Stanger wore on the Red Headed Mixer.  Sooooo  loved the look, and the show.  ADDICTED!

Patti... Please cut your hair.. the wig you wore on the "Red Hot Night" was rockin... you look so much better with the short hair... and the color was fantastic! Your hair is outdated and the extensions need to go... the style of the wig... was amazing!

Patti,

I watched, last night, hoping that you would make amends for all of your crappy comments about redheads. You didn't. I'm suspecting that a man you loved, had his heart stolen away by a redhead, and that's why you are so jealous.

Also, those weren't redheads! Those were a bunch of dye-jobs and really bad wigs. I think I saw one natural redhead in the whole group. FYI...natural redheads make up less than 2% of the world's population.

Quit hating! It makes you look SO ugly!

I have watched your show since the beginning...I am an MM addict and my husband of 29 years cannot believe his wife lovvves your show! ;)

Bravo(no pun intended) on your weight loss and success...I wanted to especially say I am sorry for the loss of your Bio-Momma...but your adoptive Momma has to be proud.

Congrats on the new BF.

Patti,

I loved tonight's show and I just have to say you look beautiful with short hair!!  You really should consider wearing that wig more often or actually cutting your hair and put in red highlights.  I know you don't light redheads, but, you look terrific as one.  I am not a redhead, but, I always wanted to be.  Unfortunately, it didn't look good on me.  Great show, pretty gingers!