Alexandra Dilworth

Alex doesn't consider what went down in the bathroom a fight, but if Africa keeps disrespecting her she will show her one.

on Oct 17, 20130

Hello loves, well that was an eventful episode.

Before I begin to comment, I feel that we need to have a little recap. If we look back at the last episode, it is clear that Vawn pursues me. He tells me to let him know when I'm tired of behaving. Plain and simple. I've known Vawn for years. We've flirted. . .we've have chemistry. . .I'll admit that, but that's all it's ever been. Being the flirt that I am, I decided he was right. I needed to stop behaving, and go after what I want. Maybe the timing was a little coincidental, but hey Africa was being a bitch so I could care less about their so called "dating."

When Vawn invited me over, it was suppose to be innocent. . .ya know, old friends chatting it up, but with our very flirtatious nature, the night escalated to a level that neither of us expected. And I think that the night revealed a lot: Vawn and I are the same person. Life is a thrilling game for us. That is why we would work and him and Africa wouldn't. Africa doesn't know how to play games. She revealed her feelings very early on, but then retracted them when she realized that him and I might have something going on. See that's her problem right there. She doesn't know how to play the game.

When Africa allowed her little minions to approach me at Tribble's party and tell me to stop flirting with her man, she in that moment, revealed her true feelings for Vawn. Africa, you like Vawn. You like him a lot. Either you really like him or you are very intimidated by me. Either or. That's why you are a straight rude ass bitch to me and that's why you let your friends say something to me.

63 comments
Blondon
Blondon

I said it before and I'll say it again...you put the RAT in RATCHET!!! What an IGNORAMUS!

TJSLIDE
TJSLIDE

stalker.. stalker... stalker.. Africa needs to get an order for you to stay the hell away from her, and you need to realize once and for all that you are no longer a 15 year old in high school.   following her into the bathroom just to start a fight. now that was the silliest thing i ever saw!

girl, grow the hell up and get a life that does not include USING people for your entertianment.

 

AggieHoustonHousewife
AggieHoustonHousewife

You and your trash friend sit there and plan to crash an event FOR CHARITY and then cause drama at it. You could take a page out of Emily's book girlfriend... get a life and focus on getting a "big girl job", not living off of your parents money. Also, the way you speak in this blog just makes you look even more trash. Stop bashing others and focus on you. 

Sally12567
Sally12567

Naming your kitten "Safari" makes it look like you are obsessed with Africa.

brushwud
brushwud

You  look and and act so cognitively IMPAIRED!!!

VoiceOfReason69
VoiceOfReason69

you have a trust fund...and bad fake hair, bad attitude, no class, no ambition, real friends, no clue!  Immature is a kind description of you, yet you look old for your age.  You remind me and favor  Miss Piggy, although you are a better character because you create drama, Miss Piggy has class and looks better than you.  Africa has NO COMPETITION with you, you are a joke!

MaireadA
MaireadA

 These two females need to get control of their hormones; brawling over Vawn  is idiotic...and in this case, ON FILM. This will follow both of you forever.

 

RileyRoo
RileyRoo

OMG!  I just actually read your blog!  Are you even serious...I don't think Africa asked her friends to do anything to you and you followed her into the bathroom...and then you weren't going to let her leave?  And why are you going after her career?  Do you work?  You are completely nuts and immature.  Reminds me of those 14 year old bullies. 

RileyRoo
RileyRoo

Take your trust fund and go away...

 

Who talks about their trust fund?  That is your worst kind of idiot. 

biancashines
biancashines

keep your head up   remember, haters r ;  well,   just haterzs.  i will not watch the show without you in it !!!!

biancashines
biancashines

Alex, you are a true gem. !!   Keep real, me and the homies luvs you.  Come to San Diego, grl...   we luvs u!

matchboxpatty
matchboxpatty

After the fight when you peeked out the bathroom door, I got flashbacks of crazy Jack Nicholsons "Heeeere's  Johnny" look. Evil through and through, you need help!!!!

Djra
Djra

Honey, take some of that money and buy yourself some decent hair. You are insane. Africa is a queen. Jealous much?

Foxxe1
Foxxe1

Alex says her dad pays for everything; too bad he can't buy her any class!!! Girl you have no class and you're are VERY JUVENILE!!! Don't blame it on your age; I have a 15 year old with more class in her pinky finger than you!

