You are pretty straight forward in trying to convince others of what they need even when they don't know it. I am curious...do most of your clients say they would not prefer black women? If so, do you still encourage them to be open? You asked some of the daters whether they would date a black woman. But, I never really heard you ask that question with any other race? If you had a red headed millionairess would you ask "would you date a red head?". If you had a group of black daters would you ask them "would you date a white woman?". With the hello kitty lady I don't think you were blatantly straight forward about asking daters if they would date an extremely overweight woman. I know people are attracted to who they are attracted to but a lot of times the black woman thing is not about attraction, its about the stigma. You are good at getting your clients to be open so why not on this front also? I'm not offended as I LOVE your show....just something to consider and think about.