Patti Stanger

Patti spills on Episode 1's millionaires and their fabulous dates (even if one got a bit sea-sick).

on Jan 10, 20130

So I’m watching the video, and I’m seeing Brian, who is a man child, a British man child, and he’s got a perfect little Mummy, and all he cares about is what she thinks. He’s obsessed about everything about him—he’s Arthur. That’s all he is. He’s 100% Peter Pan meets Arthur, they had a baby, it’s Brian.

Then I go meet Daniel Negreanu, who is a world-class poker player. He’s the sweetest guy; there’s just one problem: he’s kind of what we call a wounded Wally. Girls have broken his heart in the past, he doesn’t trust very well, so he really needs my help.

16 comments
FlutterBy
FlutterBy

Patty did Brian remind anyone else of "Austin Powers"? The chest hair was out of control...and I expected him to say "Yeahhh Babby" ... but seriously, I have a different impression of men who enjoy spending time with a Mom...it tells me that his childhood may have been stable....and more women need to understand how crucial this is to ensure a stable man....I did not get that his Mom did not want to see him in a relationship, she was a good sport for coming on the show with him...

f@voredone99
f@voredone99

Patry LOVE you and love the show! with that said I feel you have a personality where you can take some unsolicited constructive criticism: I think you need to change up your fashion style and also maybe add someone to your staff that really has good fashion style (visually as well). I think you and your current staff are great and what you do and believe that should be your focus, however some of the advice you give to the clients, particularly the women is little off. I think it would be great to see you add some more savvy, fashion forward pieces to your look. Otherwise I love the show and all of your amazing dating advice and please don't take offense as it is all from a place of utmost respect!

aliceandwonderland@626
aliceandwonderland@626

Don't know if the show is set up our not, but I liked the Pro Poker Player and his date, they make a good couple. 

kaybird11111
kaybird11111

Patti, love you!  So nice to see Daniel on the show (I've seen all of the poker shows on TV and just love him).  He is such a kind person in Poker and yet very competitive....he's just a very good sport and good at his sport.  After seeing him (not only on poker shows but also) on your show, it's obvious Daniel is just as kind in person and you know how it goes many times........the NICE guys finish last because they often seem to hook up with a controlling BIOATCH.  The date he picked out seemed like a really nice girl and I wish them well.......would love to see more celebrities like him looking for love on your show.

dpat
dpat

Love seeing Daniel on the show.  That other guy, ugh! 

 

You are great on the show, love the hook-ups you put together.  Good show!

patcaseygold
patcaseygold

I think this show is a set up. What man would want to admit to paying all that money to find a woman. Especially by a man/woman with a rude mouth and thinks all the men secretly want her. This is one that will be easy to pass up this year.

DianeLS
DianeLS

Pattie, I'm sure I'm not the only viewer who would love to know about couples who've lasted from previous seasons. How about a section on this website for the successes? BTW, love watching you!

FlyAwayFinchy
FlyAwayFinchy

I love Patti's controversial mouth, big heart and short temper. You were made for television! Busting to see Season6 I am sure it will be just as entertaining as all the rest. Yeehaaa

Kathleen422
Kathleen422

Why don't you just let your natural red hair grow out and accept who you are?

FlutterBy
FlutterBy

I just have to comment on this show, without even finishing my viewing yet....I am not a matchmaker, but it does not take one to see that Daniel will not find what he is looking for....his mind is mind is set...one girl, maybe more wronged him, all girls will in his mind....From the nervous twitch he has with his eyes, it tells me that he is still of the mindset that all women are after more than he is....to get over or around this mindset, he has to do a full mind cleanse....he has to start realizing that just like he feels imperfect, many women do as well....when one person does not make them feel better about themselves, they try to find it in another...and this goes both ways...men too....If Daniel realizes that it really was not about him being a flawed person when his last girlfriend cheated and lied, it was about her being so badly flawed that she could not possibly settle for one man at that time of her life, most likely, she needed many....he needs to understand that although he may not feel confident in all areas of his life, a partner who has many needs from the beginning of the relationship may not be a good choice...by the time he meets a woman his age, she really should have had many of those issues of insecurity and neediness under control....if you look for a Vegas showgirl, don't be surprised when she puts a show on in Vegas.....and don't chalk it up to "all" women being of the same mentality....this same problem of trust can exist in men who have grown up around women who have not shown honesty in relationships allowing their sons to know the details....that is why these men rarely find marital happiness....even in their sixties, they will accuse their elderly wives of cheating with the bagger at the grocery store....unbelievable the stories their minds are able to come up with...my neighbor and her sister are going through this exact problem with their spouses, both married men when they were in late forties...with these men having disappointing former marriages...and now they are suffering with the consequences....one of the men insisted recently that he smell his wife after she was an hour longer running her errands...I advised her to leave him, but not before she put a collar on him, tieing him up in the backyard.....she is like a mom to me, and this behavior she deals with is disturbing to me....it is I who

ladyinsearch
ladyinsearch

I've enjoyed watching  MMM!  First time was 10th of January 2013... I lost 25 years with a very professional lawman, I was in love and  lost my life to his lies, once I HAD ENOUGH its  too difficult to start over and trust in a man. I watched MMM just to see others find happiness, they are all  lucky to have the tenacity to search...  I am happy for everyone that finds love!

At 61  I am aged but beautiful with a wonderful heart  and wish I could find a millionaire that is in search of a lovely lady that has been burned in life.

lisakaz
lisakaz

I'm glad Daniel (Kid Poker) is happy. I've seen him on TV (esp. High Stakes Poker) and he's a doll. I'd want to date him myself but I'm probably a bit long in the tooth, esp. given who he picked. I'm the female version of the Wounded Wally and I've kinda put that whole part of my life aside. I recognized some of the things on his chart, though I think mine is worse and the best I can do is accept what is (or isn't).

dpat
dpat

 @FlutterBy I like Daniel and you have no idea what is going to happen in his future.  I wish Daniel the very best in his personal life and have enjoyed seeing his success at being a professional poker player. He is great! 

 

His ex cheated on him, not the other way around.  When you do not want to be in a committed relationship anymore, end it and THEN move on.