Glamourpuss
Glamourpuss

I'm not on anyone's team or side here as I think most of you on the show have shown some less than stellar qualities and behavior at one point or another (I have some criticisms about everyone just about), however a few things are very clear in this episode and instant replays are readily available should you need a refresher:

 

1) You and your ratchet, ignorant friend intended to start trouble and act like a fool with Emily by going to her fundraiser/fashion show. You knew that cuz you two talked about playing "mean girls" on the show.

 

2) You intended to start trouble and you actually did start trouble with Africa when you followed into her the bathroom, and of course the fight was about Vawn. You talked nonstop about him. Not sure how got that twisted.

 

3) Neither you nor Africa can fight, but she did win that one. You got in a little late. You can watch the instant replays for reference.

 

4) You nor Vawn nor Africa have any game whatsoever, and whatever "game" you and Vawn think you have is pretty obvious and played out. Vawn used Africa to get to you, which obviously worked, and you're using Vawn to get to Africa and he represents some sort of status symbol for you as you believe you two would make a "powerful couple" together.

 

5) Africa never insulted your mother; she insulted you...again, not sure where there's confusion on that one.

 

6) It was pretty obvious Vawn invited you over for dinner and was expecting you even though he tells a different story to Africa and lies. For one, the amount of food he was cooking was obviously made for more than one person, and two, on the episode you thank him for inviting you over and hope to have dinner with him again, and you say he did right here on your blog.

 

7) Africa never sent Emily over to talk to you at Tribble's Valentine's Day event. She did that completely on her own, and the episode clearly shows that. Again, instant replays are readily available.

 

8) Regardless of how many dates Africa had been on with Vawn or what their relationship status is, it is NEVER cool to flirt with or openly disrespect and make moves on a dude when he's out with and spending time another woman. You AND Vawn both should know better on that one. He came there with Africa....NOT you. Therefore, his time and attention should've been on her, and you both were wrong for being so tacky and disrespectful in front of her like that. If it had been the other way around and he had come to the event with you, then it would be expected that his time and attention should've been on you, but that wasn't the situation.

 

Disyuh
Disyuh

Is this AFRICA's blog ... LIES YOU TELL... LMAO

RL14
RL14

You are an embarrassment to any and all women.  You behave like a hoodrat and if you believe words justify touching someone, you didn't learn from or listen to your parents.  People with real manners would not behave the way you do.  Perhaps its your youth and the company you keep but I think you fully embrace the ghetto-like mentality to not be "disrespected" no matter the cost.  One day when you grow up and behave like a grown woman, you will realize the mistakes you are making.  Shame on you.

randrew
randrew

Wow, you sure are delusional and so full of yourself, not an attractive look at all.

bravoliscious
bravoliscious

I hope you do go after her again.  It's called Assault Sister and we would all love to see you and that Zebra hair behind bars.

chiefblocker
chiefblocker

Alex's immaturity really came out during this episode. She went to the fashion show with malice in her heart. The fact that she went there to cause trouble speaks volumes about her character (actually lack of character). I can understand that she doesn't care for Emily. However, the fashion show was more about the cause than Emily.

 

To make matters worse she follows Africa into the ladies room, starts an argument, and puts her hand on Africa when she couldn't keep up her end of the beef.  Africa is older, more mature,(evidently) more physically fit, and more experienced.

 

Alex should learn to use her words because she certainly can't fight. Lets ALL be honest, Africa got some good punches in on Alex. I think that's why Alex looked so dazed afterwards - pain. No matter what Alex thinks, she got beat in that ladies room. Africa was working on Alex like she (Alex) was a punching bag. I guess Alex's parents never told her that she shouldn't let her mouth write checks her butt can't cash. A minute longer and she probably would have been out for the count.

 

I feel bad for Alex's parents. It has to embarrassing to see your child starting fights in ladies rooms, getting beat in those fights, running around behind men, etc. Bless their hearts. Woo woo woo.

houswifeforreal
houswifeforreal

Alex why are you so immature? The first thing you say about you starting a fight with Africa in the bathroom is it was not over Vawn... umm am I confused or did everybody else hear her keep saying "that's right he isn't your man! I am more women for him than you will ever be! Or how about when she says that's why your man came to me and wants me not you"... I felt like I was watching two toddlers fighting over who's mommies favorite accept Alex was both toddlers lol! You need a nose job girl and I laughed so hard when a comment I just read said exactly what I was thinking... Vawn couldn't get you out of his house fast enough lol Don't you think if he wanted you so bad he would've been some kind of affectionate with you? He flirts with everybody hun so saying that's the reason you know he wants you is even funnier than you thinking anyone would want you as a trophy wife or a wife at all for that matter! Oh I loved the comment "I will crush you with my trust fund" LMAO  was that supposed to hurt her feelings? Bc it made you not only look spoiled, but made you look really superficial and STUPID! Grow up girl bc it doesn't matter if you have Daddy's money and he pays for everything or not bc Daddy won't be around forever and the way you seem to spend money your trust fund isn't gonna last very long! iLastly you call Africa and Emily trash and low class, but they both have jobs and work for what they have show some respect for some real women bc those comments make you look super low class and trashy!

akluv4u
akluv4u

Those "games" are going to catch up with you Alex. Keep on.

kiki13
kiki13

Oh- and you need a stylist too.

brushwud
brushwud

You are such an airhead!

promotepeace
promotepeace

I think it's a shame that such a young, cute girl like yourself can become one of the ugliest people to look at after watching your destructive behavior. It's an even bigger shame that all that money you boast of can't and will never buy you class! You are very unlikable & you are doing it all on your own! You said you believe you are younger & prettier than Africa?? You are younger & it shows! Prettier?? That's hysterical! Pretty is as pretty does! She has more class in her hair weave than you will ever have in your entire being at this point!!

Brenny130
Brenny130

You are trash..plain and simple...trash.  In no way would anyone consider you a "trophy wife"...ha ha.  Also, clearly you didn't see the look on Vaun's face that we all saw when you were at his place.  He couldn't get you outta there fast enough.  If I were Africa, I would just laugh and laugh every time I see you and not give you the time for any conversation at all.  Trophy wife....hahahahahaha hahahah ahahh

Skeptical
Skeptical

Chile, you are coo-coo for cocoa puffs!  That is all.

LolaL
LolaL

LOL!  You are so cheap.  You sound so dumb.  You go girl and get yourself some Vawn who is such a yawn.  What a prize you both are.

sisterhood
sisterhood

Alex you need to look back at the episode because you  got your a$$ beat.  Also, you can't stop anybody from leaving somewhere if they want to.  Grow up you looked really crazy on that episode.  News flash, it is not a compliment to say you and Vawn are the same person.  Stop disrespecting yourself on TV.

Mimilicious
Mimilicious

Your mom seems like a classy lady, I bet she would be disappointed in your behavior. Are you a trophy wife or a brawling girl?

lovedesign
lovedesign

You sound so young and immature. Your blog screams "I'm young and dumb".

True_Diamond
True_Diamond

 @MaireadA The situation was not about vawn if you watched all episodes, you would know that. They had beef before vawn. You are the one that is making it about him with that comment.

 

tulady
tulady

This sounds so much as Africa but EVERY point touched is valid.

angel9791
angel9791

 @chiefblocker I agree. The real victim is not Africa (she will be successful and respected in her life) but Alex's parents. How sad for them to have a daughter that publicly humiliates them on a regular basis. For all they have given Alex, they don't deserve that.

RileyRoo
RileyRoo

 @houswifeforreal

 I totally agree...bringing up the trust fund was so embarrassing. I cannot stand people who dare to judge others and don't work. Alex has what you call narcissism. 

Martinez8Betty
Martinez8Betty

 @sisterhood  Well Stated.... Alex is one Crazy Misguided Chick....(Her&Vawn are the same person) PPL,I REST MY CASE...............Wow....almost sad~~~~~

 

NYCrealrealhousewife
NYCrealrealhousewife

 @lovedesign I just can't look at that mess of a head anymore.  Someone please take her to a salon and get that mess taken care of!!!!

Lck
Lck

@lovedesign ... and tacky!

MaireadA
MaireadA

 @True_Diamond  @MaireadA

 I did watch all the episodes. True , they don't seem to like each other. And Vawn was most certainly what the situation was about. Very few things in this world can make grown women be so foolish, and act so outrageously( other than defending ones children ) 

Akos
Akos

 @angel9791  @chiefblocker 

I actually know Alex's father Dr.Dilworth.  He has been our family dentist forever and he attended college with my Dad.  I never knew he had such an embarrassing daughter.  He is the most humble giving guy.  He travels the world volunteering dental services in developing countries.  I did not want to believe this was his daughter!  I had to call my dad and ask if this was the same Dr.Dilworth! lol..